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5026460 No.5026460 [Reply] [Original]

she's 21, I'm 20. What's the smartest thing to do? I don't want to leave her. Buy a house? Rent? Drop out of uni to work? I have ~80k to my name thanks to crypto. No debts.

>> No.5026477

>>5026460
Abobo

>> No.5026482

>>5026460

Abortion.

>> No.5026493

hold 3 years.

>> No.5026506

>>5026460
Abortion you fucking retard.

Or have the kid and ruin your life completely. Drop the girl too.

>> No.5026533

is the child for sale? will buy for 5 LTC

>> No.5026534

move every single penny you have into ARK and don't tell anyone

live off the government for 5 years and then party

>> No.5026545

>>5026460
retard

>> No.5026550
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5026550

>>5026460
>I don't want to leave her

you stupid fuck, you already know what to do.

>> No.5026561
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5026561

>>5026460
follow the guide

>> No.5026568

>>5026460
Kids cost about $1000 a month. Just a tick under 200k usd until they 18.

Hit the abort button anon.

>> No.5026583

>>5026460

Abortion is the easiest thing. Might not be the best.

Marrying and her and keeping the kid is the hardest thing, might not be the best.

What does she want to do?

21 is way young for a kid, but it's doable. With 80k you could finish school and live modestly then head into your deserved life as a wagecuck.

>> No.5026582

>>5026460
abortion is like .03 btc

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5026598

>>5026460
>What's the smartest thing to do?
HAHAAHAHAHAHA

ALIMONY

Your life ends now you're headed to a financial disaster.

>> No.5026607

>>5026460
I'll buy the loli for 3 ETH.

>> No.5026611

>>5026460
You're fucked unless you get busy with a coathanger

>> No.5026631
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5026631

>>5026477
>>5026482
>>5026568
>>5026582
>>5026583
>>5026611

>> No.5026639

>>5026506
Don't forget the crippling guilt that comes with it anon!

>> No.5026643

put the 80k in ARK, wait for it to moon x10 in the next months. Live of dividends forever while supporting an entire family.
you're welcome

>> No.5026645

Man up OP. You had the fun now pay the price.

>> No.5026664

>>5026460
buy link

>> No.5026710

toss her down the stairs lmao
unless you want to ruin your entire life

>> No.5026758

>>5026639
are you fucking retarded
they didnt even finish college and you want to raise a kid without any education in todays world ?
youre gonna end up in poverty lmao
this isnt the 1960 anymore

>> No.5026784

>>5026550
>>5026582
>>5026583
>>5026568
I love her and want to marry her. I also don't want to kill my own child

>> No.5026791
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5026791

>killing your own child because you were too fucking stupid to wear a condom
good goy kill the white baby

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5026794

>>5026506
WRONG. Don't murder your child OP. You will never forgive yourself. Do the right thing by her.

>> No.5026859

>>5026460
Any way she can live with her parents while you finish uni? If you can work part time while in uni for some extra money you can send her some of that to help out. Then when you graduate get an apartment with her and make an honest woman out of her. I would not touch the crypto, you may never have to work again in a few years if it goes up.

>> No.5026890

>>5026631
Looks kinda like the artstyle Don Rosa draws desu.

>> No.5026896

given by op's last post hes getting cucked anyways since his grill is keeping it 100% lmao
have fun in poverty

>> No.5026915

>>5026460
Kick her down the stairs

>> No.5026920

All in on ChainLink. Sergod will take us to the moon next year this time around.

>> No.5026973

anon ur pull out game is weak...

>> No.5027068

>>5026460
Abortion you fuckain't retard

>> No.5027102

>>5026794
I've convinced two women to get an abortion in my life, and I have never -EVER - regretted it for even a millisecond.

>> No.5027132

>>5026460
Get rekt stupid normie.

>> No.5027136

>>5027102
Yup, just one here but same sentiment. OP is just beginning his life and already signing up for endless wageslavery.

>> No.5027156

>>5027102
nice larp

>> No.5027168

>>5026460
Get support from both your families. Concentrate on your education then your career. Think long term.

>> No.5027172

>>5027136
He deserves it for getting sex.

>> No.5027180

>>5026784
>I love her and want to marry her
Thats what she made you think. Are you sure it was an accident?
>I also don't want to kill my own child
More brainwashing

Yeah you are fucking retarded and deserve this. I bet she knows about ur crypto gains. "Accidently" got pregnant thinking you will support her and the kid for the next 30 years.
Meanwhile she will take big dick when you are wagecucking

>> No.5027197

>>5026794
>thinks a fetus is a child

Get a fucking education you retard

>> No.5027274

>>5026784
Then don't kill your kid
Why are you asking bitter curmudgeons for advice

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5027286

>>5027197
>thinks a degree in business school gives him an edge on biology

nice

>> No.5027306

>>5026460
abortion, problem solved

>> No.5027309
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5027309

>>5026460
For the fetus, though enclosed in the womb of its mother, is already a human being, and it is a monstrous crime to rob it of the life which it has not yet begun to enjoy. If it seems more horrible to kill a man in his own house than in a field, because a man’s house is his place of most secure refuge, it ought surely to be deemed more atrocious to destroy a fetus in the womb before it has come to light.

Anon, don't abort the Child, take the responsibility , marry her and become a good father.

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5027310

I wonder if the kid will ever find this thread when he grows up, where his father basically asked a bunch of anons for advice whether to get rid of him.

>> No.5027328

>>5026533
topkek

>> No.5027344

>>5027197

So what is it Mengele? An eggplant?

>> No.5027354

>>5026460
Fake your own death.

>> No.5027361

>>5027310

holy fuck, that would be epic

>> No.5027363

>>5027309
Bottom gymnastics are way cooler. Pro-Lifers BTFO

>> No.5027365

>>5027274
I was asking to buy or rent a house and how to handle my money basically. Not how to kill the child or how to dump her .

>> No.5027380

>>5027344
A fetus is a parasite.
Apparently even when the children are born they need protection and help so they're still parasites.

>> No.5027386

>>5027310
Lel. Valuing his crypto stash against his unborn kid.

>> No.5027395

>>5027197
>hurrr durrrr I'm educated because I believe in liberal talking points and everyone who doesn't is uneducated
This is called brainwashing. You are literally brainwashed. Nice.

>> No.5027406

>>5026784

You're going to be fine. All these faggot NEETS talking about killing your kid should fucking kill themselves. Childrearing will make a man out of you.

>> No.5027422

>>5027365
You got rekt either way. You're gonna have to pay $1000 a month to raise this parasite on top of the care you're giving it.
You're a normie so you deserve it.

>> No.5027432

>>5027309
A FETUS IS NOT A FUCKING KID. JUST LIKE A FUCKING SCULPTING ROCK IS NOT A STATUE. I swear to god ProLife's are such retards

>> No.5027433

>>5027380
+ it's gonna moon after 16 years or so, HODL?

>> No.5027437

>>5026784
Invest/hide your cash, live off of gubberment money with a mediocre part time job, and then party in a few years time.

>> No.5027439

>>5026784
Then you should marry her. Quite frankly I don't think that your relationship would go anywhere after the abortion.
20 seems a bit early, but kind of doable (maturity is not about age). I know a guy that got his GF pregnant at ~20. They got married and he's quite successful and happy now. Organizing big music related events and making quite a big money out of it.
I mean healthy relationship is probably the biggest part of personal happiness. If you really feel like your GF is you soulmate then go for it.
>t. 28 yo father

>> No.5027459

>>5026493
This.

>> No.5027466
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5027466

>>5027365
I'm glad that you're acting responsible.
Renting house seems nice cause you might have to keep moving marriage, oh and also make sure that you live near a school and a hospital :)
Hey and most importantly, Join a church with your wife. Good luck anon.

>> No.5027470

>>5026460
HODL

>> No.5027475

>>5027433
Nah. OP Will break even after 30 years or something.

>> No.5027483

>>5026784

Good for you, anon. Then the answer is simple:

MAN THE FUCK UP.

Take half of your crypto gains, cash out, and set aside for taxes. You now have a nest egg and an emergency fund.

Finish college while working full time. She gets a job until she literally can't stand because she's so fucking round with baby. Preserve as much of the emergency fund as possible.

Life is no longer about you. Life is no longer about her. Life is now about you working as hard as you can to make as good of a life as you can for your child. Also, your perception of reality will be fundamentally altered once baby arrives.

If you're in an underwater basket weaving major (Communications, Art, History, Anthropology, etc...) it's time to switch into something more tangible. Sciences. Business. Engineering.

Once you graduate (and you will graduate, with good grades, because you've stopped partying and you just grew the fuck up in about 1 month) you'll have a young child, young wife, and the opportunity to start a career.

DOn't fuck up the start on your career by jumping at the first shitbag job opportunity that comes your way - hold out for a decent position while doing your basic wagecuck work that you've been doing for the last few years as a university student.

Boom. you're now an adult and life is boring.

>> No.5027501

>>5027432
>>>/reddit/

>> No.5027504

>>5027466
*keep moving after marriage

>>5027432

Business class doesn't teach you biology

>> No.5027507

>>5026784
Breh you're 20 you don't even know who you are yet. That being said you're 20 and a complete fucking idiot and won't listen to people who have been there. I got my chick pregnant when I was 22, she was 18. Aborted that shit with a quickness the likes of which have never been seen. She's fat and crazy now and I'm dating a genius doctor that lets me have threesomes with girls I pick out.

Don't be a cuck. Play the field

>> No.5027520

>>5027432

A rock isnt sentient life you dimwit.

>> No.5027538

>>5026534
Holy shit I'm not alone.

>> No.5027601

>>5026460
Man up and marry her.

>> No.5027613

>>5026645
This.

OP you're doing the right thing by not leaving her and killing your own child. Your life will be very hard in the years to come, but this is the consequence of your own act. Good luck.

>> No.5027633

You know what to do, fag, all in LINK

>> No.5027654

>>5026460
Punch her in the stomach until it falls out. You don't want a kid in this crypto market, it will kill all your gains.

>> No.5027689
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5027689

>>5027102
Yeah but OP still has a soul, he's not like you.

>> No.5027691

>>5026460
Don't listen to this idiots.
I impregnated my gf when I was 19 ( she was 23). Was scared to shit and didn't know what to do. But since I'm not some autistic fucktard like the rest here, I stayed with her. Fast forward 10 years and we now live together with 2 children in a nice house.
BUT: don't expect it to be easy. Your life as you know it will not exist anymore. All your friends will spend less and less time with you bc they go out to party every weekend or do some other shit while you will be sitting at home and pray to god that you'll get a decent amount of sleep this night. And there will be times where you just wish your life would have gone a different route. But the moment you come home from wageslaving and see the happiness in your childs eyes you remeber what you are doing it for.
tl;dr getting a child this young is the worst thing that happend to me but it is the most rewarding thing in life and I would never give it away.

>> No.5027736

>>5026460
A B O R T
B
O
R
T

>> No.5027737

>>5026639
I convinced my gf back then to abort my offspring when I was OPs age and I have a good kek about abortion jokes now (about 8 years later). Never felt any guilt, except towards my gf (now ex). Its a fucking piece of meat in the early stages anyway. Not having an abort this young WILL fuck your life up, OP.

>> No.5027741

>>5026460
Don't murder your son/daughter. Time to experience what it feels like to be a man.

>> No.5027780

>>5026784
>kill
how many months pregnant?
stop being retarded. anything under 5 months is fair game.

>> No.5027803

>>5026784
Don't listen to these crabs in a barrel, they just want you to be miserable like them. Marry her and raise your beautiful child

>> No.5027807

>>5027691
>Don't listen to this idiots.
>I impregnated my gf when I was 19 ( she was 23). Was scared to shit and didn't know what to do. But since I'm not some autistic fucktard like the rest here, I stayed with her. Fast forward 10 years and we now live together with 2 children in a nice house.
>BUT: don't expect it to be easy. Your life as you know it will not exist anymore. All your friends will spend less and less time with you bc they go out to party every weekend or do some other shit while you will be sitting at home and pray to god that you'll get a decent amount of sleep this night. And there will be times where you just wish your life would have gone a different route. But the moment you come home from wageslaving and see the happiness in your childs eyes you remeber what you are doing it for.
>tl;dr getting a child this young is the worst thing that happend to me but it is the most rewarding thing in life and I would never give it away.

God bless you and your family anon.

>> No.5027822

>>5027737
for real. so many things i want to do in life that a baby would completely, absolutely fuck over. i'm 27 and my gf is 25, and we have no doubt in our minds we would abort if she got pregnant.

we'll only have kids after 35 once we're done traveling the world and get tired of having no responsibilities.

>> No.5027842

>>5027466
lmao. Get a load of this fag

>> No.5027849

>>5026631
Noice

>> No.5027850

>>5027689
im an aborted baby who remembers the painful moment i was yanked out of my mothers uterus with a rusty coat hanger. thank you for defending my memory <3

>> No.5027863

>>5026460

>>5027613
Abortion is murder, OP. Don't take ethical or moral advice from sociopaths on a board dedicated to the rat race, lest you serve to validate their own convictions. That's why it's so easy for them to tell you to kill it, they'd do it themselves. Owning up to your mistake is the responsible thing to do here. If you were aborted you would not have had the opportunity to consider abortion right now, nor act out and knock this woman up.

>> No.5027868

>>5027803
God Bless.
And GZ anon.

>> No.5027881

>>5026460
abort the mission. I repeat abort.

>> No.5027912

>>5026784
You shouldn't come here to get advice, these people are bitter, angry people

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5027920

>>5027863
>>5027868
jesus christ what the fuck? what kind of fucking cucks are you? did you go to christian school or something?

fucking retards. i bet you're saving yourselves for marriage too, faggets.

>> No.5027924

>>5027310
He didn't, he asked for financial advice and a bunch of degenerates took that as a cue to tell him to kill his son. I think OP's child would be proud of his dad that he ignored them and made the right choice.

>> No.5027973

>>5027822
Holy shit, if this isn't bait you should kill yourself

>> No.5027985

>>5027924
are they making 4chan the default homepage on christian schools or what

>> No.5027995

>>5027822
>We'll only kids after all her eggs are dried up and her womb is barren
Good luck with that.

>> No.5028015

>>5026568
>Kids cost about $1000 a month.
They literally fucking eat for free at the start.
You can have a kid for god damn nothing.
You can make your own baby food for a fraction of the cost of store bought stuff.
Use fucking towels that you wash for diapers.
The only reason why people say babies are expensive is because they buy overpriced shit for them.

It's like having a wedding, if you call it a wedding people will charge you more for it. But if you call it a party, it will be reasonable.

>> No.5028024

>>5027822
Enjoy your mentally retarded child

>> No.5028044

>>5027920
I agree on this however. Just dont abort. Rather give it to someone who wants the child.

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5028077

>>5027973
>>5028024
triggered snowflakes, go back to tumblr

>> No.5028104

>>5026506
Abortion is the most selfish act a person can commit. Keep the kid, children are a blessing and you two can find a way to make it work.

>> No.5028111

>>5027432
Pift, says the lump of cells.

>> No.5028123

IF IT'S WHITE KILL IT IT'S ALMOST 2018 PEOPLE

>> No.5028152

>>5027422
>You're gonna have to pay $1000 a month
Eats for free at the start
Wraps in a used blanket
Uses a blender to make baby food himself
WOW SUCH 1000 A MONTH.

>> No.5028156

>No debts
>~80k
>80 x 0.35
>$28,000 in taxes owed

Thought you could sneak away from us, huh?

>> No.5028172

>>5026460
are you both white?

>> No.5028203

>>5027507
for women, getting an abortion can be traumatic enough to send them into a spiral of depression with progressively worse choices
you rationalise it as "dodged a bullet", but it could very well have been your own actions turning her this way

>> No.5028211

>>5027822
I support abortion but having kids after 40 is the same as two inbreds having kids.
That's why autism is on the rise in the west.

>> No.5028237

>>5028172
No I'm white she's arab

>> No.5028257

>>5028237
Abort desu

>> No.5028264

>>5026784
hope you know how to change a diaper then

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5028268

>>5028211
>35 same as 40
wat

>>5028237
ALLAHU AKBAR

OP'S WAIFU HAS A MINI-BOMBER IN HER BELLY HAHAHAHA

>> No.5028277

>>5028237
Post pics.

>> No.5028284

>>5028237
Arab?
Are you serious?
Kek

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5028292

ask her what she wants to do idiot

>> No.5028295

>>5028104
>Abortion is the most selfish act a person can commit.
So what? The fetus doesn't care since it hasn't even developed any brain activity.
The parents doesn't care because they agree it is their decision.
Nobody fucking else should care because they have nothing to do with it.

>> No.5028301

>>5027973

I would feel the same way but I am kind of hoping to be satisfied in my life in the next few years so I won't be in his scenario. My own life comes before some piece of shit I've never met.

Having a kid is selling. Your own life is the price. If I have my way, I'm gonna 10x from here, so I'll hodl. My stop loss is if I'm still a piece of shit by 32 I might cash out and see if I can have a kid better than I am, but it's suicide to sell now

>> No.5028303

>>5026460

If you murder it, you will regret it for the rest of your life. The thought will come back to haunt you before you go to sleep, when you wake up, during random moments of teh day. You'll look at kids walking down the street and realise your kid would be about the same age, and you'll hate yourself.

What you do in this position is to man up and take responsibility for it. You were man enough to nut inside her, you're man enough to deal with the consequences. Do your duty as a man, OP.

>> No.5028310

>>5027365
Buy a duplex at the minimum, multi families not single families OP, passive income.

>> No.5028315

My father had me when he was 53, my mom was 29. He's rich and she's good looking.

Pros: Rich, smart/wise dad. Taught me a lot and I never wanted for anything. Always had expensive toys/puzzle games which enhanced my creativity, went to the best schools, never felt like a poor fag, traveled almost everywhere on Earth by the time I was 14 (which emboldens your perspectives and enlarges your brains empathy centers which is crucial for success). Have about 9 million in inheritance coming my way. I am good looking because my dad was able to get a trophy wife, which just makes my life a lot easier in general.

Cons: I'm in my late 20's and my dad is getting sicker now, way earlier than my friends' dads. I have to balance pursuing my own career and taking care of him and my mom, which is kind of annoying but something I want to do because they were good to me. My mom will not remarry most likely and will have to live alone for the rest of her life after he passes, which burdens me further. He never played sports with me because he was too old, so I kind of suck at hand-eye coordination (stuck to sports like wrestling and track).

So yeah, pros: almost everything.
cons: have to take care of my parents earlier than other people my age... but that's not really even a con considering how many resources we have available, like we can just hire multiple full time nurses and not even think about it.

So in conclusion OP, have kids at 20 if you wanna be forever poor and come to eventually resent your wife and child when you inevitably fail at everything in life because of them. She will be fat and ugly in about 12 years and you'll never earn enough to ditch her for another hottie. ABORT.

>> No.5028331

>>5028152
>they stay babies for 18 years
>its the 1890s use a table cloth not disposable diapers
>not settinf aside money for your seed to study STEM degree once you give them the boot

Please never have children.

>> No.5028347

>>5026460
Don't listen to these people who are saying to keep the child. You are 20, you'll be 21 when it's born. Not only can you not afford to give it the life it deserves, but you haven't grown enough as a person to raise it without causing both yourself and the child major psychological issues down the road.

You'd be giving it a life that it may at some point decide it doesn't want to live. Do not feel guilty; consciousness doesn't even develop during the stages at which they abort a foetus. It's barely even human.

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5028351

>>5026493

>> No.5028359

>>5026784
If you're having these thoughts now, you will absolutely regret the decision for years if you go through with the abortion. Your relationship also will likely fizzle out after its done as well. Rearing that child will take a lot of struggle and sacrifice, but the rewards will be greater any shitcoin

>> No.5028362

>>5028303
I was initially pro-life but his kid will be half-Arab. Best to just abort...

>> No.5028369

>>5027689
It isn't a human being until it has developed brain activity.
I bet you think brain dead people are alive.

>> No.5028387

>>5028268
for mothers, risks of infertility and developmental problems rise dramatically after 27-28 regardless
starting to conceive at 35 is the female equivalent of wanting to get rich by buying chainlink, it might work out but holy shit are you taking unnecessary risks

>> No.5028399

Abortion is murder. Still got 9 months to soundly plan around this.

>> No.5028422

OP got an Arab girl pregnant lmao

>> No.5028424

>>5026460
If u haven't done 23&me do it now and then when babby is born do one for it.

>> No.5028432

>>5028387
this is a skewed statistic distorted by the fact that people in general are extremely unhealthy and sedentary because they stop taking care of themselves once they grow old.

its the same think with people thinking men's testosterone starts lowering when they're 30, when in fact it's only when you're 50. the problem is most men become unhealthy sedentary fatasses which increases estrogen and lowers test.

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5028461

>>5028422
>OP got an Arab girl pregnant lmao

>Implying you wouldn't.

>> No.5028466

>>5028424
Why?

>> No.5028487

>>5027822
>i kind of want a baby eventually
>but i really think my streaming career might take off!

Travel the world after you've raised your kids you retard, it will wait, her ovaries won't.

Actually maybe Europe won't wait.

>> No.5028490

>>5028461
gtfo sandnigger

>> No.5028498

>>5026460
Bend a coat hanger.

>> No.5028504

>>5026460
Don't make your girlfriend have an abortion, it's evil.

>> No.5028535

>>5028295

Well, I agree with all your points except for the sake of devil's advocate

>nobody else has anything to do with it

Is patently wrong because realistically abortions that happen on an interpersonal level shape our society on a large scale over time. Personally I support abortion but only because any parents considering it are most likely not in any position to be raising a child and said child will either be put into a broken foster care system or raised poorly by parents that either didn't have the money for it or didn't want it.

>> No.5028543

>>5028498
Research has shown sleeping on your belly significantly raises the miscarriage rate. Kind of funny that women have used coat hangers and all kinds of crazy methods when all they had to was this...lol

>> No.5028572

>>5028535
Except dumb poor people have the highest birth rates...

>> No.5028593

>>5028487
>Travel the world after you've raised your kids you retard
Yeah, just lock your life in place for 20 years then you get to do the stuff you actually wanted to do.
Why are there so many child apologists on /biz/?

You realize that getting kids means your entire life changes permanently right?
It isn't always for the best either, the only difference is that you can't backpaddle on this decision, it is a permanent life-changing decision that you wont know if you like after you have done it.

>> No.5028612

>mature enough to knock up a girl
>not mature enough to make a decision
what were you thinking before puting benis in bagina OP?

>> No.5028623

>>5026460
Buy. Marry her.

>> No.5028627

>>5028593
You realize you lock it in place for 20 years either way right. The only difference is the amount of children you might have and how healthy they will be.

>> No.5028630

>>5026460
Whatever you do:
DONT
TELL
ANYONE
ABOUT
YOUR
CRYPTO

>> No.5028641

>>5026460
Marry her, have the kid, live off your crypto until you finish school and get a job. Kids are, no joke, the easiest thing in the world to take care of the first couple years. If it was hard to take care of kids, we'd have gone extinct a long time ago.

>> No.5028662

Buy property for cash, zero debt. Talk to a real estate agent and put them on the search. Look at distressed properties you can fix up. Even living in an rv in the back yard while you fix it up.
Better deals are 2 stories that you can convert into multifamily units.
Rinse and repeat.

>> No.5028676

>>5028535
>Is patently wrong because realistically abortions that happen on an interpersonal level shape our society on a large scale over time.
Fuck off with this vague nonsense.
It is literally too vague to be used as an argument and deny two individual people's right to choice.
I don't support abortion as a means of contraceptive but fuck me there isn't anything wrong with doing it if you don't want kids.

>> No.5028692

>>5026460
Tell her to abort. Say you have no credit and some amount of debt. Do not tell anyone you know that you have 80k

>> No.5028694

>>5028237
Abort

>> No.5028696

>>5028572

That's called the demographic economic paradox and the problem is that those people aren't educated enough to find their own purpose in life and having children becomes their way of being fulfilled. Basically for dumb and poor people we should have mandatory abortions (and by mandatory abortions I mean preventative measures like a parenthood license, because having no control measures on the quality of individuals entering our society is obscene and at the point we are at having children should not be an infallible human right in society where people on welfare can do drugs and fuck each other and not care about the child when they're pregnant and guess who has to hold the bag for that doomed little fucker? The rest of us, when their parent ODs and leaves them in foster care)

>> No.5028698

>>5028593

Raising children is the one thing everyone should do. Fuck off and cut your tubes faggot

>> No.5028705

>>5026460
Deletus the fetus

>> No.5028713

>>5026460
Abort the kid, dump your gf, go all in on Link, hodl for 10 years

then marry a supermodel

>> No.5028721

A.) The deeper philosophic question is whether an acorn is in fact an oak tree? Is something with presumptive potential valued by its potential or current condition. Is bitcoin worth 100k right now?

B.) I knocked up a girl on a 1 night stand. I didn't know it at the time but she had a drug problem. She came to me 6 months pregnant. I plead with her to have an abortion, she would not. My son was born 2.5 years ago, she disappeared after the birth. Boom - full time single dad. I was 29 when this happened. Fortunately I had managed to establish myself. I had reached a point in life when the means to live were no problem, however the reasons to live were getting short. My son brought me purpose. Your case is different than mine, but know this, if you do end up having kid, you will get back a multiplication of whatever you put in to raise it.

>> No.5028745

>>5026460

Are you both white?

>> No.5028761

>>5028698
>Muh biological imperative
Fuck off slave, not everyone should get kids because too many people are retarded parents.
And it is depressing to see so many brain dead people who literally cannot imagine a life without kids.
You people are so insanely brainwashed that you lash out against anyone who doesn't want kids and believe that kids is some kind of fucking miracle and decree from God that you must follow otherwise you are hellspawn.

>> No.5028799

>>5028696
>demographic economic paradox
It doesn't seem like much of a paradox. It has been encouraged for the poor to have lots of children for thousands of years.

Reasons:
>fodder for war
>farming
>labor

>> No.5028806

>>5028696
1 kid max for people with bad genes
2 kids max for people with average genes
3 kids minimum for people with good genes.

Maybe mandatory egg/sperm donation for people with exemplary genes. This is all mental masturbation though and it'd be difficult to dismantle our over-generous welfare state

>> No.5028809

>>5026460
ask her to get an abortion.

>> No.5028815

>>5027920
I am married numbnuts and couldnt be happier. Not my issue if you cant pick out a good wholesome girl who loves you unconditionally and lives life with you instead of against you. All you neets talk about being alone and misserable, then talk about picking up asain prossis for btc. Can handle picking up stis from backstreet tinder dates but cant handle raising the next generation. Youre soft son.

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5028816

>>5027995
>>5028024
>>5028211
>falling for the jewish lies

Good thing you will never have to worry about making sure your gf aborts

>> No.5028817

>>5026784
>I love her and want to marry her

Write this down and put it in your wallet so you don't forget how much of a idiot you are.

>> No.5028820

>>5028676

What you're literally saying is "who are you to care if I don't recycle? It's my choice". It's not too vague to use as an argument, you just aren't seeing the bigger picture. Destroying potential human lives, especially when abortion is more prevalent in certain demographics, has a measurable impact on society. It boils down to numbers, no matter what the man and the woman decide personally. It develops into a measurable trend among people and that affects more than the two parents deciding to abort. It's like voting, or buying crypto. Yeah it's personal and you made up your mind but saying it only affects you is just short sighted and ignorant. And this is from someone who supports abortion and is a huge fan of eugenics

>> No.5028843

>>5027274
>kill
>kid
It's neither killing nor a kid

By this logic, masturbating is genocide

>> No.5028865

>>5028676

Who said I was denying someones right to choose, either? Im not anti abortion just because I think aborting a kid will permanently affect the course of history for humans at large. I do think that the ones who are aborted are more likely to impact it in a negative way, so I support it.

>> No.5028870

>>5027520
>a fetus is sentient
gr8b8m8

>>>/church/

>> No.5028881

>>5028104
You realize the population of the human race is already well past the point of no return? Discussion of overpopulation will become very common in the next decade, as people realize it grows at an exponential rate and natural resources become less prevalent.

>> No.5028890

>>5028237
Better abort discreetly or her dad is going to honor kill her.

>> No.5028918

>>5028881
human species*

And yes, Indians and Africans are breeding too much. That's not on us

>> No.5028927

>>5026460
Something you should consider
What if this is your only chance at having a kid? Say you abort and something happens where you can't have kids anymore. How will it you feel?

Another thing. What if she leaves you and keeps the kid? Will you be okay with another guy raising your kid?

Don't listen to what we fucken say.

>> No.5028931

>>5026784
Why are you here then? It looks like you've already decided

>> No.5028933

>>5028820
No I realize it sets a precedent and a trend, my point was that the effects on society are much to vague to transform it into an actual argument against the freedom of choice between two individuals.
Recycling is also a bad equivalent because you can measure that more easily than you can measure the effects of abortion.

Also it is unfair to assume that someone who decides on abortion is unfit to be parents.
I consider it a wise decision to abort if you are not economically stable, or mature enough to raise a kid.
I don't consider them unfit to be parents at a later stage in life.
They are, of course, idiots who weren't careful enough.

Basically, if you let a kid be born into the world when you aren't economically stable then you deserve a bullet or two for being so god damn dumb.
Set aside your own feelings and realize that a detrimental life you are giving your kid compared to if you aborted and tried again after years of preparation.

>> No.5028935

>>5026583
>21 is way young for a kid
Nice try, Shlomo

>> No.5028938

>>5028761
Seriously you people don't want to give gov handouts because people are lazy pieces of shit and don't deserve it, but these same people can raise children? wow

>> No.5028957

>finish uni
>employ your parents/grandparents

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>>5026460
>What's the smartest thing to do?
How about don't fuck without protection. But that's too late now. So take responsibility instead of murdering your way out, faggot.

Consult parents, both yours and hers to see if they'll help. At this point, you're past being a prideful independent stronk prick and have to realize that you need help from adults. Real adults, not a dumbshit manchildren adult wannabe faggot who consults an anonymous message board for something as serious as this.

Don't expect it to be an easy sail even with help. Your time as a child is gone. Time to man up and be an adult.

>> No.5028985

>>5028938
Yeah, I'm sure that kid from the trailer trash parents that live on handouts is going to be a nice addition to society.

>> No.5029003

>>5028865
Most people don't do anything to contribute to society besides enrichen shareholders by working wageslave jobs and buy material things that help the economy. So worst case scenario is some other shmuck will manage a home depot and buy doritos.

>> No.5029005

>>5028315
man, thanks. I'm 26 now, but had a lot of BS in life so far. Want kids someday, but no way yet.

This post gives me hope!

>> No.5029022

>>5028799

You're right, it isn't really much of a paradox, because most of it boils down to logistics.

>Kid has 50% chance of dying
>Kid will take care of you when you're old
>Many hands make light work
>Have 7 kids so you can raise 3
>world gets generally better with medicine
>have too many kids and not enough food
>Countries give handouts for humanitarian reasons so never develop sustainable infrastructure and just have more children, immediately increasing resource demand

Basically, fuck third world countries, we need to give them fishing poles instead of fish

>> No.5029033

>>5026784
Do you buy every shitcoin biz tells you to? Why the hell would you listen them about your family life then? Most of these cowards are too busy jerking off to traps and buying hookers with their gainz when their not glued to their screen. You love your girl and want your kid. Youre doing the right thing. Itll be hard but worth it, especially if you dont listen to these mongs.

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>>5026460
your fucked haha a condom is so cheap. you made a very expensive mistake. you just got rekt. you done goofed, soy boy. should've thought twice about it. life has many traps and you just fell for one of 'em (the most dangerous one). your a living meme now HAHAAHAHAHA how does it feel? hope dat cunt was worth it. now ur life is pretty much over. you a LITERAL pussy slave now HARHAR. sucks to be you right now.

>> No.5029109

I was in a similar situation. Everything will work itself out. There's much more to life than money and having a kid will change most people for the better. Fear is normal. Just realize if she has the child this chick will be in your life for the next 20 years whether you like it or not. Make the best of it

>> No.5029118

>>5029065
seriously how do guys keep falling for this. like you could have jerked it real quick instead of sacrificed your entire future

>> No.5029161

>>5026482
/thread

>> No.5029189

Don't quit school or you'll get trapped in a shit job. just make sure you're on path to something that will actually land you a job before the child is old enough to start school

>> No.5029254

>>5026784
cuck

>> No.5029264

>>5026460
Push her down a flight of stairs

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5029285

>>5026506
don't kill me daddy

>> No.5029286

>>5026460
try this:
1. marry her
2. have the kid
3. get your degree


or, you could be a boomer and:
1. get an abortion
2. ruin her emotionally for life
3. care only about yourself
4. say, "fuck it, I'm a Boomer!"

>> No.5029315

>>5029022
>Countries give handouts for humanitarian reasons
But also keep in mind by donating goods they don't create their own infrastructure and we eliminate future competition.

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5029355

>>5029286
You left out the part about importing 3rd worlders to replace his aborted kid.

>> No.5029361

>>5029286
>ruin her emotionally for life
What kind of fucking cuck reasoning is this? She is an adult too.
>"It is the man's fault that the woman gets depressed when she agreed to an abortion"
Jesus fuck

>> No.5029388

>>5028933
>my point was that the effects on society are much to vague to transform it into an actual argument

I wasn't arguing a point with it, as I have said I actually agree with you. I was just invalidating your statement that it only affects you and your wife. I don't know what the outcome would be, nobody does. I'd like to see a study done with the general lives of children whose parents considered aborting vs those who didnt. It's a big quantum cloud of the future, and effectively it boils down to a personal choice as to whether you feel you're comfortable enough in your own life to properly raise a child who will irreversibly affect the world. It is a completely personal choice that no other person *should* be able to prevent because having a child is not inherently bad. Then for fun let's say you had a fetus with a disease that would cost 50k a year in tax dollars for healthcare if it were born. Then should other people have a say? What if your wife was bearing the Antichrist? For an ordinary pregnancy there's no way of determining the outcome except for perhaps the indicator that the parents were considering abortion in the first place which probably correlates somehow to crime or lower IQ or lower quality of life [citation needed]. I really don't know what I'm getting at here anymore. Oh well.

>Basically, if you let a kid be born into the world when you aren't economically stable then you deserve a bullet or two for being so god damn dumb.

I'm glad we agree.

>Set aside your own feelings and realize that a detrimental life you are giving your kid compared to if you aborted and tried again after years of preparation.

My girlfriend told me the other day she wanted to take a pregnancy test because we had unprotected sex while she was between pills. I didn't panic but we both made it very clear that we were going to abort. At 24 and 21 and in post secondary we are not in a position to be raising a child. We agreed she would abort.

>> No.5029403

>>5027973
# >>5027995 #
>>5028024 #
>>5028211 #
>>5028487 #
Didn't know cumskins have such weak genes. I'm indian and my cousins who were born after 40 are hyperintelligent with superstrength

>> No.5029409

>>5028203
I don't care tho

I didn't even hug her after. Inb4 edgleord

>> No.5029414

>>5029361
>She is an adult too
Women are children, emotionally.

>the refugees are suffering, they need our help!

>> No.5029444

>>5028237
>No I'm white she's arab

you Australian?

>> No.5029448

>>5028203
Cuck

>> No.5029469

>>5027432
Says the biological waste that can’t even produce a child

Get off my board

>> No.5029485

>>5028961

Unfortunately fucking without protection is one of our strongest instincts and stupids are gonna stupid. Rather than telling a borderline schizo homeless woman to be more responsible, just kill her stupid kid and save yourself all the hassle. You either have to be proactive FOR them or have the option of being reactive, because letting idiots have a bunch of kids who are going to beat the fuck out of your smart glasses kid in school or rape your daughter. Is that what you want? For a little gangster that should have been aborted to rape your daughter?

>> No.5029523

>>5028123
Best post ITT

>> No.5029591

>>5029003

Maybe where you live that's what it looks like. Go to Detroit and the idea of an average life will look very different for you. Instead of hoping to manage a home depot after moving up from your cash register job, you're hustling to feed your KIDS hoping to make it home alive.

Fun fact: low income areas have the highest abortion rates! woo!

>> No.5029637

IM LATE AS FUCK BUT OP FOR FUCK SAKE DONT TELL ANYBODY ABOUT YOUR MONEY NOT A FUCKING SOUL AND KEEP IT INVESTED BY THE TIME THE LITTLE GUY IS BORN YOU WONT HAVE TO WORRY AS MUCH

>> No.5029687

>>5029315

The question becomes, is it more profitable to give them handouts and reap the benefits of being a further developed society, or is it more profitable to let them develop and drive competition, and cut off donations? Are the donations less than the amount of money we would lose by having them compete with us? Honestly most of that has to do with what the world actually looks like and what industry would look like in those countries after modernization. No idea.

>> No.5029710

>>5028104
>Abortion is the most selfish act a person can commit
Giving birth to a child in this extremely cruel world without the child's consent is the most selfish act a person can commit.

>> No.5029730

>>5029388
No I get your point, I defaulted to the extreme side.
>My girlfriend told me the other day she wanted to take a pregnancy test because we had unprotected sex while she was between pills. I didn't panic but we both made it very clear that we were going to abort. At 24 and 21 and in post secondary we are not in a position to be raising a child. We agreed she would abort.
You and your girlfriend sound like smart, reasonable people who don't immediately short-circuit at the thought of a baby.
You will guaranteed be a good father in the future since you realize your position.

>> No.5029737

>>5028237
troll thread

>> No.5029738

>>5026460
Marry her and get life going.

>> No.5029782

>>5029737
This. Arab women are disgusting.

>> No.5029846

>>5026534
Move half into ARK and the other half into cardano.

>> No.5029850

>>5028843
>what is a zygote?

>> No.5029883

>>5029710

t. Retarded liberal.

>> No.5029886

>>5026460
if youre white then have the kid but if youre black, get an abortion anon. get the abortion, do the right thing.

>> No.5030056

I want to marry her you fucktards. She is the love of my life

>> No.5030061

>>5029730

Thank you anon, I appreciate that.

>> No.5030072

woah, i just so happen to have a handy flow chart for this exact situation

Are you both white? -> have the kid, stay together, raise it and be a happy family. go to church even if you don't care much for it. get a golden retriever for christmas when kid turns 8.

no -> abortion

>> No.5030097

>>5030056
She's an Arab (if she even exists)

>> No.5030101

>>5028237
HAHAHAHA

Her dad is going to kill her, then you. You better fucking marry her quick, or abort

>> No.5030150

>>5030097
Yes she is. so what??

>> No.5030173

>>5030101
If he lives in a civilised country where the average person is not an 80 IQ sandnigger then he shouldn't worry about it.

>> No.5030289

>>5030056

Then ask her

>Do you plan on bringing our baby to term?
>No
Now you just have to deal with having a girlfriend who either killed your child or saved your life depending on how you look at it.

>Yes
>Then will you marry me so we can be a family? You're the love of my life and I wouldn't want it any other way

Clearly you don't give a fuck either way because you're asking /biz/ for advice so just ask her what SHE wants and have plans for each answer.

>> No.5030295

>>5028237
>>5030072
hot, any pics?

>> No.5030412

>>5030150

What country is she from, if you don't mind my asking? I'm Kuwaiti myself, I can tell you for real that if my sister got pregnant out of wedlock (by a white guy no less) she'd be disowned at best, or killed. Other Arabs aren't so uptight though, e.g. the lebbos

>> No.5030453

>>5029444
>>5030412
seppo + lebbo = ?

>> No.5030627

>>5030412
morocco

>> No.5030683

>>5030627
post pics
of her feet

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>>5026460

Have the kid if you're white or asian. ( the good parts of asia)

Have an abortion if you're anything else.

>> No.5030843

>>5026460
I was in the same situation years ago. We moved in together and I realized his was my one chance to have a happy life. She was the one. I married her and worked really hard in my 20’s to climb the corporate ladder in IT sales. We have two kids now and are comfy money wise. If you love her and are convicted she’s the one than nut up and make the commitment. Live a regret free life.

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>>5026784
9 out of 10 chance you're going to be poor and bitter forever. From here on you'll be constantly worrying about money, the stress of responsibility will make you angry, frustrated and depressed. The emotions cloud your judgement and you snowball bad decision on top of bad decisions until you resign your ambitions completely and live only in hopes your kid will do better than you.
Your monkey brain is wired to reproduce and protecting offspring, but it's short-sighted. You can do those things much better in a few years when you're prepared. You've jerked off millions of children into paper tissue, your girlfriend has aborted once a month for the past ten years. This is just that with extra steps.
>Be my girlfriend's dad
>College student in his early 20s
>Impregnate his girlfriend
>Abortion illegal
>My gf is born
>Barely finish his degree
>Be offered a job in a big city, can't leave because need parents' help to take care of the kid
>End up in dead end job with no prospects
>Develop bad drinking habit
>Ruin his liver
>Last year he turned 43, doctors gave him 10 years more tops
>Gf's a nice girl, but very dependent. Over the last two years we've been dating, she shifted that dependence from her dad to me
>Dad is severely depressed, one day lashes out on her that he is dying and he gave everything up for her and she seems to love me more
>I sympathize with the guy 100% but end up telling her he's wrong and his decisions are his own and she isn't at fault for being born

Beware, op. Right now people talk of responsibility, of manning up and doing what's right. But guess what? Whenever someone you sacrificed a lot for does not keep their end of the bargain, all you get is a "people are like that, there's nothing you can do", and no divine justice will give you what you deserve.

You'll have kids. You'll take care of your gf. But be smart about it and do it when the time's right

>> No.5030918

>>5026784
Do it! These faggots are so afraid of struggle and inconvenience. They just want you to watch Netflix and relax your whole life. If you marry and be a father you will have real fulfillment and real struggle/life. Listen to the Fatherland podcast for more advice.

>> No.5030954

>>5026460
Have the kid, it’ll set you straight. Don’t take advice from people without kids, they never had to think of anyone other than themselves.

>> No.5030969

>>5027807
This guy gets it.

>> No.5031049

>>5026460
why the fuck are you even here op
set your shit straight first niggerc

>> No.5031165

>>5031049
he's shilling ark

>> No.5031207

>>5028961
>don't have an abortion
>convert to Islam instead
Nice meme

>> No.5031397

>>5026784
You already decided then, no need to ask. Make the extra effort and don't drop out, you'll be fine whatever you choose to do

>> No.5031566

>>5030885
>Right now people talk of responsibility, of manning up and doing what's right. But guess what? Whenever someone you sacrificed a lot for does not keep their end of the bargain, all you get is a "people are like that, there's nothing you can do", and no divine justice will give you what you deserve.

QFT, I like this a lot.

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>>5029403

>> No.5031694

>>5026568
Kids do not cost $1k a month...

>> No.5031789

Kids cost $1000/mo in the same way that dinner costs $100 per meal.

It can, if you're an idiot.

>> No.5031847

>>5027432
Go kill yourself faggot

>> No.5031850

>older gf before hag age
hot

>> No.5031934

>>5027507
DEGENERATE DEGENERATE DEGENERATEDEGENERATE DEGENERATE DEGENERATE DEGENERATE

>> No.5032288

>>5026631
those monsters.

>> No.5033019

>>5028721
That's the consequence of having a one night stand.

>> No.5033034

>>5027483
only actual good advice in this thread desu

>> No.5033101

>>5026506
abortion is murder so if youre cool being a selfish baby murdering cunt then go ahead and convince her to kill it then off yourself for being a subhuman nigger

>> No.5033140

>>5026460
ignore the degenerates telling you to get an abortion. you don't want to live the rest of your life knowing that you murdered your own child. this is a gift from god anon

>> No.5033182

>>5030885
>your girlfriend has aborted once a month for the past ten years
now THIS is autism

>> No.5033281

>>5027483
This if you're not aborting. You're getting your life changed entirely, but if it makes you feel better that's objectively the only reason we exist.

Or go back in time a month and buy condoms and bitcoin.

>> No.5033303

jesus fuck this board is full of blue pilled selfish fucking pussies. I hope none of you faggots ever fucking breed because your bloodline and stupidity needs to end with you.
>a fetus isn a human

you dumb niggers life begind at conception. every other argument is subjective.

>hurrr durrr a fetus isnt a human

yes, it is. its like arguing that a child and an adult are a different speciee because they are at a different stage of development.

fetuses are humans. abortion is murder, if you are for it then just accept you are a murdering, lazy piece of shit and stop trying to convince yourself otherwise

>> No.5033332

>>5033140
its sad cause what youre saying is so supportive until you mention god. who cares if god is real or not and whether the fact that it is a gift if he is real? has nothing to do with anything.

>> No.5033397

>>5026460
literally an abortion OP.
Having a kid will set you back over a decade financially speaking. Just have the abortion and promise her that youll have shit tons of kids later when you both can afford it together.
Don't forget to be super supportive to her for the next few weeks after she gets it. MAKE SURE YOU ABORT THAT BITCH PRONTO

>> No.5033427

Keep in mind OP, most of tehse people are autistic NEETs who literally can't think from anyone else's perspective or know what compassion is.

A wagecucking life is fine, as long as you're happy with it. Find something you like, be proud of what you're doing, and stay healthy, and you'll be happy, whether you're rich or not.

You can definitely have a child in your age range. My sister has 2, is 24 y/r living in the US, Washington state. It's doable. It's hard in the beginning, but if she can do it as well as she does, without any formal education and being overall a very average person, you can too.

If you're happy with your girlfriend, and you intend to marry her and keep her, then you two are on the way to a happy life.
Have a long talk about both of your goals in life, the things you want to do, to see and experience. Consider whether you can do it when you're old. Maybe they can be done with a kid or on small vacations where the kid can be babysat. Consider your options, and chose something you both agree on, not something that one of you pushes the other into agreeing on.

I wish both of you the best of luck. Be happy.

>> No.5033435 [DELETED] 

>>5027822
> we have no doubt in our minds we would abort if she got pregnant.
Ignoring the obvious problem of trying to get child at 35, I got news for ya.. when an egg is fertilized, it REALLY puts a spin on woman's hormones. Expecting her to keep such (unspoken, to boot?) screenshots at that state of mind has a quite nasty probability on firing back on you.

>> No.5033450

>>5033303
the potential for life is ALWAYS there

a sperm cell is a life. Good job creating a holocaust everytime you jerk off

>> No.5033470

>>5027470
lol

>> No.5033491

>>5029710
Children can't consent you fucking pedophile

>> No.5033588
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>>5027483

This OP. I know its scary but congrats on the baba. Things will be ok.

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>>5033450
>hurrrrrrrrr if you leave a sperm it will turn into a human

>> No.5033679

>>5027691
This.

>> No.5033818

>>5026460
threads like this make me grateful that im a literally kissless virgin. i havent even hugged a girl desu

>> No.5033936

Good on you anon. Live modestly, kids don't need their own room or to grow up with a nice car, they just need to be loved. Finish your education if it's going to get you more money, if you are getting a degree in some kind of liberal wankery then drop out. Make sure your woman understands, because women are often very stupid, that you will be poor for a while and there is nothing wrong with that, and that if she leaves you noone worth a damn will want to touch a single mother and her child will hate her for robbing her of a father.

>> No.5033966

>>5033303
>organisms maintain homeostasis, are composed of cells, undergo metabolism, can grow, adapt to their environment, respond to stimuli, and reproduce.

this is the current definition used for determining if something is alive. Variations may occur but the main parts are the same. A fetus is incapable of reproduction, adapting to it's environment (will die instantly if taken out of the body or if significant changes occur within the womb) or responding to stimuli in any direct manner, therefore they are not alive.
You can also go by the medical PoV, in that until they have no fully developped brain, they can posses no brain activity and are therefore clinically dead. Same for the heart and most other organs.

So all in all, until a couple of months into the pregnancy, you're not committing murder, you're simply not allowing something that could become a human do so. Just because the potential is there doesn't mean it's a human, only a religious moron would have reason to believe otherwise.

>> No.5034595

>>5026506
This

>> No.5034695

>>5027365
Hey OP, my bro in laws still lives with his rents at 35 and he just had his kid last year. Why don't you do that too? Unless you're the "Living on my own" type of person. Then you are screwed.

>> No.5034777

>>5026460


Anon, I was in the same situation as you at 21. Except all I had was $200 to my name.

I made the decision to keep the kid. I got myself into a trade. Worked 90hrs every week while my girl stayed home.

Guess What? Now I'm 31.
Working much less
Master in my trade
2 kids
Married to same girl
Brand new car
700k house. Biggest on the street. No neighbors infront or behind.

I made a vow to work my ass off to support my family.

Sometimes in the game of life you don't want to set a stop loss. You have to work hard and dig yourself out.

You can be a little bitch and abort. Or you can man up.

>> No.5035596

>>5034777
Chad fucks your wife while you're at work

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>>5026460
>hes 20
>shes 21

Lmao you gay? Shes literally manlier than you.
You should have preggod a 14-16 at that age (you shouldnt preg, but since youre a retard you would either way)

End yourself, literally.

>> No.5035757

>>5026460
are you white?
is she white?
is babby white?

if you answered 'yes' to all three questions, HODL my friend. You are doing the right thing, though many people would try to convince you the opposite. Also apply for ANY and EVERY benefit/welfare you can get.

>> No.5036702

>>5027483
This. Everyone who thinks that wifing down as a 20 year old is a bad move hasn't gotten laid enough to get bored of it. I deeply regret not marrying my first gf because as you get older, the quality of available women drops dramatically. This is your one chance, be a good dad.

>> No.5036801

>>5028301
Travelling and slaying sluts gets pretty old pretty fast, or maybe I'm just spoiled. Whenever I go to different countries, all I really want is a loyal wifey to hold hands with.

>> No.5036843

>>5026460
Murder-suicide.

>> No.5036989

>>5029361
>implying motherhood isn't the highest honor a woman can receive
keep drinking the tap goyim

>> No.5037089

Never go into debt for anything and you will have a good life as a millionaire.

No debt. No mortgage, must pay cash. Max retirement contributions.
Millionaire.

>> No.5037093

>>5030289
He wasn't asking for advice on what to do about the child, he was asking for financial advice on how best to lay the groundwork for a family with his current assets. Then spergs went full robot mode on him telling him to kill the kid or run from his girlfriend.

>> No.5037131

>>5031207
>implying Islam isn't an unstoppable force that will spread the word of Allah throughout the stars

>> No.5037188

Abortion, make her believe its her choice then leave. If you want a family, start investing in smart choices.
>which is smarter?
>2% return on investment guaranteed or 25% returns with 50% chance of failure?
Or sell the baby

>> No.5037192

>>5037131
If I had to convert to anything it'd be Judaism. Jews BTFO Muslims all the time t.b.h

>> No.5037218

>>5037192
Dont shill your shitcoin.

>> No.5037282

>>5037218
Invest in the shekel, goyim

>> No.5037307

>>5037282
You’re a goyim. But you can take hormones cut your dick off and marry me. We need new genes in the family.

>> No.5037390

>>5037307
American foreign policy: the post

>> No.5037475

>>5026568
Biggest lie in the entire world. Explain how the poor "minorities" in california are able to sustain +1 kid every 9 months without a job?

You've been swindled.

>> No.5037527

>>5027172
Underrated

>> No.5037551

>>5026460
Anon don't listen to all these faggots. A child is a blessing and 20 is the perfect age to have your first one. Its only in the modern era that people are brainwashed to think that 20 is too young. Keep your money in a solid crypto for the long term and learn a trade to make ends meet in the short term. Willingly embrace fatherhood as the next stage of life. Best of luck to you

>> No.5037552

>>5037282
>using buggy monotheism_1.0
Islam appeals to me as it is diametrically opposed to 21st century feminism. Europe will be swallowed by the rising tide, as will America in time.It is primed to become the world religion due to it's strict traditionalism, which promotes healthy family units that will out-breed the aging westcucks.

>> No.5037604

>>5033101
>being here
>being a moralfag
Ruin my life or kill a baby now so it doesnt live with two shitty parents

>> No.5037700

Unrelated but my girlfriend is bulimic, she told me yesterday.

How do I convince her to seek medical help with this? She's very stubborn and doesn't like going to doctors or talking to people besides me.

>> No.5037802

Have the kid OP.

Becoming a parent is one of life's biggest joys. For real.

You have to work hard but it is rewarding .

>> No.5037915

>>5027309
While I respect the morals of pro-lifers and understand where they are coming from I am pro-choice simply because I value the autonomy of adults more than the potential lives of unborn children.
A fetus might survive birth and then might survive to adulthood and then might become a functioning member of society but those are just potentialities not promises, adults are greater losses since they have already survived long enough to reproduce and it would take more time and resources to replace one of them then it would to replace an newborn and while the fetus theoretically deserves a right to bodily integrity it is still only hypothetically a sapient human and functioning adult, therefore in my pov the parents rights to autonomy rank higher than the right of the child to life.

>> No.5037917

>>5037552
Yeah but still, Jews > Muslims t.b.h. All Muslim groups which wage Holy war in the name of Islam are essentially Jew/Anglo puppets anyway

>> No.5037943

>>5037917
And whose puppets are anglos, huh?

>> No.5038020

>>5028237
>No I'm white she's arab

L O N D O N

>> No.5038048

>>5037915
>adult more valuable
>investing in a depreciating asset
I bet you’re one of those dumbasses whi buys a Lamborghini

>> No.5038056

>>5037943
Anglo referring to the US/UK/Anglosphere is what I mean.

>> No.5038088

>>5026460
How much uni have you got left?

Perhaps finish uni then join the military as an officer?

>> No.5038122

>>5028237
At least if she cheats on you you can just throw acid on her face

>> No.5038155

>>5038048
Babies are cheap adults have required 18 years or more of investment and man hours to produce.

>> No.5038189

>>5026460

abortion is murder. live with your actions. You fucked up, live with it.

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>>5026533
5.1 LTC

>> No.5038265

Since we're all millionaires on this thread: Economically speaking, how much would you pay for the girl you knocked up to get an abortion? $250,000 is the average cost of a child over 18 years, I was thinking around $100,000 would be the max I'd pay for an abortion, anything higher and I'd say fuck it and raise the kid to be a money making machine teaching them finance and stocks from age 5 and up.

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>>5026460
Have the child, leave her and go get more women preggers and do not under any circumstances get married to one. If you do happen to marry one make sure she can receive alimony before you leave her for a new one.

>> No.5038308

>>5035596
He fucks Chad's wife, his trade is gigolo.

>> No.5038466

>>5037802
Fuck off faggot I wish I was never born

I'm not imposing existence on anyone

>> No.5039024

>>5026460

You fucked up anon. She was meant to be a quick pump & dump, but now she is a liability that you must hodl. Smh

>> No.5039176

>>5028721
Damn, that is pretty solid. Were you suicidal?

>> No.5039214

>>5037917
the jew fears the shia

>> No.5039560

>>5026460
>i accidently made my girl pregnant
What you mean is your girl deliberately got pregnant. Women do have agency anon and I very much doubt she didn't know that sex=pregnancy if precautions not taken. Sounds like she's stealing your life from you, unlucky bud.

>> No.5039847

>>5028104
>there are people who unironically believe children are a precious gift
Meanwhile the earth is almost at carrying capacity and showing the side effects of overpopulation.
Breed, breed, and breed some more, remember - resources are infinite.

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>>5026506
People who genuinely hold this belief are worse than poorfags.

Be a man OP, take care of your child.

I had a similar situation except we were both 18. We both still made it through college, we own a house and have good jobs, I still have money to invest in crypto. And being a dad is pretty under rated. There's a real satisfaction in being a good parent and not fucking up like yours did.

>> No.5040590

>>5026460
Trigger your stop loss now, i.e abortion.