Who else here getting absolutely JUSTed with taxes and child support?

[Anonymous No.49503135]

I live in Boston and I am not doing okay. I make 113k/yr but only take home 1k per week. This is my 2 week paycheck.

I am having to cash out like 3k in crypto per month to live. My mortgage and bills alone are ~3k per month. If the bull market doesnt take off im just gonna go MIA, cash out 20k and live on the appalachian trail for a year.

Fuck me

[Anonymous No.49503148]

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[Anonymous No.49503155]

>>49503135
Same boat. I’m in Worcester and I make 105k but take home a little over 2k a week but that’s because I’m a rentoid. Child support for the next 11 years will probably go up because of inflation and my ex wife being a cunt.

[Anonymous No.49503204]

>making $75k in Florida
>can make $90k in Central vallry CA (family is there)
I hate cali but i love the pacific, the mountains, and obviously my family. I might do it. Any warnings?
t. Net engi
>inb4 you need to go back

[Anonymous No.49503224]

>>49503135
Actually considering the same thing regarding living on app trail for a bit

[Anonymous No.49503262]

>>49503224
I just want to disappear while the markets recover. Checking charts every day for the last month has been even more depressing than 2017 bc I had so little then.

Now, a 3x would have me set and I fucking hate cashing out a few k a monrh for basic necessities. Its like my own personal hell

[Anonymous No.49503368]

>>49503135
Not me. My first ex wife dropped dead of cancer and her shit family stopped me seeing my kids but they aren't coming after me for child support so lol. I'm finally fucking free.

[Anonymous No.49503402]

No child support. But I make about 250k annual before taxes so my tax bracket is fucking dumb.

[Anonymous No.49503451]

>>49503135
>Living above your means
Move to Dorchester.

[Anonymous No.49503486]

All the divorced people in this thread, how did your relationship fail?
Did you initiate the divorce proceedings or did she?
What advice would you give to yourself if you had a change to go back in time?

[Anonymous No.49503519]

>>49503486
Dont ever interact with women in any capacity if possible. Thats my advice. Never get a woman pregnant. Never marry. Unless you like living in suicidal misery and poverty.

Once i make it big im going to Cambodia and never coming back to the West

[Anonymous No.49503528]

>>49503486
>how did your relationship fail?
I married a woman.
>What advice would you give to yourself if you had a change to go back in time?
Don't get married ever.

[Anonymous No.49503592]

>>49503486
They vetted their significant others poorly, don't be a retard essentially but even then women will be women, it's like Russian roulette

[Anonymous No.49503839]

>>49503486
Also don't ever have anything to do with any single mothers. They're single for a reason.

[Anonymous No.49504051]

>>49503451
OP Here

I work in Allston and Marlborough. Actually live in waltham.

If I moved to dorchester I might actually kms with the commute and demographics.

[Anonymous No.49504103]

>>49503486
BBC

[Anonymous No.49505438]

>>49503592
>vetted

Incorrect. Female nature is inherently destructive. Our current system in the West encoourages devastation. The pattern of divorce and child abuse by women is too widespread to be limited to personality type. Its genetic. And the one thats created this system of misery are acutely aware of it.

All women are the same, which is ok if the socio-political framework is set up to control women. Misery is the currency of the West.

[Anonymous No.49505587]

>>49503135
>>49503486
Roasties are getting fucked and thats a good thing

[Anonymous No.49506327]

>>49503204
unfortunately we’re full. FL’s full of bugs, and ungodly heat, no mountains, your family would miss you. you’d probably hate it anyways.

[Anonymous No.49506387]

>>49503486
my advice, never get married. especially if you have assets. do a basic risk/reward analysis, you’ll find risks far outweigh rewards. don’t do it!!

[Anonymous No.49507480]

>>49504103
Damn the British broadcasting communications eh fucking British twats

[Anonymous No.49507535]

>>49506387

Just make sure she's contributing to shared wealth too.

[Anonymous No.49507543]

>>49503204
I make 70k in fl and take home 2k every 2 weeks after 401k, med, dental, taxes because the taxes are so low. Its great.

[Anonymous No.49507583]

>>49505438
Yes, vetting is the process by which you judge the women you couple with. Assessing their personality, upbringing (did she have a strong father presence?) Etc etc. As time has gone on the vetting process has become more stringent due to the general decline in valuable women.

So whilst the pool of women is in a decline quality wise it's still up to you and possible to net a high value woman, although it's getting rarer by the day...

[Anonymous No.49507622]

>>49503528
I don't want to get married but I'm getting pressured by my parents due to our culture and the fact that I'm the only son and oldest of my siblings. They really think I'm gonna marry my gf who I secretly despise. What do?

[Anonymous No.49507655]

>>49507622
Come out as a raging homosexual, they probably already suspect...

[Anonymous No.49507658]

My wife makes more than I do, but I've got more money saved... am I safe from getting divorce raped bros

[Anonymous No.49507731]

>>49507658
No zog, you are not, divorcerape your wife while you have the upperhand

[Anonymous No.49507865]

>>49503592
Pussy is a drug that clouds judgement man. It's really true. I've seen the smartest dudes ignore every negative aspect about a woman just because they have a nice ass and let them fuck.

[Anonymous No.49507944]

>>49503135
>Boston
do you pronounce it like in the movies?
>bWarston

[Anonymous No.49508000]

>>49503224
>Actually considering the same thing regarding living on app trail for a bit
when should i expect to see the news reports with the ranger shooing you all out of the bushes?

[Anonymous No.49508076]

>>49507658
You have to put your savings in a trust to be safe.

[Anonymous No.49508103]

>>49503135
sad, why not live in a cheaper area? are you some wagecuck that is forced to go to the office?

[Anonymous No.49508113]

>>49506387
It can be worthwhile if she has about the same amount of money, or has kids with you. Otherwise kids cost about 100k each to have via surrogate.

[Anonymous No.49508146]

>>49503135
Get someone to rent your house, and potentially live in your van out of the drive way.

[Anonymous No.49508161]

>>49503135
Why don't you work evenings and weekends for a year and buy the dip. Retire in a few years with gains.

[Anonymous No.49508225]

>>49507543
>>49507543
Youre literally me wtf

[Anonymous No.49508244]

>>49507865
Wtf u gay or something

[Anonymous No.49508250]

>>49508146
>rent your house, and potentially live in your van out of the drive way.
lol
ive heard weird stories like this about landbums that do exactly that and keep letting themselves in to use appliances or hang around the yard.

that's not the way it works. you rent it out. you get off the property. and you don't return without notice.

[Anonymous No.49508270]

>>49503135
This is what left wing policies get you.
Rampant inflation and numerous suicides.

You could have stopped this.

[Anonymous No.49508301]

>>49508250
>that's not the way it works. you rent it out. you get off the property. and you don't return without notice.
It is the way it works if you have a lease that says so, and rent out for cheaper prices.

[Anonymous No.49508370]

>>49508301
>and rent out for cheaper prices.
expect much, much cheaper

i used to be a homeless myself and then lived in literally the cheapest flat i could find. it'd still piss me off if the maintenance guy was randomly hanging around or letting themselves in. it's just weird for starters. especially if the person who rents has kids and some weird bum is living in the drive

[Anonymous No.49508419]

>>49508244
Retard alert

[Anonymous No.49508443]

>>49503368
how'd they stop you?

[Anonymous No.49508495]

>>49503204

both are post white hellscapes but at least california has good wine

[Anonymous No.49508498]

>>49508370
I would be fine as a student if my 30 year old landlord was coming in to take a piss or cook food, as long as I'm paying 500 a month for rent in boston.

[Anonymous No.49508523]

>>49503486

all these guys bought used goods. no hymen no diamond

[Anonymous No.49508596]

Taxes and student loans in my case

[Anonymous No.49508726]

B-b-but having a child is not that expensive guys!

[Anonymous No.49508736]

>>49507865
This happened to me, thank God I had enough sense not to marry the cunt. Ass wasn't even that good.

[Anonymous No.49508989]

>>49507622
don't do it. i love my wife and odds on us getting divorced are super low but its really just downhill

[Anonymous No.49509913]

>>49503486

You'll never get a good answer or advice from someone who failed. If they could learn from their mistakes they could course correct. I've been with mine for 16 years now, married six of them.

The most significant thing I did was establish formal expectations before we went public, stating that we were "Boyfriend and girlfriend" (implied exclusivity). Formally established that I was free to touch her any time we were alone, we'd go to bed naked every night, and I was free to take her at any time in bed, even if I woke up early and she was still asleep. She wanted the same, but also that I would cook/take her out on Sundays, as well as both of us spending two hours cleaning house on Sundays instead of going to church. We had several years where we were defacto married and I enforced all the expectations that would have otherwise been deal breakers. People never set that level of commitment up during the dating phase, and they fall apart when there's socially implied and legally enforced commitments post-marriage. We hammered out all the expectations we had for each other well in advance of our wedding date.

Also, going on or off birth control will change their brains on a chemical level. Make an IUD happen early or suffer the consequences.

[Anonymous No.49510106]

>>49508989
Why would it be downhill?

[Anonymous No.49510285]

had a kid with my jap bitch gf, ever since having our daughter she stopped having sex with me and went all crazy. im gotta give this witch 3k a month unofficially, or i dont get to see my daughter.

[Anonymous No.49510432]

>>49503135
>child support
sometimes being khv isn't so bad, the government takes 25% of my income though

[Anonymous No.49510524]

>>49509913
extremely based and autistic

[Anonymous No.49510572]

>>49510285
I am so glad I didn’t fall for the Japanese gf meme.

[Anonymous No.49511306]

>>49510524

Highly recommend combined four hours of cleaning on Sundays. It's absolutely amazing how much you can get done if you carve that chunk of time out. You can fill that time even in an apartment.
The mental health benefits of sparkling surfaces, an organized pantry/fridge, and carpets that are shampooed monthly cannot be understated. That weekly reset to pristine condition also makes the day to day maintenance that much more rewarding, since you come out the other side living in a nicer, cleaner, less dusty place.

[Anonymous No.49513383]

>>49507865
>I've seen the smartest dudes ignore every negative aspect about a woman just because they have a nice ass and let them fuck.
yes

and. they don't even need a nice ass. one of my relatives is self reportedly the most pilled person you'll ever encounter, but simped out to the max for the first person that showed them any interest; joint bank account, joint mortgage... hook line and sinker. suffice it to say, they have vastly (mirror image opposite) opinions on politics. which may create some lols down the road.

[Anonymous No.49513538]

>>49509913
Birth control is death and jew

[Anonymous No.49513566]

>>49503135
>child support
should've kys to avoid the payments

[Anonymous No.49513588]

>>49507658
I make something around 800€ less than my fiancé.. I'm broke af and my gf just keeps rubbing in the fact that she bought btc at 4500€, which I told her to, and held like a diamond hand while I wallow in the altcoin diarrhea I deserve... We don't even have sex anymore, is it over for me...

[Anonymous No.49513691]

>>49507535
>>49508113
don’t do it, anons. doesn’t matter if she make the same or more. you will get fucked in a divorce. was a lawyer anon posting about this yesterday. dude’s 100% correct. the courts will destroy you.

[Anonymous No.49515195]

>>49508270
Regan brought us no fault divorce retard

[Anonymous No.49515238]

>>49513588
>We don't even have sex anymore, is it over for me...

LEAVE HER.

[Anonymous No.49515816]

>>49503486
I married at 26, divorced at 36.

Literally 7 days after we got married, my (ex) wife started a new job, got stressed, then began to drink 4-10 shots of vodka every single evening, every day of the week. She never previously had any signs or symptoms of alcoholism. She spent the first 7 years of our marriage so drunk every night she was unable to hold a conversation. She would literally drink herself comatose and passed out in her own vomit. During our honeymoon we got in an argument about her drinking, she took her ring off, threw them out me, and yelled "fuck you, we're over."

She sobered up 7 years in. For the final 3 years of our marriage, she was just angry and bitter since she wasn't drunk. She developed a short fuse and temper. She would get so angry that she would scream (not yell) bloody murder at the top of her lungs. Every other day she'd belittle me, saying "you're boring, you're completely useless, you have no friends, you have no hobbies, no activities, something is deeply wrong with you, everyone thinks you're weird, you don't know how to dress, you're so strange, you hate having fun," and more. (I actually have a lot of friends and am very active in hobby communities, while she has literally zero friends. It was projection.) Several times she threatened to murder me and kill herself if I ever left her. I was unattracted to her and didn't want to have sex, but she kept being like "why won't you fuck me, what's wrong with you" and then mock me about that.

Glad to be free. THANK GOD we didn't have kids.

[Anonymous No.49516072]

>>49515816
Holy shit, that’s terrible
Glad you got out. Hopefully the exit wasn’t expensive

[Anonymous No.49516361]

>>49505587
>Roasties are getting fucked
isn't that obvious

[Anonymous No.49516435]

>>49516072
Thanks. Weird thing is, she's a specialist physician in good standing who works for a major hospital group. I'm a partner at a profitable medium-sized law firm. We were both high earners. We'd both literally be millionaires right now if we didn't divorce.

My advice is to know your own personal boundaries and ENFORCE THEM. Do NOT wait for things to get better. If your partner has an addiction or is abusive in any way (even emotionally), don't waste your life waiting for improvement. Don't believe them. Just leave. The rates of success for successful change of addiction and abusive behavior is low.

I lost a decade of my life to her (broken) promises that she'll seek treatment and get better. I will never forgive her, or myself for the lost time. It sucks that we both lost so much money, but at least I'm out of that situation. Now dating someone wonderful who genuinely loves me.

[Anonymous No.49516679]

>>49503204
>>49503135
Just don't come to the midwest. You west and east coast niggers (especially you west coast nigs, fuck you) are driving up our costs of living.

[Anonymous No.49516854]

My gf was a virgin when I met her. I think seriously most relationship problems boil down to bad sex. If you give her a good lay then a lot of the times, even if you fight, it's all smoothed over.

[Anonymous No.49516924]

>>49503135
Woah that's a lot of money average annual salary here is 14k. You can live like a god here

[Anonymous No.49517072]

>>49503135
Taxes? Yeah I'm Canadian
Child support? Nah, never made that mistake (yet)
I did however have a series of clusterfucks a couple years back combined with my stubborn fucking attitude put me in a hole that I've been creeping out of. I can at least see the light (I'll be paid off no later than 2024) but from my 3k/mo take home I have about $30 of funds that aren't earmarked. It's stressful as fuck knowing that if one thing goes wrong I could end up fucked again however I feel my job is pretty secure so here's to hoping I can join in on the 2025 bull-run, until then it's just lurking, shit posting and vidya to keep my mind off it.

[Anonymous No.49517120]

>>49516679
>Anyone
>Moving to the Midwest
Prices are only rising because of inflation and speculatooooors. Snow is scary, anon, nobody is moving here. So scary. So cold. Wendigo will get ya. Better move to Georgia, it's so warm and sunny and nice there.

[Anonymous No.49518598]

>>49503155
So u pay no taxes? Lmao make the numbers more realistic if ur gonna be larping. Kek or just a shittily programmed bot

[Anonymous No.49518827]

>>49506327
I'm part of the reason its full
>>49507543
Yeah see this is what's amazing. If I land WFH I'm staying.
>>49508495
Better weather too t b h (and Mexican food)
>>49516679
Don't worry brother. The only way I'm moving there is if my plan to scam the federal gov works.

[Anonymous No.49518846]

>>49516435
was there any red flags you ignored and later noticed after you got married?

[Anonymous No.49518925]

Damn, glad to live in Japan. The US sounds so cucked now. Child support? Alimony? Fuck that shit. My wife would get one payout on the split and then I'd be gone. Simple as

[Anonymous No.49519012]

>>49515816
How did she not get liver disease

[Anonymous No.49519013]

Was the unprotected sex worth it, retard?

No I’m honestly asking
>t. Only fucked with condoms or bj

[Anonymous No.49519076]

>>49515816
God send and valuable lesson. If you had a kid you would be funked as there is emotional blackmail that harpy would've used against you. She would've been cheating on you with someone at work too kek. High stress job =high risk taking

[Anonymous No.49519729]

>>49503135
I just a got a new job and I'm FINALLY making more than 6 figures (30yo Male in DFW, Texas).

Thanks to some of your posts, I ain't getting married at all. Fuck, once I pay off my Student loans, I'm getting that "permanent birth control".

Plan is to save up, get a nice house and a Porsche and eventually do some traveling. I hear Portugal is cheap to retire in.

[Anonymous No.49519824]

>>49503135
Kek take the nigger pill and bail to another country.

I'm on my final 18th year of payments holy shit bros I'm going to frame that last bill and have a party.

[Anonymous No.49521192]

>>49503135
Just upped my child support $100 to $750. Feels bad man. On the bright side, I’m getting a 15k return

[Anonymous No.49521430]

>>49519012
It takes longer than 7 years of hardcore alcoholism to get cirrhosis and jaundice. That said, she admitted after we separated that she probably won't stay sober forever and will likely have further relapses. She's not in AA and has never sought proper addiction treatment. We went to AA together like... five times, but no more. One time she drove to AA drunk and arrived totally wasted. After we left each session, she'd mock the attendees, saying "those people are a bunch of losers, I'm a specialist physician who went to a top med school, they're NOTHING like me." On two occassions, we had heartfelt discussions where she promised to go sober, and she went into the bathroom and got drunk literally 15 minutes later. Fifteen minutes. I'd say she had 40-60 failed quit attempts.

The truth is, she had no interest in being sober because she thinks she's better than everyone and "deserves a break" because she works a tough job. There is a very good probability that she'll get jaundiced at some point. Maybe THEN she'll reflect on her choices.

>>49518846
Not really. She was always overly moody and emotional, but nothing involving alcohol or emotional abuse. BTW, everyone should learn about the signs of abuse. EVERYONE. I never ever ever thought this would happen to me. I thought it was crazy when I realized I was in an abusive relationship, it just all seemed so normal.

[Anonymous No.49521599]

>>49521430
>jaundiced at some point. Maybe THEN she'll reflect on her choices.
I'm seeing that in a family member right now but with cigs, COPD and other lung issues caught up and he went cold turkey. he coughs like he's dying.
he still smokes weed, not sure how much that'll slow down any potential progress he's getting from quitting cigs

>BTW, everyone should learn about the signs of abuse.
i'll look into it anon, even tho I'm a kissless virgin.

[Anonymous No.49521613]

>married a roastie
>now single again but with more than half your paycheck going to child support aka funding your ex roastie's upgraded lifestyle while she enjoys new dick

You guys are getting cucked so hard it's actually sad

[Anonymous No.49521690]

>>49503135
better sell now so that 20k doesn't turn into 10k by the time you throw in the towel
gets worse before it gets better

[Anonymous No.49521965]

>>49515816
I am so sorry that happened to you, dude; my jaw was seriously agape while I was reading what you wrote.

[Anonymous No.49522294]

>>49507583
Yes vetting plays a role, but all women are genetically predisposed to cheat. All of them. A man with better genes or resources will always be attractive to any woman, regardless of upbringing. This isnt something to hate or revile, its just a fact.

The problem is that the current system in the West encourages the absolute worst aspects of women.

My son was happy and healthy, then she decided i wasnt going to see him anymore, and now he has autism, is failing school and is behaving aggressively. I havent seen him for 6 years and i miss him deeply. I never wanted that life for him, im from a respectable home. Its devastated the entire family.

The maliciousness of women is not to be underestimated. I will never have another child, and the one child i have is deeply troubled. Im a broken man. Broken.

[Anonymous No.49522310]

>>49507658
You'll be fine as long as she doesnt know about it

[Anonymous No.49522471]

One time I ran away on a pregnant girl and it's been years :^) Hope that's going well.

[Anonymous No.49522946]

>>49506327
Floridian reading comprehension.

[Anonymous No.49522965]

>>49522471
If you're posting on 4chan about it, it must be going awesome.

[Anonymous No.49523064]

>>49503135
By my math you should have 1k or more left over per month for retard spending (wants). What do you spend the other 4k on a month on that isn't bills?
you're still getting killed by child support though. Burgerland to get nuked for this bullshit alone, I say this as an american.

[Anonymous No.49523083]

>>49523064
needs to**
fuck can't think today

[Anonymous No.49523151]

>>49503204
Don’t bother moving. You will just need to move whenever you can’t live or put up with family anymore

[Anonymous No.49523165]

>>49503592
>>49507583
Doesn't even matter. People change as time goes on. Your high quality vetted woman can easily become a completely different person in 5-10 years. Friends, siblings, co-workers, etc can all steer them in polar opposite directions. And now you're legally tied to that person. They win no matter what happens and you lose no matter what happens. There's no way to vet someones future self 10 years down the line.

[Anonymous No.49523286]

>>49513538

It's the name of the game. Play to win, virginal brides are something that are bought by your father, not something achieved on your own thrust.

Your purity spiral nonsense results in your genome being filtered. Enough people like you fail to adapt and it's all over.

[Anonymous No.49523411]

>>49516854

Mostly right, but you can into issues if they get fat or decide they don't feel "sexy" anymore. They start to refuse, and then spiral deeper and deeper into self hatred. The flip side is that they feel highly confident in how they look and can't resist flexing it. They go on to commit an infidelity on you.

Hell of a tightrope.

[Anonymous No.49523431]

>>49508419
Coping gay bowser. You're gay: admit. YOURE FUCKING GAY

[Anonymous No.49523510]

>>49503135
kek, just start borrowing some with Equilibrium they have minimum collateralization as low as 105%.

[Anonymous No.49524224]

>>49522965
Roastie alert. Stay mad that nobody wants ur used up vag