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49854765 No.49854765 [Reply] [Original]

my dad just went into a fit of boomer rage about how no one in our house appreciates him even though he pays for all the bills and does all the maintenance work. How long before I get kicked out?

>> No.49854792

does your dad show that he appreciates you? paying for shit doesnt count

>> No.49854809

>>49854765
He just wants to feel appreciated
You're at a crossroads - do you say some shit like "you're right dad I haven't been carrying my weight, what can I do to help" or get kicked out so he can feel in control
Being able to understand and lie about the former is the difference someone who moves up in a company vs is a wagie for life btw

>> No.49854837

>>49854765
Offer to pay him 0.01 bitcoin a month

>> No.49854862
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>>49854809
>he thinks moving up in a company is how you escape being a wagie

>> No.49854873

>>49854765
You should always do whatever you can to retain good communication with your father, even if he's a boomer. Do what it takes to build something with him.

>> No.49854875
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>>49854765
Just talk to him when he cools down and ask what can you do to make him feel better.
If there's any chores or stuff that he wants you to handle for him.
Currently there is a shitty economy and he probably has to take a lot of shit at work and doesn't have a way to went.
Show some understanding and support, don't be a useless faggot son.

>> No.49854917

>>49854862
>he said as he tried to find an empty piss bottle in the room he hasnt left in 4 years

>> No.49854921

>>49854875
what are some chores that can be done that say.... hey im helping. but im not a fucking house maid, landscaper, custodian, taximan, chef, and groundskeeper

>> No.49854923

>>49854765
>he pays for all the bills and does all the maintenance work.
He sounds like a hard working guy and you sounds like a fucking loser.
When I lived at home... the fucking home improvement projects I did. I hand dug a sprinkler system for my parents.

>> No.49854934

>>49854917
cope harder wagie

>> No.49854954
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>>49854792
>>49854809
>>49854873
>>49854875
I dont contribute to his stress though. I just stay out of his way as much as possible. My mom's the one who's constantly nagging him about spending more money to "improve" the house. You're not allowed to relax and do nothing all day when it comes to my mom. You always need to be doing shit or she'll find something for you to do. Why are women like this?

>> No.49854983

>>49854917
why do we need to leave our rooms? where am i gonna go lmao? i'm gonna pick up hot chix at a bar? I'm gonna go shop at the mall? I'm gonna sit in my car in 95 degree weather? hang out in a library that closes at 2pm? wagecuck for 12/hr?

how bout im quiet and mind my business in my room. boomers have this existential panic attack that we're not crushing at life.

>> No.49855041

>>49854765
Just do the Datura gamble
>make datura tea
>put it into his food
>he has a psychotic breakdown
>"you see dad? You are no longer able to take care of you, luckily I will take care of you for free, a full time nurse will be too expensive"
Whenever he has a new boomer rage episode just give him a new dose of datura tea a few days later, good news is that he will be enough disable to collect welfare

Is safe, datura won't kill him, rosties always made the datura gamble and it always go right

>> No.49855074

>>49854765
Is he right? Do you appreciate all he does for you? Go give old dad a hug, that's what he's really after.

>> No.49855116

>>49854765
Yell back at him and tell him he's a faggot and needs to hang himself by his bootstraps.

>> No.49855169

>>49854765
Your father does not want your money. Not even your work, although you could help him at home but never "in return for x"; just help him because you want to. The poor man works hard to give his family the best he managed, and he wants recognition and love. It's that simple; that cheap too.
You should build, nourish and and protect a good relationship with your parents; you owe them more than you can realize even though obviously they are not perfect. Your friends come and go, but your family is one-of-a-kind for you.
Source: I am a father and a son. My father is still the person I admire the most in the world. In retrospect, I can see and appreciate all he did for me to become me. Things I didn't know how to appreciate back in the days. Every minute spent with him is precious.

>>49854954
Most women can't stand watching a man do nothing towards the direct benefit of their family, excluding the man himself of course. They instinctively seek and demand usefulness, protection and resources from men. But when men demand sex, love and care, they're sexists according to leftards, woketards and NPCs.

>> No.49855170

>>49854954
my gf is the same
if there was no laws i would have exploded her skull already
women can't stop wanting to go out and spend money they are insuferable

>> No.49855196

>>49854954
Well I know from experience of having a boomer father and many of my friends do too. A lot of them shot themselves in the foot when it comes to their wives because they put that pussy on a pedestal long before you were born and they can't renig on that this late in life without serious consequences and that causes tension between the sexes that affects their children. You just need to be the voice of reason at this point in your life and be the real adult in the room. You might be surprised that they'll actually listen to you most of the time if they are reasonable people.

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>>49855074
This.

>> No.49855235

>>49855169
This man understands.

>> No.49855266
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>>49854983
before videogames, hobbies were the networking outings where you hung out at peoples dens / garages and played cards, music, RPGs, or even built things. Hell in the early days LAN parties were a thing which in reality were a place to trade cool movies/music/porn/pirated shit that you might have never otherwise seen.
I cant tell if this stopped happening entirely or I just aged out.

>> No.49855271

>>49854954
Maybe your dad just wants some acknowledgement. Working your ass off for someone else and having them be apathetic towards the shit you go through every day is not a good feeling to have. Boomer or not. I know you didn’t ask to be born and it’s easy to take our parents for granted, but the little things are what matters, like asking your dad how his day was. Just so he knows that he isn’t busting his ass 5 days a week for a son who doesn’t give a single shit about him

>> No.49855298

>>49854765
Write him a thank you note and leave him a generous tip.

>> No.49855326

>>49855169
There is nothing admirable in doing something only to get something in return.
Anyone that chooses to have a kid and then feels good about not throwing it in the trash is a monster. You type like a beaten dog.

>> No.49855332

>>49854954
It's a shit test. It's a mental contest for dominance. Real primate shit. Your dad is failing it. Women also want to be constantly psychologically led by their man. Your dad is probably failing this too. Honestly, many women are impossible to satisfy long term. This is why marriage is a bad idea. You need to option to be able to walk easily for a relationship to be able to work.

>> No.49855334

>>49854954
>I just stay out of his way as much as possible
Why? Why not show respect and appreciation for everything he's done for you? Staying out of his way just shows you're ungrateful.
>>49855170
Why are you still with her?

>> No.49855335

>>49854792
LMAO paying for shit counts. Listen OP the HBAR foundation is doing work and Hedera is the future. If you start now, maybe you can buy the house before you get kicked out.

>> No.49855390
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49855390

My dad does the same except he's been retired for 10 years and doesn't do shit except ride his lawnmower

>> No.49855471

>>49855332
that's interesting, could you please explain a little more about how this works, and how to keep a long-term relationship going well?

i'm 26, only been in one relationship in my life and it didn't end well so i don't really know much about women and would really appreciate anything you have to share about this

>> No.49855473

>>49854954
Why are you a useless failure of a son? Get on youtube, go to home depot and help your dad make cheap repairs you useless fucking dildo. Or get a job and pay him some money for the pros he will hire

>> No.49855566

>>49855326
Never in my post I said you work your ass off in exchange for love. I explicitly said otherwise. But it will obviously affect the relationship positively, and encourage him to keep being the best version of himself.
Surely you can't be as big a minimalist, pod-dwelling, brainwashed zoomer as to think a family is going to be the same whether you give your parents love or not, and whether they work hard to give you the best or not. Imagine one day you managed to get ahold of some girlfriend and had a kid. Would you be as happy and as motivated to kill yourself working, often kissing ass until your mouth is sore, for an ungrateful bastard as opposed to a happy, enthusiastic son that thinks you're the best man in the universe?

>> No.49855730

>>49855566
Everyone works to survive in self-interest, even if your kid is a shit, or if you have no kids at all.
>The poor man works hard to give his family the best he managed, and he wants recognition and love.
>Never in my post I said you work your ass off in exchange for love
Pick one.

>> No.49855808

>>49855266
those sounds great. my main hobby was drawing. i used to go to 3hr figure drawing sessions 2 days a week. we had a blast. the guy organizing was a huge comic book nerd and was fun as hell to talk to. but the place closed down. i fucking miss it.

i'd love to run a group but i need the right people and some money of course.

>> No.49856146

>>49855730
No, anon, you misunderstood. He does not work in exchange for recognition and love. But he wants it anyway, just like you don't help a friend for gratitude, but appreciate it.

>> No.49856203

>>49854983
you're the worst kind of scared, the kind who has convinced himself his fear is his strength

>> No.49856325

>>49854954
Maybe he doesn’t want his son to pretend he doesn’t exist. If you’re 18+, why don’t you try asking him if he needs an extra pair of hands with something. Just don’t let the occasional gesture turn into him taking advantage of you

>> No.49856420

>>49855471
utilize absence
make her bitch ass miss you

>> No.49856433

>>49854765
move out you bum

>> No.49856510

>>49855471
D.E.N.N.I.S.

>> No.49856610

>>49854765
My boomer dad has a big lawn, too big and is obsessed with grass and cutting and gets mad that I don’t help, and I told him that grass is fucking stupid and a waste of land, that we should have a productive permaculture garden instead and he boomer raged at me.

>> No.49856799

>>49854954
Your mom is shit-testing your dad because she can feel the pressure.
Read through this and share it with your father, maybe you can connect like this:
https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/

>> No.49856876

>>49856203

go throw a football around boomer

>> No.49856918

>>49855041
>Is safe, datura won't kill him
lmao this may work if you can guess a good dose, but datura could easily kill him or give him a nervous breakdown he can't escape

>> No.49857121

Throw old ma' unde the bus and side with him whenever you can, boost his ego, give him the reason to anything he says. Guaranteed you wont get kicked out

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>Nooo my father is tired of supporting a house full of useless parasites this is so hekin unfair!