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26831036 No.26831036 [Reply] [Original]

Im in a tiring situation. I quit waging after doing it 10 years since 17. I have 50k link, and some savings. I live well within my means still till i cash out.
I now self enrolled in education for something i like. No matter how many times i say “dont worry about my finances or career” it comes up again. She keeps sending me job adverts and asking people in her network for jobs relevant to my degree and questions why i dont give a shit.
I told her i have a plan several times and its all going fine.
I really dont want to tell her details but it may be necessary to have a little more disclosure. She makes good money herself. Its just tiring but idk if the next woman will just do the same shit.
We could have a great life soon if she’d shut the fuck up but this is driving me away.

>> No.26831498

Im thinking of doing a one time flex of spending a shit load on something and then telling her to not bug me about it again. Thoughts?

>> No.26831517

The only time you should tell a woman how much money you have is 5 seconds after she breaks up with you because she thinks you're broke

>> No.26831756

General i live way in my means and i get used appliances etc. She knows im never hurting for money coz we do stuff and im always good for it when i pay.

>> No.26832053

Nice blog didn’t read not selling

>> No.26832380

>>26831517

I know this but im starting to think 0 disclosure to a LTR isnt tue way either as its resulting in this shit.
I literally have enough to retire in my 20s but sues bugging me to get a entry level wagie job and reaching out to people.

I thinking of this>>26831498 and then saying dont worry or bug me again about it.
Or at least i need to give some info without disclosing details. I just think demonstrating is powerful so maybe its better to either drop a hint that im going to buy property or just flex and spend a lot on a weekend trip or some faggy designer jacket for myself.

>> No.26832991

>>26831036
I’m married for several years, women don’t understand high risk investments. I told her and it took a long time for me to finally get her on board with crypto. Don’t tell her yet.

>> No.26833198

>>26831517
Fact

>> No.26833315

Just tell her you own stock, you don't have to give her specifics

>> No.26833967

>>26831036
Never discuss your finances with a woman. Ever. For any reason, at any time.

>> No.26834046

>>26831036
Don’t do it anon. If she figures out you have a shit ton of money sitting there she will want to spend it

>> No.26834308

>>26832380
never tell her, never mention crypto. she will now, you have somehow money, if youre never worried or bumming her for money.
'honey, i know you are worried about my, our financial stability and i love you for that. but i will tell you something you will have to live with from now on, if we continue this: i swore it to somebody on the deathbed, i will never disclose what happened. i will never tell you what its about. this is not something to prove my love to you. i will never tell you. we never will have to worry about finance, but this is forver out of your reach. can you live with that?'

>> No.26834373

>>26831036

You're an idiot. Either tell her now or later and she'll be pissed at you for not telling her sooner.

Also why the fuck not just say "nah i got plenty of money, but i can lt really spend it at all because then it wont grow"

>> No.26834450

>>26831498
this is how you get the FBI on you for suspicious activity

>> No.26834608

if you cant trust her to not cheat you out of your money how are you sure you are not a cuck, you probably are

>> No.26834837

If you actually care about the relationship, tell her, but be firm that you got here by holding and the fundamentals haven't changed so you're not done yet. If she can't accept that and support you, she's not the one.