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>hitting mid 30s
>wasted all youth doing nothing productive and have nothing to show for it
>no experience, no assets, no money, no connections, no skills
how do you find energy to turn this chronic lack of motivation around and hop on the sigma male grindset success train?
has anyone turned it around
is it adhd? is it low test? is it learned helplessness?
there is barely any reason to apply effort in society in this day and age and zero motivation to do so
brain reward dopamine pathways fried fr fr

>> No.50111125

same. i couldnt even imagine trying to care about that stuff

i would rather just be homeless than apply any effort

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>>50111111
checked fr no cap

>> No.50111159

>>50111111
checked.

>> No.50111165

>>50111111
Big heckin check

>> No.50111181

give (lis)dexamph a go

>> No.50111192

>>50111111
>sigma male grindset
>success
pick one. the entire phrase is a massive cope for defeat and being forced to conform.

>> No.50111194

>>50111111
Check. Remember a couple years ago the manosphere was trying to make the sigma male seem cool. Kek... it's not cool. I have all those qualities and know it's not. It's just being disconnected and not caring. It's not cool at all.

>> No.50111209

>>50111111
Sounds like laziness to me. I spent my 20s studying and improving myself despite having a fucked up and disadvantaged upbringing. Not saying I've "made it" or whatever, but there's little excuse for having no skills. The acquisition of skill and knowledge requires discipline, and you can't buy discipline, nor be given it. It comes from within you. Everyone has the ability to learn new skills.

>> No.50111212

>>50111111
Nice digits, checked.

>> No.50111246

>>50111111
>is it adhd? is it low test? is it learned helplessness?

Stop blaming your condition on these "modern" mental problems.these are all fake to sell more drugs
You are just lazy

>> No.50111383

>>50111111
It takes effort to change but it gets easier.

>> No.50111406

>>50111383
How do you change from a 27 khv with no life experience into a productive person?

>> No.50111436

>>50111406
As I said it really takes quite an effort, but here's some of my list for you.
1. Clean your room
2. Go outside, walk, run or jog. It really doesn't matter to do some productive task if your health is deteriorating. Invest in your health and there's a lot of free options.
3. Rekindle with your friends and build back lost connections, pay the favor back whenever you can.
4. This is frowed upon but take the wagie route.

>> No.50111742

nice sexpartite, just be yourself. no i'm just kidding, lie, cheat, do whatever you must, even kill. this world rewards bad behavior and shits on good behavior, this is the sole reason why i'll hero myself and take as many kikes down with me.

>> No.50111776

>>50111111
>how do you find energy to turn this chronic lack of motivation around and hop on the sigma male grindset success train?
Unironically, pure necessity. If it's turn super saiyan mode on vs. selling your ass on the streets your body will hijack your "free will" and just start grinding instead of watching anime and playing vidya, unless you truly despise yourself in which case good luck lmao.

I literally don't even find consoomerism enjoyable anymore. I just cycle between periods of extreme coffee induced productivity and burnout crash listening to motivating music until I pick up again.

>> No.50111814

>>50111111
>>50111192
>tfw
you're a fucking retard for never taking risks
vid related
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DFqV3CSashY
Michael Saylor is proof that being a sigma male on the grindset and having a gigachad attitude will lead you to success
YOU don't lead IT, IT leads YOU
You can't force yourself to suddenly be a sigma gigachad, you have to surrender yourself to the grindset, and the grindset will lead to "success" or will grind you into nothing if you resist it
You must believe in it 100%
you must trust it
you must have faith
if you falter, if you doubt, if you don't give it your all, you will accomplish nothing and remain a coward who never takes risk
Taking risks is what separates sigmas from faggots
Faggots will look at failure and see it as evidence that sigmas don't exist. Sigmas won't look at failure, they will live with it, make peace with it, don't let failure stop the grind, and keep moving forward until they succeed
If you don't know this at the very least, ask yourself if you even want to succeed at anything or are just bullshitting yourself, you need to make it clear what it is you want from life, and then do what needs to be done to obtain it, by whatever means you desire. All the morals and ethics and other bullshit is your choice, be true to yourself and the rest will fall into place

>> No.50111922

>>50111111
Checked.
Try water fasting and darkness retreats to reset your dopamine and get huge motivation.

>> No.50111999

>>50111436
My room is already clean. If anything thats like a sign of too much free time and lack of productivity.
I'm already sub 10% bodyfat and bench 315 at 170lbs and do cardio.
I've had 3 jobs in the past 5 years but nothing really changed.
Women never show any desire in me nor reciprocate advances.
And my life just seems like a slow motion film with nothing in it, a kind of extremely shallow stupid existence.
I'm so tired man. I'm still stuck in the phase of a 14 year old boy except I dont have any desire to even do the typical shit they do (weed/gaming/porn).

>> No.50112037

>>50111999
You're missing meaning. Your imagination is not strong enough to imagine a future so powerfully desirable you have no choice but to run towards it. If you want to unlock the ultimate grindset you have to flip a certain switch on inside you that can never be turned off. You have to love life with all your heart until you feel the blood pumping in your chest.

>> No.50112065

>>50111111
>1pbtid get bot demooooooraliioiizerrrrrr
Fucking gay

>> No.50112074
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50112074

You have to fall in love with your own potential.

>> No.50112105

>>50112037
Well how am I supposed to love life when crucial life experiences just seem to miss me despite trying 10x harder than most people? I'm considering the possibility of just being genetically defective which would explain the lack of ability to find mates or be productive. Evolution is brutal as fuck.

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>>50111111
motivation/discipline/grindset/etc are the tools of slave drivers to keep masses of npcs toiling to the grave.
what do you like doing? if everyone else on earth vanished and you could exist entirely for free, what would you be doing?
if your answer is "i dunno," take time to try new things until you find something you enjoy that could also potentially make you money. also, if you're so out of touch with yourself that you don't know what you like and what you want out of your own life, that implies you had a pretty chaotic childhood where your primary caretakers didnt give a shit about you and the needs of others were placed above your own. for that, i'm truly sorry.
once you find something you actually enjoy doing, you wont need motivation or discipline or david goggins screaming at you that youre a bitch if you sleep in past 6am to stick with it until youre skilled enough at it to become a professional. all the pieces will fall into place on their own.
even if it takes you until youre 50, thats a solid 20-30 years of meaningful life, which is priceless.

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>>50112105
We love life because it's ours uniquely. We love life because we want to see where our true boundaries are. We even love our suffering because it's part of who we are. You are so focused on finding a mate and being productive so you can achieve and impress others, but in the process you forgot love.

Love and autism is the most powerful force in the universe.

>> No.50112188

>>50112074
beautifully said anon
if only some anons took the chance to wonder about just how much potential they really have

>> No.50112191

>>50111111
diet, train, do things that make you happy

>> No.50112226

>>50112155
The only thing that matters in the physical world is power. Whether its power through wealth or through reproduction or through ideas. I can actually see weakness in people (myself included) in real time... clear signs of their (and my own) dysfunction and imminent doom, signified by objective reality. Its like watching a weak struggling calf among a horde of hungry preying lions. The worsr part is the calf has no idea of its imminent doom, not even a slight bit of awareness. The worst part is that I think it might be genetic and therefore unchangeable.

>> No.50112239

>>50111111
well its still not too late anon

>> No.50112278

>>50112226
Love is a power like no other. I hope you understand one day.

>> No.50112308

>>50112278
Not in the worldly world man.
Here only physical mechanics matter.

>> No.50112314

>>50112226
>The only thing that matters in the physical world is power
In a meta-strat minmaxing kinda way, yeah
But does power matter to YOU?

>> No.50112361

>>50112314
I just want to fuck and impregnate as many beautiful women as possible. I understand how difficult it is in a world of female liberation + sexless economic zone societies + meh genetics. Some men (with good genetics or resources) basically get eveeything. Rest of men jusy get the scraps. I domt want to hear about love after that.

>> No.50112385

>>50112308
I don't think you understand anon.
Love is not some metaphysical concept.
Love is something you DO.
It's like breathing.
It is a literal physical mechanic.

>> No.50112415

>>50112361
I was exactly like you a while ago. You'll soon find that this mindset is simply too exhausting to hold onto long term. Believe it or not being productive is wayyyyy less mentally taxing than analyzing your whole existence through a Machiavellian lense. Eventually you'll find something independent of people that makes you happy and gives your life meaning. You don't have to totally give up your ghenghis khan impulses but they'll hum quietly in the background after a while.
Good luck friend.

>> No.50112461

>>50111111
For me, in order of importance:
>Go back into the Catholic fold and be Christ-pilled
>No porn, no dick beating
>Gym 2-3 times a week
>Eat a lot more meat and veggies you cook yourself, cut out as much artificial foods as you can
That's it. Everything else; mentality, drive, ambition, risk-taking, personability; comes downstream.

>> No.50112497

>>50112361
Shut the fuck up you retard. This is probably the easiest time in human history to fuck multiple beautiful women.

>> No.50112500

>>50111776
that sounds like it works in your 20s, but mid thirties your body can't go super saiyan with the same energy levels anymore, the grind - crash - grind cycle will just turn into longer and longer crashes after some time

>> No.50112515

>>50112226
You sound like a retard parroting something you read online. God you're annoying

>> No.50112529

>>50112500
Yes and pure necessity itself doesn't last forever, once you're better off necessity as a motivating force vanishes. I'm not advocating it as an indefinite thing, but it can get you off your ass for a while. Once you can afford to, incorporating healthy activities is better for long-term success/stability.

>> No.50112537

>>50112497
Yeah. "Sexual Liberation" is a male hoodwink over susceptible women. But I think people already understand this generally, they just think "Chad" is the only one benefitting.

Weak people become power-obsessed. I see that in myself, too, it's not an externalized critique. So this is a guy who has apparently nothing going on who has obsessive fantasies of becoming an emperor with a harem of child-brides. Story as old as time.

>> No.50112549

>>50112497
Ye if you have a fuckton of money or status or literal god tier physical genetics. If you don't have anything then youre shit out of luck (sex/reproduction follows thr capitalistic/pareto principle concept).
All large economic zones (Japan/USA/Europe) indicate large amounts of sexless people, particularly among males.
>>50112415
You either succeed in life or you fail. I dont need to cope with being a failure its easier to just admit it and at least try to do somethinf about it. Theres just so few options thst its hard to get ahead.
>>50112385
When love becomes the way to win in this world I will love. Until then its not my problem, dont give a shit about it.

>> No.50112557

>>50111999
Probably a micronutrient deficiency. Eat organic liver from a pasture raised cow once a week, or consume wild caught cod liver oil 2 to 3 times a week. Also make sure most of the food you eat is organic. Avoid all seed oils. Sunbathe regularly, make sure you get sun on your penis and balls for about 15 to 30 minutes a day, if possible. Play a fun sport that provides a social aspect, like pickleball. Also consider getting a puppy or kitten, a living being to look after and care for.

>> No.50112564

>>50112537
And what exactly is wrong with that? Its the most natural course of action, your status is so low you basically canr even accomplish basic life things (a lot of modeen people cant, at least I'm aware of my impotence and weakness while they just bury their hand in the sand for the duration of their lives).

>> No.50112578

>>50112515
No man its 95% real life observation.
I can literally see the struggles and inadequacy in people in real time, lots of it in myself ofc.

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>>50112549
Love does not win IN this world.

Love wins this world itself.

>> No.50112597

!1!1!1!1!1!1!

>> No.50112603

>>50112557
I already do all those things except for the social sport. My physical health is good. I'm very fit. Havent been sick in 16 years. All health tests always end up being amazing.

>> No.50112606

The highest form of masculine energy is paternal i.e. fatherly energy.

OP you either need to start a family, or get a puppy/kitten to care for. Treat your family and/or pet with love and it will bring out a lot of positive things within you that have always been there, they simply needed additional reason to express.

>> No.50112639

>>50112606
Nah the meta is to just nut in as many women as possible and then bail on them. Parental attachment is for low testosterone males (scientificslly proven).

>> No.50112700

>>50112603
Excellent. I was doing all those things for a while except the social sport and I felt similar to what you described. A few months ago I started playing pickleball at a nearby park with a great community and I feel much better. Also I recently got a puppy as a gift for my gf and we've been having a blast with the little fella. Pehaps it will help, perhaps it won't, but might be worth trying.

>>50112639
That meta leads to psychological and societal issues. I accrued a triple digit body count by age 25, and I was wasn't really happy during that time. There were fun moments but those were interspersed between dreadful days and a general lack of fulfillment despite making great money, being healthy, and having a "good" social life. Meeting the right person can change all of that though. The other anon who is promoting love is right.

>> No.50112706

>>50112593
Brother you're posting anime girls and preaching about love. Have you ever been in a fight in your entire life? Ever do anything remotely exciting or dangerous? Put down your playstation controller and come back to reality, it will do you a ton of fsvors.

>> No.50112793

>>50112700
>>50112700
>That meta leads to psychological and societal issues.
No offence but I literally dont care about society. Theres a bunch of third world pimps walking around with drugged out teenage whores from what used to be a normal western community until it got torn apart by big money interests. Dont care about any of these people, its just a free for all to me.
So I look at all the normalfags and its just painful to me how unaware they are of reality, just lamely working their dogshit office jobs and walking their little dog every day while life just passes them by while r-selected dark triads just pass them by kek. Modern people are so detached from reality and in a fantasy world that its scary.

>> No.50112859

>>50111111
checked
>how do you find energy to turn this chronic lack of motivation around and hop on the sigma male grindset success train?
there's nothing "successful" about that, that's a dumb meme
>is it adhd?
no such thing, that's an invention of the authoritarian and drug-pushing pseudoscience designed to make sure the system of slavery doesn't fall apart by labeling and dumbing down kids who see through the government indoctrination camps for what they are
>is it low test?
definitely not, if anything it's a sign of high testosterone, only low testosterone simps still do anything "productive" in this clown world
>is it learned helplessness?
well, only to the extent that in this clown world, you are essentially helpless, because you are a human who has been born far away from the natural human habitat where you live with shelter and food growing all around you and become a fully self-sufficient person at a very young age, so in that sense you are like an animal being kept in a zoo, and have to rely on zookeepers for food and shelter
>there is barely any reason to apply effort in society in this day and age and zero motivation to do so
exactly
that is the truth, and that is why you do what you do
don't try to change, there's nothing wrong with you, it's the majority of society and the world which is batshit insane

>> No.50112891

>>50112557
>probably a deficiency, here, eat this toxic garbage
lmao, retards these days
>>50112603
if you eat all that toxic garbage, no wonder you're feeling bad
being "fit" and having "good physical health" is not a measure of real whole-body health involving all the bodily systems, and not becoming sick ever sounds more like a warning sign that something is severely wrong, if anything
"health tests" are also quite meaningless

>> No.50112904

>>50112564
Are you sure it’s not just us? I see norms having gfs all the time and an okay job. Granted that gf has been plowed by multiple man and the “career” is a joke. But still

>> No.50112911

>>50112891
What the fuck kinda double speak is this??
>war is peace
>if youre healthy youre sick

>> No.50112917

>>50111111
Checked. Do you lift anon?

>> No.50112918

>>50112706
animation is literally one of the purest forms of visual expression there is, and as such anime girls are one of the purest expressions of true femininity
and here you are, trying to put that down and urge people to unnaturally stimulate their adrenal stress response like some retarded adrenaline junkie
man, why are people so retarded these days?

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>>50112911
I'm saying that you're not actually healthy at all
like I just said:
>being "fit" and having "good physical health" is not a measure of real whole-body health involving all the bodily systems, and not becoming sick ever sounds more like a warning sign that something is severely wrong, if anything
look at pic related
you are deep in bottom right territory, most likely

>> No.50112963

>>50112918
I would be so horrifically embarassed if any male in my bloodline ever watched little cute anime girls in dresses. The animal part of my brain is repulsed by this utterly, like some kind of sick twisted abberation.

>> No.50112978

>>50112793

if this is the way u feel at 35 then there is no going back at this point. might as well embrace it and do something different and hope you achieve some sort of personal success that way than checking into the system now. start a youtube channel, find a hobby, learn a skill (language, code, pottery) try and become self sufficient that way. if ur 35 and havent made anything of yourself yet its unlikely you have any sort of natural abilities or skills so whatever u set ur mind too u need to stick with it and force yourself to learn or nothing is ever gonna change
>>50111111
nice digits

>> No.50112982

>>50112793
another "enlightened" person who thinks everyone else is a NPC while having achieved nothing in life and is depressed social outcast. You got some a lot mental issues to work through big man, wishing you all the best to getting back to a healthy mindset again

>> No.50112987

>>50111246
What he needs is discipline, not motivation. Discipline means even if you feel lazy and don't want to do it, you do it anyway.

>> No.50113013

>>50112963
>admits to being an adrenaline junkie
>admits to consuming toxic garbage
>admits to being mentally unwell
no wonder you don't have any idea what true femininity actually is, and that as a consequence you've got a totally distorted and deranged view of what masculinity is

>> No.50113048

>>50113013
Imagine telling any man before 1960 that his male lineage would be watching and jaxcking off to animated drawings of cartoon girls lol. We can always agree to disagree of course, but its just so frightening as to the level of detachement.
>>50112982
Never claimed special status, if anything I'm willing to admit failure status but luckily with at least a little self awareness.

>> No.50113072

>>50113048
first of all, due to how retarded you are, you don't even realize that there wasn't anything "better" about men in the past, except perhaps if you go back to the extremely distant past, many millions of years ago, when we still lived harmoniously in our natural habitat
secondly, it's definitely not about jacking off, that's you projecting your depraved and pathetic notion of masculinity onto animation, whereas watching expressions of pure femininity is something that elevates any real man to better understand what proper masculinity actually is
so no, there's no "agreeing to disagreeing" here, you don't get off the hook for being a dumb retard that easily

>> No.50113094

>>50111814
Amen my brother, now do you want to sing from the hymnal? Amaaaaaaaziiiiiiing Graaaaaaaace

>> No.50113109

>>50111111
Drop some acid and stare at yourself in a mirror for a few hours. Figure out who it is you want to be. Motivation and shit comes naturally when your on your right path, needing to psych yourself up and slam 4 redbulls in the morning just to give yourself enough energy to do your shitty (worthless) job isn't a "sigma male grindset", it's the mentality of a slave. If you're doing something you find fulfilling you're gonna have more motivation to do it, you'll be better at it, and you're gonna be way less stressed. What are you gonna do? Spend the next 20 years of your life speedrunning becoming a corporate zombie to catch up with people who decided to sell their soul at 20 instead of 35?
Good luck man.

>> No.50113120

>>50113072
I can literally see and feel the vast difference between older men and the present gens. I can feel the difference in grip strength, overall life experience, test production, mental power, etc. Most guys under 40 today are like little babies in comparison. Videogames, porn, weird fucked up food, extremely sedentary lifestyles, anime (anime girls l o l)... god fucking knows whats in the water supply honestly so many kids walking around with actual litrral bitch tits. Because these people are more effective for the big boys that run the economy.
Once you awaken and understand this kind of shit, its actually very frightening.

>> No.50113135

>>50113072
Don't worry, it's just gen x'ers jerking themselves off. They have a massive ego despite being the ones that raised gen z and always crying about how ignored their generation is

>> No.50113168

>>50111111
Eat more vegetables and less bread.
>vegetables are expensive
Check out wild herbs and tree leaves. There are a lot of them quite delicious. Also growing your own vegetable is easy, check out the compost gardening/"eden" method. Like this you don't need fertilizer and pesticides. Ever wondered why no one is fertilizing the forests, and they grow anyway. Wake up, Neo.

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>>50111111
im kinda on the same boat.
>28
>have a kid
>no skills
>no money
>not a damn thing to my name
my gf pays for everything (she has a good job) and im always at home taking care of our kid. i quite happy with this but at the same time i feel empty. i wish i could do something so when my kid grows up he can say "yeah, my dad does X, hes pretty great, i want to be like him"

i just want to be someone he looks up to, i dont want him to feel ashamed of me.

>> No.50113678

>>50111111
what's with the demoralization campaign lately

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50113700

>neet until 24
>part time an accounting degree
>29, just starting proper work, feel scared as fuck
>realize 2/3 of accountants are retarded
guys am i gonna make it?

>> No.50113748

>>50111111
>mid 30s
ship has sailed. the fact that you're asking this on a laotian box car racing forum at 2:25 AM on a weekend proves this.

t. 33 year old boomer

>> No.50113767

>>50113700
you'll be fine. i started my career in accounting at 29. now i wfh and make six figures a year.

>> No.50113780

>>50113767
really? im fucking scared half to death
21 y/o's in the office talking about zoomer shit i WANT TO DIE

Please give me some tips on wtf to do my nigga

>> No.50113805

>>50112074
It's one thing to idealize your possible future, it's another to live with the reality of the present with your potential always at odds with reality, the richest people in the world didn't have to dream about their potential they had everything they needed in the present for their entire lives

>> No.50113807

>>50113780
stop making a big deal out of it. i worked in big 4 audit for a year. working there was gay (wageslavery to the max) but no one cared that i was like 5-7 years old than most of the other people in my cohort. i even interned with a guy in his 40s who was changing his career. now i work for a large corporation and my coworkers are generally between 30 and 60 years old.

>> No.50113821

>>50113807
HOLY SHIT
ARE YOU ME?
IM AT FUCKING KPMG DOING EXTERNAL AUDIT

LMAAAAO

my niggah im being raped 24/7 i got no idea.
are you CA or CPA?

>> No.50113822

>>50112706
You'd be surprised

>> No.50113846

>>50112793
this board doesn't deserve this post

>> No.50113863

>>50113821
no CPA, too lazy. i worked at EY. yeah it fucking sucked and this was pre covid so i got wageslaved with traveling.

>DUDE JUST DRIVE 75 MINUTES EACH WAY IN SOUL CRUSHING TRAFFIC TO THIS SHITHOLE AUDIT CLIENT AND SIT IN A WINDOWLESS AUDIT ROOM, ON THE WORST PLASTIC CHAIRS THE CLIENT HAS, SURROUNDED BY A RATS NEST OF ETHERNET CABLES AND POWER ADAPTERS FOR 12 CONSECUTIVE HOURS WHILE SOME FAGGOT SENIOR MAKES YOUR LIFE A LIVING HELL LMAO
>DUDE YOUR SCHEDULE CHANGED NOW WE NEED TO FLY 5 HOURS TO THE OPPOSITE COAST IN ECONOMY CLASS AND DO CONTROL TESTING FIELDWORK FOR 6 WEEKS AT A TIME
>OH SHIT DUDE YOU HAVE A LIFE OUTSIDE OF WORK AND DONT WANT TO LIVE IN A HOTEL FOR WEEKS AT A TIME? OKAY YOU CAN FLY BACK ON FRIDAY NIGHTS AND FLY OUT ON SUNDAY NIGHTS.

>> No.50113872

>>50112105
The fact that you know Evolution is brutal is all you need to start making it. The rest is one step at a time.

>> No.50113880

>>50113193
If I was in your situation I wouldn't care about that at all and would just educate him regardless of your own situation, granted I'm good with that sort of thing and take pride in my knowledge and wanting to share it regardless of my social standing

>> No.50113890

>>50111111
Adhd is real, it’s caused by poor sleep quality so it’s affecting more and more people. Ideally you would address the sleep issues or try keto, but in the short term some Ritalin would turn your life around

>> No.50113895

>>50113193
literally do an online degree in something useful, you lazy bastard. christ.

>> No.50113901

>>50113880
like, I have a cousin and my uncle is basically that old, retired, had a second kid really late in life, before that he was just a simple mechanic with a college degree, but his daughter really looks up to him because how much effort he puts into educating her outside of the crappy school system, and feels like he's been delt an unfair lot and understands his knowledge is priceless even if society doesn't acknowledge it

>> No.50113903

>>50111111
>millenilols
How does this even happen? What have you been doing the last 15 years?

>> No.50113918

>>50113863
im doing my CA even if it kills me.
can i ask how old you are now?

>> No.50113920

>>50111111
Checked and holy shit I've been feeling this way more amd more.
T.34

>> No.50113929

>>50112226
Me @ 14 y/o

>> No.50113942

>>50113918
turn 33 in a few weeks. i might eventually do my CPA, not sure. i'm a senior accountant. seems that i can get more money as a senior with a CPA (at another company) or get my CPA to advance into management.

but i'm not sure if i ever want to be management unless i somehow manage to bypass "manager" and go straight to assistant controller at a privately held company. being a manager at a publicly traded company is stressful, judging by what my bosses at my past and current job have had to put up with.

>> No.50113964

>>50113942
do you feel your slowing down as you get older? im constantly on nootropics to try and keep my brian going well

do you know anything besides excel?

>> No.50114003

>>50113964
no, not really. i keep my brain active outside of work. reading books, practicing technical hobbies like electronics. i try to stay physically active too but i've gotten fat -- working on fixing that.

good excel skills can get you far. i know a little VBA and PowerQuery but it's never been a requirement, just something i use to make my life easier. if you're trying to escape audit wageniggerdom the biggest thing you need to work on is interview skills. polish your resume: good formatting, clear and concise bullet points, exaggerate your responsibilities. practice common interview questions. make up scenarios in your head that you can rehearse in behavioral interviews. get good at talking fluently.

>> No.50114030

>>50114003
im just going to do audit for a smaller firm
audit is braindead work and ezpz

teaching myself vba 24/7

>> No.50114053

>>50112155
Tell them, I had a wonderful life.
I was just reading tractatus today, still not comprehending it fully but I'm grasping most of his ideas. Gotta replay subahibi soon.

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What does it even mean, "to have something to show for it"?
What is it you expect to have to show? You sound like a preschooler fretting that you have nothing to bring to show and tell.

>> No.50114069

>>50114030
is it your long term goal to be a partner?

>> No.50114092

>>50111111
Checked and ADHD meds. You’ll forget what procrastination even is.

>> No.50114098

>>50114069
i was a fucking loser most of my 20's i got my shit together ~25ish. I want to fucking be someone some day.

I wouldn't mind doing braindead audit work that pays well but not great and then making partner 10yrs later

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Look at this girl i kissed last night lads. Im in love

>> No.50114423

bamp

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>>50111111
>>50111209
Nobody is healthy anymore. You have to fix that first. Chronically filled with estrogen and cortisol? The world is your enemy. You're sick, stop fucking thinking you can willpower it, your engine is fucked, you don't even know what being healthy feels like.
https://youtu.be/4C9UcMKJmb8 this whole thing is pure gold. You are welcome and good luck.
Raypeatforum.com

>> No.50114827

>>50113748
It's only too late when you decide that it's too late.

>> No.50114919

>>50114827
based and hope pilled

>> No.50114995

>>50112606
>>50112700
>bro just find a sweet virgin woman to be your wife
>it’s that simple bro t. 3 digit body count

Fuck you normie faggots. You fags always feel the need to give your shitty advice here

>> No.50115003

>>50111111
Put your faith in crypto? if you are a procrastinator there is nothing to do about it, almost all industrious people have been so from a young age, it seems like a personality trait, it's more or less unchangeable.
Not everything can change, you are who you are at some fundamental level.

Crypto is not that difficult to figure out and it still has a lot of potential in it, perhaps money can give you the life you want?

>> No.50115118

How pointless is it to start a family with a woman who has been with 16 men at age 27, she has dumped every single one of her previous partners. However she has completely tried turning her life around since age 25 (had been voluntarily celibate for nearly 2 years untill we met) and in general is a hard working, intelligent, phd student, who loves to cook (and is excellent at it) doesn't mind cleaning, wants to have up to 4 children and is mindblowing in bed? She's also an asian cutie, atleast 8/10 looks wise.

I've been with her for little over a year and I'm seriously considering marrying her and starting a family (I already have 1 son from a previous relationship)

Sometimes I'm so red pilled I feel like throwing it all away for her body count. Any advice on this?

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>>50111125
If I didn't have my parents or brother I'd probanly seriously consider being homeless.

>> No.50115168

>>50115118
All things considered that body count could be much higher. You aren't perfect either, young people just want to have fun, but at some point realize the emptiness of living that way and grow up. She sounds pretty decent anon.

>> No.50115188

>>50115118
You said it yourself, 16 men before you thought what you are now. Almost two years is absolutely nothing and people don't simply change on a fundamental level like that without serious shit happening

>> No.50115196

>>50111111
1pbtid

>> No.50115209

>>50111111
Wew lad

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>>50114053
Based Subahibi chad. You will make it.

>> No.50115401

>>50111999
What do you want?
Make a goal, then a plan, a roadmap how to get there and finally a schedule, a routine to reach your goal.