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28571723 No.28571723 [Reply] [Original]

Curious what /biz/ thinks. How bad did I cuck myself?

>be me 4 years ago
>start dating a girl things going well
>she graduates with 60k in student loan debt (I have 0 I paid my way through school by working)
>her parents persistent that "interest rates are so low right now you should buy a house right now"
>her parents want her on the loan but it would fuck up our interest rate cause her credit isn't as good as mine
>Buy a house but I'm cucked enough to put her on the title with me
>I also paid 100% of the downpayment (only put 3% down though because her parents rushed us into it and I didn't have a ton of savings)

I'm basically fucked aren't? In every legal scenario she's 50/50 owner and I'm the only one on the loan so she could theoretically just not pay her half of the mortgage if shit goes south and then I'll eventually go bankrupt. Also if we decided to split and sell the house she's owed half the profits isn't she? I'm such a fucking cuck. I'm pretty ugly, but she's not even that attractive and has gained a lot of weight since we started dating.

>> No.28571891

>>28571723
youre a retard, should have made her lose weight before buying the house.
also why is it 50/50 when you paid everything?

>> No.28571939

>>28571723
stop trying to please other people and trust your gut... she has you by the balls already just dont make it worse by putting a baby in her

>> No.28571953

>>28571891
it's called marriage nigger

>> No.28572010

>>28571723
Is she going to be the mother of your kids?

>> No.28572061

>>28571891
Because she's on the title as well
>>28571939
Too late. I wouldn't have bought a house for another year or two if it was my choice because it's pretty obvious the market is going to shift here pretty soon with a flood of foreclosures...but nobody listens to me.

>> No.28572121

>>28571723
>listening to boomers
That’s where you fucked up

>> No.28572124

>>28571723
>>her parents want her on the loan but it would fuck up our interest rate cause her credit isn't as good as mine
>>Buy a house but I'm cucked enough to put her on the title with me
holy ever loving shit anon

>> No.28572129

>>28572010
She does not want kids. I'm kind of indifferent because I'm so ugly that I'd hate to bring another uggo into the world, but the thought of going to my kids baseball games warms my heart a bit.

>> No.28572218

>>28572124
In my defense imagine having to explain why their daughter isn't on the title or the loan to the parents who want their daughter to be protected and not kicked on the street at any given moment...

>> No.28572259

>>28572061

It was your choice. So her name is on the title, but not on the loan? That means she owns half the equity, but has to pay nothing. You're the only one on the hook for the loan. If you were married, she'd be on the hook for the loan too. But, her 60K student loan would be your debt too so at least you didn't marry her.

>> No.28572533

>>28571723
>Buy a house but I'm cucked enough to put her on the title with me
this is where you fucked up. you are fucked and cucked. damn you're retarded. go to a lawyer and try to find any way to unfuckcuck yourself you stupid nigger.

>> No.28572621

>>28572259
Indeed so the way I see it if we don't get married and we break up in 2-3 years I'll only be out 20-30k if we can gain enough equity on the house. An expensive breakup, but at least I can reset. I don't want any of that fucking student loan debt but now she's pestering me about marriage.

Man I really fucked up my life with this one huh.

>> No.28572647

>>28572259
>If you were married, she'd be on the hook for the loan too. But, her 60K student loan would be your debt too so at least you didn't marry her.
not necessarily, it all depends what state hes in but pre-marriage loans and debts dont transfer to the spouse like that.

>> No.28572669

>>28572218

"Hey, GF's mom and dad, your daughter's credit is awful because you didn't help her pay for college, so the loan for the thing you told me to buy has to be 100% in my name. Since I am the only one on the hook for the loan, the house will be in my name. If you are worried about your daughter being kicked on the street at any given moment, you can let her move back in with you until she finds a place of her own."

OR

"I don't want to buy a house right now and it's not your right to spend my money."

>> No.28572775

>>28572533
I know I'm a retard. Lawyer won't be able to help me. I'm fucked. But at the end of the day I'm a 30 year old boomer, ugly, out of shape and only make 60k a year. I was never going to go anywhere anyway. Might as well accept mediocrity.

>> No.28572776

>>28572647

I didn't know that. I had the foresight to fall in love with a girl who is not in debt.

>> No.28572851

>>28572775
then get the fuck out of here with your blog you retarded gorilla nigger.

>> No.28572922

>>28571723

You did shoot yourself in the dick, but you may be able to sew it back on quick enough for it to be sexually viable.
You're contractually on the hook to the bank. That agreement is between them and you...not her. Depending on the (sounds like inevitable) divorce settlement she may be on the hook to you. If you can, you need to get an agreement in writing that she agrees to half responsibility for the mortgage (or record it verbally depending on your state, check out one part recording laws and consent). Either way, if one of you stays in the house the other will have to buy them out.
Don't skimp on your attorney...find the jewishy one you can.

>> No.28573090

>>28571723
Haha.


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

HOLY FUCK

CHRIST THIS IS WORSE THAN PEOPLE THAT BUY XRP

>> No.28573195

If we theoretically break up and her parents who cucked me in the first place tell her not to pay the mortgage anymore and fuck me over -- when I declare bankruptcy how fucked am I really? I'll still be able to rent a shitty 1 bdrm studio bachelor pad somewhere right? (flyover state)

>> No.28573238

>>28571723
sorry bro, but your kinda fucked. just make sure to keep up with crypto and make quick profits off of random stock bull runs when possible. it seems like your kinda ready for this relationship to head south, so you should find an accountant and a lawyer to help you out instead of some retards on a Vietnamese glass blowing forum. dont forget about crypto gains tho.

>> No.28573277

>>28571723
Retard alert

>> No.28573287
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>>28571723
>put her on the title with me

>> No.28573319

>>28572922
Oh fuck anon...didn't see that you were just dating. Yeah, your dick is unrecoverable...what in the ever living fuck were you thinking?

>> No.28573404

>>28571953
this, op is a closeted faggot afraid of marriage

>> No.28573405

>>28573195
oh my god you stupid retard just go talk to a lawyer. if you sell the house now she would only likely be entitled to half the equity after the bank is paid - if there is any to be had. do you understand what that means? it means the longer you stay in that house the bigger her half is going to be dumdum.

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>>28571723
So it's literally your house?
You literally pay for this house, 100%?
But you put another person as being half owner for something you 100% pay for?
Why anon?

>> No.28573427

>>28572621

Okay, if you're not a troll, your girlfriend doesn't love you. You should break up with her and sell the house now. If >>28572647 is the case, your mortgage will still be your debt and marrying her won't change that. This deal is obviously unfair to you and if she cared about you she wouldn't have allowed such an arrangement.

You also need to learn to say no to people. There is no reason you have to buy a house, or a car, or a pack of gum, just because somebody else said you should.

>> No.28573431

>>28572129
>I'm so ugly
Okay OP, you should have put that in your OP. You're ugly, therefore you have subhuman genetics, therefore you are subhuman, therefore you should kill yourself to improve the overall quality of the collective human experience. Google "quick and easy suicide methods" for more information. Good luck!

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>>28571723
Tell the bank to change the title, not like its in your name yet.

Also, bitches aint nothing but hoes and tricks anon

>> No.28573527

>>28573405
This
Sell it, she can buy out your half if she wants

If you want kids and she doesn't then what's the point in continuing the relationship?

Just make sure to do it through a lawyer so you don't cuck out like you did the first time

>> No.28573555

>>28573195
You cucked you...not her parents...take some fucking responsibility. I didn't listen to anything my girlfriend (now wife) had to say when I bought my first house...much less her fucking parents. This should have been self evident.

>> No.28573572

>>28571723
If she’s stupid, just refinance it into your name because low interest rates and enjoy the puss while you can

>> No.28573628

>>28571723
lmao this can't be real...

>> No.28573638

Quitclaims deed asap

>> No.28573660

>>28572129
Yup, you’re done buddy. You should spend the remainder of your time hiding your assets once she inevitably divorce rapes your ass.

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There is no way I can compete with you simps. Op, please consult with us BEFORE you do things like this. She has 50% and has done NOTHING FOR IT except giving you, presumably, pussy. Low interest rates are good for SELLERS not BUYERS. Next you will pay her student loans if Biden doesn't. Please go on Dave Ramsey with this one.

>> No.28573688
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>>28573555
Wasted digits, what a small brain low IQ take. Responsibility? OP isn't human, how dare you insult humanity by insinuating he has free will. He's a golem, a mindless machine running on emotions and instincts. Do you know why the elites enslave the masses? Because they're subhumans like OP, they shouldn't be allowed to do anything without permission since they'll just destroy themselves.

>> No.28573718

>>28573628
its real

>> No.28573741

>>28573572
This is good advice

>> No.28573763

>>28571723
>I paid my way through school by working
what a fucking retarded tale you have posted mon friar

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>>28571723
>talking to girls
>dating a girl
>getting married

you were never gonna make it lol

>> No.28573838

>>28572218
Why can't her parents take her in?

>> No.28573843

Relationships are basically business these days. That's pretty messed up. Fuck this clown world. Buying AVAX and never selling.

>> No.28573854

>>28573555
This and checked. Adam listened to his wife. Don't be Adam.

>> No.28573888

>>28573718
HAHAHAHAHAHAH


WOW

Can the rest of you just imagine putting your fat girlfriend on the title to your house? Especially because her boomer parents say so.

>> No.28573905

>>28573572

This is brilliant. That might actually work, if IFF she is stupid and she didn't know exactly what she was doing when she and her parents successfully pressured you into buying an entire house and giving her half of it FOR FREE.

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28574023

Gigacuck. Like, holy shit bro, what the fuck? Why the fuck would you even care what HER parents think or say? Especially if she's not even a catch.

>> No.28574024

>>28572218
No that's still garbage logic. I wouldn't have a gf move in. Only way she moves in is if she's my wife but most of yall seem to love having your gfs move in and then act surprised when you get screwed over somehow.

>> No.28574029

>>28573638
She's got zero reason to go along with this...but if she's anything like OP it might just work

>> No.28574062
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>>28573854
>Don't be Adam
Don't worry, I'm lucifer.

>> No.28574100

>>28571723
>gets a home loan
>out of collage
>with a person who has no credit
>while he barely has any credit
Yeah, I don't believe you.

>> No.28574131

>>28572621
You obviously don't like her. I get the vibe you're one of those people who will date anyone that will say yes out of fear of being alone even if it means dating someone you don't like.

>> No.28574165

>>28573905
I mean she pays half the mortgage, but yes probably need to figure out better terms for the utilities which I am currently paying...

>> No.28574231
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28574231

Holy shit, OP. You can't even murder her because then her parents will inherent her equity in the house.
Pic related; your mother's uterus

>> No.28574263

>>28572061
You stupid fucking retard

>> No.28574265

>>28572775
You ugly because you are out of shape. Hit the gym and slow down on the cheetos faggot.

>> No.28574294

>>28574100
I'm 30. I've established plenty of credit. She's 25.
>>28574131
Eh not really I was single for 25 years, but I crushed on this girl for 2 years. (this is of course before she gained 40 pounds)

>> No.28574325

>>28572775
get a fucking grip already

>> No.28574423

>>28574294
How long have you been working at your current job?

>> No.28574436
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>>28572621

>> No.28574490

>>28573572
>$60k in student loan debt
Yeah she is stupid.

>> No.28574495
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28574495

These kinds of threads are why I love /biz/. No matter how bad my day is going I can always come here and see how horrible life truly is for retards. I can always rest easy knowing that at least my IQ is 180, I'll never be a genius but I'll never be a retard like OP.

>> No.28574510

>>28574023
It's not even a job where he has to act polite. And he clearly doesnt even like her yet jumps through hoops to please them when there isnt even a reason to. Even if he liked her thatd still be a no, in fact Id be awfully suspicious of their and her motives the moment they requested such a thing. Then again I'd rather not risk having a gf move in. What benefit is there in that?

>> No.28574514

>>28574423
3 yrs. 7 years in the job prior.

>> No.28574575

>>28572218
lol thanks for confirming my theory that only passive aggressive cucks use ellipses as if the dots add weight to their fucking retarded point

>> No.28574586
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>>28571723
BAHAJAUAHAHAHAHAAHA
..............
BABAHAHAHAHHAHAAH

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>>28572218
Very shameful! You need to take a good hard look at yourself. I think you've already made some serious mistakes but you can still fix things and try and make it work with her long term. Money isn't everything.

>> No.28574661
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>>28571723
Simple: Take out a home equity loan (max possible) hide the cash in gold or crypto or cash and then stop paying mortgage. When asked about assets say that you lost them in a crypto scheme when somebody stole your password of haxored you or claim to have gambled it all away etc. you get the idea. Bank takes teh house, easy peasy lemon squeezy.
NOW you can go bankrupt if you wa. Yes, going bankrupt sucks but you're young you can start over easily with your hoarded cash, bank takes you house, it two years of careful credit building you'll be back where you started a little wiser. Dumbass.

>> No.28574739

>>28574510
If anyone tells you to do anything for any reason and your first immediate response is not to tell them to suck your cock and kill themselves, you are cucked beyond repair.

>> No.28574742
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>>28574294

You're such a fuckup

>> No.28574748

>>28574294
>Eh not really I was single for 25 years, but I crushed on this girl for 2 years. (this is of course before she gained 40 pounds)
Well okay but at this time you're giving off the vibe you no longer like her. Either way you definitely screwed yourself over by sticking her on there. You'll have to ask a laywer to see if you can get out of that bind as there could be a chanve but idk as im no lawyer. Could always see if you can use "peer pressure" aka duress as an excuse especially if all the evidence points to only you paying for the house. But im no lawyer so id say ask one who has free consultations. Make sure on the free consultation part.

>> No.28574755

>>28571723
Yeah you got fucked... your taking on ALL liability. Trump, your not...

>> No.28574764
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28574764

/biz/ just dunking on my retarded ass left and right.

>> No.28574856

>>28571723
Haha oh fuck you only put 3% down? This wont work then >>28574661
Sorry you are fucked

>> No.28574907

>>28574764
Sir, good sir, I say this once more. Suicide is ALWAYS an option.

>> No.28575007

>>28571723
I have the same set-up with my gf. She had the deposit, but we both paid the rent and equity went up. Just take out your deposit, then divide the equity of sale based on how much rent you each paid.

>> No.28575023

>>28574661
>crash your credit with no survivors!

>> No.28575037

>>28572218
Holy KEK moment

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>>28574764
You should fake your death and start over in a foreign country. You've ruined your life

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>>28574764

>> No.28575138
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>>28571723
You are absolutely fucked. What were you thinking?

>> No.28575177

>>28571723
Holy fuck OP, why did you do this shit to yourself, I feel fucking bad for just reading it.

Yes, you are FUCKED.

>> No.28575231

>>28572218
I just bought a house and my girlfriend moved in with me, guess what. She isn't on the loan, she isn't on the title, she isn't in control of anything aside from the comcast account. Grow the fuck up

>> No.28575239

>>28572218
the explanation is that she's not financially responsible, as evidenced by her credit score.

>> No.28575298

Also a reminder to you OP. Everyone you interact with irl would say exactly the same shit we're saying to you except people are afraid of the repercussions of honesty. They're thinking it but afraid to say it, nobody respects you, nobody cares about you, nobody will EVER love you, not even your own parents. You are garbage. Die.

>> No.28575302

>>28571723
You fucked up real bad anon. Dont worry we all fuck supremely fuck up at least once. Heres what you need to do. First send the fattie my way cause I like em plump. Second try and get some.kind of relocation with your job doesnt even have to be real if you can bluff it well enough to convince her that at the very least YOU will have to move you can sell the house and cut your losses then oh wow the transfer never went through after all. Then you need to esablish a trust whivh names you and only you as a benificiary you can set up a company that consist of soley yourself as the trustee and anytime in the future a house is purchased have the trust be the only entity on the paperwork. This way technically YOU never own anything the trus just allows you to live in its property. So now she or any woman who divorces you can never get a claim on the house or any other assets you keep within the trust. Good luck anon

>> No.28575381

>>28575138
>>28575177
>>28571723 (OP)


Yes, you are FUCKED.
kek

>> No.28575382

>>28575239
Cuck mentality. Imagine thinking an explanation is necessary. Just tell them to go fuck themselves for daring to question you.

>> No.28575395

>>28574907
Eventually. Right now just coasting til things get bad enough.

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>>28575231
I bought a house last year and didnt put my wife on the title

>> No.28575430

>>28574739

>Anon, get off the tracks there's a train coming you retard
>SucK My cOCk aNd kILL UrsELf

>> No.28575428

>>28575231
Based.
>>28575298
Settle down edgelord. I like OP, he'll learn. He brought you a kek didn't he?

>> No.28575431

This is why, when I move in with my gf, we will be RENTING first. I'm tip-toeing along and as much as I love her, we straight up may not be able to co-habitate. Good luck anon

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28575434

not too late to farm fish in the basement and pay off the mortgage before you get fucked over

>> No.28575465

>>28575382
or just be honest. if i was dating a bitch with an 800 credit score and solid employment, i'd be happy to go in on shit with her. but OP? OP has a debt succubus on hsi dick right now.

>> No.28575508

>>28575382
I would have snapped on those fucking boomers. I mean i would have set my ground at least. Like with all due respect hell fucking nooooo.

>> No.28575530

>>28575430
Obviously if I'm on train tracks and a train is coming it's because I want to kill myself. Anyone who does not respect my choice to fucking McSuicide should suck my cock and die.

>> No.28575617

You're not so fucked OP. A little fucked, but everything can be fixed.

First, you need to get real with how you really feel about this woman. You don't sound appreciated, nor do you sound like you appreciate her. It sounds a lot like you are taking each other for granted. I bet you've been having dumb arguments about nothing lately.

second, you really need to get right with how you feel about yourself. You sound like you need some therapy. There is a lot bubbling under the surface here.


I was in a similar situation to you around last year. I had to spend a lot of time getting my mind right about myself and who I was with. I feel a lot better now.

If you decide you can't stand this woman, cut your losses and run. You can make more money but you can't make more days on this earth.

Absolutely do not marry a woman unless you're planning a family, however. Objectively, a woman who doesn't want to build a family becomes useless as she gets close to 30. If she doesn't get over that childish "enjoy my twenties" bullshit, dump her and find someone younger and prettier. A mans value only increases as he ages. Tons of ugly dudes out there with hot chicks.

>> No.28575650

>>28575434
kek this fucking meme

>> No.28575690

>>28572061
You don't even listen to yourself, why should anyone else listen to you? Keep your foot down if you believe in something. You browse the finance section of a mongolian basket weaving forum, I'm pretty sure you know more than them. Grow a spine and believe in yourself.

>> No.28575699

>>28575431
absolutely. You WILL notice problems in the first year. The second year is about working through those problems.

If you can do that, marry her.

>> No.28575760

>>28575302
Best advice in the thread
>>28575508
The problem is there's no point in snapping on them. If people treat you that way it's because they don't respect you, if people lack respect for you to that degree it's because you're a fucking pathetic loser. The battle was over before it began.

>> No.28575763

>>28571723
Marry her zoomer pussy

>> No.28575841

>>28571723

>splitting the title with a woman while you're the only one in the loan

Nice one brainlet. #1 rule is you never mix money with women. They're fickle by nature and change their emotions on a whim. Making money or money in general requires being unemotional for years and focused. Something they're not equipped to do. One day she'll just won't "feel" in love anymore and that's it.

Wish you the best, but it's not looking good. Never make a business, sign a contract, loan money, mortage, loan, anything money related with a woman. Not even a lease for an apartment. Nothing.

>> No.28575846

>>28572218
Just be honest to yourself and admit you fucked up and there‘s no shuffling it around. If you can‘t talk about things like that with your partner (think marriage contracts or w/e they‘re called in burgerland) then that‘s a red flag for a relationship in the first place. Not to mention the knowledge you are fucked will make you resent her and sabotage your relationship.

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>>28575617
Fuck yea this is what im talking about.

>> No.28575861

>>28571723
tf is wrong with you? you knew it would of fucked up the interest rate and that was a perfect excuse to exclude her from the title lmao. Pure business decision and if they pressed further say you aren't married.

>> No.28575869

>>28575763
There is no financial or practical benefit to marriage in the USA.

>> No.28575971

>>28571723
You are beyond retarded

>> No.28576008

>>28572061
This is where you fukd up
>Nobody ever listens to me
Yet it’s your money for the deposit, and your financial future that’s on the line as well as responsibility to repay. I stopped listening to other people when 99% of the people giving me financial advice were 60yo boomers still with a mortgage and spend thrift zoomers with $15 to their name.

>> No.28576016

>>28571939
>>28571723
he had no balls to speak up to begin with it seems

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how good are her blowjobs?

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>>28576008
I stopped listening to people when I was 5 years old and my father tried to spank me so I repaid him by stabbing him in the gut with a kitchen knife, he was in the hospital for 3 months. He never tried to fuck with me again.

>> No.28576247

>>28571723
Holy shit dude, start hiding your money in jars and shit. You’re gonna need it.

>> No.28576304

>>28571723
If it goes south and it looks like it's part of her plan - just try to kill her character off in minecraft somehow.
If you're not allowed to have your house because she wants to blow TNT up on the relationship then she shouldn't be allowed to play on the server at all.

>> No.28576370

>>28576304

KEK

>> No.28576398

>>28575423
Dangerously based. I would do the same. Fuck women and their free rides.

>> No.28576506
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>>28575434
The Jew fears the indoor fish farmer.

>> No.28576640

Also OP she really lucked out on getting you. You may be ugly but that unironically doesnt matter as a dude if you have money. Wiggle yourself out of this and build your self esteem up.

>> No.28576797

>>28571723
1) go to a lawyer
2) look at possibly refinancing. If your credit is better than hers you can use that as an excuse to solely put you on the new title to the house and remove her. Dont tell her parents about this as they'll probably see straight through this and advise her to not let this happen.

>> No.28576965

>>28576797
Refinancing my 2.75% loan? Gonna be a tough sell.

>> No.28577242

>>28574764
Nigger, post pics of gf. Maybe the pussy is worth it at least but look man, friendly word of advice....women are like children, treat them as such, they cannot handle money, responsibilities and a job. This is fine, they’re not biologically wired to think like we do, they’re basically a hole that pops children with emotional baggage and anxiety. Do not, EVER do anything financial with her after this, you take control of finances, you take control of everything. That’s what I do with my girl, specially after growing up seeing my mom be such a fuck up to the point that when she went bankrupt my dad just dabbed on her and they split all their assets, the best advice he ever gave me was this. I’m sorry your fathered failed you but lucky for you, we are here for you anon. Women do not understand money, women do not understand finances, do not ever ever ever listen to a fucking woman about it, even if she has some fancy degree or whatever the fuck. Also, if you haven’t already...make sure you gaslight her and remind her that she needs you and not the other way around. Godspeed anon, best of luck and I hope my advice helps.

>> No.28577405

>>28576965
Ah shit, yeah thats already pretty low, but who knows. I just refinanced and got around 2.60. And honestly it may seem like a hit in the short run for all the costs associated, but if it gets your lady off the loan its worth it.

>> No.28577523

>>28576304
Lold this was a funny read. Dont kill her though anon.>>28576370

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>>28571723
I just want to say. No offense to you OP.
But threads like this help me realize chasing pussy really isn't smart to do. I forget having a girlfriend is full of stress all in it's own.

>> No.28577746

>>28577242

Everything in this post is 100% real and factual.
Especially this
>they’re basically a hole that pops children with emotional baggage and anxiety

Once you understand and internalize this, you will see them for what they truly are worth and how replaceable they are. 3 holes interchangeable with one another. You have 0 reazons to lock down with one contractually, once you do, she wins. They don't understand the concept of money because woman are born with value (via beauty) which they capitalize on on dates, marriages, undeserved job offers etc, until they're about 30. Men are born with 0 value, but prove themselves slowly over time.

If you can get rid of her, I would, instead of waiting for the impending doom. And if you marry her, get ready to pay back her loan with you own money.

WALK AWAY.

>> No.28578046

>>28577405
shes not on the loan, this retard just put her on the title only.

>> No.28578209

Only read a few posts, but this has to be a larp nobody can be this stupid. If true op is actually lucky cause this was his eventual best case scenario

8/10 I took the bait
Saged

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So from what I can understand the situation is that OP has fucked himself. He cannot UNFUCK himself. That is not an option in reality, but now the question of revenge is what is the topic? I think he should just do his best to get along with this woman and hide as much money from her as possible. Is brainwashing a real thing? Look into that. If he gets a policy now he can get a lot of insurance money if she ever dies accidentally.

>> No.28578310

>>28578209
Best case scenario how? Just wondering

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>>28571723
>60K in debt
You just know she was getting trains ran on her in college and now OP is being used for Beta bucks

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>>28571723
sorry anon, you're fucked

please never tell her about your crypto stacks, you're gonna need them.

>>28572129
>She does not want kids
literally whats the point of marriage, actually whats the point of dating her at all then?

>> No.28578738

>>28575617
based anon delivering an emergency whitepill.

>> No.28578760

>>28572129
>She does not want kids.
thats as bad of a red flag as having multi-colored hair is, what's next did she ever ask you if you wanted an open relationship?

>> No.28578815

Just echoing the other 100 responses that you're a fucking idiot.

>> No.28578821

>>28571723
I guess you've discovered why you don't take advice from people with vested interest in anyone other than yourself.