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>friend made it and got married 4 months ago
>proud of him, escaped his mom's basement etc
>called me last night saying she's filing for divorce
How do you protect yourself financially from this if she won't sign a prenup?

>> No.51349449

even a prenup wont save you these days

>> No.51349462

>>51349396
don't marry. it's a Jewish scam

>> No.51349485

>>51349396
>divorce after 16 weeks
your fren sounds like quite the catch

>> No.51349528

>>51349396
>escaped his moms basement

Is it really a surprise that he left him?
Women don't want a child as a life partner. She probably got to see who he really was when they started living together I assume.

>> No.51349910

>>51349396
Don't fucking get married. What the fuck is wrong with you insane peer-pressure caving idiots? I have never met a woman who in the end didn't become a life constraining obstacle that needed to be removed. If you get married, you are just arbitrarily adding a potentially enormous expense to the exit of the room you'll inevitably have to leave.

>> No.51349936

Why the fuck would you marry? You're literally creating problems and stress voluntarily.

>> No.51349956

>>51349396
its almost impossible to escape financial rape once you are married. The ONLY way for a man to protect his assets is to 1. DO NOT GET FUCKING MARRIED. 2. Put ALL of your assets into an irrevocable trust prior to marriage.

Oh and golden rule...NEVER fucking tell a female how much you have saved or what you make. Ive seen boomers get divorce raped in their 60's. no one is safe

>> No.51349973

>>51349910
>>51349936
also this. For the love of God do not ever get married. Especially if you have a high net worth

>> No.51350024

>>51349956
>>51349973
>>51349910
>>51349462
Pooroids detected. Wealthy people get married and don't think twice about it. They even get divorced and still are rich. Plus they have more kids than average. Pooroids worried about losing their measly 100k to some latina bimbo are so pathetic.

>> No.51350049

>>51349396
Bang hookers
Everybody knows that
Your friend is a cuck and now he's getting what he asked for

>> No.51350077

>>51349396
Marriage is fine if you're rich.
I'd cut a deal prior.
Plannjng to get married with in Philippines or Japan since I have a few women in each country.
I'm never bringing them to the west though.

>> No.51350115

>>51350049
This gets old after a few years.
It's fine you plan to die alone and spread your assets among other family members.
You'd still be helping your bloodline, but an immediate one is more noble.

>> No.51350132

>>51349528
Only a problem if you're not chad. I left mom's basement and my gf had to teach me basically everything about finances and being an adult and we fug like rabbits

>> No.51350163

>>51350024
>inane superiority LARP of someone who makes $70k/year
please shut up you dumb fucking midnight black gorilla nigger

>> No.51350186

>>51349396
>Proud of him
>she's filing for divorce
Don't have a sex change after marriage.

>> No.51350215

>>51350163
>$70k/year
Lol. Pooroids imagine a big number and only come up with $70k. LOL

>> No.51350234

>>51350024
Wealthy people can be just as stupid as poor people in matters of the heart. The ones that do it correctly marry for consolidation of power, status, etc. You and your neighbor marrying to unite both of your trailers in the trailer park is not Nikki Hilton marrying James Rothschild.

>> No.51350236

>>51350024
Yeah like Dave foley!
Oh shit wait...

Err Brendan Fraser!
Oh shit wait....

>> No.51350265

>>51350215
in addition to escaping your miserable existence through ridiculous online fantasies, it also appears that you have a learning disability. get help.

>> No.51350297

>>51349449
Yep, all the roastie has to do is claim she felt forced/intimated to sign it and the Jewish or female judge that has a bias against men will just throw it out.

Unfortunately feminism has turned women into a massive liability and has given them to much power to destroy lives. Even if you don’t marry if you co-inhabit for 3 months the same rules of marriage apply. It’s impossible to have a woman in your life where she doesn’t have the power of the law on her side and capable of destroying your life whenever she wants.

>> No.51350306

>>51349973
Could you give more advice on this?
Do you keep a gf for a short time and change when they start to make demands?

Did you hide your wealth from your friends and family?

A gf may not be a problem for me as I am a wizard now and will keep living like this, but the part about not telling anyone about your wealth is a lot more difficult than I thought.

Even if you hide everything and pretend to be poor your behavior with money will give it away because wealth warps your view and you can't relate with normal people.
What would you suggest someone who freshly became wealthy to do with their time?
Travel the world? Look for a tax heaven and move there first before doing that?

Could you as a reference say how you spent your first years after making it and if there were things you wish you had done differently?

>> No.51350497

>>51350306
The best solution to avoid a roastie using power of the law against you to take half your stuff is to marry one of higher social-economic status. That way if a divorce ever happens she won’t be getting anything and you might even get half instead.

Hiding wealth might work I am not a lawyer and don’t know the loopholes but I think if you can have assets in the name of trusted people like your parents for example then if a divorce ever happens she won’t get any of it as in the eye of the law you don’t own anything

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51350540

Don’t get married, problem solved.

>> No.51350562

>>51350024
Shut the fuck up divorce lawyer kike.

>> No.51350576

>>51350115
I’d rather give it to israel

>> No.51350614

>>51350497
Are there many higher social status women who are worth it?
What would they be looking for?

I am unfortunately more concerned about my family full of extremely narcissistic people of the worst type I call narcissistic vampires.
They spent all their energy and time torturing me psychologically and trying to destroy my life out of jealousy.

I can't trust them with money of course, but I fear the damage they could cause me if they learned I had wealth and I am not sure I will be able to keep this a secret until my death.
Do you have experience with family issues and what could happen?

I will need to find a new social front to explain my situation and something else than NEET.

>> No.51350649

>>51350614
High social class women look for artists and cult leaders.

>> No.51350793

>>51349396
It's pretty simple -
date a non-whore girl
Preferably start dating her when both of you are in your teens
Talk about marriage BEFORE you get rich
Marry her only after you've dated for atleast 2.5 years

There's a fair chance that she will be loyal because she loved you prior to your wealth.

>> No.51350821

>>51350614
>>51350497

Bullshit. The only reason "high class roasties" exist is because of their fathers wealth. Millenials and zoomers are known as the trust fund generations. Most of them are financially illiterate and complete fucking morons when it comes to managing money. All these whores know how to do is lay out on daddies yacht and sell their pussies on instagram to the chad with the biggest social circle. High class women are a meme. They don't give a fuck about you and never will. They are used to getting whatever they want whenever they want it. Cold and heartless creatures.

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>>51349396
>not marrying a woman with equal or higher net worth than you

>> No.51350875

>>51350793
Kek. This might have been true before social media. All women are crypto whores now, lusting for relationships with other men. My neighbors wife hits on me all the time and they have dated since their teen years. She literally whores herself out whenever he has a business trip.

>> No.51350888

One of my cousins that grew up in rural nowhere had a high school sweetheart he was with from like age 15 and they got married and divorced within like a year because she was apparently bipolar and violent and he never knew because he never lived with her

What a world

>> No.51350891

>>51349449
>prenups don't work that's why prenups exist
said the unmarried, low networth loser.
>>51349396
If she won't sign a prenup (pre-marriage assets) then don't get married.
If you don't understand that you should not commingle pre-marriage assets post-marriage w/ a signed prenup.... then you lose sir.
Siiinple

>> No.51350924

>>51350888
One of my hobbies is laughing at normie married cucks. They make their social media this fake fantasy where everything in their lives is amazing, but you just know they are more fucking miserable than single people and lusting for other partners or lives that are better than their shitty fake arrangement

>> No.51350974

>>51350875
>date a non-whore girl
Your neighbour fucked up on step 1. I bet she was a whore since her teenage years or early 20s

>> No.51351465

>>51349396
You just keep a significant amount of money in a secret savings account (or in a crypto wallet) that you don't tell your wife about.

>> No.51351537

>>51349396
Bury a stash of gold somewhere

>> No.51351550

>>51350132
>my gf had to teach me basically everything about finances and being an adult
You call yourself a chad and your girlfriend had to teach you about being an adult? Pathetic.

>> No.51351559

>>51351465
you basically keep an unknown amount of xmr.

>> No.51351591

>>51349449
This is a common brainlet regurgitation, but basically what happens is some dumbass prints off a prenup paper from the internet and thinks that will hold up in court. Each person needs their own counsel to review and edit the document and sign off on it.

>> No.51351595

>>51349396
This >>51349449 The only surefire way is to move to a country with marriage laws that are actually favorable to the man and get married there. Such countries do exist, but if you ever try to move back to your western shithole, she can divorce rape you even if you were married in a foreign country under foreign laws, so never return to the west. Aside from this rather drastic action, the only other option is to just stay as far away from women as possible.

>> No.51351609

>>51350614
Move. Get away from them if they don't support you (psychologically I mean).

>> No.51351631

>>51351559
I lost all my xmr in a tragic boating accident. Also lost my wife in that lake. What a shame, oh well

>> No.51351634

>>51349396
even a prenup can be thrown out in court if she cries. you can't really protect yourself you just have to flip that coin, it's like 50/50 you get fucked

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>>51350576
based

>> No.51351670

>>51351591
Even that won't protect you that much. The fact is, government laws supercede private contracts and pre-nups are just private contracts. Unless the government makes a law that says "prenups are legit", it will always be possible to dismiss them in court.

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>>51351634
ever see what one of these can do to a woman's skull?

>> No.51351690

>>51349396
Well getting married is for retards, for real. There are so few women out there who are worth doing that shit for.

>> No.51351726

>>51350306
Not him but not marring your sucks as well. She'll be annoying all the time and make your life miserable for not marring her.

Just embrace your sigma. Fuck escorts, enjoy life and don't be an insecure bitch desperate for companionship.

>> No.51351981

>>51349396
>if she won't sign a prenup?
Not marry her.

>> No.51352277

>>51350115
You can still make offspring
Stop being so closed minded

>> No.51352339

>>51351726
she'll be annoying all the time and make your life miserable no matter what you do. you think the misery stops when you give her what she says she wants? she'll just find something new to be annoying about. give her everything and she'll just make something up that isn't even real to be annoying and to make your like miserable. thats what women are all about

>> No.51353853

>>51351662
These/k/ memes are interesting.

>> No.51353902

>>51350891
It's true, you fucking retard. Judges can throw away prenups on a whim

>> No.51354125

>>51349396
did he make it from crypto?

>> No.51354279

>>51349956
My aunt is a professional divorce rapist. Been married 7 times and now lives with her new husband in a ritzy part of Sacramento. She would probably have a higher net worth than any of her husbands if she didn’t use it to fuel her addiction to buying dumb shit.

>> No.51354650

>>51349396
>>he made it
>all he had to do was risk everything and win 0.00001% chance
sounds like she made it. zero risk same reward

>> No.51354731

>>51351550
He is getting to fuck a mommy gf, what are you doing anon?

>> No.51354753

>>51350024
You literally have no clue what you're talking about. Most men never financially recover from a divorce.
t. child of divorce

>> No.51354796

>>51350132
honestly pathetic.

>> No.51354819
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>>51350306
90-95% of relationships drastically drop in quality after the honeymoon phase is over (2-4 months). Usually a good time to dump them for another at that point, unless they're unironically a keeper.

>What would you suggest someone who freshly became wealthy to do with their time?

For you, go to SEA.

>> No.51354843

>>51351595
Or marry a virgin from a stable background which have very low rates of divorce.

>> No.51354907

From what I've noticed, a woman's friends are her biggest weakness. Even a good woman, who has shitty and vindictive friends, may end up screwing you over on their advice. Gossip for women is like hobbies are for men. And it's free and all of them enjoy it. There's no stopping it, but you can make sure the people she's doing it with aren't BPD schemers.

When you marry someone, you're not just marrying them, you're marrying them + their family + all of their social connections. Make sure she's a good match for you in all areas.

>> No.51355028

>>51350024
>>51350215
Holy shit dude, you’re like 12. Gtfo this board.

>> No.51355082

Going to a wedding tomorrow (forced to by girlfriend)

It's the first wedding I've been to and Jesus Christ it's the biggest load of self obsessed materialistic egotistical shit I've ever seen in my life

As well as a huge waste of money and sanity. NPCs really are something else

>> No.51355086

You just have to not bother with women. End of.

Prenups aren't a guarantee.
Not getting married isn't a guarantee, just live together for a while and you are considered married when it comes to her taking your shit.
Lastly, and should go without saying, her word isn't a guarantee. I don't care how convincingly she says she would never do something like that.

>> No.51355092

>>51350297
Most good lawyers will recommend filming the singing including both parties stating they are not under duress

>> No.51355138
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>>51349528
Statistically people who don't live together prior to marriage are less likely to get divorced

>> No.51355149

>>51354907
This is actually prescient advice, probably the wisest words in this thread. I had a girl who was very straight laced and accomplished, but her single friends pressured her into being a "free spirit" and smoking weed. I also had another gf who's friends gave her terrible advice.

tldr: girls' friends---unless it's a wholesome friend group---ALWAYS get jealous when someone gets a bf/husband and will sabotage it, even if subconsciously

>> No.51355227

>>51350132
Yeah dude that isn't good. Bless your gf but for a lot of women that is really unattractive but probably won't tell it to your face. It's also emasculating for yourself to go through. Of course it's already happened so fuck it, if you're both happy now then that's cool.

>> No.51355276

>>51355138

Confounding factor: more trashy folk move in together and rush marriages, those who wait are a special few these days. It isn’t the moving in that causes it, it’s the kind of person who typically moves in vs not.

>> No.51355344

Why would he need a prenup? You only divide assets obtained while married. Anything he had before is still his. If he’s smart he’ll get a lawyer and dig in.

>> No.51355566

>>51350132
I have also had the experience of being "taken care of" and i PROMISE YOU it will not end well. Not a wife, just a GF but just that alone made me get my shit together real fucking quick.

>> No.51355587

>>51349396
If you aren’t verbally and emotionally abusing your wife every day you will never make it.

>> No.51355764

>>51350215
In yurop 70k is beyond a big number.
It's top 1% tier.

>> No.51356745

>>51349396
Tell her that you'll kill her if she tries.

>> No.51357008

>>51349396
He's not going to get divorce raped after 4 months

>> No.51357052

uhhhh u dont
she fleeced him for a quick 50%
thanks for playing

>> No.51357097

>>51350821
I've never understood why anyone marries those types or takes them seriously. I never even found them to be that attractive. They're great to gloat about having been able to fuck but i don't see the appeal beyond the status symbol.

>> No.51357116

>>51350215
lmao illiterate

>> No.51357460
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>>51349396
Kill the whore and hide the body

>> No.51357599

>>51349396
Monero

>> No.51357633

>>51351634
50/50 oh my god it's 100% failure rate
No one gets a single partner for lifetime anymore it's not the 40's anymore, sad but true, DO NOT, flip the coin your gonna fail

>> No.51357657

>>51350024
Jews are going to get rounded up and the polish are especially Jewish.

>> No.51357669

>>51355149
women are truly the nigger of the genres huh

>> No.51357674

>>51352277
>Stop being so closed minded
That's hilarious coming from a breeder.
No one will remember you in a 100 years.

>> No.51357679

>>51349396
my buddy has been going through a divorce since last november, she ran off with the kid, running up his CC (she never worked during the entirety of their relationship), trying to get the house, the whole nine yards. and fuck man, i feel bad and want to be supportive or whatever but idk. shit sucks and all that i guess is my point, never marry a western bitch

>> No.51357693

>>51354731
Calling you a faggot nerd because beta bucks gets women in America because American women are prostitutes.
No, having sex isn't a big deal, perma virgin.

>> No.51357702

>>51354753
>t. child of divorce
https://youtu.be/x5J3Yzzeo_0

>> No.51357713

>>51351591
>"I felt like I had to sign it."
>gets thrown out

>> No.51357715

>>51355149
>friends pressured her into being a "free spirit" and smoking weed.
Oh the fucking calamity and tragedy of smoking a dried herb.

>> No.51357716

>>51349396
Don't get married.

>> No.51357727

>>51357669
>genres
Gender, you fucking illiterate.

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>>51357669
Partially right.

>> No.51357785

>>51357715
you can be a degenerate if you want but don't drag down others with you

>> No.51357790

>>51350306
> A gf may not be a problem for me as I am a wizard now and will keep living like this, but the part about not telling anyone about your wealth is a lot more difficult than I thought.
I don’t see the problem of hiding wealth. When I retired young my family just assumed I wasn’t willing to admit that I was working at Walmart.

>> No.51358411

>>51350115
Get married and bang hookers. Convert hookers or massage girls to fwb. Best of all worlds

>> No.51358446

>>51350306
>Even if you hide everything and pretend to be poor your behavior with money will give it away because wealth warps your view and you can't relate with normal people.
I can't relate to normal people anyway. I have enough to be considered wealthy and live roughly as I did before I was "rich". Not buying ridiculous cars would probably be a good start

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51358474

>>51349956
>DO NOT GET FUCKING MARRIED
Even that doesn't cut it these days. Having sex with a woman is enough for them to claim your belongings.

>> No.51358478

>>51349396
Put all your finances in monero and "lost" it

>> No.51358556

>>51350974
what incels dont understand with their fantasy of having a virgin girl is that it doesnt prevent cheating at all. in fact it may do the opposite: boredom + curiosity of how it would be with other men push them to cheat. i have a friend who was with a virgin girl. not only did she break up with him after a few years but she also cheated on him out of curiosity. she always tried to flirt with me and i had several occasions to fuck her after their break up but i never did anything because i'm a loyal fren. bros before hoes

>> No.51358644

>>51358474

>Having sex with a woman

Virgins just can't stop winning. Zero STDs. Zero financial complications.

In 20-30 years we'll be able to clone children directly. There will be no need for the cuckoldry of diluting your genes.

>> No.51359054

>>51349936
To have children. If you don't plan to have children do not get married. If you plan to have children, marry someone you can stay married to.

>> No.51359241

>marry
>don't have kids for four years
>girl gets bored and leaves
>WHAT A SURPRISE WHO COULD HAVE SEEN THIS COMING
If you're not planning to keep your wife impregnated until you have four children, just don't bother. The whole point of marriage is to make it clear who the children's family is. If she doesn't want at least 4 children, don't bother marrying either, because you need at least four to make divorce exceptionally painful for the mother (judges will split the kids between parents when there's four and women can't stand that).

>> No.51359288

Do you guys think you can literally marry a rich guy and divorce him a day later and get half of his shit

Do you guys literally think the world works that way

>> No.51359289

>>51349396

Time for your friend to make a big "donation"

>> No.51359322
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>>51349396
You can’t. Western women…not even once!

>> No.51361165

>>51357785
T. Boring cuck who's gf traded him for alpha chad

>> No.51361197

>>51361165
this is literal projection. in reality you're a worthless sophist, cope about it.

>> No.51361249

Get a trust fund

>> No.51361268

>>51351550
>had to teach you about being an adult
many such cases

>> No.51361338

>>51350855
This.

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>>51349396
guardianship
>if she won't sign a prenup
obvious red flag, walk away

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>>51357599
Digits of truth
>>51349528
shutup femoid

>> No.51361760

>>51350306
>Even if you hide everything and pretend to be poor your behavior with money will give it away because wealth warps your view and you can't relate with normal people.

this is genuinely just a normie problem, autistic neets can often handle it without changing.

>> No.51361824

>>51349396
Marry a woman who earns more than you

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>>51349396
don't get married or pray your wife won't try to fuck you over in a divorce. my friend got divorced a few years ago and his ex didn't try to bleed his pockets dry. just find someone who will give a shit about your wellbeing even in the worst of times. a good way to gauge this is to see how your partner treats you during a big argument/fight. if she treats you like trash and kicks you to curb it's a pretty good sign of what she'll do to you in a divorce.

>> No.51361977

>>51357679
more like don't marry someone with very clear red flags for example your friend's ex never worked and completely relied on him from the start. men need to stop allowing love or desperation to cloud their judgement when picking a suitable wife.

>> No.51361983

>>51358644
Correct, having nothing to do with women is the best move available to men in this day and age.

>> No.51362221

>>51349528
you sound like a dumb cunt that can only think in stupid jewish internet memes

>> No.51362241

>>51349449
This. Saying you won’t marry her if she doesn’t sign the prenup counts as coercion.

>> No.51362246

>>51361977
I’ve seen where they let their job lapse before the separation, and the court treats them like invalids just the same. Or they switch to part time first, and upon separation tell the court obviously they can’t work anymore because the kids will need them.

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>>51359288
>Do you guys think you can literally marry a rich guy and divorce him a day later and get half of his shit
>Do you guys literally think the world works that way

>> No.51362315

>>51350306
It’s important to rid yourself of the “I have x amount of money and could buy all these things if I wanted to”. The only thing that matters is the passive income that is generated. That is your salary. If that is $100k per year, you should not be any more smug or detached from reality than a wagie making $100k per year

>> No.51362353

>>51350024
Imagine being a shill for women. It's better being a pajeet shitcoin shill than this

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>>51349910

>> No.51362430

>>51354819
Modern women have no skills or value to bring to relationships. Any hot girl spents time being pampered by Chads or SugerBoys/SugarDaddies. Her life is never ending vanity pleasures like travelling, eating out, parting. They have no real hobbies or even basic skills like cooking. It takes a bit than a hole to built "relationship", it requires effort and skill and if you are not top 10% women wont bother pleasing you.

>> No.51362509

>>51358556
based helper
women have become rancid opportunistic whores

>> No.51362917

>>51350821
>High class women are a meme. They don't give a fuck about you and never will. They are used to getting whatever they want whenever they want it. Cold and heartless creatures.
I had to learn this the hard way

>> No.51362939

>>51350793
>Bro just be born into the American suburban fairy tale

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I haven't been able to find any statistic on how often prenups get thrown out, no hard numbers of any kind.

According to the MRA/incel contingent, prenups get thrown out as a matter of course. Meanwhile, Wikipedia says stuff like:

>With respect to financial issues ancillary to divorce, prenuptial agreements are routinely upheld and enforced by courts in virtually all states.
>Whether a premarital agreement was signed under duress must be proven by the facts and circumstances of each case. For example, it has been held that a spouse's claim that she believed that there would be no wedding if she did not sign a prenuptial agreement, where the wedding was only two weeks away and wedding plans had been made, was insufficient to demonstrate duress.

For all I know, either side of this could be misrepresenting shit, and neither angle seemingly has any real data behind it, just anecdote.

>> No.51363118

dumbass americans are always getting married before having kids.

you should only get married when that pregnancy test comes back positive.

chances are, the bitch you married doesnt even really see a future with kids with you

ive got an american friend now married for the third time and still not a single kid

first time was some american woman who divorce raped him, second time was some russian bitch who divorce raped him and third time is some taiwanese bitch who is only going to divorce rape him again

>> No.51363121

>>51349462
>>51349910
>>51349936
>>51349956
>>51349973
>>51350540
>>51355082
>>51357716
>All this incel COPE itt
You'll never have a beautiful and unforgettable wedding where you're the center of attention for 24 hours straight.
You'll never see your proud parents with tears in their eyes. You'll never get the praise and social status for being a cutest young couple around.
>but it's fake
>but muh money
Keep seething deep down you know you're missing out on the most important life goal in your existence.
Even if the marriage sucked and you ended up getting divorce raped you still have irrefutable proof that you're no longer a virgin and that's miles better then posting this mgtow cope on the internet.

>> No.51363127

>>51363118
the only way to ensure loyalty is for the woman to be actually pregnant. and for the social and economic system you both live in to be inhospitable to single motherhood

>> No.51363147

>>51363121
im married and we did it at the registry office, it cost us less than $100 all together.

my friend got married to his wife with a church wedding, reception in a castle and horse drawn carriage and it cost him $100,000 now thats what i call cucked

>> No.51363167

>>51358644
The technology will be there but you'll have to fly to China to get your lab kid because the West will ban it except for homosexuals or married couples. Plus it will cost more.

>> No.51363355

>>51363121
Okay roastie. Some practical advice:
>you're the center of attention for 24 hours straight
>proud parents with tears in their eyes
>get the praise and social status

These all relate to desire for social validation. That is a WOMAN thing. Most posters here are men and they care very little about social validation. You won't convince people with that. People will just call you roastie.

>> No.51363369

>>51350163
70k a year is what a garbage man makes in a decent sized city after taxes. Tell me what was the vietnam war like gramps.

>> No.51363393

>>51349396
> escaped moms basement
First off, women don’t struggle with you on the way to the top, they sit at the finish line and pick the winners. Sounds like she realized she fucked up and is going back to the finish line to find a winner:

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>talking to women

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>>51363355
>I don't need it
>I don't need it
>I don't need it

>> No.51363925

What if you don't marry? You can still have kids without marriage. You will pay alimony in case of separation but isn't divorce rape out of the equation in such circumstances? Or would a court just act as if you were married because you lived together and had children?

>> No.51363939

>>51363121
>You'll never have a beautiful and unforgettable wedding where you're the center of attention for 24 hours straight.
That thing alone is absolutely mortifying for most men.

>> No.51365196

>>51363121
woman hands typed this. Bitch, you have no idea what the fuck you're even saying. No intelligent person wants any of that worthless trash?

>> No.51365620

>>51350077
This is the trick, Legal will always be bias for the female and you'll be fucked when they come stateside.

Keep them outside and maintain distance so none of your finances come into risk

>> No.51365710

>>51363121
There's no need to type so many words words words for some bait post retard. Min max your shitposting.

>> No.51366325

>>51349396
Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.

>> No.51366342

>>51349396
Likely after four months you will be fine to protect your assets if you get a good lawyer. It's a Jewish scam sure but even the most retarded courts aren't gonna give half of everything if your lawyer is worth his salt after only four months.

>> No.51366425

>>51362430
so be a top 10% then anon, idk what to tell you.

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>>51363121
Retard roastie, you have to go back.

>> No.51366596

>>51349396
okay, can someone ITT explain why people, especially rich people who seem smart get married?
Isn't the divorce rate comically high nowadays, like 80%, so you are basically signing a contract to spend agregious amounts of money on the wedding itself, expensive rings, supporting your waifu. And also esentialy guarante that you will lose 50% of your net worth in a few years.
I heard there are tax benefits and you get bigger loans for houses and shit but there is no way it evens out right?

>> No.51366616

>>51349396
>made it
>got a need mommy

Pick one

>> No.51366671

>>51358556
Statistically speaking you are wrong. An exception doesn’t make the rule. Less partners = better wife

>> No.51366680

>>51350024
Fucking idiot who has no idea what he's talking about

>> No.51366687

>>51363071
Talk to a real lawyer if you want a real answer. It varies from state to state too

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>>51363147
What

>> No.51366708

>>51363121
>center of attention for 24 hours straight
This is my worst nightmare.

>> No.51367714

Pretty crazy how many dysfunctional losers from loser families with dysfunctional loser relatives and parents are ITT and on this board

Every man in my family is happily married, never been divorced, pretty wives, some middle class some well off, etc. Happy families

I guess its just in your genes to be a dysfunctional loser or not

>> No.51367746

>>51367714
If you cant choose and control your woman thats on you. Women are just objects and animals. You cant get mad at a tiger for ripping your arm off after you take it into captivity

Men are player characters, and if you get divorce or divorce raped its 100% youre fault and youre a loser in some respect. Deal with it

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>>51349396

If you want kids and a partner, there's no way to 100% protect yourself, but:

- Never get married
- Keep separate banks accounts
- Keep the house or apartment in your name only
- Don't cosign, or file anything jointly
- When she decides to live with you, have a lawyer right up a contract about the living situation

>> No.51367915

>>51363121
>implying legal marriage is the same as marriage
Retard

>> No.51367934

>>51363853
but it's actually true, most of us are half-lunatic men

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>>51367813
low sexual market males (simps) cannot consider such things. if a wuuman wants to get married they will agree

>> No.51368611

>>51349396
Marry a virgin and all of these problems go away

>> No.51368659

I've been with my wife for 10 years now. We met in high school, and I got her pregnant. She is and always has been a lazy person and a shit cook. I wouldn't even mind eating shit food if she at least made it on time. But she rarely did.

We'd get into screaming arguments constantly about how lazy and worthless she was. I felt like an asshole for it, but goddamn she was a real piece of work. The only reason I dealt with all this was for the kids, and also because the sex is great.

But one night, I got fed up. Not only did she get drunk, neglect the kids, and made me top Ramen for dinner, but she decided to give me attitude too. She was being real fucking bitchy. So I told my grandparents to keep an eye on the kids and told my wife we were going to go out and have dinner together. I drove maybe 3 blocks to a quiet area (we live in Oregon, it's not hard to find a quiet field) and I got out of the car, went around like I was going to open her door for her and let her out, and I just beat the shit out of her while she was still seatbelted. After a few punches, I asked her if she wanted to go back to her parents. She started screaming and yelling and said yes, so I beat the shit out of her again. Then I asked her what she wanted to do. She finally got smart and said she wanted to go home. So I took her home and dared her to start trouble. I even handed her my cellphone and dialed her mom's number on the drive home. I made her talk to her mom, while daring her to fucking say something.

Before that incident, I had never laid a hand on her. But I had always threatened it. I told her "one of these days, if you don't straighten up, I'm going to lay hands on you."

All my meals have been on time, and she just recently tried to make a meatloaf. It was mediocre, but I was just thrilled that she tried.

Do with this information what you will.

>> No.51368664

>>51363121
>You'll never have a beautiful and unforgettable wedding where you're the center of attention for 24 hours straight.
Imagine thinking you can post as a woman on the internet anonymously and people won't notice you're a woman. Fuck off, this is a male only board

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Is long distance dating a good financial decision?

>> No.51368767

>>51368692
Long distance relationships aren't real.

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>>51349396
Imagine marrying someone you’re scared to share your financial life with. Lmao, white women are cancer.

>> No.51370483

I fucking hate women so much.

For years, all I've wanted was a loyal wife and kids of my own. No kids from another marriage, no tattooed whore who slept around with the entire college campus, not throwing away my genes with some SEAmonkey, etc.

It feels impossible to obtain.

>> No.51371676

>>51351550
He's banging milfs while you're on 4channel dot orgie

>> No.51371709

>>51363121
>muh attention
lmfao roastie

>> No.51371745

>>51350132
>calling yourelf chad
hmmm

>> No.51372354

>>51370483
Go to the bible belt but she is going to be pretty young so be prepared for that.

>> No.51372683

>>51349396
Get married in patriarchal countries like saudi or afghan

OR

Offshore trusts before marriage. How she take your money if it is *not technically* yours

>> No.51374540

>>51350024
Thinking with your cock is a terrible idea no matter the situation.
Great men did terrible things for pussy and a great number of tales keep reminding people of this. The Illiad is just that. Going to war for a roastie.

>> No.51374569

>>51349449
you have to have your lawyer and her lawyer in a scheduled meeting months before the wedding. not the same lawyer. a lawyer wont stop child support payments though

>> No.51374982

all of the problems in this thread are mitigated by marrying someone who has/makes more money than you.

marry career women and make sure to have children before they turn 35.

>> No.51375047

>>51355092
>including both parties stating they are not under duress
lol
"yes your honor I know I signed that I wasn't feeling pressure but I just wanted to make him happy and I knew not signing it would cause discord between us"
It's unironically that simple.

>> No.51375860

>>51349396

Start listening to this divorce lawyer. He's the shit and gives lots of good, free advice.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xNu_lr6UD9s

>> No.51375923

>>51349449
Firstly, stop calling it a prenup. It's time to redefine this document as it really is, a marital contract. The term prenup has been psyop'd the fuck out by Hollywood.

When you get a marital contract signed, BOTH parties MUST have legal counsel. If one party doesn't have counsel and a contract that looks measured and fair, the judge will absolutely ass-blast the fuck out of your portfolio.

>not a prenup
>a marital contract

Plus never marry a woman who says no to a marital contract. The gov't should not be involved in our marriages, but they are, so we require a contract.

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>>51349396

>2022
>marry

ishygddt

>> No.51377313

>>51368659
pasta

>> No.51378822

>>51349396
You realize the obligation to give half can only apply if the marriage lasted for at least a year. In other words no harm could come.

Fear porn espousing fucking nigger.

>> No.51378855

>>51363121
How did you end up here?
So much narcissism is wasted on 4chan.
You should try to go out with a Ukraine flag and Pfizer tattoo to get the recognition you love so much instead.

>> No.51378900

>>51368659
You know someone must have tried this out and found out it really worked somewhere in the world after reading this.

>> No.51378981

>>51366425
They still aren't mothers, you need top 10% of women and i don't mean looks.

>> No.51379019

>>51363071
That's how lawsuits work. Lawyers aren't going to give away their trade secrets for free. It's up to the judge and he usually finds in favor of which side of lawyers have done more favors for him. American courts are extremely corrupt so there's never any telling what the judge will do until it happens, even lawyers who litigate everyday get blindsided often.

>> No.51379086

>>51349462
Why don’t more people see this?
Pay govt for marriage license
Pay for expensive wedding + honeymoon
Pay for wife and family
And then you pay for divorce, child support and alimony
Kids and marriage ruined most boomers lives too
Why not just get a new girlfriend every couple years?
You get the happiest part of the relationship and trade her in when problems start
Men should lease, not own

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>>51349396
>made it and got married
Who would've seen this coming ..?
Your friend is a fucking idiot and he doesn't deserve to have money

>> No.51379155

These days, you have to tell your woman that you will only marry her and/or pay for her living expenses AFTER she has given you X number of children.

This way, you're guaranteed at least something for your money.

>> No.51379230

>>51378981
You're going to need to look in Eastern Europe or Latin America.

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>>51349396
Stop making this thread every day faggot.

>> No.51379737

>>51363147
i bet your wife is definitely not cheating on you

>> No.51379771

>>51379249
Old thread retard

>> No.51379845

>>51363147
Based. My wife didn't care for a wedding and we just went straight to our honeymoon. I've been seeing more people have cheap weddings too for under $1k so I think people are shifting away from expensive weddings at least.