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49874318 No.49874318 [Reply] [Original]

How does most men afford to date? I’ve spent like $800 last week on fucking sushi and steakshouses…

Didn’t even get a second date so this is brutal on my mental health and wallet…

>> No.49874368

>>49874318
simple, you dont pay the woman on the first date

>> No.49874382

>>49874318
>I’ve spent like $800 last week
That's not dating OP. That's called being a sucker

>> No.49874399

>>49874318
you're doing it wrong OP, if dinner date you make sure they're hippy feminist types so they buy YOU dinner. otherwise you take them for a walk and buy them ice cream. in this day and age most women should be buying you food anyways, if they're not just lie to them and say you believe in equality of the sexes then slide them the bill.

>> No.49874406

>>49874318
This must be bait
Did you eat out of golden leafs?

>> No.49874415

Should've excused yourself to the bathroom and bailed on her

>> No.49874420

My gf paid for our first date. Still together 5 years later.

She is unironically based and redpilled though, not many like her.

>> No.49874456

>>49874318
>2022
>dating
why don't you just ask message them to come around for netflix and chill? works for me

>> No.49874471

>>49874399
This. If you date the right women, they usually go dutch the first date. If you must spend money to boost your chances at a relationship, do so by getting dance lessons, joining a yoga class, learning painting, joining a hiking or sailing club, going on group tour vacations, etc. If you just want sex, go be a sex tourist in a country with good whores.

>> No.49874567

>>49874382
This. Suggest a different kind of date for the first date. If they absolutely insist on dinner, you can insist that they pay for their meal. Any reasonable woman wouldn't try to argue against this. If she has a problem with it move onto the next one because she likely has an entitled attitude and is using you.

>> No.49874592

>>49874471
i...anon, are you female?

>> No.49874630

>>49874471
>>49874567
these anons fuck.

>> No.49874646

>>49874318
Dumb nigger ask if they are up for a taco bell party pack in a park. Or bring wine to a park with a tennis court and watch people play. If they aren't into that then fuck them

>> No.49874650

>>49874318
cuck

>> No.49874682

Was with my ex for 5 years and on the first date she expected us to halve the bill and I realised I forgot my wallet lol. Stop going on dates with bitches using you to get a free meal and find a keeper. God I miss her :(

>> No.49874719

>>49874682
What happened?

>> No.49874741

>>49874318
I don't wanna know who or what can eat $800 of raw fish and fish eggs. Even if its $50 a plate.

>> No.49874744

>>49874318
I literally fuck 18 year olds on the astro turf at the mini golf course behind my house. If they get any monetary value from me it's because I'm feeling generous.

>> No.49874805

>>49874318
Ranjesh just stop it. You're doing it wrong. If you want to open bob go back to India and tell your parents to arrange a marriage for you.

>> No.49874829

>>49874318
Date?

bruh, if she won't come over your house and fuck you, she doesn't want to fuck you at all

>> No.49874847
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49874847

I've never been on a date. I'm 30.

>> No.49874918

if you're after sex just go live in korea for a year. if you're white you'll go from a cheap dinner+soju to having her begging for a creampie within the space of a couple hours, max

>> No.49874981

Sounds like you need a bigger bag of matic and better quality girls around you OP. You're going at it the wrong way. Completely the wrong way.

>> No.49875002
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49875002

>>49874318
Give up and become a weeb

>> No.49875041

>>49874318
Never go somewhere fancy on your first date. Makes you look insecure.

>> No.49875044

>>49874318
I would never pay more than 20-30 bucks on the first date. And I'd make sure to order more food or she could share with me. Make fun of her weight, etc. Wow that's a lot of food sure you want all that? Eat off my plate. Etc.

>> No.49875116

>ask to get a coffee
>say you have something to do an hour after you meet
>only pay for yourself
>if it goes well tell them you never had anything to do and you were testing the waters
>if it’s a shit time go home and jackoff to gore photos from 9/11

>> No.49875334

I only do coffee for a first date. It's a great way to filter women that are trying to use you. Some women will tell me it's lame or just flat out refuse. It tells me that they had no interest and there was no way I was going to fuck them. Second date is something like pizza or a casual restaurant. I'll spend maybe $50 absolute max on a second date. I don't recommend going dutch with women. You want them know that you're in charge from the beginning. Women wanting to pay for their own food is just as much of a red flag. It's means you're usually messing with a feminist. You can still fuck them, but messing with feminist women is like wishing on the money paw