/biz/ - Business & Finance

[Anonymous No.29614229]

I miss my oneitis so much bros

She left me October 2019 and I still dream about her every night

[Anonymous No.29614308]

>>29614229
It's more comfortable to cry in a mercedes, than a cardbord box at least.

[Anonymous No.29614385]

>>29614308
We I’ve also lost 65k in the last few days

[twenty !!dtJOBm5DdiM No.29614569]

>>29614385
that shit realised?

[Anonymous No.29614651]

>>29614229
lol how old are you?

[Anonymous No.29614719]

>>29614569
Nope but I’ve gotten fucked cause my two main holds took a nosedive (GRT and AMPL)

Honestly gonna probably kms soon, my only hope of getting my oneitis back is being super rich to win her back like in great gatsby

[Anonymous No.29614843]

>>29614651
23

She’s a beautiful French Canadian brunette from Montreal I met, sweetest girl I’ve ever known and she loved me so much but I was so depressed I was mean to her and pushed her away

Tried to get over her by roiding and slaying a bunch of thots on tinder but it didn’t work no girl can compare to her

[Anonymous No.29614913]

post pic of her, cover the eyes or something for privacy

[Anonymous No.29614960]

>>29614719
a-anon, you do know what happens at the end of The Great Gatsby right?

[twenty !!dtJOBm5DdiM No.29615038]

>>29614719
thats kinda sad
you should really move on from ampl
consolidate into solid holds, stop checking price
if you really love her either try and get her back or move on and focus on yourself

[Anonymous No.29615254]

>>29615038
Well I have 65,000 GRT I think it’s enough to make it

And AMPL is my moonshot hold, the fact it spawned to many copycat rebase tokens makes me super bullish on if

[Anonymous No.29615272]

>>29614719
>Honestly gonna probably kms soon, my only hope of getting my oneitis back is being super rich to win her back like in great gatsby

No you aren't faggot stop lying

>She’s a beautiful French Canadian brunette from Montreal I met, sweetest girl I’ve ever known and she loved me so much but I was so depressed I was mean to her and pushed her away

First figure out if you're not lying to yourself again. If it's actually what you want. Tell her. be straightforward but don't grovel

[Anonymous No.29616655]

>>29614229
>oneitis
cucked by a bitch that doesn't even know you exist. sad

[Anonymous No.29616836]

>>29616655
We dated for 6 months and she was obsessed with me but I pushed her away by being mean cause I was depressed

[Anonymous No.29617143]

>>29616836
what exactly is stopping you from getting her back pussy, apologize for being a stupid faggot and keep moving forward
if you're lucky she's only taken 2-3 other dicks by this point

[Anonymous No.29617355]

>>29617143
She lives in another country and speaks another language so I don’t think it ever would have worked out long term

[Anonymous No.29617445]

>>29614229
MOVE ON YOU FUCKING PUSSY

[twenty !!dtJOBm5DdiM No.29618425]

>>29615254
ok well that's a good reason not to kill yourself

[Anonymous No.29618757]

>>29614719
GRT will come back. I can tell you this as a fact.

[Anonymous No.29618903]

>>29614229
Stop referring to her as your oneitis - doing that kind of shit just makes everything worse. Focus on yourself, focus on your own interests and improving your own life. If she was as obsessed with you as you say, give it time and she's bound to come sniffing around again. And when she does, fucking hell, play it cool. Don't give up hope, but put yourself first, bro.

[Anonymous No.29618948]

march 2014

[Anonymous No.29619151]

>>29614843
hey bud had this experience when I was about 20. 26 now and the pain never went away just dulled like an old wound.

Just learn to live with it and do better next time

[Anonymous No.29619338]

GGGAAAAAYYYYYYYYYY

[Anonymous No.29619583]

>>29614843
holy fuck dude i literally did the same thing including the roid and tinder. i lost the girl because i was just a dick to her from being shared of ever being a beta, but I went to far into the other direction. i guess in long term relationships you need to be a little beta or romantic once in a while, but I was too depressed and an asshole.

[Anonymous No.29619643]

>>29614229
She probably getting creampie done reeeeeeallllll gooood right now. She saying ooohhh daddyyy, my ex never hit me right there like you do. You own me bb

[Anonymous No.29619729]

>>29614229
I still regularly dream about my HS crush, it's been 8 years since I've last seen her
I never dreamt about my (ex)gf nor any of the other girls I've been with

[Anonymous No.29619851]

>>29614229
November 2020 here.
Still think about her daily, I don’t really miss her per se, but I miss being happy.
Money is still fine though.

[Anonymous No.29620009]

>>29619729
Same. It’s a curse.
Does this happen to most men?

[Anonymous No.29620176]

>>29614229
just find another girl and youll stop caring

t. future you

[Anonymous No.29620378]

>>29614229
I still have dreams, about once a week, about my middle school girlfriend. It's been about 10 years, we've both had other relationships since then but somehow that left a profound impression on my subconscious. We see each other once a year or so and catch up, and she's been changing in ways that make her unattractive to me anyways, so consciously I don't have romantic feelings towards her whatsoever.
But when I go to sleep I have these nice little dreams where we're talking on the phone or having a picnic at night, and I'm so happy. Even when I'm dating other girls I'll have these. I wonder if they'll last forever.

[Anonymous No.29620438]

>>29614719
why would you own AMPL that shit is a scamcoin

[Anonymous No.29620439]

>>29619729
daaaaang same bro lol

[Anonymous No.29620501]

>>29614719
There are so many women in the world. I'll never understand this.

[Anonymous No.29620534]

>>29620176
This is false. I've had three other gfs and some flings but my first one is the only one I still think about. She set the bar so high no other 3D woman has even scratched it. I know it wouldn't have worked out in the end, but those days are definitely the highlight of my life at least to this day.

[Anonymous No.29620575]

>mfw still recall autistic tomboy giving me earbeatings about her chibi fascination and dance class


I came so many times remembering her athletic
body doing splits and gymnastics. how glamorous she looked on stage. she was perfection.

[Anonymous No.29620595]

>>29620378
Adolescence is not only an important period in life, but that it is the only period where one may speak of life in the full sense of the word. The attractile drives are unleashed around the age of thirteen, after which they gradually diminish, or rather they are resolved in models of behaviour which are, after all, only constrained forces. The violence of the initial explosion means that the outcome of the conflict may remain uncertain for years; this is what is called a transitory regime in electrodynamics. But little by little the oscillations become slower, to the point of resolving themselves in mild and melancholic long waves; from this moment on all is decided, and life is nothing more than a preparation for death.

[Anonymous No.29620821]

>>29619583
mfw same thing happened when I first discovered redpill shit. I was insecure about being a gigamanlet and I pushed away someone who actually for the first time in my life could have loved me. I honestly probably fucked her up pretty badly but she got me back by cheating on her boyfriend with me the summer I came back from college (she lied and said she had no bf), tried to kiss me but I was so autistic and fucked up I pushed her away and we just cuddled, legit felt better than having sex. mfw she then said she hated me and went back to the other guy. still fucking hurts after 4 years. last I've heard the other guy found out she cheated on him and just used her like a cumrag. really makes me wonder if this whole shit storm is my fault. thanks for listening to my faggot blog post I guess

[Anonymous No.29620946]

>>29620595
>tfw wasted my adolescence and 20s in dissociation
It's not too late to fall in love, is it? t. 31

[Anonymous No.29621054]

My ex is such a slut and posts raunchy pics on Instagram but I still miss (having sex with) her

[Anonymous No.29621679]

>>29614229
Same here. I got dumped 6 months ago from a 5 year relationship. It started as a LDR, and then I moved to her country, leaving everything else behind. Now back at my homeland I have to rebuild my life again. I feel you. Some days I feel good, but most of them I feel like the most worthless and pathetic thing in this world.

I believe it is possible to end the pain (It must be..). You should give all this love to yourself instead. You think so much about her, worry so much about her.. you should start being more selfish and treat yourself as you would have treated her.
I believe that once you fix your issues and dedicate 100% to yourself, good things will come.

Be rational about this. Although it was hard to find this perfect soulmate, it is 100% possible you find another one, and even a better girl too. Someone that will not hurt you and won't stop loving you, because her love will be genuine.

Stop loving and thinking about someone that hurts you so much, it will only hurt you more. She is not worth your time. It takes a real man to be so loving and devoted to another person, you deserve so much better than this. I really wish everyone in the same situation the best.

[Anonymous No.29622066]

>>29621679
Nah I’m fully blackpilled about looks, I used to be high tier normie now I’m low tier at best, I have lost a lot of hair and my skin has gotten really bad cause of aging and tanning and I’m lazy and depressed so I’m fat now

Not ever gonna be able to attract hot young French girls anymore oh well, at least I got to experience love once in my life that’s better than most men. Hope reincarnation is good to me.

[Anonymous No.29622282]

>>29620378
Same bro. I'm still in some ways in love with my 7th grade girlfriend. If I close my eyes at night I can 'feel' her essence and see her vividly from when we were kids loitering outside class on bathroom breaks and how we'd hold hands under the desks and her skin on mine would feel otherwordly. I have her on instagram and she lives in California now (I'm a bong), she's a tattooed junkie looking arthoe now and she disgusts me to no end. I actually wept for the first time in a long time when I found her on instagram because it felt like the sweet girl I once loved was dead.

[Anonymous No.29622355]

>>29620946
I've lived so little that I tend to imagine I'm not going to die; it seems improbable that human existence can be reduced to so little; one imagines, in spite of oneself, that sooner or later something is bound to happen. A big mistake. A life can just as well be both empty and short. The days slip by indifferently, leaving neither trace nor memory; and then all of a sudden they stop.

[Anonymous No.29622441]

>>29614229
Why did she leave anon?

[Anonymous No.29622453]

>>29619643
HAHAHAHHAHAHA

[Anonymous No.29622457]

>>29614719
>>29614385
>>29614229
anon stop giving a shit about money and descend into self-reflection hell. that's what you need. you'd still kys if you were rich. it'd be fun for 3 months then nada. and women will never love you because you can make money. even if you could get her back she'd leave or cheat on you again.

[Anonymous No.29622492]

>>29620595
beautiful post anon

[Anonymous No.29622573]

>>29614229
That sucks man. Happened to me in 2017 and took me at least a year to move on.
I still think about her sometimes. Just stupid shit reminds me of her and it makes me so sad.
I hope she's dead! STUPID BITCH!!!!!11

[Anonymous No.29622625]

>Business & Finance

[Anonymous No.29622632]

Humans are plentiful and easy to impress. She is less special than you think. You'll forget her name, then find someone better with 90% of her good traits and none of her bullshit.
The lot of you seem to be controlled by your emotions. All we are [by nature] are just machines that want to eat, fuck, and gain power. You have to sacrifice a little to get any of that, and it will feel unpleasant.
Disregard feelings [both yours and others'] without succumbing to outright sociopathy, and you will become extremely powerful. Embrace absurdity and fight for whatever immaterial principles you find important; life shouldn't be about women.

[Anonymous No.29622752]

>>29614843
I'm the same age and I'm from montreal maybe we are eskimo bros

[Anonymous No.29622765]

>>29622355
Based and shattered innocence pilled

[Anonymous No.29622787]

>>29616836
>>29614843
no anon. she left because she discovered who you really are. even if you were in a good non-depressed period, she'd have left you after 6 months, probably even earlier. improve your personality. that is only possible through self-reflection, which, for someone at your stage, is only possible by descending to hell.
try get as financially comfortable as you can, lower your cost of living to bare minimum, then just be alone with your thoughts and FACE YOUR DEMONS. may take months or even years but you'll come out as a genuinely better man. one she couldn't have ever rejected

[Anonymous No.29622804]

>>29614229
Fuck... My gf of 4 years, who i wanted to spend the rest of my life with, left me a week ago. Im a mess right now, but i wont end up like OP... right?

[Anonymous No.29622847]

>>29622282

>you could have saved her

[Anonymous No.29622865]

shes not your girl if she left you btw

[Anonymous No.29622868]

>>29622282
Mine became a career-obsessed silicon valley wagie with a six-figure starting salary. All she does now is work and work, whenever we talk, her career is what she can bring to the conversation. She also says she doesn't want any kids (23 years old).

Back in the day we'd talk about manga, philosophy, we'd make up stories and tell each other about dreams we had, watch movies together and rave about the awesome characters, had these skype conversations that would go until 3AM until the risk we woke our parents up was too high and we'd say "see you in [exactly how many minutes until school started the next day]".
Cheers man, our stories are different on the outside but similar on the inside.

[Anonymous No.29622927]

>>29622752
Yeah maybe she went to UQAM

fuck I missing clubbin out on st Laurent so many hot slutty teens

[Anonymous No.29622972]

>>29614229
Whats that word "oneitis"? (French fag)

[Anonymous No.29623048]

>>29622972
ESL and can't use google? kys

[Anonymous No.29623107]

>>29614843
Kek I lost my virginity at 23, you'll get over it.

[Anonymous No.29623141]

>>29622625
yes nigger we like talking about different topics with like minded individuals here and the jannies are oldfags enough to understand that

[Anonymous No.29623146]

>>29622972
>one [as in, 1 person]
>-itis [as in, a disease like tendonitis, arthritis, etc]
just means fixating on one girl to the detriment of your mental health.

It's important to realize that people are more similar than different and oneitis is almost always unwarranted. There are plenty of cool and single girls out there, no need to hang onto someone who doesn't care about you

[Anonymous No.29623282]

>>29623146
>It's important to realize that people are more similar than different and oneitis is almost always unwarranted
so are situations anon. exactly why if you weren't good enough for someone you'll very likely be flaw'd in a similar girl's eyes as well. nothing wrong with oneitis because if you embrace if and go through the depression it pushes you into you can get rid of your flaws.

"plenty of fish in the sea" is cope. the worthy fish are very very few.

[Anonymous No.29623368]

>>29622066
You can improve your looks if you really want to, you just have to get up and do it, without even thinking about it (otherwise excuses will arise). But don't focus on looks as the most important thing. True love has nothing to do with looks. Easy your mind and improve your well-being

If you want a young french girl because of looks, just hire a prostitute, as you probably crave for more carnal pleasures instead of love.

[Anonymous No.29623441]

>>29614229
Same missed her for almost 5 years, think about her almost daily. Been in several relationships since but still think about her. I hate it but I its not within my control to change sans a bullet to the head.

[Anonymous No.29623475]

>>29622868
>>29622282
if you guys were stronger they'd have embraced your ways and matured to be more the kind of women you want, but other paths were more lucrative than yours.

[Anonymous No.29623502]

>>29623368
Well I am planning on getting lefort surgery, but it’s around 85k

my jaw is super downswung I look so deformed

[Anonymous No.29623613]

>>29623502
Based gremlin hunchback poster

[Anonymous No.29623645]

>>29623475
nah her dad threatened to beat the shit out of me because he found out we were hanging out so much and thought his daughter was too young to have a boyfriend
she listened to her dad because she wasn't a shithead
by the time HS rolled around we had different partners
It was just awful timing and not meant to be. All I've got left is this ghost in my dreams, and honestly I like it. I've completely gotten over her in my waking life so it doesn't bother me, and maybe every ten days or so it's like I get to revisit a cross-section of my past. It's like the best of both worlds.

[Anonymous No.29623753]

>>29623146
Thx mate. Never seen that word before. Learned something.

[Anonymous No.29623762]

>>29614229
Mine left me in Nov 2019

I have a son now and am happy. I wish she'd fuck off out of my dreams now tho

[Anonymous No.29623792]

>>29623645
>she listened to her dad
if you were stronger you wouldn't have let her. and you can bet your ass she was wishing and expecting you not to.

[Anonymous No.29623881]

>>29623613
I actually do have hunchback tier posture lol

Made my face develop so wrong

still around a 5 but I could’ve been a legit 9, I was the most handsome kid in elementary school but puberty destroyed me

[Anonymous No.29623927]

>>29623792
I was like 12 years old bro
12 year old me was a weak man, I admit it lol

[Anonymous No.29623974]

The only girl whose personality I actually liked rejected me in 2015, still occasionally think about her but more in a spiteful way.

[Anonymous No.29623994]

>>29623881
How old are you? And where do you live that the surgery costs 85k?

[Anonymous No.29624038]

>>29623881
>>29622066
>>29623502
your looks are a projection of your personality anon (let for extreme circumstances). if your personality improves you will also improve your looks naturally. and forcing a kind of look on yourself that doesn't match your personality will destroy you. girls will smell it and walk away after 2 minutes of talking.

[Anonymous No.29624086]

>>29623994
23 and it’s cosmetic jaw reconstruction in the USA you can get it cheaper in Russia but I don’t trust that

[Anonymous No.29624124]

I met a girl on tinder three years ago and spent a few weeks fucking her. We were equals spiritually and intellectually and I still think about her often. I broke it off because I'm a retard. I should have married her. It hurts bros, its the only regret I have in my life.

[Anonymous No.29624158]

>>29623282
when you affix the relationship's failure to yourself and internalize it you are setting yourself up for continued failure.

I'm not saying not to self-improve or reflect on your misdeeds, but "plenty of fish in the sea" is just the truth. There are more humans than you think anon, like there are shitloads of them and more every day. What is a "worthy fish" to you is your own problem. It's probably true that there are very very few women into whatever gay shit you're into, who can recite your favorite anime from memory or whatever. But I don't strive to find some perfect goddess whose interests align with my own perfectly, nor do I think it's realistic to; just someone trustworthy and good-natured who can hold a decent conversation.

[Anonymous No.29624254]

>>29624086
I know exactly what it is from first-hand experience. I'm assuming lefort I and nothing crazy. Even at the top hospitals in the US it shouldn't cost that much. My advice to you is to get started early with the braces because it can take a year or more of preparation before they can operate. You might be 25 or older when it's all done.

[Anonymous No.29624285]

>>29624158
you're coping fren, because you desperately want to avoid facing your true self and changing into a better person.

[Anonymous No.29624361]

>>29614229
lost my girl and cats 3/19, things were downhill until COVID when they were Klaus Schwab downhill. These are your first steps

[Anonymous No.29624371]

>oneitis
you are irony poisoned its called pair bonding and you have like one more shot at it

[Anonymous No.29624374]

>>29614229
I broke up with my gf 18 months ago.

I still think about her all the time. Only problem is I have a new gf and she has a new bf.

[Anonymous No.29624391]

>>29620595
I know you're quoting that french doomerfag author who's name I can't remember now but
>The attractile drives are unleashed around the age of thirteen, after which they gradually diminish, or rather they are resolved in models of behaviour which are, after all, only constrained forces.
It was the exact opposite for me. I was extremely cautious of my sexual attraction in the early stages of puberty and only later on in young adulthood did I learn how to unleash it in ways that really satisfy me.

[Anonymous No.29624424]

>>29624254
>Even at the top hospitals
Yeah id need to get it with a cosmetic surgeon not trusting some random maxillofaxial surgeon

[Anonymous No.29624502]

>>29624374
you def think more about her bf than your "new" gf

[Anonymous No.29624535]

>>29614229
Give it like 5 more years, if you're on the right path it's not going to bother you the same way anymore.

[Anonymous No.29624609]

>>29616836
I did that exact same thing and by the time I realized it she moved on to the next guy. I couldn't blame her because I pushed her away, was depressed like you and couldn't feel. The love she had for me finally broke down the stone walls I had up, I had to seriously reflect on myself and didn't like this shell of a person I allowed myself to become, I never gave a fuck about any of the relationship stuff and didn't value love, thought all that stuff was stupid until I had true heart-break and that shit is fucking brutal, I'd rather go fight in a war than have to go through that again. I listened to a bunch of youtube coaches and it helped me get some perspective, and miracoulasly got her back- but it wasn't the same, after knowing she was with someone else she's not my girl anymore. You could get yours back if you wanted, there are things you can tell her that would explain your behavior- but can't be too clingy, best of luck to you bro... they aren't always what we imagine them to be in our minds

[Anonymous No.29624624]

Move to NYC OP you can have a hotter GF and an even hotter side girl

[Anonymous No.29624635]

>>29614229
how is this /biz/ related i wish you faggots would take this shit back to /r9k/ where women live rent free your pathetic heads 24/7

[Anonymous No.29624736]

>>29622804
she's having her ovaries filled with another dude's cum rn bro

[Anonymous No.29624871]

>>29614843
bruh french canadian brunettes are the bees knees. Nearly wifed up one in Vegas once. She didnt happen to have an anchor tattoo did she?

[Anonymous No.29624881]

I know the feel OP. I have pushed so many good girls away and chased after the wrong ones because of my depression, bipolar, or whatever the fuck is wrong with me. It sucks man

[Anonymous No.29624911]

>>29614229
are u me

[Anonymous No.29624977]

>>29624881
you just think you want things you don't actually want fren
maybe you'd have had a "happier" or "smooother" or whatever life with those girls but if you chased them away it's just not what you're on this planet for.

[Anonymous No.29625085]

>>29621679
this is actually great advice

[Anonymous No.29625142]

>>29624977
That’s true. I need to have an easier time coming to peace with things like this

[Anonymous No.29625231]

>>29614229
This mentality is a sickness and you have to get over it. In the future you will look back and realise how much of a stupid cuck you were.

[Anonymous No.29625262]

>>29623475
I couldn't do anything, I moved away to another country (lived in several places as a kid). Besides I was a kid.

[Anonymous No.29625375]

>>29614843
>>29622787

caveat to this take 500ug of LSD to speed run it

youll come out alive a new man i guarantee

[Anonymous No.29625376]

>>29624635
People do the same thing on /fit/, it's obnoxious. Your capacity for building physical strength and intellectual capital make your twenties and thirties pivotal years, and yet they waste time worrying about women that stopped caring about them long ago.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uwR5OP4jtwA

[Anonymous No.29625423]

alot of you bois are still beta blue pilled mode, get some rollo tomassi in your life and stack that paper

[Anonymous No.29625440]

>>29614843
cringe

[Anonymous No.29625538]

>>29622632
Based. The older I get as an autist, the more I realize the not quite sociopath pill is important. With a mix of self actualization in there.