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49881915 No.49881915 [Reply] [Original]

How do you deal with the soul crushing self gaslighting, micro managing, neuroticism you develop going through your adolescence without attention or attraction of the opposite sex?

Also the black & white thinking that is the motivation for getting out of your situation: “once I get a gf, everything will be different, I just have to achieve that goal and I never have to put in effort ever again“

>> No.49881978

lol fag

>> No.49882001

I wish there was some way to get you retarded incels to understand how much it sucks to be with a woman. Sad you'll spend the rest of your lives wishing for it lmao

>> No.49882027

>>49881915
Woman are annoying and useless.

>> No.49882043

>>49882001
I am already aware of that and put it into OP

>> No.49882055

Book of Pook
Read it, then read it again. Then start waking up before 6am and going to the gym 7 days a week. Then look into joing a gym/club for a combat sport like boxing. And if you're a fatty start fasting. Good luck anon.

>> No.49882088

I've broke up with several women because I felt like they were preventing me from reaching my professional goals

Never make pussy your priority

>> No.49882126

>>49882055
>start waking up before 6am
It's that what it takes it's better to remain an incel.

>> No.49882130

You dont. People will tell you that you dont need it and that you should move on or do this or that (go to college, save money, get a good job, get a hobby) before worrying about finding a gf but they're delusional or gaslighting you. The truth is that experiencing romance is a crucial formative experience for us males. You aren't really complete until you get your first gf or one night stand. You will never be able to move on or start your real life until you experience one of these things. I got my first gf at the age of 29 and it radically changed me. I went back to college, graduated and got a better job. It gave me the energy and motivation to move forward. It was like a veil was being lifted and I could finally see my goals clearly. I can only imagine what my life would be like if this had happened when I was 15 or 16.

Dont believe the gaslighters.

>> No.49882157

>>49882001
Divorced here. Can confirm. Women are awful. Nothing but loss if you see a profit it’s minimal

>> No.49882177

>>49881915
Get therapy for your trauma, op. Jesus christ.

>> No.49882179

>>49882001
The grass is always greener. Just accept the shittiness of life and find things to enjoy in yours regardless. It's the only way.

>> No.49882305

>>49882001
sometimes your worst enemy can be right by your side

>> No.49882320

>>49882177
What trauma?
I am just a loser that was raised into a nice guy and therefore never could participate in the dating market

What do I need therapy for? To get laid? I can get a whore for that?
Therapy won’t make up for the lost time or turn me from nice guy into sociopath player

>> No.49882373

>>49882001
i don't want to be with a woman i just want them to desire me sexually and then fuck them. fucking escorts doesn't meet the first condition and is therefore unsatisfying

>> No.49882413

>>49882177
therapy is pretty useless in my experience. just some dude tossing out platitudes like "have you tried thinking positively?"

>> No.49882643
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>>49881915
I had terrible luck in that regard. Possibly he worst sequence of events that could happen to a boy (bar illness or serious injury) that rendered me completely neutered and powerless when it comes to women.
Anons say women suck, but the lack of women is equally bad, especially when it's not by choice. If I knew that I am capable of getting laid or finding a girlfriend, I probably wouldn't stress about it so much. But without it, life as a man loses all flavor. Being a volcel is kino, being an incel is hell. Going to the gym and picking up hobbies is fantastic, but if something's broken inside you it will always feel like cope. You will always feel there's a fantastic party going on and you're not invited. There's no point explaining to sex havers.
I don't have any advice good advice my friend. Get strong, get rich, and get educated. Try making yourself the best company for yourself.

>> No.49882695

>>49882320
Wanting to a sociopath because you think they "win" is way worse than being an actual sociopath.

>> No.49882742

>>49882157
These Anons get it. Long term female companionship is a fucking Nightmare! If you interact with them at all, have nice little two year relationships and move on before the sex gets boring.

>> No.49882753

>>49881915
just stop caring

it's that easy

all money is monopoly money. none of this matters

>> No.49882782

>>49882001
>I wish there was some way to get you retarded incels to understand how much it sucks to be with a woman.
this. I wish I could get all of them a 2 year gf so that they could learn

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49882789

>>49882753
Indeed. This whole fucking program is a Rich Man’s Rat Maze for us. Play or don’t play, it’s your choice. But in the end, it’s all the same.

>> No.49882791

>>49882001
this. majorly fucked up my money situation because of a female.

>> No.49882864

>>49882742
Green ID confirms best relationship advise is a literal pump and dump