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> GF wants to get into crypto & options after seeing my constant gains
>Tell her not to due to the risk, but after month of insisting I gave in.
> I proceed to give her resources, offer her advice (Fin. Major & CFA, so I'm literally a financial advisor) and teach her a bit
>Tell her I'm not comfortable with handling her money due to conflict of interests and not wanting to risk her shit
> Try to push her away from risky trades and more into just regular ETFs since she's very loss averse
> Proceeds to ignore almost all my advices and does retarded trades, literally buys at ath and swings as soon as she sees -10%, or buys into meme stocks
>MFW we're on the verge of breaking up over this shit

Why are women like this /biz/?

>> No.29909439

>>29909352
You are a faggot, put a baby in her that is her only purpose.

>> No.29909486

Bc they’re stupid. There’s a reason men manage the financials and give their wives allowances each month like a teenager

>> No.29909563

>>29909439
This

>> No.29909626

>>29909352
Seems like she's fit right in with /biz/

>> No.29909636

>>29909439
yep

>> No.29909684

>>29909626
jej

>> No.29909704

Don't talk to people about investing if they aren't already doing it on their own and seasoned at it. I recently ended a decade long friendship over this type of shit because the newfag trader retard got pissed that my advice was wrong and blamed me for his losses. Only talk to people about this shit if they are used to losing money/bagholding and still do it, everybody else is just expecting you to be some fucking guru that gives them magic advice that will make them rich beyond their wildest dreams.

>> No.29909716

just now realizing that i trade like your GF...

>> No.29909823

>>29909352
Why would you show her the gains you make in the first place?
Should have just spent some money on a wedding ring and kept her blissfully ignorant until death.
Women lead much happier lives not having to deal with jobs and finance anyway.

>> No.29909861

>>29909352
My gf told me this week she's pondering giving me her money so I can make her some money, I immediately told her no fucking way, not only won't I manage your money, I won't let you gamble your money away, best I can do is give you $10 for you to play with and to get this idea out of your head once you see it go to 0 in three days.

>> No.29909865

>>29909352
sorry bro your gf is busy taking the BBC

>> No.29909893

>>29909439
Based. Op take her money and invest it. Better than letting her do it.

>> No.29909925

>>29909352
We need people like her. She makes me money.

>> No.29909966

>>29909704
I agree, that's why I didn't wanna comment on specific trades or crypto (I even try to be as objective on projects that I shill super hard over here) and instead I was trying to guide her to make her own conclusions. But well in the end she shat the bed and is trying to blame it on me. I'm sure that if the inverse had happened she'd probably be telling me how my education is a joke. Honestly this is just pushing me into dumping her desu.

>> No.29909969

>>29909865
Mentally ill

>> No.29910036

Women are a meme

>> No.29910160

>>29909865
based and cuckpilled

>> No.29910201

>>29909823
I only talk on percentages. She has no idea what my net worth is, but I have such a comfy life that she has some idea that I'm doing pretty good for myself. Since this is one of my main jobs I just talk about it. It'd be kinda weird to have a relationship and not talk about your job, no?

>> No.29910272

>>29909865
Mutt's law in full effect

>> No.29910378

>>29909352
She’s gotta learn on her own. I think you’ve handled the situation well so far

>> No.29910411

>>29909865
She probably heard of BSC from op and imagined something simillar.

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29910416

>>29909352
I've had a recent experience with something similar. Never again. People are so quick to forget all the good advice you share with them at the slightest downswing. I find it really insulting now when people ask for advice or try to make out im responsible for their financial decisions. Its not worth losing friends over.

>> No.29910428

>>29910201
Are you 7 figures? I understand if you won’t say but curiosity speaks in my place

>> No.29910497

>>29909966
I have two IRL friends I talk to about crypto investments, both of which were already into stocks and both of which are big gamblers so they're used to losses. Everybody else just knows I'm in crypto and have made decent money... I've had a couple people ask me to take their money and manage their crypto for them and I told them "I can't do that it'll fuck up my taxes sorry"

>> No.29910500

>>29910416

I like talking about stocks and discussing them but I don't do it anymore. When people FOMO in as soon as you mention a stock you just know you'll get blamed.

>> No.29910551

>>29909352
>MFW we're on the verge of breaking up over this shit

why exactly? is it because she's losing money or because she's blaming you?

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29910569

>>29909439
This. Women shouldn't have rights.

>> No.29910608

>>29909439
>put a baby in a crazy bitch

>> No.29910632

>>29909352
Dump her and get a younger hotter gf

>> No.29910660

>>29910428
I think if you took all my assets I'm MAYBE on 9. Low 8 liquid (crypto, portfolio, business and bank account)

>> No.29910721

>>29909966
>I was trying to guide her to make her own conclusions. But well in the end she shat the bed and is trying to blame it on me. I'm sure that if the inverse had happened she'd probably be telling me how my education is a joke

tell her and if she can't see things from your point of view then just start looking for a replacement. better to have something like this happen sooner than later and she keeps you from seeing your kids and takes your house

>> No.29910769

>>29909439
this

>> No.29910782

stop talking about bridges if you don’t get how they are working
this hypebus wouldn’t work on /biz/
go tell about this shit on FB or TWITTER lil tard
my broz not a retards , we hold and stake on Jul

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>>29910660
Wow that’s insane, thanks for sharing

>> No.29910834

>>29910551
She's blaming me for not being more proactive and better at warning her. Which is complete bs, but I reacted poorly so I fell for the "it's not what you said it's how you said it" meme... Fucking women.

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29910895

>>29910500
Yeah especially when they're not experienced investors or women (they seem to be the most susceptible to every noob mistake in the book) Creates an awkward situation kind of like this dave chappelle bit:

https://youtu.be/_ZHrSK0l3dY

>> No.29910978

>>29910660
you've started in which category ? 4 hell figures ? 5 ? 6 ?
sorry, i shouldn't ask but i'm kind of curious

>> No.29910992

>>29909352
Eh, let her lose it. If she's serious about getting into this shit she'll toughen up, learn some lessons, and do better next time.

>> No.29910993

>>29910660
sounds comfy. Honestly, it sounds like your gf has no clue about your total net worth so if she is being this grasping on getting introduced to finances you might need to either make her your barefoot and pregnant baby factory or really reevaluate why she is your gf and look elsewhere.

>> No.29911054

>>29909439
this is retarded. You can't have kids with just any women especially if you have a lot to lose.

>> No.29911095

>>29910978
>sorry, i shouldn't ask but i'm kind of curious
you have to go back

>> No.29911212

>>29909439
>impregnating a low class peasant-tier retard instead of upgrading to a smarter, wealthier woman
You're all retarded.
OP you better dump her ass and grow up.

>> No.29911228

>>29910834
>. Which is complete bs, but I reacted poorly so I fell for the "it's not what you said it's how you said it"

don't fall for that shit. and just try to keep things rational and tell her it's not cool of her to try and fault you for things that are out of your control and for trying to help her learn when you didn't even want to do it in the first place.

Just let her know that you won't help her learn anymore if she's going to put you in these situations where she acts irrational and blames you for her own fuckups especially when you already tried warning her.

Do NOT let her spin this and try blaming you. At most apologize for losing your cool but remember she put you in a tight spot and acted irrational

>> No.29911318

>>29911228
>keep things rational
>woman
tell me how I know you are a kissless virgin

>> No.29911332

>>29909352
She has money? Weird.

>> No.29911418

>>29910608
>>29911054
>>29911212
most women go crazy BECAUSE you don't put a baby in them
take the babypill already

>> No.29911523

>>29910978
No worries. Started from a 5 figure loan my father gave me after graduation. I'm from a wealthy family so I didn't pay for my education and I was completely debt free by graduation. I've always had the possibility of going into the family business if I didn't make it, I think that made me take riskier trades that ended up (thankfully) paying off. Now it's gotten to the point where the wealth just accumulates almost on its own. I'm super frugal and don't really spend most of it. But I live super comfy, really nice flat, really nice city and I travel a lot. I've also inherited some property that I rent out in my home country from my grandad, and that's been appreciating dramatically.

>> No.29911576

>>29909716
hahaha

>> No.29911641

>>29910993
Yeah, as I said above I don't think she knows how deep the pockets go. It's kinda intentional based on poor past experiences (for example she thinks I rent). But it's situation like this where she shows her true colours that make me think I'm done with her shit.

>> No.29911721

>>29910660
If you're that wealthy, why isn't your gf just content with the idea of being in a relationship with you?
Does she really want to go through the hell of staring at lines going up and down just to compete with you?
She sounds mentally ill, but then again there are many women with this same temptation.
Ever since the fall of man, women have had this temptation to "do what the boys are doing".
And despite what all the incels will say, you can even see this in children.
>boys have a club/sport/game
>girls go to their mom/dad and say "how come I can't do what they're doing?"
>mom proceeds to hassle the school to let girls into woodshop class
>not because her daughter wants to learn carpentry, but purely because she wants what the boys are doing
It's something that will happen until the world stops turning.

>> No.29911756

>>29909352
Nigga has a gf that tries to learn the things he does and loves to get closer because she admires him, and OP still come to complain here
Grow up and marry the cunt

>> No.29911837

>>29911054
ngmi

>> No.29912091

>>29909439
>things go to shit when the women is given independence
>who could have predicted this?

This anon is correct

>> No.29912151

>>29909352
>Explain thusly
Male brains fire more often backwards and forwards and female brains fire more often side to side. This means the left side of the brain (logic,math,problem solving etc.) in men has less communication with the right side (emotions, empathy, imagination) than it does in women. Therefore, men can detach their decisions from their emotions far more easier than women can and can, more often than not, make sounder financial decisions if given the appropriate tools to do so.
This has the negative effect of making it harder for men to swap between the two sides of thinking when one side of the brain is more active than the other but that's irrelevant to this argument.
You can train yourself to think in alternative patterns but it's high effort until it becomes automic.
>tl;dr most women are too emotional to handle money

>> No.29912263

>>29911721
I don't think she's with me for the wealth (you would definitely not realize the extent of my net worth from my demeanor and spending habits). I think there's a part of her that wants to "make it" that I really respect. I mean I had the same, I constantly wanted to "make it" even though I didn't need to cause I was born privileged just to prove to myself that I could. But this shit of blaming me for her mistakes is not gonna fly.

She is younger than me, so that may explain part of the problem. Relationship arguments are always hard for me cause I tend to be quite "autistic" to emotions and will just speak my mind with little regards to her emotions. That just takes the argument to never ending bickering.

>> No.29912311

>>29911756
Actually didn't see it this way anon. Thanks for that point of view.

>> No.29912427

>does retarded trades, literally buys at ath and swings as soon as she sees -10%, or buys into meme stocks

>Why are women like this

bruh that's my exact playstyle and I have a cock and balls.

>> No.29912473

>>29912427
perhaps we are just trannies in waiting

>> No.29912548

>>29909352
Because they’re strong and independent and can figure it out on they’re own like their boomer daddy’s taught them! They don’t need you to help them make good decisions! They already know what’s best for THEM!

>> No.29912596

>>29912263
Fair enough, I just hope she doesn't see her failure at trading as a reason to dump you.

>> No.29912747

>>29909352
she wants you to tell her 'thats enough now' and to gtfo from trading because this is work, not fun and normies are just loosing money. you dont want to mix bizlife and romancelife. tell her to take this last deal or leave because if she doesnt, this shit will ruin your relationship anyway and you are serious.always best to take advice from nogfbizautists

>> No.29912864

>>29909352
Its not just women that do this, its 99% of NPCs. That's why I stopped giving any advice. Nearly every person I've tried to help ends up going full retard the second I'm not hovering over them. Its tiresome. There are a few I've helped that didn't go full retard. Both are unironically 135+ IQ. Even with that, its not a sure thing. Introspection and emotional self regulation are traits that make good crypto investors, not necessarily IQ.

>> No.29912892

>>29909486
Not in Japan

>> No.29912921

>>29912427

Biz when men do retarded shit: 'That's just men risk taking, boys being boys, we have balls'
Biz when women do retarded shit: 'Heh, women.'

>> No.29913068

Yeah it's just asking for trouble. The second she loses money on anything she will seethe over it. You tried to make her educate herself, she did not do so. Totally her fault, but she will seethe anyways. This is true for a lot of people who take advice from friends etc., but a GF being pissy because she's a shitty investor is definitely the worst scenario. Thankfully for me, my friends also trade and fully understand the risks. So there's no seething in either direction if a stock we discussed goes to shit. I manage my Mom's retirement money but that's all in boomer investments at this point.

>> No.29913140

>>29912921
Difference is the man typically took on the risk because they wanted to, and fully understood the risks and potential rewards. A GF trying to copy their BF without any investment knowledge is just someone fucking themselves over, especially when they ignored the advice of their BF.

>> No.29913151

Have fun getting sued OP

>> No.29913544

>>29912311
I'd keep what other anon said in mind and also remember that your gf may view wealth very differently than you do. It sounds like the worst outcome for you if you'd turned out to be a shit trader and lost all your money was that you'd have to go work for the family business where you'd be wealthy regardless. Having that kind of safety net lets you view losses very differently than someone who has no wealth to invest except that which they directly earned via wageslaving.

Wealthy people with safety nets and long term investors/gamblers who are used to losses like you see around here are going to react very differently to loss than normies. Your gf may have never had an experience like this where she just straight up lost money for "no reason" without getting anything at all in return.

I'm 100% on board with what everyone else is saying regarding giving advice to friends/relatives but you should give your girl extra consideration.