Inheritance

[Anonymous No.49559409]

"One day son, this will all be yours."

Have you heard this phrase from your father? So, what will be yours? For me, it's a shitty property not much better than pic attached.

[Anonymous No.49559545]

>"Have you heard this phrase from your father?"

my what

[Anonymous No.49559581]

my dad gave me my share of the inheritance
500k when I turned 25

[Anonymous No.49559644]

My mom is leaving her three bedroom, three bathroom property and her life savings to my sister.

Shes 13 years older and paid for her home in cash. Meanwhile im in debt in a cuckpod. Mom says I've got 13 years to achieve my sisters level of money and that life is harder the older you get.

My mom eats salmon everyday.

[Anonymous No.49559673]

>>49559644
sounds like shes giving it to the person that can manage it best

[Anonymous No.49559701]

>>49559409
My father left everything to his second wife who blew it all buying a monstrous house that she won't be able to afford in the coming recession.

[Anonymous No.49559731]

never, my parents told me to pull up my ass by the bootstraps cause they are blowing it all

it seemed to be a lie to get me motivated though

[Anonymous No.49559744]

>>49559409
i didnt have a father but my mother is giving me her 3 story house

[Anonymous No.49559766]

>>49559581
congrats. you probably have the best possible outcome

>>49559644
your mom sounds kinda jewish

>>49559701
i'm sorry anon

>>49559731
man, fuck boomers.

[Anonymous No.49559800]

>>49559409
My father died bankrupt. I did not inherit anything.

[Anonymous No.49559823]

>>49559800
>Checked
>Father died bankrupt
Inherit a lesson from his mistakes

[Anonymous No.49559831]

>>49559409
I'm from a shithole, and in the third world there is no inheritance. It'a quite the opposite, normaly you have to provide for your parents very early on (I started at 15 yo, 30 now)
Also my father an heroed when I was a child which made it a bit complex

[Anonymous No.49559832]

Probably two detached houses with a couple of small commercial plots , 30 acres of land and maybe some cash , all in all probably worth about £1.8m. Nothing to sing and shout about just hope I can make more of it

[Anonymous No.49560340]

>>49559644
Did your sister live in a cuckpod with debt 13 years ago?

[Anonymous No.49560426]

My dad owns no property.
My mom's dad says he'll give me and my brothers his property equally when he passes. It's lower medium cost rural land outside of the city limits of my hometown and I will be very grateful for it. You should be happy with what you're gonna get, op, land ownership is good, even if the property just has a trailer home on it. Most young people will never even own land.

[Anonymous No.49560535]

>>49559409
Spoke my dad after 15 years,
He asked 4 times for money since then
Didn't congratulate me on my birthday.
Waited my whole life for this
>mfw I gave him more than he ever gave me
idc about the jewish printed money tho

[Anonymous No.49560553]

>>49560426
>Rural land outside the limits of my hometown
Sounds based

[Anonymous No.49560627]

We don't really discuss it but my parents are leaving between me and my sister (assuming they still have it when they go, who knows they could live to 120 which gets very expensive):
~$3.5mm primary home (NYC apartment)
~$1mm secondary home
Dad has something like $3-4mm in retirement savings. Presume this will all get spent (god willing they live long enough).
Mom has ~$2mm inherited money currently invested in equities, she says its for us when the time comes, but as noted above who knows cause long term care costs a lot. For what it's worth I'd be happy for them to live to a million and leave nothing than the alternative.
Wife's grandma has probably $10-12mm in real estate, a few businesses one of which is stipulated to be shared among wife and two siblings when she goes, and probably not much money otherwise. Goes to MIL and her brother i would assume when time comes. Her Dad has a nice house, probably $2-3 million, and 30% of an enormous (25k acres) family plantation in SC with logging, farming and quail. Last appraised at $80mm in '10 or so for taxes but it's hard to say what it is worth cause very hard to sell. He said we could sell some of our eventual 11% to wife's uncle for cash if we need some for down payment or something.
So over very long run I guess we'll inherit some millions at least. We live as though we'll inherit nothing because there's always a chance of that being the case and it's psychologically much better.

[Anonymous No.49560723]

>>49559409
No, I won't inherit anything. My only hope of making it seems to be crypto but that probably won't work out. You might see me in a gore .webm posted here one day.

[Anonymous No.49560727]

>>49560627
man thats pretty cool. congrats on having wise parents

[Anonymous No.49560787]

I want to make my own money

[Anonymous No.49560822]

>>49559409
>"One day son, this will all be yours."
>Cars, house, company, a shit ton of money.
Then he divorced my mom, sold everything and left the city, I havent spoken to him in 10 years, don't even know if he is alive anymore.

[Anonymous No.49560851]

>>49559409
My dad probably has a few million which I'll get 1/4 of. He's in his 60s and healthy so It'll be probably 20 years at least. I'm hoping to get rich before he dies.

[Anonymous No.49561526]

>>49559673
Whilst this sounds reasonable, no, because im desperately poor i cant afford to eat at restaurants everyday. My sister is on easy mode. It will only encourage her.

>>49559766
>your mom sounds kinda jewish
Over the dinner my mom slammed her fist onto the table and said "money is everything and without it you are nothing"

>>49560340
No, she lived in London and ate at expensive restaurants. The more things change...

[Anonymous No.49561640]

>>49561526
>Over the dinner my mom slammed her fist onto the table and said "money is everything and without it you are nothing"
yikes sorry anon she sounds tough, especially if you're not doing so great right now financially that can't feel good.

[Anonymous No.49561656]

>>49559409
Ungrateful piece of shit faggot OP

[Anonymous No.49561662]

>>49561526
>Over the dinner my mom slammed her fist onto the table and said "money is everything and without it you are nothing"

Haha based mom laying down the truth

[Anonymous No.49561687]

>>49560553
The only downside is I won't have my grandfather with me to enjoy living on the land. Inheritance is bittersweet.

[Anonymous No.49561706]

>>49559409
About $40k in debt. He also stole my severance pay the last time I got fired.

[Anonymous No.49561736]

>>49559800
At least your father had the decency to die and declare bankruptcy

[Anonymous No.49561793]

>>49559409

I got nothing but a couple grave lots I'm sure the cemetery filled by now. It's alright, I have my house paid for by myself and my husband. No heirs to gift it to, so will have to give to either my sister's kids or his brother's kids. Such is fickle fate.

[Anonymous No.49561857]

>>49561640
She rules with an iron fist. She says im her favourite but im her biggest disappointment for not becoming an airline pilot. She wont forgive me for not giving her the chance to boast to her friends

[Anonymous No.49561858]

>>49559644
>>49561526
Tell us the whole story. How much debt are you in. Why do you feel like she owes you HER money to bail you out? Why are you in debt anyway?

It bothers the everlasting fuck out of me there are people out there who feel entitled to their parents’ assets. Would you be salty as well if she decided to sell everything and put it all on red in a casino?

Sounds to me like she’s right to give it to the person who can best manage a large sum of money.

[Anonymous No.49561868]

>>49559409
How many acres is it? If it enough to feed yourself and five other people, you will get laid!

[Anonymous No.49561889]

I inherited around 90 grand a year ago and pissed it away on crypto. My balance is 10 grand now.

[Anonymous No.49561900]

>>49561662
She is 99% correct, money protects you from life.

You cant but inner peace but you can buy a flight to the Tibetan mountains.

[Anonymous No.49561915]

>>49559409
nah, my dad is a lovely man but he probably won't even have enough from his pension to live comfortably. He's 5 years off retiring technically and unless I support him a bit, he's going to have a shit couple of decades. Realistically my parents are going to cost me 2k/mo. until they die so I'm already factoring this into my life money plan. Mum might outlive me.

Luckily, I'm actually good with money and business so this should be fine, but it sucks that I literally can't rely on anything while my parents managed to JUST their finances when they literally had a house bought for them and managed to go through life without having to ever get a mortgage.

[Anonymous No.49561943]

i hope to leave giant bags of super valuable crypto to my grandchildren so they can afford to get pussy and not have to wage slave

[Anonymous No.49561960]

>>49561915
>Just their finances when they literally had a house bought for them
How do people manage to be so irresponsible with their own lives, absolutely flabbergasted

[Anonymous No.49561968]

>>49559409
I'm getting about $1,000,000 hopefully once my parent are gone. I am pretty sure my dads net worth is around $3M and I have to split it with my sisters.

[Anonymous No.49561995]

>>49561858
>Tell us the whole story. How much debt are you in. Why do you feel like she owes you HER money to bail you out? Why are you in debt anyway?

Its my moms money, not mine and she is free to do so as she wishes. Interesting you assume i am "entitled". I understand this is a dog whilstle word. Your type can see a man bleeding onto the street from an unprovoked attack and you will say he is not entitled to safety, or to continue living.

No, it is her money, but how would you feel, knowing that her last act in this world was to favour your already comfortable sibling? Am i that repulsive as a child that i dont deserve something?

No, i understand why, she always says "i had such high hopes for you", and tells everyone about how i used to fly planes. I had a mental breakdown at uni, and dropped out. Then i got into some bullshit office job. Nothing she can boast about.

And no, my sister is bad with money, she just cruises on easy mode. Its me that has to manage expenses day in day out. And even if what you insinuate was true, why not 50/50?

Well, i know why as i stated. Regardless i will get lucky on the market and impress my mom with my newfoundwealth. There is still time for me to earn her love.

[Anonymous No.49562022]

>>49559409
Not from my father. My mother claims I will inherit something from her, but I don't believe it and I don't want it.

>>49561960
They were never taught responsibility, cuz the things that you learn responsibility in order to get were just given to them.

[Anonymous No.49562062]

>>49561960
>move abroad because it was the dream
>start a business because it was the dream
>not be good with the actual financials
>do this for 20 years
>have 2 kids in the process
>le epic 2008 crash fucks up the business like a boss
>pick up the pieces and move back into their parent's house
>get wagie jobs
>live the 3 generation household dream (actually good for everyone desu)
>unironically own almost nothing and are the happiest they have ever been

I'm making out that my parents are morons, on some level they are, but they worked like dogs for those 20 years and unfortunately never quite made it. I respect the rebellion against the wagie life, but yeah, a bit of fiscal responsibility wouldn't have killed them.

[Anonymous No.49562145]

>>49559409
My dad doesn't even have a house, or a trailer, or any land, or even an apartment, or any money at all besides a military retirement. I'm screwed beyond belief.

[Anonymous No.49562144]

>>49561995
Still not telling the whole story, but I’ll leave it I guess.

Why are you so needy for her approval? She either truly thinks very little of you, or she is trying to manipulate you to do better. Have some self-respect and bail out. Did you already start your own family. Focus on them instead. You’re obviously not trying to earn her approval for the money, as you just stated you intend to impress her by becoming wealthy, so I cannot understand your need for approval. She sounds like a manipulative or uncaring boomer.

[Anonymous No.49562217]

>>49559409
>Have you heard this phrase from your father?
Never once my whole live and doubt I ever will

[Anonymous No.49562320]

>One day this will all be y-

[Anonymous No.49562401]

>>49562145
>relying on your parents to make it
ngmi

[Anonymous No.49562455]

>>49559409
It’s a sick song by fightstar
Check it out
CAUSE ONE DAY SON
THIS
WILL
ALL
BE
YOUUUURS

[Anonymous No.49562606]

>>49562144
>Why are you so needy for her approval?

She is manipulative. And ruthless. She cares but from a distance. Her love is conditional, shes explicitly stated this. I have a medium sized family but the only regular contact is my mom and sister. My social network is also spread out.

I meant what i said, i respect her wishes even if i don't like them or the reasons behind her actions. She considers me a disappointment. I dont feel disappointed in myself, i feel like God has set me challenges, sometimes i have passed, other times failed. Im a good person, even if i am broken. I came off my antidepressants, got my own cuckpod, and manage my finances. I have no relationship, if i fuck up i dont eat. No, i cant afford to backpack around different continents like my sister, but im a good person.

This means nothing to my mom. We spent Saturday night drinking herbal tea, watching a film and discussing the collapse of western civilisation. I will miss her, i know i wont cope without her.

My sister simply said "everyone dies" my mom is a sociopath-lite and my sister is a psychopath/ narcissisti. Im an empath by nature but have become sociopathic by upbringing.

Maybe mom is worried i will spend her inheritance improving the world.

[Anonymous No.49562655]

>>49559409
Something about bootstraps and working for everything.
German and Anglo american parents are pozzed beyond belief

[Anonymous No.49562734]

>>49562217
>Never once my whole live and doubt I ever will

Same, I am white and male and both me and my father were born in the USA.

Americans hate their kids.

I have been paying rent to them since graduating college. They have a nice house and a shore house (800k+ just for the shore house).

They purchased the shore house after my father's side grandparents died and they sold their house (I have an aunt so the inheritance was 50/50).
The aunt gave a fair amount of money to her kids so they could pay their houses off quicker.

Now my mom's parents are dead and they sold that house off.

A family friend that was like family also died (no real surviving close relatives) and they will be selling that off.

[Anonymous No.49562771]

>>49559409
This literally happened to me because I was born in a rural area. I fucking hate it

[Anonymous No.49562774]

>>49559409
a victorian house in london that rose like 90% in price (not counting inflation) from the 70's. i worry about money on the daily, like i'm not well fed, have made money from crypto and have most things that i want and if i fuck up in life and i have the house as a massive safety net.
i don't know why i'm always anxious

[Anonymous No.49562785]

>>49559409
I might inherit something but I need to acquire citizenship in a foreign country and put up with my nosy cousins

[Anonymous No.49562941]

>>49559409
Inherited some land, an old as Mercedes, a fuck tonne of junk antiques that my parents paid way too much for and isn't worth shit. The hundreds of thousands that my father literally gave away when going senile would have been nice but can't win them all.

[Anonymous No.49563341]

A while ago, my parents got $1 million in inheritance from my grandma. They still haven't payed back the $8k or so they owe me.

[Anonymous No.49563392]

>>49562606
You are her broken little puppet. I can’t respect you anon, it is what it is. She dictates how you should have lived as an adult, and refuses to let you hear the end of it when you didn’t dance the way she wanted you too. Not for your benefit, but for hers. To parade you around in front of her friends. The sad thing is you are a willful participant in this farce of a relationship.

Are you from an Asian household per chance? I hear this kind of fucked up parent-child relationships are normal there. If you’re from a white household you really got fucked.

[Anonymous No.49563401]

>>49559409
I'll be lucky if I ever have a son at this point

[Anonymous No.49563429]

>>49563401
Hahaha what is it with your faggots and wanting more worthless cattle

[Anonymous No.49563540]

The only thing I inherited from my father was debt. I literally can't get a fucking break in this life

[Anonymous No.49563564]

>>49562606
Rope now.
If you had an ounce of self respect, you'd tell them both to eat rat shit then never speak to them again. But you're sick and deranged just like them and that is why you'll never succeed or "do good in the world."

[Anonymous No.49563663]

>>49559409
Couple of homes in Switzerland and Australia and god knows how much in mining stocks. That said I suspect my brother would get some preference as they get along a lot better than dad and I. Although I'd know for a fact I'd get his cars at least as we work on them.

[Anonymous No.49563674]

The house I'm currently in. By the time I get it, it'll probably be worth $1M, or so.

[Anonymous No.49563682]

>>49563392
She wanted to live vicariously through me. I've overcome a lot of demons to make it this far. My sister is a narcissist, she wont share any of it. I expect nothing from life but that which God and luck will provide me.

The dynamic isnt quite what you think it is, me and my mom conflict. I have my opinions, she has hers, but i ultimately want to see her happy, even if my family don't feel the same way towards me. And no, not asian, yes i got really fucked. Cold indifference and mild contempt sum up my family, but at least they are not hysterically insane.

[Anonymous No.49563683]

My father didn't teach me anything or said anything meaningful to me. A weakling tortured by his hysterical wife, my mother, who alienated him from his entire family and that didn't care about anything besides watching football. Hit me often also. Now that he just retired, it's funny how bored he is. Deteriorating pretty rapidly, going to the bank and the supermarker 2 or 3 times a day. If I'm ever at a crossroads I just think what he would do and just do the opposite.

[Anonymous No.49563713]

>>49563674
So it’s worth about 2 mill right now?

[Anonymous No.49563714]

My Godfather doesn't have any kids, so he promised his entire estate (three really nice houses in New Jersey) and his businesses to me. HOWEVER he doesn't know that I'm going through a divorce and I just knocked up a 20 year old illegal immigrant qt. So he's probably not going to give that shit to me now.

[Anonymous No.49563783]

>>49559409
three shitty properties in rural parts of korea, collectively they're probably less than $50k USD, i guess it's better than nothing?

[Anonymous No.49563804]

>>49563713
No, but eitherway would be more than enough.

[Anonymous No.49563806]

>>49563564
>Rope now

I promised i wont until my mom passes. Family is important anon. I strongly considered never speaking with them again. I no longer wish they were different. In an ideal world i would become independently wealthy, take care of my family, and speak with once a year.

What would you do in my situation?

[Anonymous No.49563827]

>>49563714
>and I just knocked up a 20 year old illegal immigrant

Kill yourself.

[Anonymous No.49563846]

>>49563713
Witty. Alarming upon further reflection

[Anonymous No.49563869]

>>49563714
>he doesn't know that I'm going through a divorce and I just knocked up a 20 year old illegal immigrant qt

Make psychological preparations for the hell you are about to enter

[Anonymous No.49563900]

>>49563682
Eh, you're not alone, I know someone kind of like that, but she is a successful PhD student now, so her mom is probably proud. Still fucked in the head sometimes though.

[Anonymous No.49563908]

>>49559644
>"Life is harder the older you get"
No, that's only failures.

[Anonymous No.49563975]

>>49563714
>Plan B in the oatmeal
>Call ICE
Profit

[Anonymous No.49564037]

>>49563806
A genetic defect pretty much wiped almost two generations in my family in the past 30 years, and I was lucky enough to not have inherited it. Point is, Iost most of my family, and went my own way. Found a great wife, started my own family, and found friends I consider family. My wife’s family, albeit wary at first, have warmed up to me as well. I have a stepbrother who I love, a stepsister who I cut ties with, and a stepmother who is unforgiving because I cut ties with her daughter. You can literally create your own family away from that Harpy you call a mother with the balls your father left you with.

[Anonymous No.49564059]

>>49559409
My grandma has a statue of a black baby. It was a gift for my demented great aunt a couple months before she died. She thought it was a real baby so she kept kissing it until she died. Im getting it when she passes on. Maybe theyll be some ghosts.

[Anonymous No.49564125]

I already inherited my grandmother's house, so I don't really want anything from my parents, but I'll admit their house on the ocean in Florida is pretty sweet.

[Anonymous No.49564140]

Nothing, as they are basically, broke poor, maybe 10-15k between my brothers assuming there is anything left when they pass.
That's okay though, I am making 25-30k a month right now, 24 so things looking good.

If your parents are poor never tell them how much you make, they think I make like 2-3k a month at most. If you tell them you will need MEDS.

[Anonymous No.49564162]

my sister pawned off heritage rifles from the civil war era for heroin. those were going to go to me specifically. there is nothing left :(

[Anonymous No.49564237]

>>49559409
My dad died at 55 with a shit ton of debt and bills that my mom couldn’t afford. The house ended up getting taken by the bank and my mom pretty much lives off her social security checks

[Anonymous No.49564316]

>>49563869
W-why
>>49563975
I love her. She was actually my mistress for two years without even knowing it.

[Anonymous No.49564320]

>>49564037
Godspeed anon. I have accepted i will never have a relationship. This is just the way of the world.

Im glad things have worked out for you.

>>49564059
This is why i come to this board

>>49564162
Sisters suck.

[Anonymous No.49564341]

>>49564140
>I am making 25-30k a month right now

The fuck do you do?

[Anonymous No.49564375]

>>49559409
Around 40 million split between me and my brother which includes 2 houses worth around $2mill each.

[Anonymous No.49564402]

>>49559409
Ungrateful bastard

[Anonymous No.49564423]

>>49564341
Well, I don't want to give other anons ideas but I run my own business currently, margins are 95% profit to cash ratio currently. But yes, I'm aware of how lucky I am currently so I'm working hard as possible to make the most out of it right now.

[Anonymous No.49564465]

>>49561526
your mom is based and correct, you should listen to her advice rather than /biz/

[Anonymous No.49564513]

>>49564423
Well, good for you. Keep it up.

[Anonymous No.49564662]

>>49564316
>W-why

Ask any divorced anon. You've invited the State into your personal affairs. It will end badly.

[Anonymous No.49564708]

>>49559409
How many acres is that trailer sitting on?

[Anonymous No.49564940]

>>49564465
She isnt wrong. Brutal, but not wrong. I will find a way to make money on the stock market. And then i will escape poverty.

[Anonymous No.49564995]

>>49559409
My dad will only left debt and a golden cross chain, so following my country's laws I'll have to renounce to the whole inheritance to avoid getting his debt. Which is a little depressing because I've been wanting that necklace for some time now. I hope to incurr in his body so I can just take it. Love u pops

[Anonymous No.49565026]

>>49563869

[Anonymous No.49565324]

>>49560627
>>49564375
Here are some questions for you two:

1. For those who come from families worth more than 10+ million what are your lifestyles like?
2. What were your childhoods like?
3. How you doing now you are independent adults?
4. Did you ever live in New York? If so what was life like there as multi-millionaires?

[Anonymous No.49565414]

>>49564662
Actually the divorce is almost finalized, just waiting for the judge to sign. God bless my ex wife desu: only asked me to not make any drama and to move to another state. I'm planning to give her a surprise farewell check (about $7500) just for making it easy. I also feel bad that she has no 401k setup.

[Anonymous No.49565428]

>>49559409
I don't get shit

[Anonymous No.49565602]

>>49565414
So far, so good. And the young pregnant girl?

[Anonymous No.49565859]

>>49559409
I'm an only child, so I'll inherit everything, maybe even from an uncle as well. But from my parents...well, to be honest I don't really know, my father is very secretive with money. He makes over 200k per year and is extremely frugal. House has been paid off for decades. He invests A LOT in the stock market...but I don't really know how well he does. I know he's made money, but with the crashes and downturns, I have no idea.

My mom always jokes that when they die I'll never have to work again, but she's been a stay at home mom my whole life and she doesn't really understand money. Personally, not including the house and vacation home (and 2 cars)...I think I could realistically inherit anything between 500k and 8 million dollars in assets. I really have no idea the extent, I just know that my dad has been investing in the stock market since he started working full time in the early 1980s.

My dad's problem however, is that he invests very conservatively. He would almost always invest in something that gives guaranteed 2% returns over a risky investment. For example, he talked me out of going all in on Tesla in 2012 because it was just too risky. He didn't buy any tech stocks in the 80s or 90s, and probably not even in the 2000s. I don't think he got into Amazon or Apple until after 2015. So, while I'm sure I'll get something...it's just a guess.

What worries me is that I know the absolute majority of his wealth is in the stock market, and he'll never sell at a loss. I'm paranoid that when he dies the stock market will have totally collapsed.

Even worse though, I'm worry he'll never sell and enjoy his life. He's 70 years old, working his ass off full time despite tons of health problems, even though he has enough money for he and my mom to retire and live comfortably for another 20 or so years. I just wish he'd retire and start cashing out his gains, even if that means I get less when he passes

[Anonymous No.49566140]

>>49565602
She's pretty much the encapsulation of pic rel. Not obligated to marry her but I would definitely do it one day. She's only about 6 weeks pregnant. She also looks similar to pokemane.

[Anonymous No.49566293]

>>49559409

My grandfather. Then he died, and a year later his elder brother followed. After that, their remaining siblings and their descendants later butchered hectares of his lands, leaving none for our respective branch of the family. It was a shit show back then, but at least it still belongs under the same family name to this day.

[Anonymous No.49567227]

>>49559409
My parents have
>3 apartments (one is 100m2 (but is on brick level and the entire interior needs to be constructed) and 2 are commieblock 40m2 which they rent out)
>3 houses (one 3-storey in the city and 2 are village ones- one is ok, the other is pretty bad)
>several hectares of agricultural land and woods, spread around several locations
>around 100k dollars equivalent in the bank
The real estate sounds pretty good but that's in a really meh region of eastern Europe. The plan to liquidate most of it and buy me and my brother family-sized apartments in the capital city (tfw no gf) so we don't have to rentcuck after uni and don't have to wageslave for a mortgage for 10-15 years.

[Anonymous No.49568005]

I'm going to inherit a decent house, I don't want my dad to die...but that's what it's gonna take to be able to have the $ to do what I want to do in life and I'll be like 50-60 by then....so it's a bittersweet type of thing

[Anonymous No.49568018]

>>49565324
I was born, grew up and still live on Manhattan in the Upper East Side. It seemed pretty normal at the time. Most people are very rich, some extremely. Our wealth is nothing special, generally it felt like we were less than financially. Most of my friends range from very rich to hard B billionaires. When you're a kid you don't know or care about these things, as we approached teenage age we became more conscious of who had the nicest houses in the Hamptons who's parents were famous etc. It was a bit corrupting. I don't plan on raising children in NYC for this reason (money/status consciousness).
We never wanted for anything, nice vacations to exotic destinations in additoin to seasonal movement (summer rental, holidays in Florida, etc.) were a given and pretty much everyone is doing a very similar routine if not the exact one so when you move to a seasonal home youll see a lot of the same people as in the city. I was given a lot of help through my whole life in family connections, connections i made being around people from great wealth/status my whole life, and the money to pay for assistance like top tutors, psychologists, etc. Im in my early 30s now I really have only begun to grasp just how fortunate gradually over the past 10 years or so. The simple fact is you do not see the way others live so even if you hear descriptions it remains somewhat abstract. I honestly think i've learned a lot from 4chan.
I'm doing well as an adult, I had a turbulent twenties because of bad mental health and subsequent problems, my parents are good people but they were pretty abusive of my sister and me and it sort of fucked our circuits up - she was extreme anorexic in teens and in my twenties i was disaster (heroin, suicidality, etc.). I was able to hold down jobs fortunately and of course had enough money to get top psychological help so I made it through and am now married, healthy and thriving although I find life empty at times.

[Anonymous No.49568194]

>>49561858
>Would you be salty as well if she decided to sell everything and put it all on red in a casino?

yes. this is the difference between nobility and retarded peasants like yourself. no matter how rich you are, it will never last beyond one generation

[Anonymous No.49568211]

>>49559545
My father is a less fortunate, drunkard and poor man so he can't inherit anything to all my siblings. I just found out to invest on crypto and my life has changed the better. Thanks to solana, axie, polkadot and kava. Now, am buying the dip and considering to add honeyland and time raiders. HXD and XPND looks cool.

[Anonymous No.49568329]

My dad out right told me he's not leaving anything to us "because it wouldn't be fair". So he is currently travelling the world with my step mother. He better hope he doesn't need a retirement home. I'll find him the ghettoest gorilla niggers to tend him.

[Anonymous No.49568406]

>>49568018
That is a good turn-around there. Emotional abuse in its many forms can have long reaching impact. This is actually a recurring problem I see in wealthy families as the average person is dismissive of emotional problems in children from wealth.

Some more questions:

Is there a large gay presence in New York within the wealthy demographic?
Did you ever interact with any high speed, ambition young males in your age group during your time growing up there or now?
Did you ever see or experience any type of sex culture when there?
Do you have any servants or assistants that work for your parents or yourself?
Are your parents and their social circle old money or new money?
How did your parents come to acquire wealth and live in New York?

[Anonymous No.49568815]

>>49568406
Thanks, I owe it all to my wife who I am very lucky to have, I would probably be dead by now had I not met her.
It's extremely common and very bad depression is also very common - many of my fathers best friends come from immense wealth, never worked a day and have become very, very sad people.
>Gay presence
I mean yeah as much as any other demo i would think
>Ambitious young males
Tons. Too many to count. Many are legitimately scaling the heights of finance and entertainment business. I am quite succesful, but petering along compared to most, It's sometimes embarassing.
>Sex culture
Eh yes but probably exactly like most other upbringing experiences. It's really not all that different, our field trips are just to nicer museums and stuff. The core stuff is the same.
>Servants
We call it "staff." Nannies, au pairs, doormen etc. We have a housekeeper we have supported for nearly 25 years by now who is (i regard this as a little condescending expression) one of the family. We treat her very well, but it's an odd relationship to understand until you experience it - there is one degree of closeness neither side desires to breach.
>Social circle
I am part of the high echelon NY Old Money Wasp set. It's very unique, very little people know about it (it's preferred that way), most people think we no longer exist (even more preferred). We cross paths with a lot of new money incidentally but our core set remains very intact. My wife is from the same set, which is very typical.
>Source of wealth
In 17th century merchants/landowners in CT, then various enterprises, mainly blue chip law, beginning in 19th century NYC. So I'm around teens in terms of generations in US, around 7th or 8th generation in NYC. My father is in finance, I am in finance. Everyone in our social circle works in finance in some form.

[Anonymous No.49569503]

>>49568815

Appreciate the responses. I have a fascination with the upper echelon of New York. More questions:

What is you/your families lifestyle like? Is it glitz and glamour, parties with the famous and powerful, or is it more subdued and low key?
What is your demo's average nutrition? Is it eating meat, organs, raw animal products or is it plant based, or something in-between?
When it comes to love are there rules on who you should be with or are they ok with intermingling with commoners?
How do the families prevent a younger child growing up taking over the business and then running it into the ground?

[Anonymous No.49570141]

>>49569503
My pleasure. I'm just going to answer in a general way.
In New York it comes down to Wasps and Jews. We once ruled, now we compete with Jews, who are financially winning (by a lot). We still command social influence in many regards, particularly clubs - which are very important in this life. Jews still covet many things, particularly our clubs and our social acceptance.
We do glamorous things like shooting in England and endless black tie parties but are discreet and do not show off like jews/mew money do. We avoid flashy designer clothes and prefer well made timeless styles - a subdued wasp look is unmistakable and hard to fake, should never be confused with preppy. There are many things new money do and no-money desire above all else that we would be embarrassed to be seen doing. The notion of good manners, grace and not being tacky has always eluded jews/new money - they just don't get it.
This touched on your "commoners" remark. We are generally very gracious with people of more modest background and especially with staff - it is a cardinal sin to treat staff poorly, and is grounds from expulsion from a club, say, were you to berate a waiter or something. Most people think this is posturing but it is a sincere cultural belief in the value of gentility. Although it has a touch of 'noblesse oblige' which some dislike. We always treat those from less fortunate circumstances kindly and are never snobby - although we do enjoy sometimes being snobby with NM assholes, because they usually deserve it.
The fundamental difference between new and old money is that old money values something above money - behavior. We long ago established what we regard to be good and attractive behavior and what the optimal way to live is, so we experiment far less than NM/jews. We don't care what's happening in Cannes film festival, the Met gala is vulgar, we wouldn't go if we were given free tickets.

[Anonymous No.49570509]

>>49570141
>>49569503
Cont.
No one cares or would be embarassed to be associated with normal people or activities. We are more happy to invite people into our fold than people generally realize, it normally hinges on stubbornness concerning behavioral things - don't pull out your fucking phone at lunch, etc. We have a huge appreciation for good humorous conversation, call it bantz, and we love to drink a lot and have fun playing stupid games like golf. We all drink to excess and it is generally accepted to do so. We like fun, if you're a fun decent person that's the most important thing.
The only thing that is difficult is it can be culturally shocking for an outsider when they find themselves in a legit domain of ours - most would try to make the outsider feel at ease but it would be difficult because it is so different for most. It's anachronistic seeming.
To understand the general way it is, see the film Metropolitan by Whit Stillman. It's extremely accurate even today to the manner of things.

[Anonymous No.49570531]

>>49570141
Hmm very interesting. Particularly the part about manners, behavior, and appearance. By having a standard of etiquette it is a way to regulate the environment and to create an informal tribal barrier to keep out the undesirables without creating unneeded conflict.

How much does Wasps value beauty? What would they believe is attractive in a male for example? One of the things I have picked up on is the preference for a clean cut look and a disdain for tattoos.

Are any elements of Wasps engaged in any nightlife or taboo sexual personal life? New York for example has the greatest concentration of gay BDSM masters and Quagmire-tier kinksters with years of experiences in New York.

Going back to one of my other questions how do Wasps ensure the generational wealth in invested in the future and not burned through by a bad apple?

[Anonymous No.49570931]

>>49570531
>keep desireables out
We wish everyone would behave like us, we think it is the best way that has been conceived yet to behave, by anyone, anywhere.
>how much do wasps value beauty?
A lot. It's an almost cult-like obsession with beautiful surroundings, beautiful people, and as noted beautiful manners. Yes we we like clean cut, classic. Some will look down on tattoos, some not as much. I have a tattoo, I sometimes feel embarrassed of it. Wasps tend to like blonde women a lot, but more generally just very feminine women.
>nightlife & taboos
There is a long culture of austere upbringing in formerly all male boarding schools (Groton, etc.) - cold showers, no girls, no bs. This translated to a bit of repression sexually which exists still - we don't do PDA and most of the girls are less experienced than most. I don't hear about a lot of crazy things, the things we think are crazy are probably pretty vanilla to most. Never heard of anyone doing BDSM. It wouldn't shock or offend anyone if we heard of it, though - it would just be funny. We like nightlife but age out of conventional night clubs at some point and just go to cocktail parties and black tie events, private dinner parties weekend parties etc at some point.
>Ensure generational wealth
Not everyone does this well, but it's usually done through trusts. Otherwise someone will fuck it up, it's just bound to happen - either squandering it or giving it all away. The real problem lies in the amount of time - split a fortune 4-5 ways for three generations and it dwindles fast, unless you still have a core business that is booming. Fewer and fewer still do and rely on professions to get by and grow. The past generation or two have drifted somewhat shamefully into the practice of seeking an infusion through marrying very rich women. There's surprisingly little embarassment about doing this and we joke about it a good amount.

[Anonymous No.49571136]

>>49570931
TG ccward321 if you want to chat further, imagine we're stinking up the board by now.

[Anonymous No.49571236]

>>49561995
Your mom only sees you as an object to be paraded to her friends when you do tricks for her like a little dog. You can't ever earn her love anon, she's not capable of such a raw human emotion. Cut your losses, make your own family and earn their love instead.

[Anonymous No.49571283]

>>49570931
There is a homosexual male around your age range that I am aware of. He described small amounts of his life including sexual encounters, and snap shots of life in New York. He has great standards for beauty, intelligence, and excellence. He works in a high speed job that has him traveling to London, and working out of the new world trade center. For his personal life he seeks out fit, white, masculine males in their physical prime and treats them to a session with mixture of sex and reverence. I was pretty sure he was a Wasp but this confirms it to me. It seems like an ideal life.

What is the general position on male homosexuals from the perspective of the Wasp?

How are the Wasps able to organize and consolidate resources without being openly tribal like the Jews? It seems you can create wealth but there would be a limit on how far you can go without openly organizing.

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[Anonymous No.49571335]

>>49571136
Sorry didn't see your post. Yeah we can chat there thanks for the conversation.

[Anonymous No.49571353]

>>49559644
Is salmon a luxury item in weimerica?

[Anonymous No.49571665]

>>49571236
>You can't ever earn her love anon, she's not capable of such a raw human emotion.

Very true.

I told my mom i loved her and she has if i was doing drugs. I very much doubt I'll ever have a family, which is ok, i dont expect much from life. I wasnt made for constant human contact. It freaks me out and i have to suddenly be by myself for a long time

[Anonymous No.49571748]

>>49571353
No, but in England it is. To put things in perspective, America's current petrol prices were Englands petrol prices in 2011. Malnutrition is widespread here.

[Anonymous No.49571918]

>>49571748
Your birth giver is not a mother. She is a demon that craves psychic energy out of you. Things you need to do:

1. Look up Narcissistic personality disorder. Specifically look up Narc mother, son & daughter. This will bring some clarity to your situation. The daughter is the golden child and you are the scapegoat. There are two sub-reddits that focus on this family dysfunction including r/raisedbynarccists, and some of the posts in r/amitheasshole. There are also good YouTube content on this subject.

2. You need to go no-contact and get away from her. If you live in bongistan see if you can move to a different country..

[Anonymous No.49571970]

>>49559409
Judging from how my parents spending and how they managed their finance all their life, I will inherit nothing because they're going to sell all assets they have to clear their debt.
Fuck Boomers and their narcissistic frivolous life.

[Anonymous No.49572055]

>>49559409

Haven’t spoken to him in 8 years now, I don’t expect him to leave me anything

[Anonymous No.49572076]

>>49559409
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA

No, of course I haven't heard that

[Anonymous No.49572196]

With 2 siblings it probably won't be much, probably a fraction of their house plus a fraction of whatever investments they have left, maybe $600k-$700k if they passed away today. Certainly a good inheritance but not enough to make you wealthy enough to never work again. It's possible their investments don't do well or they live a long time so my siblings and I have to help support them, in which case we'd get nothing.

One of them fell for the pension meme so I won't see any money from that as well. Such a scam, people put their money in every month, but they don't get to pass that money onto their children when they die, the pension basically gets to steal it.

[Anonymous No.49572228]

My Dad got young onset Parkinson's and had to go into a nursing home when I was still i n high school so all I got was the life insurance payout split between my siblings when he finally passed.

Held onto it and then multiplied it during the bullrun then progressively sold off before bear market hit.

[Anonymous No.49573171]

>>49559409
My family committed suicide. So nothing. L0L!

[Anonymous No.49573664]

>>49568018
>>49568815
>>49568815
>>49570141
>The fundamental difference between new and old money is that old money values something above money - behavior. We long ago established what we regard to be good and attractive behavior and what the optimal way to live is, so we experiment far less than NM/jews. We don't care what's happening in Cannes film festival, the Met gala is vulgar, we wouldn't go if we were given free tickets.

Very interesting responses, I wish the WASPs success. Have you read this before?

https://counter-currents.com/2011/03/rockwell-was-right-part-2/

It's about George Lincoln Rockwell, and his dealings with New York WASPs in the rhetorical fight against the Jews. He talks of one guy who owned Mercury Magazine. The guy wanted to fight the jews and said he'd fund Rockwell to establish a hard-core right wing movement. This had over $70 million in the early 1960s....he promised Rockwell $1000 per year lol.

Is that the general attitude among WASPs towards Jews today? That you don't like them, but you aren't willing to do anything about it?

[Anonymous No.49573762]

my parents are renting and as far as I know have never invested and probably don't have any savings. It's not even that they don't make any money or are especially poor. They got cucked out of my great-grandma's house by my aunt and I'm not sure if they get either of my grandparents houses when they die.

[Anonymous No.49573881]

>>49559409
I don't remember the last thing my dad said to me.

Found out though my step brother I never really talk to anymore that my dad died last year, liver failure. Drank himself to death. It was more than 15 years since we last saw each other. I worry that when I'm a father in the not too distant future that I'll fail my kids in some way. I just want to provide a happy childhood where they can explore and learn some independence and I want to be there for them and teach them cool things.

Thanks for reading my blog

[Anonymous No.49574007]

>>49559409
No. You're lucky to even have that. I inherited nothing.

[Anonymous No.49574698]

>>49559409
Is it land? It isn't shitty then dumbfuck.