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I have 2 friends in total, and joke about me that I am slow or saying I give them schoolshooter vibes
They both have gfs while I’m a virgin

Am I wrong with putting up with them ? I guess they are somewhat right

>> No.49970966
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>>49970944
I have 0 friends and I would not put up with your friends

>> No.49970975

>>49970944
I will just save you a lot of time: they are fags, anyone who talks to you like that is a fag and a gains goblin, get better friends

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>>49970944
Hello friend you have three friends now

>> No.49971002

>>49970975
They say it like once every 3 weeks to me
Otherwise they are good friends and they tolerate my autism

>> No.49971004
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What's a few trillion among friends

>> No.49971031

>>49970944
the more "friends" you have, the less meaningful the relationships. Also in reality most people don't have many friends, they think they have friends. If you have even one true friend you are incredibly lucky.

>> No.49971036

>>49971002
you sound like a beaten housewife making excuses for her shitty husband

>> No.49971041

>>49970944
Sounds like shitty friends

>> No.49971043

>>49971002
why are you doubting them then

>> No.49971051

>>49970944
Heh, at least you got "friends"
That said, this anon >>49970966 is right, I wouldn't take shit from no cunt

>> No.49971056

i think the solution is pretty clear anon

buy a gun and shoot them in the dicks

>> No.49971058

>>49970944
Sounds like great friends frogposter. How about you and me be friends instead? We can eat hot Cheetos and play Resident Evil 5 while making fun of minorities. Sound like a plan?

>> No.49971067

>>49970944
>>49970966
It's called gentle ribbing and is common in male social circles. In fact, it's critical to male bonding. You're supposed to banter back to confirm that you don't take yourself too seriously and have a sense of humor; i.e., that you're not a weirdo who gives off shooter vibes. Anyone who tells you differently in this thread is a social failure with very low interpersonal IQ trying to keep you from succeeding. The key is never to reveal when your feelings are actually hurt, but also never to lash out with intent to hurt others with your own quips during this interplay. If you're autistic, this will be challenging at first, but you will get better with practice.

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>>49971067
I don't banter and I do take things personally

>> No.49971107

>>49971067
thats gay but sadly true. normalfags will feel like theyre babysitting you if you cant joke back

>> No.49971116

>>49971067
t. abuser

>> No.49971139

>>49970944
You are not doing anything wrong, tell them they are good friends and should not come to the nearest Mcdonalds this weekend, either maniacally laugh or full stop silence.

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>>49970944
i have 2 friends that both got kicked out of school for having schoolshooter vibes. Separate events they went to different schools

>> No.49971157

this whole school shooter stereotype is only putting more pressure on quiet teens

>> No.49971168

>>49970944
i had a friend in our group who would treat this other friend of ours similarly. not the same comments because none of us are neets but still making fun of him consistently. this went on since high school and throughout undergrad and even after for a couple years. our other friend finally just stopped inviting the guy out to things and slowly outted him from his own circle. just don't put up with it or call them out on their shit and say it bothers you. if you can't have that conversation with them then they aren't really people you should bother caring about anyways. you put up with it so they probably think you're cool with it or think it's funny.

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>>49970944
I dont have any friends, I bullied them so hard they ghosted me.

>> No.49971262

>>49970944
Yes, I never make fun of my friends for being more sperg than me. They are 100% insecure and like having someone around that they perceive as worse. Not irredeemable tho, you just need to set boundaries and work on not being spineless

>> No.49971293

>>49971067
>It's called gentle ribbing and is common in male social circles. In fact, it's critical to male bonding. You're supposed to banter back to confirm that you don't take yourself too seriously and have a sense of humor; i.e., that you're not a weirdo who gives off shooter vibes. Anyone who tells you differently in this thread is a social failure with very low interpersonal IQ trying to keep you from succeeding.
This is true but only until a certain point. Insecure people will do the same thing but will consistently drone on about shit unless you confront them in front of everyone about it.

>> No.49971311

>>49970944
I don’t have a gf but I constantly joke about murdering women, minorities, and animals. My friends put up with me :)

They do call me crazy tho and I quickly correct them saying I’ll slit their throat if they say that shit again and just laugh lmao it’s a good joke. I have 0 friends tho it’s a little weird if my gf asks to double date. I’ll be your friend anon :)))

>> No.49971341

>>49970944
The other people in your life are mirrors that you views your own projection on. If you don't like them, what does that say about you? And if they think you are a school shooter, what does that say about them? Remember, if you are surrounded by 50 assholes, don't forget that these are your teachers. Try thinking something like "thank you for sending me these teachers, I'm learning a lot about myself". Always affirm gratitude and gratefulness. If you control your thoughts and never entertain an undesirable thought in this way, you will see that reality that appears to be coming at you is IN FACT coming FROM you. Your feeling is the secret to altering reality.
https://youtu.be/ffNWoefuwPM

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>>49971067
>just be an emotionally constipated faggot like me
>just submit to others abuse like me bro
>it's all part of the social game dude just submit to it bro haha ignore your feelings man lol
don't listen to this stupid faggot OP, he's the loser in the group that didn't have the balls to speak out or defend himself and that signalled to everyone that he was a pussy cuck. you have to understand that these people are actually insulting you and are doing it with intent to harm your feelings, but are cowards so they hide behind the classic "it's just banter brooooo" cope that assholes use to excuse their abusive, infantile behavior. only children and grunting apes do this kind of boundry pushing insensitive bullshit, it's the hallmark of low IQ hicks, deadbeats and ignoramuses who are deep down shitty people. i had a situation similar to yours where some dickheads i hung out with used to pull "banter" like this but would get obviously personal and go way too far with each other. one time some fat fuck called vincent told me that i was a school shooter, so i snapped and grabbed him by the throat then gutpunched him until he puked. never got any lip from any of the lads again after that, they were noticebly nervous and respectful, which feels fucking amazing, you know then that you've stood your ground and that they know you know that their bullshit won't fly. these people only respect violence, intimidation and abuse, so you have to be tough and speak their language, otherwise they will continue to walk all over you.

>> No.49971409

>>49971067
I'm so sorry that your "friends" treated you like this anon, you don't have to cope this way, you can speak your mind here. Just know that they were 100% serious about their insults and really did want to hurt you, and saw you as a lesser person. What you are doing is classic abuse victim coping behavior.

>> No.49971423

>>49971379
See, they are your projection.
"these people only respect violence, that's why I grabbed him by the throat and then gutpunched him until he puked"
if you look at them, you see people who only respect violence. what does that say about you? are you innocent? no, you are looking in the mirror.

>> No.49971455

>>49970944
You get out of life what you tolerate.
Why don't you tolerate women?

>> No.49971623

>>49971423
>faggot tries to pull pseud jew/woman tactics on an anonymous imageboard
you're not smart enough to play this game anon, don't bother. for background, these guys were all scummy tough guys that had something to prove, they mimiced youth gangster culture and were heavy into drink and drugs. they were not innocent little lambs just ribbing, they were snotty fucking brats who refused to grow up, and sorely needed a good beating. regardless, violence is always the answer and does away with the mind games and stupid bullshit these retards will pull specifically because they know that you're too much of a pussy to raise a finger against them.

all young men bar special cases or those raised by single mothers are like this; wannabe tough guys with budding masculinity repressed by modernity that are just dying for something or someone to fight, for something to engage that dormant animal part of them that seeks to dominate. They want this and they know that there are so many low test faggots who will take any and all abuse without even saying a peep in response. they know that most young men, their peers, are absolute trannies that have been systematically defanged over decades of social programming. you'll cope with some bullshit that being a pussy makes you a bigger man or something but we all know you're full of shit.

>> No.49971799

>>49971623
>these people only respect violence
>violence is always the answer
see, they are your mirror projection.

>> No.49971840

All you have to do to see the mirror projection for what it actually is: just open your eyes and look. Daily reminder that a vampire cannot see his own reflection.

>> No.49971863

>all of the cope ITT
holy shit do all of you seriously have 0 friends and also autism? wtf OP you are definitely a faggot sounds like you’re lucky to have people that tolerate it I can’t imagine how insufferable the rest of you are to literally have 0 friends and spend so much time convincing yourself it’s fine

>> No.49971898

>>49971623
get a load of this incel. you need to spend some time in the real world kid.

>> No.49971952

>>49970944
It's called banter retard.

>> No.49971976

>>49971056
Instead of shooting them in the dick buy ICPinus. It’s a dick joke get it?

>> No.49971984

>>49970944
I had friends like that when I was younger. When I left town I wouldn't let anyone talk to me like that. When I came back 5 years later I instantly shut their shit down if they tried it again. One I cut out and won't speak to again.

>> No.49971992

>>49971623
hey anon when you finally cant take it anymore and decide to light up strangers that have nothing to do with your retarded feelings just make it easier on everyone and blow your worthless brains out instead

>> No.49971993

>>49970944
Yes, you need to get people like that out of your life, or do as >>49971379 says if you REALLY want to keep hanging out with them. Human groups establish unspoken social heirarchies just like any other animal, and if you're at the bottom you need to leave or lash out in order to move up the ladder

>> No.49971998

>>49970944


There are no such thing as real friends besides close family imo. Blood over water is a true statement. They will all turn on you. They just all have a certain price to do so. If you don't have a good family, you are truly alone in this world.

>> No.49972030

>>49970944
just respond youre not wrong if its true and just say false if its not true. then talk about something else. if they keep insulting you then say ur mum gey cuz theres no comback from that other than a no u

>> No.49972038

>>49970944
Yeah mate same with my friends. Can't do anything about that but it's not like I had any issues with girls. That's just the first impression people might have when they meet you but once they know you better they won't be afraid of you.

>> No.49972041

>>49971863

I prefer to get women not fake as male friends. The older you get, hanging out with guys is for losers. They will all turn on you drop of a dime and don't gaf about you. Secretly envious, jealous or looking down on you. I prefer to be a lone wolf and slay as much pussy as i can. Simple life.

>> No.49972775

>>49970944
Watch some TheraminTrees on youtube, you're probably just a patsy for their egos and if you don't benefit from their input cut them out of your life.

>> No.49973994

>>49971311
the smileys are worse than the murdering part you fucking faggot

>> No.49974029

I'm 27 and khv. Literally only went out for food past 10 years. I can hold proper conversations and people love telling me shit. I've met with a couple of (hot) girls over the past year due to some odd circumstances and they all think I fukk like crazy.
Life is literally easy mode when youre tall and fit and confident KEK

>> No.49974068

>>49971067
Narcissists also won't be able to tolerate friendly jabs among friends.

>> No.49974230

>>49971067
I am a shooter you fucking faggot.

>> No.49974251

>>49974068
I am narcissistic, lmao at taking abuse from other betas.