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I’m in my early 20s never had a gf, never had a friend group. I come home from work at 9pm. I have no time to cook or go to the gym. I have no enjoyment nothing, no hobbies, nothing to look forward to. Weeks go by like nothing


Can I unironically recover from this? I am essentially neutered as a human. All my life has been sucked out of me

>> No.50399193

>>50399186
>early 20s
shut up faggot

>> No.50399219

The definition of a wageslave.

>> No.50399222

>>50399186
Faggot. I work from 1 to 9pm and wake up everyday to go to the gym at 9am. NGMI

>> No.50399251

>>50399186
Lol just wait til you're 30 and own nothing

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>>50399186
>in my early 20s
shit your so young you bearley getting started
you can start over as many times as you want in life
tomorrow you can go out there and take on the world. be brave strong and live like your a child of the universe protected, energized, organized and supported by all the power of the entire Galaxy

>> No.50399289

>>50399186
it gets worse...just remember that. you might get out of what you are in now...but its always there waiting for you if you dont constantly do something about it. for myself, i don't care anymore. i only wish i had a simple easy job and was left alone until i can die.

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>>50399186
Did you ever think "wow, this sucks I better do something about it" instead of bitching?

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50399322

Having no gf and fuck all friends in your 20s isn't all that uncommon. If anything OP, it's a blessing. You can go extra hard into work and you just might like it/be passionate

Then from your success at work you'll make friends / or succeed as you make them and it will lead to a girl.

If you're worried about having no temptation/drive/desire,

Look into Goetic spirits. Lucifer or Astaroth will get you started.

>> No.50399341

>>50399222
Do you have a gf or friends?
I lifted during my teens an during my NEET days. I just don’t see the point anymore. I never enjoyed lifting for the sake of it, probably like everyone at the gym.

You force yourself to eat all that protein heavy food and do all of these exercises just to make your body look a certain way. It’s just forced

I wish I was 18 again just hit the gym because I thought it would get girls. Overthinked all of this way

>> No.50399343

>>50399186
>early 20s
you could change all that tomorrow faggot. wait till you're in your 30s and everyone you meet either has an established clique that you're not invited to or they're insufferable autistic retards.

>> No.50399344

>>50399322
Oh fuck. Anon care to elaborate on the goetic demon thing? I get a strong feeling this post was partially meant specifically for me desu

>> No.50399351

>>50399186
You say you have a job. This is a better start than nothing. Try socialising with your colleagues. See if you can engage with a sociable guy in your work to hang out with his group of friends. You just need a ground to build on. Even 1 friend is decent start. It is very easier from there. Put yourself out there. Not in the way of going alone to a night club like a weirdo but get someone to go together or something. Hecking try tinder or something else. Even an ugly girl is better than no girl (if you are desperate). You got more than enough time anon, you just need to act on it. Also, fuck waging. Learn a trade if you do not want to deal with college. Money gets anything in life, the more the happier you will be. You have more than enough time. Good luck.

>> No.50399466

>>50399341
Same situation. At least lifting is a useful cope with my existence

>> No.50399498

>>50399298
I am so behind my peers regarding emotional development. Or personal development. Or literally anything. Like 10-12 years behind. All my peers can plan their life looking forward because of having their experiences

I got a sales job forcing me to interact with strangers even tough my anxiety makes my heart go out and I almost can’t breathe anymore. I still took up that job. I got a job to learn social skills that 13 yo learns by default. I don’t know if I am to late

My life is hell and I do it solely to try to learn social skills at my work. I don’t know if am to late. I try to turn into a guy that is worthy to have a gf

>> No.50399538

>>50399186
I'm twice your age, married, and feel the exact same way.

>> No.50399585

>>50399498
>I don’t know if I am to late
Are you above 50? If not, then you are not. Man up and start acting in life. What your peers does not matter. They don't care about you and you should not care about them, or about anyone who is not directly a part of your life. Except for the occasional banter on here, of course.
Also, trying to learn social skills through a sales job is a dumb dumb dumb decision. There is nothing natural or social about cold calling people. This will not teach you how to talk up girls. You don't need to be worthy to have a gf, you just need to look worthy to get a gf.