My Family Might Hate Me. Was I Wrong?

[Anonymous No.29117084]

This is a financial thread.
>mother was a huge spender whilst also being poor
>bought mountains of useless shit
>dies
>family members swoop in for gibs
>give them majority of gibs (clothes, houseware, etc)
>they demand extravagant funeral
>mother has no more than 1k in account + over 10k in debt
>try to explain financial situation
>they try to encourage me to get a loan to pay for it all
>nope
>they say that a funeral isn’t about showing off, but it is (because my mother was extravagant)
>uwotm8
>other family members says the price doesn’t matter because I can sell the house, not acknowledging that the funeral home wants paying immediately
>still over 40k owed on mortgage
All in all, I protected my inheritance and the inheritance my brother received as much as I could. An extra 10k was lost overall as the funeral was expensive and I believe a family member sabotaged the home and lead to mass repairs ahead of the sale. Was I wrong to resist what I viewed as financial suicide? I feel like the worst thing is that before my mother died, I told her the house should be willed to me because others will want to turn it into a drug home. She refused and said it never happen
>uncle suggested turning it into a grow house around 2 weeks before she died, and brother suggested the same about 3 months after she died
After I said no, suddenly the house was fucked. Thanks for reading my blogpost. Now that I’m involved with crypto, I’ve recovered all the lost funds and nearly doubled my initial inheritance. Fuck my family. They don’t deserve to make it.

[Anonymous No.29117196]

>>29117084
Who behaves like this?

Sounds very black or white trash.
Where do you live?

[Anonymous No.29117423]

christ what a family of subhumans. good on you though anon. i hope you will cut them off after you make it

[Anonymous No.29117519]

>>29117084
If you as little as message those mongs you are retarded.

[Anonymous No.29117637]

>>29117084
Why are you even speaking to those subhuman leaches. Jesus Christ man cut those worthless faggots out of your life forever.

[Anonymous No.29117680]

>>29117196
They’re mostly black or black/white mixed. Cringe so fucking hard when I think about how they wanted to turn her house into a drug grow. Can’t believe it.
>>29117423
>>29117519
Perhaps it’s my own mental illness/autismo, but I feel a tremendous amount of guilt in the situation. They even spread a rumour amongst themselves that I was trying to make my mother die faster to steal the inheritance from my brother. All I ever wanted was to make sure she didn’t throw away everything she worked for because she was ill.

[Anonymous No.29117732]

>>29117680
>black
Ahhh there’s the issue they are subhumans

[Anonymous No.29117833]

>>29117196
I feel bad for you, it must be very tough.
Try and cut the cords, it's very easy for me to say though..
You seem to have your shit in order, dont let them drag you down..

[Anonymous No.29117860]

>>29117084
Funerals always bring out the worst in family.
Try not to fixate on it too much, or it will destroy yours.
If there's something worth salvaging in this family, just focus on moving forward.

[Anonymous No.29117893]

>>29117680
Not him but I was wondering what race your family was. I hate niggers so much and I was about to blast you for being black but I hate traitor blood even more than niggers. Ditch your lowlife family members, move far away if you haven't already. Setup a trust or something when you make it, if you really want to help them or something. Never, and I mean EVER, speak to crabs like that again. Had to deal with some shitheads attached to the family tree and made sure to prune it before they could destroy everything to the roots. Much better off and happier for it.

Do not ever let scum sucking relatives (blood or inlaws) ruin your future.

[Anonymous No.29117946]

Imagine being a nigger lol

[Anonymous No.29117961]

>>29117084
Sell, split the money and move on.

Your family sound like a bunch of ungrateful losers. You deserve better

[Anonymous No.29118130]

>>29117833
I pretty much have. Barely speak with them now.
>>29117860
When I was all alone and my dad died, there was no drama. Just sort it out and move on. This has been absolutely shit with family involved.
>>29117893
>>29117961
I’m planning on leaving the country and moving to Burgerland. I feel like I can wagecuck for more money there instead of here in Bongland.

[Anonymous No.29118325]

>>29117680
Are you mulatto anon? I am as well, cheers bro, wagmi

[Anonymous No.29118441]

>>29118325
Yea brother. Wagmi indeed.

[Anonymous No.29119022]

>>29118130
Wait you're from England.. Shit, never thought it was that bad over there.. Only been to the non shitty parts though..