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How do I rewire my brain to stop being a simp and long for female affection? Thankfully I didn't fall low enough on the simp scale to pay for online women attention without receiving anything in return but I noticed that I was treading on a very dangerous path. I'm not blind, I'm obviously trying to fill my lack of cuddles and sweet interaction with girls by hiring GFE (GirlFriendExperience) whores more and more often, longing for hugs, conversations and so on more than the act of empty sex which are what hookers were originally meant for. I've spent roughly $3000 in two months booking escorts.

I think I have become addicted to it and don't want to waste my gains on these women but at the same time I don't trust my ability to seduce nor please women because I'm a dicklet, skinnyfat and I'm also ugly. I've always been the emotional support guy, the good listener, the weak needy bitch who is cute like a little dog. I'm 25.

In my teens I tried to improve my self confidence with combat sports, trying to be more outgoing and it worked to a degree but I guess I was too fixated on trying to do this for women instead of doing this for my own personal benefits and that must've repelled them. I even learned to play guitar for this.

I thought making it to 7 figures would magically solve this problem but no, not even huge amounts of money can boost my self confidence. I'm literally the beta bucks. I'm scared of falling in love with a gold digger, because in the case of a "real" relationship I might actually believe in it instead of the official transaction acknowledgement with prostitutes.

>> No.49837101

>>49837053
Its simple, cut off your penis and become a transwoman

>> No.49837115
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>>49837053
>In my teens I tried to improve my self confidence with combat sports, trying to be more outgoing and it worked to a degree but I guess I was too fixated on trying to do this for women instead of doing this for my own personal benefits and that must've repelled them.
Sorry you fell for the normie meme, it was your looks. Everyone everywhere, but it inevitably circles back to one thing, your looks. You think there's something wrong with you despite improving and improving all your life, and if you ask women they will say "you're just not my type". There is no gym for your face. There is no amount of money that can buy genuine attraction from f*males.

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49837128

>>49837115
everyone everywhere will gaslight you about this*

>> No.49837131

just go for black women, it's always a down market

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>dating white women in 21st century
ngmi

>> No.49837274

>>49837115
>>49837128
The escorts I hire often tell me I'm too young/cute to be hiring escorts but I figured it's only to make me come back and feel special.
>>49837131
>>49837146
Women of all races wouldn't even consider I exist without my money lmao.

>> No.49837372

>>49837274
black women in a depressed economy would be throwing themselves at quasimodo even if he was poor, I don't think you realize how little value they have on the open market especially now

>> No.49838875

>>49837372
I hope you're right. I want to be loved and I've never had any problem with niggers

>> No.49839628

>>49837053
It's hard. Turn it all inwards and make yourself better.

They'll chase you.

Or don't.

Goodluck

>> No.49840401

>>49837053
hit the gym
go on hikes
do your hobbies
quit revolving your life around other people

>> No.49840507

>>49840401
Unronically this.
Try longer term / endurance sports.
Been doing boxe & MMA (been fencing a lot while young).
Improved quite a lot but smth was missing : I had muscles but was still dealing with braindead retards hitting gym like mangas goys.
Had enough and started triathlon Iron Man distances and I can assure you I've never felt so good : you bascally eat anything you want (5-6k cal per day). Forget about "growing muscles" memes. You'll be like brad pitt in fight club with wider shoulders.
Big fat muscles are basically low tier IQ mentality and most women don't like that much. Instead being very fit will get you everything. Also you're naturally more exposed to sunlight, nature overall (hikes, runs,bike) and your mood will naturaly improve a lot.