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If you didn't have good parents, your basically fucked for life
You'll spend your entire adulthood compensating for the psychological damage your shitty childhood left on you, and will never be happy or develop healthy relationships

>> No.49891697
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49891697

Yeh I know all about it

>> No.49891761

>>49891590
It's definitely harder but still possible. Therapy I think is also worth it. And in the end life is truly a mf to everyone so just keep working on yourself.

>> No.49891807
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>>49891590
Is there any hope for us?

>> No.49892067

>>49891590
Stop being a freudian bitch, just aim to be a better person now. We're all fucked up in the head in some way or another, don't blame your parents for nothing except small dick genes

>> No.49892108
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>>49891590
yeah so now what ?
am i supposed to spend my days hating my parents ?
regretting the things i've never had and the shitty hand i've been dealt ?
is living like this going to bring me closer to making it ?

>> No.49892150

>>49892108
This is the correct take. Can't change the past, only the future.

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>>49892108
Yes if you are based, no if cringe

>> No.49892176

>>49891590
god has offered to adopt you into a new life
ISAIAH 55
6 Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near.

7 Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

8 For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD.

9 For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.

PSALM 103
8 The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and plenteous in mercy.

9 He will not always chide: neither will he keep his anger for ever.

10 He hath not dealt with us after our sins; nor rewarded us according to our iniquities.

11 For as the heaven is high above the earth, so great is his mercy toward them that fear him.

12 As far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us.

13 Like as a father pitieth his children, so the LORD pitieth them that fear him.

14 For he knoweth our frame; he remembereth that we are dust.

ROMANS 4
3 For what saith the scripture? Abraham believed God, and it was counted unto him for righteousness.

4 Now to him that worketh is the reward not reckoned of grace, but of debt.

5 But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.

6 Even as David also describeth the blessedness of the man, unto whom God imputeth righteousness without works,

7 Saying, Blessed are they whose iniquities are forgiven, and whose sins are covered.

8 Blessed is the man to whom the Lord will not impute sin.

ROMANS 10
8 But what saith it? The word is nigh thee, even in thy mouth, and in thy heart: that is, the word of faith, which we preach;

9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.

>> No.49892189

>>49891590
100%. My parents were fucking imbeciles. If I make it, the offspring will be a legend and avoid all the retard mistakes that were caused by my parents

>> No.49892192

I know a guy from high-school. When he finished high-school, his parents bought him a full on McMansion house, and gave him a few hundred thousand dollars to start a business.

So right after high-school he

>got a house out-right, no mortgage
>got a few hundred thousand dollars (opened a gym)

Fast forward 10 years, hes got gyms all over the country.

>> No.49892208

>>49892192
it's over

>> No.49892210

>>49892192
Fuck god. This unfair shit gets me tight.

>> No.49892242

Yeah man, I have great parents overall and I am so lucky. Society is so much better when families are strong. Even the odd few weeks/months where my family was in jeopardy or not that great feel like mental scars in my past. Like when my dad was in hospital and mum was really upset and distant, or when sometimes my mum would be too harsh/emasculating without realising.

Thanks for listening to my blog post but I feel you man, just give your own children the best things that you never had

>> No.49892245

>>49891590
>>49891697
Stop complain. We all know that. Now step up.

>>49891761
>>49892067
Based.

>>49891807
See based.

>> No.49892256

>>49891590
>be 23
>dad born in the 1950s
>mum born in the 1960s
>parents spent 10 years travelling to 3rd world shitholes instead of having a family
>dad gives up £250k a year job to start small business that only makes him £50k a year
>plop out one autistic retard
>complain and whinge that I am not like the other kids

I want to kms every day fuck boomers

>> No.49892261

No you aren't. You're only fucked until you take responsibility for your entire life.

>you won't because you enjoy blaming others for your misery

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>>49891590
Im almost 30 and i have always been extremely depressed and poor.
as a child
as a teenager
as an adult
I workout, eat well and stuff but it never amounts to anything so i'll probably transition to full time alcoholic in the next 2-3 years and hopefully die.

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>>49891590
Maldjusted bros... it's over. We can never win in this life.