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How do men afford to date? I’ve spent like $800 last week on fucking sushi and steakshouses…

Didn’t even get a second date so this is brutal on my mental health and wallet…

>> No.49894326

>>49894305
I don't date.

>> No.49894338

>>49894326
How do you know what day it is then? Checkmark incel.

>> No.49894342

>>49894305
wat, you went on dates every night in 1 week?

how did u find 7 willing thots?

>> No.49894354

>>49894305
>$800 last week on fucking sushi and steakshouses

you're doing it wrong boomer, this isn't 1998 anymore

>> No.49894366

>>49894342
He offered to take them to free sushi and steak

>> No.49894371

>>49894305
Just go to a nice park for a walk instead of being a paying for some roastie with credit card debt

>> No.49894392

>>49894305
Stop spending money on dates dumb ass.
If you don't have chemistry the money you spent won't change that. You're not wealthy so you can't bag women on status LOL, like any of those broads hasn't had tons of guys take them out to dinner before hahahaha

STOP. SPENDING. MONEY.
You should have the chemistry regardless of whatever you're doing, free or not. So go free or cheap as fuck and learn to have fun so you come off as fun or just stop trying.

>> No.49894403

>>49894305
Max per first date should be $200 minus the weight of a girl

>> No.49894405

>>49894371
This.
Rather than going to expensive restaurants, try to think of some light adventure. It has an added benefit that it will keep golddigs out.

>> No.49894440

>>49894305
Taking a bitch to a steakhouse or sushi is absolutely too "try hard". You're making yourself look desperate. You need to go more casual for first dates. Early afternoon coffee date is perfect. 2x$5 coffee drinks = 10 dollar first date. You can feel them out with 90 minutes of conversation first.

>> No.49894498

>>49894403
>Date morbidly obese women
>Profit

>> No.49894532

>>49894305
Why this thread a 2nd day in a row?

Thanks for giving me something new to filter, faggot.

>> No.49894773

>>49894305
if you're talking to a woman and you cant get the convo to the point that shes clearly interested in letting you smash you shouldn't be spending ANY money on women.

>> No.49894787

>>49894305
Dumbass.

>> No.49894834
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>>49894440
Unironically true. No serious girl wants to get taken to a $400 meal on their first date. Only roasties who will only fuck you if you're in the top 10% of males which judging by this post you are not.

Find someone you think is cool and you want to get to know and go out for an iced coffee and a park walk or something - It's literally the best and easiest way to judge someones vibe and won't cost you fuck all.

>> No.49894842

>>49894305
get good
Im now at the point where I can tell 30 minutes in if Im gonna get laid or if its hopeless

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>>49894305
>filters for high maintenance women by taking them to expensive restaurants
>complains about women being expensive
Anon I...

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49894893

I went on a date last Saturday, got dinner at a restaurant, split the check and it was $45 each. Went back to my place to listen to records and I came in her pussy.

>> No.49894929

>>49894305
Ummm--- who goes out to eat for a first date? Go for a hike or a beach or to a gallery or museum. Wtf.

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>>49894305
chad doesn't go on dates.

buy puts on $MTCH

>> No.49895009

>>49894305
https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/nearly-half-of-u-s-adults-say-dating-has-gotten-harder-for-most-people-in-the-last-10-years/

You don't date.

>> No.49895013

>>49894305
these women go on multiple dates per week. Don't spend a dime on the first date they have high rejection rates

>> No.49895025

imagine being such a sperg that you take your dates out to nice steak dinners night number 1

such a robot that you just follow what you remember from tv shows or shit. too dense to determine what is actually normal

good stuff, keep it up OP

>> No.49895242

>>49894403
That's pretty generous if you ask me.

>> No.49895401

>>49894305
> Be me
> 28
> Take date to local steakhouse
> Tell her she can order whatever
> Date orders some tiny fancy piece of meat and some salad
> Order unlimited spareribs
> Tell her its best she knows what I’m about from the start
> She laughs and nods
> Take her to the arcade hall later
> Got my bloated gut laid that night

It’s like I was playing life on easy mode my dudes. I’m married now but goddamn was it easy to date.

>> No.49895430

>>49894305
Go to cheaper places. Maybe just go for coffee or a drink

>> No.49895627

>>49895242
It is until you realise that majority of women these days are morbidly obese pigs

>> No.49895674

>>49894305
You’re dating the wrong women and doing it wrong. Ive gotten the most pussy with a few cans of PBR and an idea.
I’m going to go watch waves and sit on a rock, want to go?

>> No.49896265

i take thots to get tea or coffee and usually have them offer to pay at the end. have u tried being goodlooking and fun?

>> No.49896443

>>49895674
This. Find a woman that likes you for who you are and not what you have. Because you may not always have that money, or well paying job or nice house. A woman of the latter type isn't going to stick around for tough times.

>> No.49896529

>>49894305
I get them to pay for shit. I say ill pay for the next date. Or i organise dates that dont cost anything like a walk around a lake or a hill.

Ive been on too many dates that dont lead anywhere to be giving free money to wmen for no reason at all.

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>>49894305
lol beta buck. I have two girlfriends and almost never buy them anything except maybe on their birthdays or if they've been extra nice to me. Instead they provide me with weed, liquor and food in exchange for healthy dickings. Having a big cock has its benefits. I have many expenses in life, but hoes ain't one of them.

>> No.49896581

You are supposed to go for a walk or for coffee for the first date. If you find someone who genuinly likes hanging out with you then and only then should you start spending money on dinner dates and stuff like that.

>> No.49897088

>>49894305
If you don't have BTC ETH ATOM SCRT and other strong crypto assets in your wallet, don't even attempt to go for a second date or even think about having children, you poor jeet. Crypto assets are the only medicine to finish the girls.

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>>49896581
What a free advice from an anon. You're so damn soft on this board. Others will advise the ranjeet to keep spending till he finishes his fiat and the bear is still hitting. Got 90% liquidated but I believe my bags will rise up

>> No.49897210

>>49896553
Crazy, how do you talk to two women within the same lifespan?

>> No.49897241

>>49894305
dating is so fucking gay unless you're rich for real. Imagine spending too much money on a stupid bitch approaching the wall like a train that lost its breaking mechanism.

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>>49894305
I took her to mcdonalds and she blew me in the drive through. The less you care, the more you win.

>> No.49900850

>>49894403
Max per first date should be 30 bucks, she pays for her stuff

>> No.49900986

>Hasn't taken the seeking arrangement pill
It's the only happy medium between fucking straight up hooker trash and wasting your money on tinder thots. You tend to know exactly how much you're going to have to spend to get some 18 year old pussy

>> No.49901076

>>49894440
Top tier advice.
First few dates should be mega cheap.
Also most important thing for first dates is to ensure YOU have fun / enjoyment. Not her. That way you won't feel you've wasted time or money.

>> No.49901261

>>49894305

OP the idea is your inviting them out for a fun time. You're bribing them with free food rather than actually seeing if they're interested and into you. Read how to be a 3% man bro, you will understand what you're doing wrong

>> No.49901418

>>49894305
What kinds of dates are you fucking going on? Last date I went on we got a cup of coffee and she payed her own.

>> No.49901794

>>49894305
>still dating in the year of our Lord two thousand twenty two

My brother in Christ you will never, ever make it doing this

>> No.49901864

>>49899708
This is the wisest and most juvenile advice ever. Listen to this man.

>> No.49903849

>>49894305
I took my ex-gf to McDonalds ordered mcwrap menu for 7 euros and gave her salad from the menu so she does not gain too much weight
It lasted 6 months only, but still. I've literally spent 1 euro on her, we went mostly to hike or museums for free on our dates
You outed yourself as a simp, that's why

>> No.49903936

>>49894305
>How do low-value men afford to date?
You need to develop some sort of useful or impressive quality that is valued by the person you are attempting to court. If you already have one, you need to get better at finding people who value it, or you need to improve any drawbacks you have that might dissuade potential partners.
Caveat: the world is not fair, and no one in it is guaranteed success or happiness, no matter how hard they try.

>> No.49904002

>>49894305
lmao dude stop going for food, instead go to a bar, these girls probably have you saved as 'free food' in their phones

>> No.49904058

>>49895009
>https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/nearly-half-of-u-s-adults-say-dating-has-gotten-harder-for-most-people-in-the-last-10-years/

> niggers on a date
> reports of harassment

ngmi

>> No.49904158

>>49904002
how broke are these women if a free meal matters that much, are they 18?

I'm met this chick on a dating app who was 35 and said she's looking for a sugar daddy. Shes literally just out of school and working a job she hates. Seems lame to me, especially at that age.

>> No.49904293

>>49904158
>how broke are these women if a free meal matters that much, are they 18?
>dating anyone over 22
Yeah you go ahead and enjoy those dusty busted meat flaps, I will be impressing prime zoomer sluts with a $20 bottle of wine and using their head like a fleshlight

>> No.49904520

>>49894342
OP is just larping. Any guy who is that good enough with women to get that many first dates doesn't do formal first dates that are expensive. And anyone that is dumb enough to do formal first dates isn't going to be that good with women.

>> No.49904568

>>49894305
My gf is expensive enough, don’t date any more.

>> No.49904584

>>49894498
No man, they eat the most! You'll go broke feeding them

>> No.49904629

Ffs, I know OP is LARPing, but no one takes the hoe to 3 star Michelin restaurants on a first date, aren't they satisfied with coffee?

>> No.49904636

>>49894929
>museum
"He just wants to look at boring sculptures"
>beach
"He just wants to see me in a bikini"
>hike
"He wants to kidnap/murder me"

>> No.49904681

>>49894305
Never spent money on a woman here. Ama.

>> No.49904734

>>49904158
35... your answer is right there, I am dating women in their prime

>>49904293
based these hoes love wine

>> No.49904794

>>49894440
>Early afternoon coffee date is perfect. 2x$5 coffee drinks = 10 dollar first date. You can feel them out with 90 minutes of conversation first.

Solid advice, but the incel op won't heed it.

>> No.49904939

>>49904636
uh, yes, yes and yes? so?

>> No.49905042

>>49904636
not to mention she will be calling you broke to all of her friends

>> No.49905055

dont fucking spend your hard earnd money on these non apreciating thotties boys, just go on a little walk to the park with them talk, be your genuine self, dont be on your phone every 15mins... after a few days 2nd meeting... fuck not one single dollar spent on a thot. works everytime

>> No.49905179

First and second dates are Applebee's at best. I let women know I throw down for the later dates, after I know she's worth it.

Treating women well is the quickest way to become an incel

>> No.49905329

That’s why I usually take a first date to chipotle since it’s like $7-10 a burrito lmao and bitches love chipotle.

>> No.49905374

>>49904293
kek, based

>> No.49905409

>>49904734
yee, I shat the bed this last time lol, pre-summer warm up :/

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>>49905329
I wanted to go to a nice restaurant because I genuinely just wanted to eat a nice meal for once and this fucking dumb bitch saw a sign for chipotle and wanted that instead

You're in Manhattan, you have Michelin star chefs around you and you want to go eat chipotle?

What the fuck is wrong with women?

>> No.49905489

>>49894305
More fun to meet, shoot shit and then just say something came up and leave.

Also dating is much more affordable outside of the USA.

Even taking my mom out at a fucking hardrock in the states is a damn chore, burger is $20, drinks are $5-10 each. Ouch. Olive garden? Same.
And of course, she's getting these places from the tv.

sigh

>> No.49905784

>>49905424
>living in Manhattan

It's like you want to be poor forever

>> No.49906168

>>49905424
Women go with the feels. Stop expecting them to be logical and think like men do.

>> No.49906309

>>49894305
Bro she used you for a free meal. Sorry man.
Autists, when will they learn?

>> No.49906352

>>49906309
>she

>> No.49906384

>>49894834
Paying 400$ on the first date sounds more like bottom 10% of men to me.

>> No.49906511

>>49895025
This. Coffee and a walk or some activity that might temporarily deflect from your autism