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Every 20-something normalfag is living it up, they’re all good looking, making good fucking money that allows them to travel, buy amazing new clothes, go out to bars and have fun with other normalfaggots (and most importantly have sex). They all have huge social circles with tons of connections that allow them to get great paying jobs.

I’ve got nothing. Ugly as fuck, weird as fuck, low IQ, no friends, no connections, dead end job and degree. Scroll through college and post graduate instagrams of normalfaggots living in cities, they’re ALL good looking, they’re ALL living it up, they all have huge social circles and tons of amazing memories with friends. And now they’re all making money in the market no matter what they’re invested in and I’m sitting on the sideline like a coward.

I couldn’t be anymore demoralized, I can’t take it anymore.

>> No.28161439

>>28161352
no don’t let them guilt you into being like them
they’re the gotta be doing something all the time freaks
fuck that i chill guilt free

>> No.28161477
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28161477

>low iq
Perfect

>> No.28161487

>>28161352
you identify with your suffering and subconsciously seek to perpetuate it by purposefully demoralizing yourself, because its a state of mind that youre comfortable and familiar with

>> No.28161500

>>28161352
either kys or stop being such a mopy faggot

>> No.28161518

>>28161352
delete social media
start working on yourself

>> No.28161527

OMG! I thought that was a fly on my screen lol
You got be good, OP!

>> No.28161576

>>28161352
OP, self-hatred and depression is a downward cycle. There are things you are good out, and that is what will lead to your happiness and self-fulfillment. But, if you spend all your time looking at others and comparing to them, you will never find the key to your own happiness.

You need to spend your time improving yourself and changing the things that you dislike and gaining things that will make you happy.
Fix yourself anon, your spirit, or you will never be happy.

>> No.28161659

>he thinks it takes skill to trade cryptos
>should just look into dhedge asset manager so he can go out and be ugly as fuck and still not lose his savings

>> No.28161687

>>28161352
Start learning solidity and smart contracts

Start working out for yourself and no one else

Start investing in defi

1-2 years from now you can have a high demand job and good returns from investments

>> No.28161867

>>28161352

You gotta remember you’re looking at their lives through the social media lens. The truth is they all hate each other and they all have student loan debt, they blow all their money on rent, drinks, fancy food, gucci shit.

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>>28161352
They all think the same thing cause 98% of their free time is scrolling through instagram, waiting for the tranny interracial Muslim couple ad to be over on Snapchat, and scrolling through Facebook, cycling between the three. They post images like they are living it up to make it seem like they are for clout. Unironically the people I know actually living it up are the ugly weirdos that discovered themselves after making a significant sum on crypto. That’s you, anon. That’s me. We’re all gonna make it

>> No.28161969

>>28161867
This isn't going to fix OP. The root of his issue is:
>>28161487

And the comparison on others is an outlet to fuel his addiction caused by synaptic entrenchment.

>> No.28162044

>>28161352
Sex isn't everything, just read what these faggots have to say and only consider things that have a massive concensus.

>> No.28162067

>>28161352
join antifa, you'll fit right in

>> No.28162110

>>28161352
Is okay op I still love you

>> No.28162122

>>28161352

join the army dumbass

>> No.28162144

>>28161352
>be me
21
no social skills
dead end job
no degree but in uni (gap year)
$30k net worth
kill me now

>> No.28162148

I have. In 30 minutes a german /biz/raeli goes to work, where he will never arrive. And the fin is gone tomorrow

>> No.28162155

>>28161352
God you sound like a douche

>> No.28162201

>>28161576
FUCK YOU

I’m tired of this bullshit advice, it never helps. EVERYONE compares you to everyone else, when you apply for a job you are compared, extremely harshly, to all other candidates. When you ask a girl out she compares you to all three other men she knows are available. Your parents compare you to your siblings. Your coach compares you to your teammates to determine your playing time. Your teacher compares you to your classmates. You can’t NOT compare yourself to others, it’s impossible.

Know what I find when I make the comparison to normalfaggots my age? They’re better than me in every facet of life. It doesn’t matter how often I go to the gym, they’re still able to get in shape faster than me if they choose to do so. They’re naturally gifted conversationalists while I practice for years and years and still stutter. They take a week to prepare for a job interview and get the job, I prepare for months and still spill spaghetti during the interview. And here’s another thing, they NEVER CONSCIOUSLY SELF IMPROVE. They watch Netflix and drink alcohol after work. On the weekends they “go out”. They don’t read textbooks or try to learn new skills.

I’m tired of this bullshit life, normalfaggots are superior to me in every way, I have lived this my whole life. They don’t even have to try, everything is just natural for them, they make friends instantly while people seem afraid of me, they grasp things perfectly on the first attempt. They’re all good looking and charismatic without any effort or thought. I can’t help but feel extremely demoralized knowing they get to be them and I’m stuck being me.

>> No.28162235

>>28161352
Lol, no most zoomers are suffering clown world

>> No.28162299

They’re probably renting and have no savings. That being said, they’re still probably living more fulfilled lives.

>> No.28162378

>>28162201
Anon, you must realize this kind of angry reaction means we are striking a cord with you.
I'm not some kind of self-actualized normie in anyway, but I've changed my life completely.

Not everyone is some perfect good-looking genius who does everything perfectly. In fact, most people aren't.
You are warping your worldview to allow yourself to be demoralized.

Most of us are struggling Anon. You aren't alone.

>> No.28162382

>>28161352
You have biz there is so much money to be made here that one day they will envey you if you buy the right coins

>> No.28162437

>>28162201
do you expect everyone to live in a vacuum? get over yourself, retard. I had selective mutism growing up and I'm extremely introverted but that never stopped me from improving myself. I married an introverted woman

>> No.28162450

>>28161352
last chance bro

https://info.uniswap.org/token/0x30f271c9e86d2b7d00a6376cd96a1cfbd5f0b9b3

about to pump

>> No.28162561

>>28161352
You have no idea....

>> No.28162599

>>28161352
Everyone I know is in the shitter right now dude

>> No.28162609

>>28162201
Start cruising testosteron faggot. You will feel like a god. DYOR

>> No.28162614

>>28162378
unironically good advice, OPs autistic outburst was funny but I know his pain. I'm still there too.

>> No.28162683

>>28162614
The fact that at least the three of us have known similar pain, should tell OP there is a way to change his outlook and himself.

>> No.28162695

>>28161352
>(and most importantly have sex).
Jesus 20-year olds are cringe

>> No.28162768

>>28161687
I might just do this. I work as a Dev already, should be able to pick up a basic understanding of solidity in a weekend. I'm guessing there are plenty of remote jobs too?

>> No.28162813

>>28161352
>2021 traveling

>> No.28162834

>>28161352
>Giving a fuck about some fags on instagram

>> No.28162872

>>28162201
>You can’t NOT compare yourself to others, it’s impossible.
I do though. Zoom out.

>> No.28162874

>>28161352
>they’re all good looking, making good fucking money that allows them to travel, buy amazing new clothes, go out to bars
You can sleep easy at night knowing that there's a whole industry that encourages millennials to play pretend for their Insta posts. That pic of some whore on some "private jet"? It was a photoshoot in some guy's apartment. That upscale hotel she stayed at? An Insta-trap; tiny ass rooms at low prices, designed with your filters in mind. Haven't you noticed how cafes all have samey interiors nowadays? The neon signs, grid patterns, flower/plant highlight wall? It's all intentional. Everything, and I really do mean everything, is fake. You could do a day out for <$200, then spread the pics over the course of a few days, then all your followers think you're loaded.

>> No.28162922

>>28162609
How do u even get it, go to a doctor? I’m guessing there’s no worthwhile over the counter shit

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>>28162201
Rodney Dangerfield didn't breakout till his late 40's and he was bitter about it still.

If you make it be happy and grateful most people are Pajeets scamming people to use clean tolet

>> No.28162960

>>28162874
I saw a tiktok just yesterday of a girl who just goes to high end bars for a night and takes pictures. Makes her look way richer than she is.

>> No.28162972

>>28161352
>dead end job and degree

What do you do for a living?

>> No.28163002

>>28162874
i've seen this myself. and it looks really cheap in person. especially the "modern interior" place that ends up being dirty looking and small.

i also see lots of folks renting exotic cars for one weekend/photoshoots

>> No.28163020

>>28161352
The average person has thousands in credit card debt and virtually no savings let alone retirement savings. Just live within your means, and if you want more, then improve yourself, Learn, and switch careers.

>> No.28163035

You fell for the Facebook meme. Get off socials and don't compare to others.

>> No.28163049

>>28161352
You can be like them fren. Just take on crippling debt and stop caring about your future. For 20 something's it's easy because there already is no future for them.

>> No.28163053

>>28161352
>allows them to travel
world borders are still shut, update your pasta

>> No.28163149

>>28162960
It's really easy to do. Me and some friends were bar hopping in NYC a few years ago, it was a ton of fun, and it's really easy getting into those high end bars. Just put on something nice and that's it. We accidentally went into one through the back and ended up in some employee area, shit was cash.

>> No.28163154

>>28161352
Seek your childhood friends and hang out with them.

>> No.28163162

>>28162922
Depends where you are from. Here in Europe doctors are embracing the benefits. For your body AND mind. Low test will ruin your life. You can always take matter in your own hands though by asking the biggest guy in the gym if he knows a guy.

>> No.28163197

>>28162768
yes faggot. now get to it keep your head up too. focus not on the normies

>> No.28163215

>>28162683
Some things might even be true but it can always be so much worse.

OPs perspective is just giga fucked right now. It will take time for him but the best thing he can do is work towards something. Doesn't matter how unfortunate you are in life, there's always something to work towards and improve/achieve, which will likely provide confidence, keep you busy, and make u give less of a fuck about stuff. It's about not being a pussy and giving it your best go, even when odds are against you. That's what makes people badass OP.

>> No.28163258

>>28161352
I'm 30, both parents dead, 60k debt, now balding. it's ok fren

>> No.28163279

>>28163162
I’m in burgerstan. Guess I will try getting my levels tested with a doctor.

>> No.28163292

>>28161352
At some point the shallowness of their meaningless existence will hit them like a brick wall.
Follow Jesus and live bro. The vanities of this fleeting life pale in comparison to the glory of his love

>> No.28163355

>>28163149
nice sounds boring as fuck. normie fag shit.

>> No.28163358

>>28163279
>>28163162

The vast majority of males test levels are fine. It's just adding another excuse to things. He will never get it checked out and just think to himself "I can't do x or y because I'm a low test cuck".

>> No.28163363

>>28161352
Well anon if it makes you feel better, here's my situation.
>26 years old
>~$120k a year income
>zero friends. no gf.
>virgin
>constantly gambling my life's savings trying to escape 6fig hell.
Not all of us are enjoying life. And I have a good feeling even the people who look like they're enjoying life, have their own issues too.

>> No.28163418

>>28161477
This. Real chads just hodl. Bitcoin will keep going up in the long run.

>> No.28163432

>>28163258

start fucking taking the hair loss stack. can easily reverse this and save the hair you have left. going bald is a choice in this day and age and if you havent lost all your hair yet you can easily reverse most the damage if you start NOW

>> No.28163475

>>28163215
>It's about not being a pussy and giving it your best go, even when odds are against you
Unironically

>> No.28163529

>>28163215
I agree.

OP, I hope you find your way. You're not alone bro.

>> No.28163651

>>28161352
Stop comparing yourself to other people anon. Sure, these people you speak of might be "better" looking, have money, or live a life that's considered glamorous, but every single human on this planet is different in some way and there's something beautiful to be found in every single one of those people.

I get it man, I really do. I compare myself to literally everyone and I have massive self esteem and confidence issues; luckily less now than I did before. My trick (maybe it'll work for you, but maybe not), was to first focus on physical health. Make sure you're as healthy as possible - start working out, eating better, sleeping properly, and cutting out the bad shit like alcohol, drugs, porn, jerking off, etc. Next was to do something I actually enjoyed doing, and something I could do alone. For me it was mountain biking - from early on it taught me to be more self reliant and hammer through any and all pain, and it tricked my brain into enjoying that mental battle - for you it could be anything.... Hiking, swimming, drawing, building, working, etc. Find that thing, do it, and get good at it. That new skill will trick your brain into feeling a massive sense of confidence.

And lastly, you are the most important person in your life. You are stuck with yourself every single second, every single minute, every single hour, every day, month, year, and so forth. Wouldn't it be nice to thoroughly enjoy your own company, all the time? To never question yourself or compare yourself to someone else? Once you learn to start being nice to yourself, your entire life will change, and that can only come through positive changes in your health, schedule, and goals. Anon, I was (still kinda am) completely and utterly fucked at one point in my life with zero hope. If I can change my shit, so can you. Best of luck anon, and I believe in you

>> No.28163662

>>28163432
>Hair loss stack

What is it? Pretty sure nothing can make hair that's already fallen out grow back..

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>>28161352
Fuck those normies anon. I can tell by your writing you aren't low IQ. Do well at your sucky job, invest your money wisely, do things you enjoy - preferably with other people, and things will happen. Don't fall for 4chan memes and don't let the mass media dictate what is or isn't a happy life. Make your own way. You have a better foundation than most. Build on it instead of daydreaming about being a fucking NPC. Godspeed. Here's a nice Webm

>> No.28163722

>>28162201

You're perpetuating a fantasy where every 20 something year old is living it up as you say, which there are plenty, without realizing that we live in a time where we have the highest percentage of 20 something year olds living with their parents at home. We have the highest degree of mental illness across our age group.

Comparison is inescapable, yes. Yet, that's why you strive to be better. If not, what's the point?

Remember the turtle versus the rabbit story. They may go faster, but if you continue, slow and steady, you'll win the race.

I acknowledge the truth of what you wrote. I'm telling you to acknowledge your bubble of reality isn't an accurate representation of the objective truth of how things really are.

Keep going, anon. You'll make it

>> No.28163987

>>28163722


I'm going to dump your excellent pump into OPs mental health: DUMNNIGGERDUMNNIGGERDUMNNIGGERDUMNNIGGER

There it's back at market value

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>>28161352
Anon, I don't even think I would be able to enjoy a life that you described.
I find it pretty meaningless, you can make money without connections, the problem is that majority of normalfags are faking their happiness.
Who do you think takes antidepressants and makes appointments with these "psychologists" in maximum quantity, the normalfag or the average 4chan doomer?
They all live a fake life to boost their ego.
Making it on our own is the path we follow.
I also don't need much, what I desire you cannot find on this plane of material existence.

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>>28163987
We needed a troll here, this is /biz/ after all

>>28164010
OP underestimates the number of normies faking thier happiness, hence the bombardment of antidepressants, xanax, and other drugs these ppl take to extremes

>> No.28164334

>>28161352
>Every 20-something normalfag is living it up, they’re all good looking, making good fucking money that allows them to travel, buy amazing new clothes, go out to bars and have fun with other normalfaggots (and most importantly have sex). They all have huge social circles with tons of connections that allow them to get great paying jobs.
Are you retarded, none of that is happening. Maybe a decade ago

>> No.28164518

>>28162201
Baby steps OP. No one can become a giga chad overnight.
Also stop going on social media you retard. Youre just watching snippets of peoples lives without any context like how long did he have to save to go on that trip, is she posting because of her insecurities, how many hours did that chad have to spend in the gym, and etc. Its pointless and irrelevant to consider all these things.
Set some tangible long term and short term goals then make baby steps towards them. Enjoy the dopamine high when you achieve your goals and use that to move yourself forward. You can do this you faggot.

>> No.28164579

>>28161352
Do something that no one has ever done before.
That's your ONLY true power anon.
To be yourself, and stop fretting about everyone else's success or failures.

>> No.28164665

>>28161352
Exact situation op. /Biz/ has unironically been a great way to communicate and have fun making money. Other than that, it's tough staying focused on improoving

>> No.28164851

>>28162201
Life isn't fair. It has never been fair and it may never be fair. However, wallowing over that will get you nowhere

>> No.28164888

unironically it's the fucking dopamine
get off the pot, limit 4chan's biz and pol to a SMALL WINDOW OF TIME, do not use the internet to entertain you. lift heaevy things, read borks, basic things you can figure it out
you don't move because you get stimulated by these small hits of dopamine
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=neZq-axSV8g

>> No.28165049

I'm in a similar situation to OP, although I don't put the blame on others as much. I'm just weird and will always be weird, I've mostly come to peace with that fact.
My cope is that everyone has their own problems that they're dealing with, and that social media is just them showing off only the positives in their lives.

>> No.28165071

>>28163355
It was, thanks ;^) Not that the setting mattered of course, being in good company will always be unforgettable.

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>>28161352
You should let yourself be happy.

Looks and money don’t matter nearly as much as you think.

Build a good personality and lifestyle, be positive, friendly outgoing and people will like to be around you

Or do a flip faggot

>> No.28165188

>>28161352
Just watch a couple of TED talks by that guy with no arms and legs and you'll perk up OP

>> No.28165207

>>28164888
100x this op

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Uhh, good looking 20 something Millennial with two dozen friends here. OP when was the last time you took a look outside your basement? I haven't been to a bar other than my friend's "bar" in his house in over a year.

>> No.28166408

Time to die...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cynop2iZmd4

>> No.28166489

>>28162201
if you feel like that then it's better to just go an hero yourself. instead of lashing out at others for giving their two cents, how about ask yourself what you have done. nine times out of ten, nothing. you go with the status quo, get a job because it pays well, and end up hating life because of it. focus on the things you want to do and quit giving a fuck about what others think

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>>28165108
>Looks and money don’t matter nearly as much as you think.

>> No.28166903

>>28163651
Hug fren

>> No.28166933

30 and got about $200, got burned hard in 2017 was too poor in 2013, came to biz for the first time since then and instantly feel blackpilled I tried to stop myself from looking but morbid curiosity got the better of me

>> No.28166972

I have no advice for you anon but I will say I'm in the exact same position that you are. I'm 23 and I can't stop thinking about how awful and uninteresting I am. How I've wasted my youth sitting in my room and being ugly. Its painful to go out and see a pretty girl my age, I think about how happy she is, how many fulfilling social interactions she has, and most importantly how she still has so much hope for her future, how excited she is to live and wake up everyday.

I have none of that.

>> No.28167101

>>28161687
I've been doing this. Got my CS degree but I can't find a job because I'm retarded, and it's only compounded by the shitty covid job market. Hopefully having a project with solidity on my resume will make me stand out

>> No.28167186

>>28161352
Fuck off whiny bitch. Be lucky you are not living in some bombed out war zone or something. Your problems are of your own making by having a defeatist c.uck attitude. Change your attitude stinky.

>> No.28167482

>>28162201
just be yourself

>> No.28167541

>>28161352
To add to this >>28167186
You could also be a down syndrome or a wheelchair person. But no, you are able bodied and healthy but you just want to whine because life isn't some la dee da happy time scenerio all the day. And you can't even keep it to yourself. You have to slime everybody else with your complainy shit by posting about it and bringing it into my consciousness. Tighten the fuck up.

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>>28163651
>every single human on this planet is different in some way and there's something beautiful to be found in every single one of those people.

>> No.28168018

>>28161352
nah bro what you see in insta and Snapchat is just the surface. They don't show you the massive credit card debt, student loan, auto loan, child alimony. Be thankful you are building yourself up now and waiting until you're solvent to think about all those things.

Find the time to socialize however anon. I too have a bunch of normie friends who also like to flaunt their debt. Difference is, I have a decent personality and the funds to hang out every now and we have a good time.

>> No.28168176

>>28161352
It may not be much but TQQQ is literally free money. At least if you are long the indexes you will see green numbers getting bigger every week and there is zero risk cause the FED has your back.

>> No.28168559

>>28161352
this is what i feel like holding LINK

>> No.28168677

>>28163363
You should go fuck some girls

It's easier than you think, especially at your age and money. I don't know whats holding you back but it doesn't matter how awkward or ugly you are. You should be able to find girls on dating apps.

You should do it for the sake of doing it. Even if you don't "want" to (biggest male lie ever).

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>>28161352
hi fren i can't even find a job and have a 4 year degree in business. Meanwhile all normies from hs have jobs and never even needed to get any degree. This world all about connections and that's it.

>> No.28168944

>>28168885
I did engineering that stretched over 5 years, and it was fucking difficult.

Meanwhile my business friends completed their easy ass degree in 3 years and moved on to high paying jobs. All of them are on 100k+ after 3 or so years.

>> No.28168990

>>28161487
Bravo, you hit the nail on the head.

>> No.28168996

>>28168944
forgot to mention i didn't find work for 2 years after completion, and I get paid like shit.

>> No.28169062

>>28161352
me too, suicide soon, easily by the end of year if i don't miraculously pull life improvement out of my ass

>> No.28169106

>>28162609
Probably only for the first month before he reverts back to being a sperg

>> No.28169296

>>28168996
engineering is damn difficult but at least you managed to find a job, gotta start somewhere. I don't even care about pay just want to get foot in door because my only past experience is doing delivery.

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>>28162201

I understand OP, I think most of us here know this but try to debate you because it's harsh truth.
I think that's also why this thread is getting attention.
Here's something else though.
From reading your posts I don't get the impression that you are a bad conversationalist.
You're able to express your thoughts very well.
Posting is another form of conversation is it not?
And about the low iq, I'm not convinced about this too, you understand a lot about how the world around us works. Reaching the conclusions that you have does requite good observation skills.
I'm thinking you might me suffering from depression, it can cause such feelings and throw you in a downward spiral.

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>>28161352
Lol just stop jacking off. Get an adderall prescription and stop paying attention to social media. Almost no one is naturally ugly. Remember that psyche and confidence changes your facial appearance over time. And if you have a degree you can't be that dumb

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>>28161687
Do you have to be good at math to learn solidity? Highest level I took was non-AP calculus in highschool and I haven't really touched math outside of an Econ 101 class in College. I'm 23 now.

>> No.28169520

>>28169296
I feel you. It can be hard to integrate from a NEET lifestyle as well. Been down that road, had to quit a job because of it.

>> No.28169523

>>28162144
30k which will be 300k EOY if you play your cards right.

>> No.28169862
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>tfw fell for meme humanities degrees after not wanting to put in the work to finish my CS degree
>tfw longest job I held was a bartending gig for like 7 months before the coof btfo me
>Been a neet since march living with parents
>tfw trapped in cycle of shitty sleep schedule
>Even if I go to sleep on time for a few days, it seems like I'm always extremely tired an unmotivated to do anything by the afternoon
>Fat and out of shape, almost touched 300 pounds but have brought it down to like 280 at 6 foot. Was in shape for one year in highschool and one semester of college and it was the best time of my life, but my weak self discipline just led to me getting healthy again.
>No fucking friends outside of one guy who also hates life and thinks he can just work at a fast food restaurant for minimum wage and will eventually become some sort of youtube star
>Can barely convince myself to brush my teeth once a day and regularly go days without showering or changing clothes
I hate this shit and I don't know how to fix myself.

>> No.28169883
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>>28164851
>Life isn't fair
That's right. That's why you were born ugly and were doomed to browse 4chan.

>> No.28169907

>>28161352
>using ig
that's your problem. that isn't real life you fucking retard

>> No.28169932

>>28164888
How come that bullshit didn't work for you?

>> No.28169964
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>>28161352
Don't get fooled by instagram. Everyone just tries to pose and fake a perfect life, meanwhile they have stomach problems from their job, diarrhea, they hate their spouse and are closed homosexuals.

If you want to get fit, do sport

If you want to attract people read mark manson & how to win friends ...etc

If you want a nice vacation go travel

If you want to get rich, learn valuable skills and do the right thing. (Invest in Cosmic, Venus, Rose/Oasis, bnt)

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>>28169353
>>28161352
This is the only truth you need to realize.

>> No.28170046

>>28169932
because i've been fooling myself into thinking that being a drug addict is ok

>> No.28170058

>>28169862
No fap and meth

>> No.28170178

>>28169964
How come that bullshit didn't work for you?

>> No.28170195

>>28170058
It’s impossible to do both of those things at the same time

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>>28170046
Most normies are drug addicts. The problem is that you're ugly.

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>>28169463
>Remember that psyche and confidence changes your facial appearance

>> No.28171328

>>28164888
Don’t listen to this guy he’s retarded. Don’t torture yourself. Take the hedonism pill, you can still make it while enjoying all of life’s pleasures.

>> No.28171752

>>28163651

Best piece of advice in the thread.

It's all about replacing negative emotions with positive emotions.

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>>28170288
I unironically believe it man

>> No.28172319

>>28162044
Sex is pretty good ngl

>> No.28172485

>>28172173
whover this guy is he looks like his face got hit with an iPad at birth

>> No.28172550

>>28161352
Sir this is a /biz/

>> No.28172576

>>28172173
god I never realized how incredibly NONdescript jared is. He has literally 0 distinguishing features. Absolutely hideous

>> No.28172848

>>28165108
>>28172576
I assume Jared got some surgery or botox at some point. Quite literally pic related

>> No.28172871

>>28161352
>using instagram to gauge people's quality of life and happiness
you my retarded friend, are never gonna make it. kys

>> No.28173034

>>28169883
Yes what's your point? I don't spend my life crying about it. You do and that's your choice but this isn't r9k

>> No.28173182

>>28161352
Most of them are in massive debt to fund that lifestyle and will die painfully when the collapse comes

>> No.28173339

just don't have autism bro, it's not that hard

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>>28172173
>I unironically believe it

>> No.28173508

>>28173034
>I don't spend my life crying about it
Guess what you're doing right now?

>> No.28173587

>>28162201
Read the book of John kjv
The dilemma you are facing is one of conscience and conformity
You are being molded by the world and sin.
Be molded by God

>> No.28173762

>>28169862
Stop eating poly unsaturated fatty acids: canola oil, vegetable oil, etc
Cut out processed food. It is poison that exists to kill you.
Anyways that's just the outside of the cup. Read the book of John kjv.

>> No.28174182

>>28169523
The fuck does 300k matter? I’ve got that much at 20 and all I feel is deep regret for not making multiple times more, and even if I do get a 10x from here, so fucking what? I can live in the suburbs and play computer all day?
If your life’s a fucking joke, money doesn’t change anything. It might prevent you from killing yourself, but that’s about it

>> No.28174193

>>28161687
>investing in defi
which coins/tokens?

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28174797

Don't compare to people doing better than you. Look at how much poverty and misery there is in the world.
Here's how to change everything for the better:
Start lifting. Seriously, this will change half of your problems
With lifting comes healthy eating. Unhealthy food makes you feel bad. Not just physically but mentally as well
The lifting community is super bro and you'll make great friends
You'll make great gains if you're dedicated and with dedication comes respect
Being respected boosts your self esteem and you will become a more social person
Having a network of people will grant you pussy, power and money
You're going to make it, bro. We are all going to make it. Start lifting. Invest in yourself.

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GO PLACIDLY amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

>> No.28175883

kill yourself failed normalfag

>> No.28176020

>>28165108
That's honestly a bad nose job. Imagine it from the front, looking right onto the face. Because of the angle of the tip of the nose to the lips it'll just look like flaring nostrils 24/7