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>graduate
>spend 2 years working part time wagecuck jobs while living at home and wasting all my free time and feeling demoralised
>move to London after getting full time job

>just barely make enough to pay for everything
>job is boring but thankfully light on work and never goes past 9-5
>became the ugly loser loner beta nobody talks to only a few days after starting
>realise I'll never have the social skills needed to succeed among normies

>had zero social life since school, no female attention ever, blackpilled and know women find non Chads disgusting
>see guys younger than me with gfs and feel insanely jealous
>see normies socialising effortlessly (including people who started after me) and feel bitter
>feel under pressure more during my free time than work because I feel like I have to learn maths / learn CS / do practical programming / read lots of books to be smart and successful and have a social life to stop wasting my youth (i.e., I feel bad because there aren't 100 hours in a day)

Well this is demoralising. And this is with a really low work government job. If I actually had to work hard and work a full 8 hours or more then I'd go crazy.

My free time consists of procrastinating over dedicating all my time to some other heirarchy I can feel bad about (i.e., programming).

And you know what really runs it in? The normies who get jobs easily due to normieness and poshness. The women with lives on easy mode and sugar daddies and bfs handing everything to them while society uses me as a disposable battery and deluges me with propaganda. The thousands of teens on the internet getting rich for wacky reasons (apps, crypto, exporting marmite to Tajikistan) while I stick my nose in to SICP- a nerd too scared to go off the beaten path, cowed by the masses while at its bottom rung.

>> No.2932666

>>2932657
are you me?

>> No.2932670

Everyone has their role to play.
Some are generals, others are the virginal young new guy that gets killed in the first day of war.
Maybe you were born to be a lonely loser...
some % of the population always is so maybe you are just part of that %, someone has to be.

>> No.2932699
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2932699

Cold showers
nofap
sugar detox
a clean shave
45 minutes of direct sunlight per day
regular cardio
vitamin regimen

>> No.2932720

>I'm so pathetic
>I hate everyone else because they arent as pathetic as me

real winning combination there champ I dont know why you would be unpopular at work.


seriously though, I just had a really normie job and met lots of well-adjusted people. The guy I learned most from was taking different women out each night and getting laid, and he was just visiting from another state.

His technique was just to never say anything negative. Every response was positive, like "cool", yeah", "awesome". It really blew my mind how well that worked. He was a boring guy, but very popular just because he was a fountain of validation for people. I've been doing it a lot too for a few months and my friendships have really improved.

>> No.2932749

>>2932720
Because saying "cool" "yeah" "awesome" to everything is not pathetic at all. It is such a deep expression of the soul.

It's what you experience that gives you your outlook on life, if like OP you were unable to fit in socially no matter how hard you try you wouldn't be happy so stop implying he chose to be this way

Maybe some people don't want to be superficial fucks whose only value stems from validating other people, there's more to life than that you know

>> No.2933223

>>2932720
How could someone have such a negative view on life. You truly are pathetic, atleast it was fun to read.

Feels good to know there's people with such a mindset out there that I will always trump above.

The reality is you weren't socialized properly growing up, were exposed to the internet much too early and now have a very negative world view. You were put into situations where you couldn't naturally grow as a person and now everyone around you has grown much better than in communicating with others. How about you get off of this site and try to actually understand what it takes to form a frinedsihp, you have to go out of your way to talk to people but after a while it will become a habit, never speak negatively about anyone and always imagine they're in the room next to you if you do decide to say anything about someone.

>> No.2933296

>>2932749

>Maybe some people don't want to be superficial fucks whose only value stems from validating other people, there's more to life than that you know

yeah, like making everyone in your life miserable by making sure they know how unhappy you are deep down. thats really meaningful and important.

>>2933223

wat? I think you just gave me the same advice that I gave OP, except mine wasnt nearly as much of a grammatical trainwreck lol

>> No.2933342

>>2933296
>yeah, like making everyone in your life miserable by making sure they know how unhappy you are deep down. thats really meaningful and important

Look in the mirror you little egotistical solipsist shit, looking down on people who are miserable like the OP. You don't give a fuck about miserable people, you don't want to help them, you just want to feel good about yourself by validating those who you believe you can get something out of in your own selfish interest. You are the epitome of what is wrong with this world you little shit.

>> No.2934671

>>2932657
Lift

>> No.2934724

>>2932657
>spend 2 years working part time wagecuck jobs while living at home and wasting all my free time and feeling demoralised
>move to London after getting full time job

how did you go about doing this

>> No.2934774
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2934774

when you get older and stop giving so many fucks things will get better. if you can't socialize with normies go meet up with nerds like yourself - put yourself out there. meetups, code groups, drink n codes, etc. you're a child of the internet, use it to make up for your weaknesses.

>> No.2935080

>>2932749
Well you're just an autist, ie: you can't relate to other people on emotional level, ie: you don't understand 80% of communication lies in its non-verbal form, ie: you only focus on the verbal component of communication, ie: you don't understand "cool" "awesome" etc. are way to bond with people, ie: you can't "vibe" with people, ie: foreveralone.jpg

>> No.2935301

>>2933223
It doesn't seem you trump above him with your condescending post. How exactly is his post 'pathetic'?
Because he can't socialise with others?

>> No.2935447

>>2932657

>caring what a bunch of superficial brainwashed zombies think of you

>> No.2935483

>>2932699
this

>> No.2935564

I have no sympathy for spergs that want to be normies

>> No.2935568

>>2935080
>Well you're just an autist
Wrong
>ie: you can't relate to other people on emotional level
Wrong
>ie: you don't understand 80% of communication lies in its non-verbal form
Wrong
>ie: you only focus on the verbal component of communication
Wrong
>ie: you don't understand "cool" "awesome" etc. are way to bond with people
Non sequitur, also superficial social bonds not meaningful ones
>ie: you can't "vibe" with people
Wrong, but I can tell you're a dipshit I don't need your non-verbal forms of communication for that
>ie: foreveralone.jpg
My girlfriend says hello

>> No.2935582

>>2935564
god forbid a human being wants to have friends and get laid

>> No.2935894

>>2932657
This hits so close, even the London part, I hope you're not me in the near future