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4415030 No.4415030 [Reply] [Original]

My gf has stolen money from me and I don't know what to do about it.

I had a little more than 90€ including some 1€ coins in my wallet yesterday night, she slept here. She left today morning to her parents just like every other friday and she took about 30€ I believe, as I only have 60€ now and none of the 1€ coins. I found out a few hours ago, I told her through whatsapp and at first she denied it but of course after some pressure she kind of admitted it, only she says she took 20€.

She smokes weed/hash and she only works 1 day a week so she obviously can't afford anything else besides weed/hash and tobacco. That's the excuse she came with, she said she took 20€ to buy hash tomorrow because she isn't getting paid until sunday.

I sometimes felt like I was missing money in my wallet, but I was never sure about it. So well.... I think it isnt the first time she has done that.

I want her to stop smoking but she is stubborn. Should I make her choose between weed or me?

What do I do? I don't want to dump her, she is the future mother of my kids, but I can't just pretend that didnt happen, I am mad.

Pls help.

>> No.4415062

>>4415030
dude dump that bitch. your girl shouldnt steal from you

>> No.4415073

>>4415030
Lock up/hide your money
She'll steal it again until you make it impossible. The worst thing to do right now is let her off without consequences. That tells her it's ok and next time it'll be $40

>> No.4415075

>>4415030

if u dont have her kids, why dont u just dump the whore? U really wont a relationship with someone who steals behind ur back, i wonder what else she does behind ur back. are u dat desperate anon?

>> No.4415105

>>4415030
>/biz/ - Business & Finance

>> No.4415107

>>4415075
>>4415062
>>4415073

But she has only done that because of her smoking addiction.

Other than that she really is perfect for me.

I can't dump her...

>> No.4415114

>>4415030
>I don't want to dump her, she is the future mother of my kids
>Potsmoking loser who steals from you

Dude you need to get your priorities straight

>> No.4415122

>>4415107

dafuq u askin for advice then u cuckboi! u will regret this decision. screencap dis

>> No.4415123

>>4415073

Yeah I will take care about that, she won't be able to steal from me again and I will probably not trust her for a long time.

How do I make her stop smoking guys? that's her issue.

>> No.4415148

>>4415122

I dont know bro I just want her to stop smoking and to get a fucking job, but she is so emotional and addicted to weed I don't know how to make that happen. I'm frustrated.

>> No.4415149

>>4415123
You can't - either join her, or walk.

>> No.4415157

>>4415030
Dump her already you cuck , she clearly has no respect for you. Once a thief, always a thief.

>> No.4415162

>>4415107
>dating an addict
>ever
dude you're so fucking delusional its hilarious

>> No.4415183

>>4415030

You didn't take care of her, that's why she stole. You don't deserve a gf.

>> No.4415184

>>4415107
U are weak, so she will take more in the future.
If a bitch stole from me she is done.

>> No.4415187

>>4415030
my ex stole from me a few times.
now shes my ex.

fuck that bitch.

>> No.4415190

>>4415162
almost worse than a stinky linki

>> No.4415194

>>4415107
She steals from you. She doesn't respect you ebough to even ask. She is using you and doesn't care. You clearly have stronger feelings for her than she does for you. Dump her now or drag it out for months, but the relationship will end eventually and probably painfully for both of you.

>> No.4415199

>>4415107
Then why not give her all your money because you already know that's where it's going. Or better yet, burn it.
Someone has to drop the hammer. It will either be you, the next guy, or the cops when she steals from someone else.

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>>4415030
>I don't want to dump her, she is the future mother of my kids
be a man and dump her.
dont give your kids a shitty mother, that's cruel.

>> No.4415207

Dont make her stop smoking. It's her decision. If you cant live with it, dump her. She would dump you too, if some of your habits bother her.

also, dump her anyways. Only trash people risk a partnership over 30 fucking euros. If she would trust you/your relationship, she would have asked you to borrow it to her.

>> No.4415224

>>4415107
D E L U D E D
THESE LINKIES ARE SO FICKING DELUDED THEY EVEN LET THEIR GIRLFRIEND STEAL FROM THEM

GETTING REKT BY SERGEY AND THEIR GF

>> No.4415227

>>4415123
Smoking what? Weed or tobacco?
You can't really make her do anything without manipulation and she'll still probably smoke behind your back. The weed can be taken care of if she had a job or something that required her to be sober all day and/or take drug tests.
Good luck trying to get her to quit tobacco though.
The motivation needs to come from inside.

>> No.4415236

>>4415107
pathetic beta fuck, you make me fucking sick

>> No.4415238

>>4415030
You let a woman near your money.
You're with a woman who smokes.
You claim some potsmoking woman is going to be the mother of your children.
You think giving her an ultimatum is going to result in anything but her having someone else's dick in her mouth before the week is out.

You might be stupid.

>> No.4415266

>>4415107
cuck

>> No.4415276

>>4415238
He's not stupid, he's a beta who is drunk on hormones

A stupid person would just believe she didn't steal it. OP thinks he is making a smart move after finding a problem and attempting to solve it; he thinks he can make a diamond out of coal

>> No.4415294

You only got one life, please do the right thing and leave her. Otherwise you probably end up as another MGTOW-advertisement in 10 years. A man shouldn't depend upon another person anyway

>> No.4415319

>>4415276
>he thinks he can make a diamond out of coal
So he's stupid.
You can't do anything with women. They do what they and the police and government back their trash up. If you do anything about you go to jail.

>> No.4415322

>>4415227

She only smokes weed/hash but of course needs tobacco to mix it with hash, but she never smokes tobacco alone.

>>4415276

>he thinks he can make a diamond out of coal

Maybe you're right... but I really need to try, if I end up failing... at least I will have tried.

I understand you guys tell me to dump her but listen, we've been together for more than 2 years already and jesus I can't imagine breaking up to be honest.

I want her to beg for forgiveness and stop smoking, then she will change for the better, or everything will go to hell.

>> No.4415323

>>4415238
I AGREE WITH YOU

>> No.4415333

Nigga when you said some 1€ coins i thought she stole crypto from you, was confused as fuck

>> No.4415370

>>4415322
>to mix it with hash
This makes it worse. She'll feel addicted to hash.

>> No.4415395

>>4415238

>you think giving her an ultimatum is going to result in anything but her having someone else's dick in her mouth before the week is out.

Then I will dump her, and she is too emotional she would never cheat on me, I can tell.

She once got a message from her exbf hitting on her, he simply wanted to have sex with her. She refused and showed me the conversation afterwards. I trust her on that matter.

>> No.4415408

That 30 would be worth allot in 2021 if you bought link with it.

>> No.4415416

>>4415322
This comes from experience when I say this: If you try to mold your girlfriends identity, in this case smoking, she will start to feel increasingly vapid as time goes on. What ultimately happens is she might fall out of love and start fucking chads and smoking with them while coming to you for your money. I used to be a cuck so I know. Learn from others here who have been there done that.

>> No.4415455

>>4415030
>I don't know what to do about it.
Dump her. If she's willing to do that then there's probably other shit she's doing that you haven't found out any. She's scum.

>> No.4415456

>thinking with your dick

Not even once

>> No.4415458

>>4415105
You mean
> /biz/ - Crypto and FUD

>> No.4415484

>>4415105
This is finance because his portofolio suffers due to gf stealing!!!!

>> No.4415497

>>4415030
You should leave her now for stealing from you what the fuck is the matter with you?

>> No.4415511

>>4415030
If she's stealing money from you and lying about it, she is absolutely fucking other guys as well. Realize that and move the fuck on. STOP BEING IN DENIAL ABOUT IT.

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4415516

>>4415030
>Should I make her choose between weed or me

>> No.4415535

>>4415030
Make her clean the house

>> No.4415539

Stealing money for fucking weed???? She sure has her priorities straight in life. Why the fuck would you be with someone that fucking steals from you.

>> No.4415540

>>4415224
That id tho

>> No.4415577

>>4415030

Its not the first time, its just the first time you caught her. If the sex is good who gives af. We all pay for sex one way or another.

>> No.4415598

>>4415577
>We all pay for sex one way or another.

repeating this fucking meme

Shut the fuck up. This dude is thinking with his dick, and his children will hate him because they have a piece of shit pot-smoking mother and a beta who's likely a cuckold.

>> No.4415618

>>4415030
>want her to stop smoking
you retard didnt even realize the problem
hint: its not the weed

my girl and me smoking too but we never stole from each other despite me having a lot more money than her

if she needs money she will ask and i will decide but she got too much respect to do that shit

tl;dr iur bitch doesnt respect you

how can you fix it? manhandle her a bit show her if she wrongs you she will regret it

>> No.4415632

>>4415183
tits or gtfo

>> No.4415640

>>4415030
Break up. She shouldn't be stealing from you. Weed is not addictive like most drugs. You may think you need it but not taking it has zero negative effectsl

>> No.4415644

>>4415030
She fucks her dealer(s)

>> No.4415670

>>4415644
this

>> No.4415719

>>4415030
Holy shit you are a real cuck

>> No.4415764

>>4415644

Her dealer is an ugly ass gypsy, so I doubt it.

>> No.4415784

>>4415644
Nah, she’s stealing money because she’s not. She is certainly fucking other guys. Seriously that’s not even an attempt on you OP. If she steals from you like this and denies it when she got caught red handed, she’s absolutely fucking around behind you.

Don’t wait until you catch her doing that. But you’re a desperate duck clearly with no spine. At the very least give her the cold shoulder and see how she reacts, if she doesn’t try to suck up to you because she feels bad about getting caught (they never feel bad about doing it just getiing caught doing it) then that’s because she’s sucking on someone else 100%. I mean it’s obvious she would fuck behind your back 100% but you’re in denial right now.

Good luck, when you realize the truth I don’t think you’ll be man enough to deal with it.

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4415785

europoor

>> No.4415789

>>4415764
>justifying her cucking you this hard

Dude, leave her. Do you want your children to have a beta cuckold as a father, and a pot-smoking robber as a mother? Do you think that she will set a good example for your children?

I will say this once again, and no more

YOU ARE THINKING WITH YOUR DICK

>> No.4415798

RED Flag. Ditch that bitch. You will never be able to trust her again.

>> No.4415840

>>4415764
If she steals for drugs, what else might she maybe do as well - especially at the source? She fucks him, 100%.

If you don't leave her asap you deserve every little bit of suffering she will cause you over the course of your life. I just pity the children.

>> No.4415843

Still to add to this discussion. You are fucking douchebag if you make children with a girl like her. You should also think about the future of your children

>> No.4415844

>>4415030
Your getting cucked and she’s getting roasted. Cut your loses and get rich and stop being poor haha

>> No.4415852

Nice, just bought 100.000k

>> No.4415873

>>4415484
Wait till she does an exit scam and cleans out the dude's bank account.
Op should consider shorting his GF

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4415884

>>4415107
>addicted to hash

Got news for you, that brown brown she smokes isn't hash nigger

>> No.4415927

>>4415030

Future unironic my wife's son poster right here.

Ah hell, you'll probably believe the baby is yours due to a half black great great great grandmother she said she has.

>> No.4415997

>>4415764
dude, just confront her about it. don't be too harsh about it just make it clear you don't want her smoking weed.

>> No.4416081

>>4415107

Just a matter of time before she starts blowing/fucking the dealer if she hasn't already

Probably took that money for the morning after pill

>> No.4416084

>>4415030
hide your money idiot and wait to see how she acts and becareful she might only be dating you for a bit extra cash

>> No.4416118

>>4415107
>But she has only done that because of her smoking addiction.
>Other than that she really is perfect for me.
... and some other kinks... right?

even if she stops smoking she will continue to steal since you are an easy source of money.

unless you kick her ass and slap the the shit out of her once in a while(or otherwise punish), you won't change that behavior.

>> No.4416143

>>4415030
Make her reimburse you for the money she takes in kinky sexual favors

>> No.4416147

>>4416143
only good answer so far

>> No.4416353

>>4416118

>you are an easy source of money.

I am poor anon.

And she said she will give me the money back on sunday when we see each other again.

I dont know guys, I understand why you tell me I should dump her but... I wont do that, I surely will punish her somehow though.

>> No.4416382

>>4415107
Cuck faggot

>> No.4416428

Bro, date someone that motivates you and isn't loose weight that you have to carry. In what way does she make you want to improve your life and motivate you? If nothing, you are just stuck in the comfort zone and afraid to leave her, been there before OP

>> No.4416515

If you would have done that to her, how would she have reacted? Anyway, have a spine and don't date someone who is holding you back

>> No.4416525

>>4415107
Dump her you dickhead. Smoking is a choice. Addiction is for the weak. I couldn't afford to smoke for years, I resorted to smoking from ashtrays and nubs from the floor. I chose to do that, I could have stopped. I never stole to get tobacco despite having many opportunities.
Dump her... It is to late to give her an ultimatum now. She has already disrespected you and you will NEVER last long-term guaranteed. The only way you last is if you dump her for it and she comes begging back to you saying sorry. Hopefully she won't because that is pathetic too. Go find a better GF and be glad you didn't get this one pregnant because you would have been dumped within the year and paying child support for the next 17.

>> No.4416566

>>4415062
Are u kidding.
First get the money back plus interest. Rip her ass off somehow.

>> No.4416609

>>4415395
Dump her you cuck. She shouldn't even be speaking to her ex if they want to fuck her. You will end up paying for her kid (yes her kid because you won't get access except for every second weekend) for the next 18 years if you don't. She is a taker, not a giver! She will take anything she wants off you. Dump her! Find yourself a proper woman.

>> No.4416634

>>4415030
That's not your money. Your finances are shared she is entitled to 50% of everything you have. You owe her 35 euros pay up.

>> No.4416638

>>4415107
You are justifying her actions. She stole your money..but muh poor girl dindu nuffin...shes a perfect match...kekekekek
What a cuck. You are finished.
Protip : she is not with parents

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4416666

>>4415122
kek.
/thread

>> No.4416710

>>4415030
Op, just dump her or people will make a tv show about you called "The adventures of Cuck Finn"

>> No.4416745

>>4415107
this means if she can't get cash from you she's going to start sucking some drug dealers D for some of those XMR coins.

>> No.4417158

>>4415030

You don't want to be with this woman.

>She doesn't respect you and is using you, in which case she will likely cheat on you.

>She's irresponsible; doing drugs is one thing but when you can't sustain your habit on your own that show's complete lack of self control and responsibility. meaning she would make a terrible mother in the future.

> She's not above stealing which means she lacks morals, what do you think is stopping her from sucking dick for weed?

Sure maybe she's a cutie and blinks her cute little eyes at you to make you stay and forgive her. Maybe she acts loving and affectionate or whatever. I've been there dude, but if you respect yourself you will not put up with this. Don't try to fix her either, she's beyond repair at this point, cut your losses and find a decent girl to have white babies with.

>> No.4417195

If she's stealing for drugs you need to dump 100%

>> No.4417219 [DELETED] 

>>4415030
>implying somebody that steals from you won't also cheat on you

OP, you're going to eventually learn a hard lesson if you don't man up now and cut that person out of your life.

>> No.4417224

>>4415030
You just went all in on a Pump & Dump.

>> No.4417239

>>4417158
>She doesn't respect you and is using you, in which case she will likely cheat on you.

100%

>> No.4417378

>>4415030
Only advice I can give you is buy chainlink. You'll be rich in less than two years and your gf can steal much more money from you. Win win.

>> No.4417392

>>4417378
>buy my heavy bags please

>> No.4417458

>>4415030
hmm
>European
>Stoner degenerate
>Concerned about a small amount of cash
Go back to Facebook or /soc/

>> No.4417484

>>4415107

You a big dupey

>> No.4417591

>>4415107
My wife was also perfect for me. Then she came home from a holiday and wanted to divorce me and move into another country. Leaving me with a 2 year old child and a dog. Many women, like many men, are not honorable. When the trust is broken, it can't be fixed.

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>>4415030
>she is the future mother of my kids
top bait lel

>> No.4417778

>>4415030
HOLY SHIT DUMP THAT FUCKING BITCH.

WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH LOW-TESTOSTERONE BETA MALES?

SHE'S. USING. YOU.

SHE. DOESN'T. CARE. ABOUT. YOU.

YOU. ARE. LESS. IMPORTANT. TO. HER. THAN. HER. DRUG. ADDICTION.

FIX YOUR FUCKING LIFE.

>> No.4417779

>>4416353
Time for you to learn a hard lesson OP. The weed and the stealing is not the issue. She has no respect for you and has no integrity either. Meaning she can (and will) cross other lines at some point.

>> No.4417816

>>4415107
B E T A
E===T
T===E
A T E B

>> No.4417845

>>4415030
Lol she’s probably fucking her dealers man. If you don’t smoke and she does and you’re not buying her shit...how else you think she’s getting it you fucking cuck?

>> No.4417848

Shes not your girl friend. Shes a rather inexpensive prostitute. Keep fucking her, just wrap it up. Most of the autists on this board would kill for what you have.

>> No.4417869

>>4415395
>she is too emotional she would never cheat on me, I can tell.
You had me up until here. Tried too hard.

>> No.4417913

You can't fix an addict OP. Unless you guys are about 17, in which case you should fuck off from boards where grown ups discuss their internet meme money.

>> No.4417916

>>4415030
an addict that steals money from you is the future mother of your kids?
Fucking degenerate cuck, off yourself.

>> No.4418000

>>4415107
Don't think with your emotions, women do that

Real men think with their brain so fucking dump her you soy boy

>> No.4418089

>>4415107
Enjoy the future misfortunes she will rain upon you, cuckboy. Just remember that anon tried to warn you and you were too stupid to listen.

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>>4415107
Poopy shit biznezman, get on my aryan waifu level srs you can't. Sad

>> No.4418399

>>4415030
>>4415030
>>4415030
>>4415030
HAHAHAHA

the fuck is wrong with people. If she is your misses fucking shout her like her mouth was yours.

holy fuck what the fuck is life

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>>4415030
Women are a bad investment; /thread. Go back to /r9k/ or /pol/.

>> No.4418437

>>4415030
>she is the future mother of my kids
This worthless cunt is the future mother of your kids. Well sure if you want to completely fucking destroy your life go for it.

>> No.4418465

>>4415030
>future mother of my kids

Let me me welcome you to
>The Future Child Support Sucks Club.
I'm a 2 time retired member.

>> No.4418487

Who cares its only 30euro you poorfag
Maybe if you werent such a tight ass jewish fuck she would be able to ask you

>> No.4418501

>>4415416
Feels so bad in retrosprect.

>> No.4418559

>>4418414
yes yes good goy

>> No.4418575

>>4415107

Bro I know thats how you feel, but you need to dump her now

If she comes back then you have the leverage in the future, if not then she doesnt really care about you and thus good riddance

>> No.4418630

>>4415618
Personally I just think she might be on something else. Weed doesn't make you steal. She might be on meth or something.

>> No.4418788

>>4415030
Act now or forever be a cuck.

The way to deal with this is to start treating her as a prostitute. A cheap one at that. Next time you sleep together suprise her with a finger in the pooper, if she objects, hit her accross the face with a pimp slap.

After you finish, pull out a twenty from your wallet, put it on the dresser, give her a wink and say: dont spend it all in the same place. Then excuse yourself and take a shower.

>> No.4419037

Tell her it turns you off when she smokes and that it makes her look sad and all that kind of shit. Do it till she feels really bad about it. I would for sure dump her tho, I know her kind.

>> No.4419054

OP knows what to do. It's up to him to grow some balls and actually fucking do it. Fucking kill her.

>> No.4419079

>>4415030
B8

>> No.4419117

>>4419054

Well I'd kill her for half a BTC...

Should I post my address?

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>>4415123
>How do I make her stop smoking guys? that's her issue.

No, it's your issue you absolute faggot. If you are that much of a stupid fucking cunt to go out with a druggie who steals off you to fund her habit you should get your priorities straight.

This whole thread smacks of the reactionary bollocks used to slide /pol/ threads. Why are you posting this here not on /rk9/?

If this is real you are a beta cuck faggot and should kys.

Jesus wept.

>> No.4419348

>>4415030
Your first mistake was living in the European union

>> No.4419420

>>4415030
>keep money away from her
>she fucks local dealer and gets high anyways

>try and help her
>she doesnt really want it and steals and gets high anyway

>keep her locked up
>she resents you and hates you

>you tell her if she doesnt stop shell be out on the street as a single mum without you in her life
>she either leaves or cleans up

Don't be scared about her calling your raise and leaving, and you have to follow through if she does it again. You're about to be a dad, act like one.

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>>4415030
>She smokes weed/hash and she only works 1 day a week
> she is the future mother of my kids

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAH

kill her and yourself, fag

>> No.4419553

OP pic is niggercock.jpg
Story is so obviously fake. Putting in the "going to her parents" is obvious bait to assume she is going to the drug dealer.

>> No.4419589

>>4415030
Mate, just say you know she did it and what makes her think she can take anything in life without permission.... Then see what she says about you taking her anus without permission... Kidding... But seriously, but ask why . I'm happy to give my girl money but she wouldn't never take it off me without asking. Tfw my girl is the only trustworthy woman I know

>> No.4419666

>>4415030
Don listen to these absolute clowns. People steal and can be changed. Don't put an ultimatum on her . I wouldn't stand that even if I was a thief. Cater for her... Never leave shit where she can get it and say nothing. She will get the point

>> No.4419690

>>4419666
Who cares what you would stand if you were a thief? If you're a thief, fuck you!

OP, you're about to get into some serious shit with a girl who goes behind your back, steals from you, and does drugs. You know what you're getting into. Don't say no one didn't say anything when you're having these same problems in 5 years and you're stuck taking care of and picking up after her and your kids.