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[Anonymous No.25659487]

One of my life goals is to be happily married. I am 24 and I've never had a girlfriend. I am relatively good looking but I am extremely introverted and a hermit. I am too embarressed to use a dating app, but I don't think I would find anyone I like on them anyways. At what age should I start to seriously worry about this?

[Anonymous No.25659518]

>>25659487
the longer you wait the harder its gonna be
not hard to find a woman but hard to coexist with another person

[Anonymous No.25659551]

>>25659487
you sound like me but 3 years older. Dont worry about it until your late 20s or early 30s, you need to be absolutely sure of who you marry especially these days where women act like demons

[Anonymous No.25659630]

>>25659487
I’m in a similar position at 26 and just started worrying about it. Hoping to make progress before I hit 30. Might get some therapy t b h

[Anonymous No.25659635]

>>25659518
>not hard to find a woman

It's impossible if you don't have a top tier wallstreet job.

[Anonymous No.25659654]

>>25659487
at 28

You need to find women at most 6 years younger than you. More than this, you become a fucking creep. But beyond 22, every year older a woman is who isnt tied down becomes exponentially more of a whore who will divorce you at the drop of jamals pants.

[Anonymous No.25659782]

>>25659487
why do you want to get married? Like Sergay, women betray. Even if they don't, they age like milk. Just have sex

[Anonymous No.25659804]

>>25659635
ive had so much fun at university. And the women in my engineer degree were gorgeous and down to fuck.

Ah, good times. got the best of them, till this day we're together, thatwas 5 years ago

[Anonymous No.25659808]

>>25659630
Get therapy if you need it, I recently got diagnosed with depression anxiety and Im doing it half because I dont have anyone to talk to about it and half to get something out of it like disability money.
>>25659654
This, women dont mature mentally past teenage level intelligence. wait until you're older and find a young girl who isnt a total whore, date her for a decent to long time and lock her down.

[Anonymous No.25659894]

>>25659782
key word was "happily" married. obviously I wouldn't marry a shitty woman. if you think all women are shitty then youre an incel. also sex outside of committed monogamous relationships is for fags

[Anonymous No.25660030]

>>25659487
Go out and interact with people, men and women, so you can train yourself to be more social. Throughout your interactions you will find women that like you/you like. Don't be afraid to make mistakes and fuck a relationship up, it sucks really bad but you need experience to know how to do it right. Also, dont emulate anyone, and don't let yourself be shamed out of liking someone (stacy, roastie, cuck, simp) like these incels do. The key is definitely human contact though.

[Anonymous No.25660170]

>>25659487
I’ve honestly never met anyone who’s been “happily married”. My grandparents were all Silent Generation, got married during the golden age of the 50s, and loathed their spouses and got divorced multiple times. Maybe there was a honeymoon phase, but after that first kid it all goes downhill.

I broke up with my girlfriend of 4+ years in June, mostly because of a weeklong fight over when I brought home some new dish towels that were the wrong color. Take the blackpill anon. All marriages reach the point where you hate each other, and if you manage to ride that out you reach the stage where you’re too afraid of dying alone to move on.

[Anonymous No.25660183]

>>25659894
>obviously I wouldn't marry a shitty woman

close to HALF of first time marriages end in divorce, and every man in those marriages got in thinking he has found "the one". Are you sure you are that special snowflake with better judgement than most men?

[Anonymous No.25660349]

>>25660183
>Special snowflake
59% of people stay married, thats not amazing but you don't have to be a snowflake to get it right. It's basically a favourable coinflip.

[Anonymous No.25660352]

Look up my trauma release exercise threads in the archives of pol and biz

[Anonymous No.25660420]

>>25659551
>>25660352

[Anonymous No.25660469]

>>25660352
>>25660420
this has no relavence whatsoever to my post, stop spamming that stupid shit on this board

[Anonymous No.25660492]

>>25659551
>>25659630
>>25659808

Haven’t you retards seen my TRE threads?

[Anonymous No.25660524]

>>25660349
You are a pussy because you have trauma

[Anonymous No.25660544]

>>25659487
hey thats me, 24, introverted, hermit that works as a programmer and spends free time woodworking or restoring broken things. Too bad im overweight. I lost any hope i had for a relationship. I just play scenes in my brain and train my imagination to cope.
>>25660030
>Go out and interact with people
not understanding introverted people suggesting to switch to extroverted activities...

[Anonymous No.25660583]

there was a new story a couple of days back in which a study was presented showing that those who don't actively pursue relationships, stand a 1 in 550 chance of getting one. i've been single for over a decade because 4chins has provided just about enough social interaction to keep me sane, and because of social anxiety. i'll die alone if i don't sort it out.

[Anonymous No.25660595]

Stack cash til 30s, then marry a solid wife from SEA. American wifey market is over anon

[Anonymous No.25660713]

>>25660492
I have but haven’t tried it, I will today, thanks

[Anonymous No.25660719]

>>25660595
>American wifey market is over anon
):

[Anonymous No.25660770]

>>25660469
Shut the fuck up, retard. Trauma anon is legit. You'll never be loved

[Anonymous No.25660859]

relationships are overrated
the most important things in life is health and money

[Anonymous No.25660978]

>>25659487
you prob have the depresh. get meds. you might find the one, you might not.

[Anonymous No.25661009]

>>25660859
only when you're young. it starts to become nothing short of literally horrifying when you're middle-aged. god knows what it'll be like if i'm still single another decade from now. there are inescapable cyclical patterns in human psychology which will come for you too should you fail to lead a 'normal' life. literal, actual hell is a psychological state, and it'll come for you.

[Anonymous No.25661208]

>>25660719
I sound like a 60yr old divorced boomer,but I encourage anons to travel to SEA and experience what women are supposed to be. The dream is alive, its just not in America.

T. Married to a filipina

[Anonymous No.25661282]

>>25660770
Thanks bro.

[Anonymous No.25661345]

>>25659487
Femanon here. I feel your pain.
Try fixing your physical appearance and/or improving your personality.
Sounds harsh, but it is the truth, at least.

There's a reason why MRAs/PUAs blame feminism and SJWs, while SJWs blame patriarchy and racism. Both sides are rejects who think they are the lone heroes/rebels.

Sorry. That's the truth. Be the change that you wish to see. Good luck, anon.

[Anonymous No.25661382]

>>25660469
Also... I didn’t know this.... but when I make my TRE threads on pol and biz... one guy responded who was on the PUA (pick up artist) forums back in the day. And he said that TRE was talked about by a sub group of people on the PUA forums. And how you become so much more alpha because of it. It wasn’t mainstream on the PUA forums but had some traction to it in sub threads

[Anonymous No.25661403]

>>25659635
Money doesn't guarantee happiness or love. Change comes from within. A great attitude helps too.

[Anonymous No.25661405]

Go back to /r9k/ larper

[Anonymous No.25661463]

>>25661208
kys racemixing scum. Your children will hate you and themselves
>>25660719
I agree tho that its hard to find a western woman not poisoned by feminist propaganda. Probably something like Ukraine would be the best place to look for a loyal girl if you are white, there are many agencies that set up dates with eastern European girls for you, but you have to be REALLY ultra fucking careful since some of the girls there are insane gold diggers - not all though

[Anonymous No.25661485]

>>25659487
You seem like a nice dude hope it works out

[Anonymous No.25661593]

>>25661463
>racemixing scum
trump is not now nor will he ever be a president.

[Anonymous No.25661636]

>>25661463
Forgot to say inb4 pol comes to bitch about racemixing

[Anonymous No.25661638]

>>25659487
>One of my life goals is to be happily married
>I am 24
heh
worry about your body, your wealth and your relatives first

[Anonymous No.25661648]

>>25660583
Improve your looks.
You don't want to only run into the wrong ones.
Good luck.

[Anonymous No.25661668]

>>25660352
Shut the fuck up, animals tremble because of adrenaline. Sitting on your desk all day watching tranny porn doesnt give you trauma or releases adrenaline.

[Anonymous No.25661820]

>>25660544
How else do you want to get comfortable enough in order to succesfully get into a relationship with someone? I have add and was bullied at school and at home, almost went mute out of fear that people would bully me the moment I opened my mouth. During uni, I started meeting people with the same interests, started drinking to loossen up and realised not everyone is out to get me. I went out more and more and I still don't speak as much as normies but at least I know how to market myself now. You need to consciously go out and force yourself or you will stay and talk to yourself in your room forever especially because you are an introvert. Unless you gave up already but then you might as well fuck off anyway and kys

[Anonymous No.25661836]

>>25661593
Please stop, lol. The initial White House raid - along with calls for Trump's arrest - was hilarious enough.

Let's all try to be normal now, please.

[Anonymous No.25661924]

>>25659487
Honestly, just make it hard enough to be a sugar daddy.
It’s much easier firing and hiring a sugar baby than actually trying to date. You get it all out in the open right away “you get x per week allowance plus dates, you will act as if you love me with your whole heart and worship the ground I walk on”.

Did they forget to cook dinner because they had a stressful day? No, they walked off the job and will be fixed
Did you get in a fight? No, they just quit.
Did they cheat on you? No, they failed to hit this quarters immersion targets and will be forced to resign.

[Anonymous No.25661927]

>>25659804
>women in engineering
out of 100 students, 75 will be morbidly obese smelly men. 15 will be generic looking men, 5 will be objectively handsome. Of the 10 students left, 7 will be dogshit tier ugly women, and 3 will be trannies.

Compared to the rest of your department, those dogshit tier women would be considered attractive but only compared to the rest of the department.

Compared to society, they were horrific abominations

[Anonymous No.25661929]

>>25661593
>>25661636
Im not American so I dont give a shit about what jewish puppet is in office right now, but you have to be a complete deluded moron to not see whats wrong with racemixing.
Your children will not look like you and will be disgusting abnormalities without any real identity or any group they can relate to

[Anonymous No.25661995]

>>25661648
i don't run into any, i never socialise, like ever. remember that old site 'hotornot'? i got a 9.9 rating. i simply never meet anyone 'cause of ridiculous and irrational anxieties. and um, the decades of addiction which resulted. i wish i was still 24, not 42. not so easy to sort this shit once you're basically an old man.

[Anonymous No.25661999]

>>25660544
>not understanding introverted people suggesting to switch to extroverted activities...
don't pigeonhole yourself, anon. believing that you're a particular type of person and that your behavior and outlook are immutable is weak as fuck. nobody claimed any of this was easy - it's difficult because it's worth doing.

[Anonymous No.25662094]

>>25661929
BASED AND MISCENGATIONPILLED

[Anonymous No.25662196]

>>25659487
First off don't use a dating app. NEVER when choosing a long term gf or a wife. Watch some of the earlier PUA stuff unironically and unlearn to be introverted and learn how to talk to girls for free. This got me tonnes of pussy after being a wizard.
Don't use a dating app because whores use those. You might think that doesn't matter to you but the less partners a woman has the chance for a happier marriage increases dramatically. Virginity isn't a meme bro. Don't rush into it with the first girl first. Get a few girlfriends and get laid and have fun before you settle down. That's natural and healthy for a guy so you know what you can live with and enjoy the rest of your life. Godspeed anon.

[Anonymous No.25662247]

>>25659487
OP and fags in a similar situation: You should start fixing your problem now; whatever it may be. Social anxiety, fear of rejection/failure... you need to sort that shit out ASAP because the longer you wait, the longer it takes to get out of the hole.
t. former social hermit

[Anonymous No.25662335]

>>25661929
Depends entirely on the mix/source dna and is pretty much a pol meme perpetuated by obese incels that will never breed anyway