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[Anonymous No.51163660]

I am 23 yo and don’t get bitches.

I fell for the high school isn’t real life meme
Just move out of your hometown bro
Just be an often seen face at your local gym meme
Just go to uni bro they are not judgmental anymore meme
Just get a part time job to meet a cute girl meme
Just focus on yourself meme, don’t even chase them, get your own Place and get your money up meme, they will co by itself meme
Will it get better by itself when I get older?

Is it just impossible to get a girl nowadays your age because all the 19yo date 32 yo boomers?

[Anonymous No.51163701]

>>51163660
Have you ever had sex or a girlfriend? Even if you're a sperg if you have any potential it would've "just happened" in college if not highschool.

[Anonymous No.51163703]

>>51163660
>Just get a part time job to meet a cute girl meme
depends on what job it was

[Anonymous No.51163720]

>>51163660
You sound like a 30 yo something incel larping and projecting lmao

[Anonymous No.51163739]

how ugly are you holy fuck

[Anonymous No.51163762]

at least you don't have to worry about stds

[Anonymous No.51163860]

>>51163660
Maybe go fuck a trans or something.

[Anonymous No.51163871]

>>51163701
I went to university, but all the classes were online, so I decided to get a part time job, to get out my room etc etc
Realized the covid shit won’t stop at university, dropped out and now got a full time IT sales job

I got basically molested and bullied in middle school so I just shut off. I think I have PTSD & dissociated. There were girls that were interested in me at times, but I can not reciprocate out of anxiety
Now for a couple of years no girls showed any signs whatsoever

[Anonymous No.51164213]

>>51163660
>I can't live my life without some roastie
dude kys. if you're really 23 and haven't figured this out by now it's over for you. you're not gonna magically be happy all the sudden because you have a gf, and even if you are, it's not gonna be healthy because you're gonna have attachment issues because your happiness is contingent on "her" - you will develop oneitis, and if she ever leaves you it will wreck you. worse, if you ever need to leave her it will be too hard and you'll be stuck in an unhappy relationship because you feel like you won't be able to find another host to leech dopamine off of, AND that you NEED a host for dopamine in the first place. I'm 21 and I know this. get a grip.

[Anonymous No.51164218]

>>51163871
>There were girls that were interested in me at times, but I can not reciprocate out of anxiety
Is this still the case? You've got to work on this ultimately. If women have been attracted to you then there is hope, so if you unfuck yourself you'll be good to go.

[Anonymous No.51164244]

>>51163660
Never move out of your home town.
Move back.
You will immediately get a woman based on there just being news you are back.

[Anonymous No.51164292]

>>51163720
>pic
Jesus god, just don't date outside your league. You failed to get on finasteride. Ok. Cool. There are roasties who failed to maintain themselves and look bad for 30 too. You're not gonna die alone unless you insist on continuing not to work on yourself.

[Anonymous No.51164315]

>>51163660
>Is it just impossible to get a girl nowadays your age because all the 19yo date 32 yo boomers?
Why would you want girls your own age? Go chase 14yo's faggot.

[Anonymous No.51164342]

>>51164315
>23
>19
>your own age
lol

[Anonymous No.51164352]

>>51163871
>I got basically molested and bullied in highschool

You know what you have to work on. Until this is out of your subconscious, you're not getting anywhere. This is your priority.

[Anonymous No.51164361]

>>51164244
My home town got bought up by DC and Virginia niggers. Now I have to go somewhere else.

[Anonymous No.51164456]

>>51164342
4 years is nothing

[Anonymous No.51164485]

>>51164352
I spend like age 13-19 going through life with tense shoulders and, cold sweats & anxiety because I was threatened with violence

I withstood the anxiety & other medication and just started ju jutsu &lifting and my physical anxiety symptoms went away, still in my head tough

Why should I go to therapy?
I realize that we live in a society of meritocracy. I wasn’t a cool kid by society standards, didn’t have “cool” parents and I just feel through the cracks, like dozens others

[Anonymous No.51164585]

>>51164213
> and even if you are, it's not gonna be healthy because you're gonna have attachment issues because your happiness is contingent on "her" - you will develop oneitis

I don’t care retard, no one has perfect fairy tale lives with god like guidance.
I wasted a decade of my life, literally let me have a year “wasted” with a oneitis, at least I could feel how it is feel to alive while I am Young

I started from rock bottom many times facing my demons, completely alone with my problems with alienating and neglecting parents
Give me another rock bottom bitch

[Anonymous No.51164649]

>>51164485
I didn't say you had to go through therapy.

I came close to being sexually assaulted by a close friend when I was younger. I stopped it before it happened, but that was enough. Not to say that's in anyway comparable to your situation. But it fucked me up for a long time, I didn't trust anyone around me. On top of that, I was naive enough to take psychedelics with alcohol and weed with that same person in the room and it nearly destroyed my mind. Nearly drove me insane.

But it taught me a lot of things about vulnerability. It took me about three years to really get over it, and I did it myself without therapy. But I only did that because I knew what the problem was, why I felt that way and what I needed to do to get out of it.

Not saying it's easy, but your brain is malleable. If you truly believe you can overcome something and put the work in, you will do it. I wish you all the best. You need to deal with your demons before you become in anyway presentable to find a partner.

[Anonymous No.51164652]

>>51163871
You sound like an insufferable person with no charisma. That's a hude turn off.
Work on your personality, become more likable. Once you got that, be playful but assertive with women. Lead them

[Anonymous No.51164672]

I am 19 and get bitches while being a fat autist, however I am 190cm tall so I guess that helps

[Anonymous No.51164722]

>>51164485
The problem is is that you are lazy when it comes to mindset. You want society to tell you that you are cool, you want the outside world to define what you are and push the responsibility away when in reality what u are lecking was a real father that gave u a rolemodel on how to live.

You are basically seeking for positive feedback from the outside. Focus on your inside and find confidence from within.

All the things that you feel let you down in early ages, show em the middle finger coz you are still alive and kicking and have all opportunities ahead of you. Doesnt matter if you never had a girl, the past is the past. Move forward and never look back.

[Anonymous No.51164760]

I only stopped being a total loser at 25 when I started working at a local bar last year. Being forced to interact with peers and seeing them show up every weekend allowed me to make many friends. I’ve not hooked up with any woman yet because of my volcel believes but I’ve had ample of opportunities. I could recommend this to anyone, as long as you’re not a total bore.

[Anonymous No.51164810]

>>51164585
Fine, do it. You said you get no bitches so I figured you just wanted to get your dick wet. That's easy, and you don't have to commit at all. If you are determined to make your life revolve around another individual, go ahead. No one has to "let" you do shit. You're a grown ass man. Remember that when she starts trying to control you because you're an emotionally vulnerable loser.

[Anonymous No.51164814]

>>51163660
>get bitches
stop talking like that to start with

[Anonymous No.51164849]

>>51163660
none of those are "memes" bro, i think maybe you're the meme here...

[Anonymous No.51164979]

>>51164722
> You are basically seeking for positive feedback from the outside. Focus on your inside and find confidence from within.

I agree with you I went from an inept stunted teenager to having a full time job, where I am not performing any worse regarding clients, building relationships, conducting business

But I feel like I hit barrier I can’t proceed further, there are just naturals that exceed in everything

Andrew Tate is a meme but in my opinion he is dead on with his statement that only women and children can still be worth something while being inept

Men have to stop being inept, otherwise your worthless. And overcoming ineptness goes hand in hand how you are perceived from the outside and thus becoming successful

[Anonymous No.51164982]

>>51164722
>never look back
this is real hard but important. I used to be like OP in many ways but almost can't even remember how it feels to be in his skin. When you get that correct mind loop going the anxiety will just become distant memory.

>>51164585
What you need to do is literally everything that gives you anxiety, but slowly and so that you get positive experiences. Don't go straight to relationship because it can just scar you even more. For example do like this anon and work at bar or something similar >>51164760

[Anonymous No.51165136]

I'm 6'3" 175lbs murikan and I can tell you I still don't "get bitches". Mainly because I don't go out of my way to be a creep in order to pick up women. I'm not asking for advice in 4chan but if anyone with a stable relationship (rare here) could give me advice on how much "flirting" is possible to not be a creep then I'd be glad to take it.

[Anonymous No.51165162]

>>51165136
>I'm not asking for advice but I'm asking for advice

[Anonymous No.51165169]

>>51164652
> You sound like an insufferable person with no charisma. That's a hude turn off.

What do you mean? Being funny or something

People told me at times I am funny, but it was just occasionally. And I ruined it with trying to hard afterwards.
I don’t know who can’t be funny on a longer term time scale while being self assured and not be a try hard…

[Anonymous No.51165206]

>>51165136
Just dont flirt sexually unless the girl starts to do so, flirting in a joking way is always okay as long as u arent going full bizreal degen jokes. just be normal or fake normal if u have to

[Anonymous No.51165249]

if it didn't happen in HS, it should have happened in college. Sorry OP

[Anonymous No.51165260]

>>51165169
Its part of ur bad routine. You seek for feedback so if you get positive feedback it unleashes overconfidence in that direction. Overconfidence is usually very unattractive, so try to be humble with compliments

[Anonymous No.51165270]

I am 28 years old and I never even kissed a girl

[Jealous No.51165277]

My computer is having problems again.

[Anonymous No.51165284]

>>51163660
go to b

[Anonymous No.51165364]

>>51164652
t. actually insufferable and worth nothing more than a pretty face

[Anonymous No.51165440]

>>51165206
thanks man. I'm a bit-thick headed, needed someone to spell it out to me LOL

[Anonymous No.51166067]

I'm 25 khhv soon to be ex-neet working at amazon because I couldn't land a shitty accounting job