Thoroughly demoralized

[Anonymous No.51299583]

Spent 2 days on dating apps, paid for premium on all of them, paid for boosts, and still not a single like from a chick above a 3/10. It’s over

[Anonymous No.51299598]

change location to SEA or east europe

[Anonymous No.51299693]

>>51299583
Dating apps are a scam anon, you have better luck asking some girl out at your local dollar general than finding a chick on that crap

[Anonymous No.51299778]

>>51299583
Try adding quirky things related to astrology/new age mysticism/harry potter, about how much you like to drink beer and smoke cigarettes and soon you will be able to match with "they/them" alt girls, this worked here in Brazil so I don't doubt you will find plenty more in the US

[Anonymous No.51299801]

>>51299583
damn that's weird i got over 100 likes on bumble last week (paid for premium obviously)
no dates though. I just do it for psuedo attention. I am only going to accept a blond haired blue eyed 19 year old racist virgin with no tattoos

[Anonymous No.51299817]

>>51299583
post a pic of you or blur your face out it you want, I will help you fix your account anon

[Anonymous No.51299835]

>>51299817
I meant post your bumble account, sorry should have been more clear

[Anonymous No.51299842]

>>51299693
>just approach random strangers

lol, no. op is just ugly/ genetic trash

[Anonymous No.51299856]

>>51299583
You probably take shitty pictures. Invest in quality photos.

[Anonymous No.51299931]

>>51299801
This is the way

[Anonymous No.51299958]

>>51299817
>>51299856

I think it’s just that I’m a manlet. I might pay a photographer or something but at the end of the day I’m short. Being rich isn’t enough I guess, I thought hitting 7 figures would make me more attractive but even hitting 2.4 mil at 27 isn’t enough

[Anonymous No.51300007]

>>51299583
The only time ive had success in 2020+ with females and my riches and being short was on seeking and it was hit and miss. in the actual dating world my millions mean nothing.

[Anonymous No.51300020]

>>51299801

Every like I’ve gotten has either been: black, a tranny, some chick in Africa or the Philippines, or a fatty. I did get one decent looking thin Chinese girl who liked me but she gives 1 word responses and lives 50 miles away so fuck that

[Anonymous No.51300048]

>>51299842
>Bro trust a slut/nutter on an app

[Anonymous No.51300056]

>>51299958
Do your photos display wealth?

[Anonymous No.51300063]

>>51300007

I have used seeking before and had a SB for 6 months but I want a legit relationship now. I might just try to get a gold digger looking for marriage off that site

[Anonymous No.51300084]

>>51300056

No not really but I do mention I’m a homeowner and am posed in front of a house that cost 800k, it’s not fancy looking though

[Anonymous No.51300085]

>>51299958
pay a dating app coach/consultant to improve your profile and openers

[Anonymous No.51300096]

You bought premium so they downgraded you. If you pay they make it so you dont get dates and keep paying.

Get better pictures. I know you have shitty pictures. Pay somone money and go outside. Redo your bio. It sucks.

Final tip: be "bisexual". Men will increase your score in the algorithm more than premium will. Just match with some and swipe with some you dont have to suck dick.

[Anonymous No.51300116]

>>51300063
Ok anon I just thought i'd mention it in case you werent aware but I get not wanting that anymore. Same reason I dont have a harem anymore. It was fun but it wasnt real enough for me because underneath it was business still. good memories for sure.
Sorry you're having shit luck with this I can def relate.

[Anonymous No.51300135]

>>51300096

Damn. I’ll probably delete my account after the month is up and recreate on the free tier

[Anonymous No.51300159]

>>51300116

Yeah it was fun, my SB was an absolute titcow literally had the type of body I fapped to for over a decade and getting to fuck someone like that was crazy

[Anonymous No.51300180]

>>51300159
haha sounds great anon. I had a harem of girls from 5 different races and the last day I had them all together was good stuff. Even gave them all good bye kisses on their plump buttcheeks. Glad you had good times also. congrats on landing your female body type.

[Anonymous No.51300229]

>>51300180

Fuck that sounds amazing, if I ever hit some crazy NW I would definitely get myself a harem of 5-10 women.

[Anonymous No.51300313]

>>51299583
How tall are you OP? If you're under 6'0 and being honest about it, it's probably not worth the effort. I'm not trying to be mean, it's just an unfortunate reality that the majority of women filter by height and set 6'0 as the minimum. I've had some success with dating apps (including one LTR), and every single woman I've met up with has said they filter by height (except one that I didn't ask), and a lot of them said I "barely made the cutoff." That being said, 2 days is really nothing on a dating app. Dating apps are not a quick solution unless you are an absolute Chad, it took me a month and a half to match with someone I thought was actually worth meeting up with. Give it some time and don't pay for boosts or premium or anything - once you do they'll try to keep you in that cycle.

[Anonymous No.51300340]

>>51299583
Are you white?

Go to Brazil.

Seriously your mind will be blown.

[Anonymous No.51300377]

>>51300340

>going to dangerous 3rd world country
>mind will be blown

What did he mean by this

[Anonymous No.51300411]

>>51300313

I dated this chick for several months and I did lie about my height by 1 inch, I remember she fucking pulled out a ruler when I came to her place to measure me and made fun of me for lying but said I was cute so she’d let it pass, then she later told me if I had been truthful about my height she would never have even matched so she was happy that I lied. I shouldn’t put up with that but I was a horny idiot. Later I dropped her and she spent months trying to get back with me. Goes to show that women don’t even know what they want

[Anonymous No.51300433]

>>51299583
If you don't have 10/10 looks, you're wasting your time. The ratio of guys to girls is 4 to 1. A real life 3/10 girl is equivalent to a 7/10 guy. I've been fucking this 7/10 post wall roastie off tinder, feels good bro.

[Anonymous No.51300451]

>>51300433

Man I get too emotionally attached, I can’t fucking pump and dump women, I tried before and I feel super guilty. Wish I could just be an emotionless fucking machine

[Anonymous No.51300459]

>>51299583
the first couple days before the algorithm rates your attractiveness are supposed to the be the sweetest to help rope you in. they used to use bots to do it, maybe they still do. flood the new dude with replies that dry up after a couple days. just to get the hooks in em. anyways its only downhill from there.

i know the feeling, i sent a message to several hundred women. individual message for each one. not one responded back. used my best pics. oh well. some men were made to be alone but over the years ive become apathetic to it.

[Anonymous No.51300461]

>>51300451
How many relationships have you had where you felt in love?

[Anonymous No.51300513]

>google "stds tinder"
oh shit
std rates are high as fuck and experts are all saying its because of tinder

stay safe out there, wear a condom because you don't know what you might catch out there

[Anonymous No.51300521]

>>51299583
Put down the app, go make friends with bartenders. They have connections literally everywhere, and so long as you aren't a sperg or an asshole they can help you find what you're looking for. If friendship is hard, spend the money you would spend on those shitty apps on the bartenders. Turns out they're way more receptive to those who bribe em well. Who knew?

[Anonymous No.51300525]

super spreader chads have contaminated the cock carousel and all the roasties are getting sick. it's actually reaching legitimate crisis levels.

[Anonymous No.51300541]

>>51299842
Cold approaching women who smile back at you is 1000% more effective than some scam demoralization app. Literally all you have to do is smile at a girl, and if she smiles back, go talk to her.

[Anonymous No.51300671]

>>51300229
Do it man... even if you only throw a once time harem party its alot of fun to have it happen. plus mmm 5 plump butt naked ladies from different races. good stuff. at least once anon

[Anonymous No.51300687]

>>51300541
when you do this what do you say, what do you talk about, how do you seal the deal?

[Anonymous No.51300868]

>>51299583
>>>/adv/
use bumble, it's better. also >>51299856

[Anonymous No.51300926]

>>51299583
Dating apps are the worst place to get a date unless you look like a male model.

[Anonymous No.51300942]

>>51299801
I don't think there are any racist 19 year old women left, anon. They get canceled pretty quick.

[Anonymous No.51301054]

>>51299598
>matching with SEAniggers

[Anonymous No.51301076]

Dating apps used to be so much better 5-10 years ago. I was curious and thought it was just my age or some shit so made a fake profile and it was still just full of fucking dogshit.

It used to be
>match
>go meet up
>if you vibe, hook up

Now it's just a fucking roastie haven and scam central.

[Anonymous No.51301077]

the women who use dating apps are not the kind you want to date, trust me. go out to social places where you interests are represented. a games store might be good, if they host board game nights or something. worked for me.

[Anonymous No.51301080]

The second these girls get on the app they have 100's of guys messaging them.

[Anonymous No.51301089]

>>51299598

I have like 150 thai and Filipino women messaging me on OkC rn but not a single one from a western chick

[Anonymous No.51301252]

>>51300687
Just whatever comes to mind. It’s better to be honest and comment on whatever you actually found interesting about her, because if you try to say something phony, it’s going to come across as phony, and you aren’t getting anywhere. Body language is part of it, if you can tell she’s into you, you can get close and create some sexual tension, but if you’re autistic and can’t tell when someone’s uncomfortable or weary of you, don’t try this at all.

If you don’t get some sort of favorable reaction at first interaction, bail immediately and save your dignity. You aren’t going to win her over, because she already made up her mind about you before you even opened your mouth.

Seal the deal quick. If it went well in the first 10 seconds, just tell her the truth that you think she’s cute for whatever reason you do, and if it’s her ass or titties, then just leave it at cute. Coffee date has worked for me. It’s something simple that you can both bail on quickly or extend depending on if it’s going well or not, so it’s pretty safe.

Honestly, dating is somewhat gay, and it’s easier to fuck people you work with. If you have a shit job or a second job, I say go for it. If you have a good job, join some sort of coed club where you can do things together and have something in common already. Like coed pickup sports, or something that you actually like.

[Anonymous No.51301351]

>>51299801
>19 year old
predator pedo

[Anonymous No.51301389]

>>51300084
Vacation photos are better than showing your house. They want to imagine traveling and eating food not being trapped in your rape dungeon.

[Anonymous No.51301395]

>>51301076
Man so true
2013 - 2016 the apps actually worked as intended (no bs algorithm trying to pressure you into paying for premium), but the surprising part was most women had a realistic sense of their own league. So you could be getting 1 - 2 dates a week. Its actually crazy how fast the market changed.

[Anonymous No.51301409]

>>51301351
pedos are a very serious problem, its evil, and a crime. and when you so casually use the word pedo like that it reduces the impact of the word. making you bad. 19 isnt pedo and you're not funny. its time to stop

[Anonymous No.51301424]

>>51301409
"pedo" is a crime?

[Anonymous No.51301435]

>>51301252
thanks, good advice.
i'm not going to bother though. i don't have it in me. but anyone still trying should read this.

[Anonymous No.51301449]

>>51301424
19 is fine, and its not pedo
people overuse the word pedo for shit that is not pedo. thats what im complaining about.

[Anonymous No.51301606]

>>51301449
well, technically 16 isnt pedo, or even 14. should we not use the word pedo for that either?

[Anonymous No.51301898]

>>51301606
16 is even legal in canada and most states. 14 ok id forgive you using pedo there though technically its i think hebe or ebe or something. theres a word for it anyways.

ask yourself if sex with an 8 year old is 100 times worse then sex with a 16 year old. the answer is yes, its much worse, and deserves a very potent word that isnt eroded through misuse.

[Anonymous No.51301932]

>>51299931
The collar says she's been a lot of places you haven't lol

[Anonymous No.51301935]

>>51299958
>I think it’s just that I’m a manlet

the funny-pill is the only way to escape the manlet curse. Take the danny devito pill

[Anonymous No.51301960]

>>51300096
This is a dark redpill

[Anonymous No.51301988]

>>51301898
like imagine someone calls a black guy a coon on the internet. would you call that guy "genocidal"

>well, technically saying nigger isn't genocidal, should we not use the word genocide for that either?

no, genocide is a word reserved for systematically murdering an entire demographic. and should be misused by placing it on the same level as simple racism.

[Anonymous No.51302030]

>>51299958
how short, under 5'7'' and its over