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>> No.50510413

>>50510331
same but poor

also I'm employed

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50511357

>>50510413
same but unemployed

>> No.50511374

>>50510331
make your own work, nigger.

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50513059

>>50510331
what do you guys use to rent/buy a house/get a loan?

>> No.50513075

>>50513059
Bank statement mortgage

>> No.50513095

>>50510331
it's a sad life to be honest mental health has never been so bad

>> No.50513134

>>50510331
>>50513095
Same situation.
How do you keep your sanity and find a way to have a social life?

I don't know how it happened but I don't want anything despite having such a great list of things I wanted to do before retiring.

>> No.50513135

>>50510331
get off your ass and do something then. you should be comfy enough at mid six figures to fuck off and do whatever you want, but do NOT buy a house. the world is huge, there is plenty of pussy and dick to be had literally everywhere, and most things worth doing, especially developing a personality, are effectively free for someone with 7 figures.

>> No.50513179

>>50513134
buy a van, go on an extended camping trip, cold approach literally everyone you see, and do every outdoors or group hobby activity that comes across your path. instant social life, you will get dozens of numbers a week

>> No.50513193

That was me in may 2021 now i'm back to high 5 figs lmao

>> No.50513286

>>50513179
Could be an interesting idea.

I have been stuck trying to better learn trading currently, hoping that it would give me the feeling of having an activity that can make me money, but everything feels empty.
It's like I could go on an adventure but after nothing would change and I would just aimlessly go on a journey with no purpose.

Maybe it's the lack of social contact, but I get the feeling I need to find my real life purpose and get a life plan before I start to lose more time aimlessly, and as long as I don't do this nothing will have value.

>> No.50513392

>>50513179
Social animal chimp, it's ok to hang out with fellow mammals but that shouldnt be your way to solve depression or whatever.

>> No.50513574

>>50513392
you have no idea what it's about or what you will learn until you do it. i used to say the same thing you did.
>>50513286
> I get the feeling I need to find my real life purpose and get a life plan before I start to lose more time aimlessly,
you can't find it until you wander aimlessly in unfamiliar situations until you discover your strengths and weaknesses and how to interact with people such that you come to see theirs. i was entirely sure i would end up an honorary wizard NEET until i said fuck it and went driving. been at it for almost a year and now i'm absolutely certain when i settle down i will become a therapist of some sort and join or build a therapy retreat where people can go to learn about themselves and heal from self destructive behavior patterns. i've never had that idea before but the more i drive around and meet people the more it makes sense as a calling, to me at least.

>> No.50513605

How’d you guys make it

>> No.50513791

>>50513134
You've come across the reality to life. People are born with desires. They change as you age. You think if you could just get what you want, you would be satisfied. But then you actually get what you want and afterwards, it becomes meaningless.

You are on a spiritual journey now; your material journey is over. You're unhappy and you never knew how to be happy. Maybe you're unlucky and you aren't even physiologically capable of being happy. Your prior desires were just an illusion. Don't feel bad. All humans are programmed this way by genetics or god to incentivize them to do something with their lives.

Start with the basics. Go out an socialize. Admit that you are not a complete being without socialization - stop being a proud neet. Get a job. Even if you don't need the money. Maybe fly to Africa and start doing charity work so you can see how the other half lives.

>> No.50513805

>>50513574
Interesting.
I have an itch for some form of travel and spending more time outside, and have only been in nature by myself until now instead.

This was my original desire to help others, but in my case it's my best ability to instantly recognize people's subconscious problems as a form of psychological profiling I originally used to repair myself by copying other positive traits.
However this ability gave me great despair as I learned time and time again that it's impossible to help others against their will.
Even if you know what someone's problem is and how to cure it, it's useless because it will be ignored as everyone need to learn on their own, and you helping will slow down this process.

If I could find a way to use this ability to help others it would make me happy and I would try to see how to use it better, but fate seems to want to punish me each time something gives me the feeling I have the ability to change others.

>> No.50513904

>>50513791
I just retired because of a burnout.
I won't take a job for some time...

What changed me was the realization of limited time, but even if it destroyed my previous desires, I want to at least do some of the things I had desired to do before retiring, at least for the achievement of being able to say I did what I set myself up to do.
It's a bit pathetic that after years of suffering and constant effort I don't do anything to reward myself, even if those rewards are meaningless to the current me I should at least try them out.

Unfortunately I constantly feel like I have things to do, but those things don't fulfill my desire for a purpose despite being a part of a greater goal. The result is I keep trying to learn new things to improve, because I feel I didn't achieve my initial goals and am unsatisfied with my current financial situation making it difficult for me to relax.

I realize as time goes that my current situation is dangerous for my sanity and I need to get out and socialize more, but because I am unsatisfied with my current situation I feel like this would not go well.

>> No.50514166

>>50513059
To buy a house you need a financial record. This means having a job and paying bills, managing a credit card. Saving a part deposit and getting help from parents is the best way. Then get pre approval from a bank so you know how much you can spend. Then probably buy the shittiest cheapest house you can in a good area -- because location is the most important variable.

>> No.50514276

>>50510331
Get a fucking gym membership. Stop eating like shit, brush your teeth, sit in the sun, read a book. Retard I wish I had your money don’t waste your time.

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>>50514276
>sit in the sun
that sounds stupid anon

>> No.50514438

>>50513805
helping others is the worst possible think you can do.

it supports failure
inteferes with peoples lives and sitorts the markets
and entrenches bad actions / actors

only by makeing a proift can you help people

>> No.50515582

>>50514342
Can knock it until you try it

>> No.50515634

>>50513605
They are larping. Notice how no one is posting screenshots like usual braggers?

>> No.50516755

>>50515634
I believe that some anons on this board actually made it (7 figures+) but they don't post very often. Most are larping though yes

>> No.50517214

>>50513179
>buy a van, go on an extended camping trip, cold approach literally everyone you see, and do every outdoors or group hobby activity that comes across your path. instant social life, you will get dozens of numbers a week
Should it be a van specifically or can we go with something like a subaru outback touring xt?

I'm planning to optimize around having a super comfy vehicle that the group wants to road trip in.

Tons of people in Seattle/Denver would appreciate drivers in their meetup group, so I'm all about this meta

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>>50510331
How did you make it Anon, what Crypto took you to those levels? I been trough 2 cycles and I am very confident I can execute and make it in the next cycle. Wage slaving is soul draining but because I have a goal and the skills to navigate crypto I know things will be better soon.