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I hate my life bros. I hate waking up everyday doing something I have no joy doing. I'm close to the end. I'm sorry for always making this thread but its slightly therapeutic for me since I have no one else I can tell. Thanks

>> No.24719321

>just do something u like bro
I don't have the energy anymore. I'm 32 with no future. Life is pretty much over for me

>> No.24719329

>>24719313
Then do something new

>> No.24719364

>>24719329
I don't know what to do. Plus I hate myself. I will never get anywhere in life if I hate myself as much as I do

>> No.24719365

>>24719321
i'm 31 and i'm trying to teach myself to code.

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>>24719313

>> No.24719399

>>24719313
Same here

>> No.24719406

>>24719365
Nice. I hope u learn to code well enough to make money. Good luck to u

>> No.24719424

>>24719375
>>24719399
*hug*

>> No.24719435 [DELETED] 

>>24719365
Whatever you are doing now, coding is going to worse. Coding as a job is one of the worst lives you can live

>> No.24719464

>>24719435
i work in accounting so i really doubt that. i just want to make $100k/year doing braindead webshitter stuff 100% remotely. i'm tired of working in an office, dealing with boomers, and only making $70k/year in a high COL shithole area.

>> No.24719486

>>24719364
Gas the jews and start the revolution and by that I mean learn to code

>> No.24719492

I like listening to asmr on youtube and smoke weed. Everything else falls into survival.

>> No.24719542

>>24719313
Why don't you change your situation?

>> No.24719577

>>24719542
Well I live with my parents and I know I will fail if I live on my own. I can't change my situation. I have zero self confidence in myself to do anything
>>24719492
I liked weed too. I don't smoke anymore. It made me very anxious

>> No.24719589

>>24719313
What do you do that you hate anon?

>> No.24719593

>>24719486
Don't u have to be smart to code?

>> No.24719643

>>24719589
I hate not having friends or a girl friend or a normie life. I live a very sad life. When I was younger I always told myself I wouldnt be a loser, like 40 year old who still lives at home overweight etc.. but I'm turning exactly into that. I am just ...sigh. I can't put it into words

>> No.24719667

>>24719589
And the worst part is I can see the disappointment in my dad's eyes. I feel like I let my parents down

>> No.24719697

>>24719577
>I have zero self confidence in myself to do anything
stop getting wrapped up in your own dumbass thoughts. think about a realistic long term goal. set intermediate goals that lead to that long term goal. have backup plans in case you falter along the way. then just work toward those goals and do regular progress checks, to make sure you are still on track don't get bogged down in psychological mind games like doubting yourself or having no self confidence or other stupid shit -- just focus on making measurable progress toward your goals.

>> No.24719717

>>24719697
What if I can't? Like my mind is fortified with self doubt stronger than plutonium

>> No.24719766

>>24719717
i'm not even sure what we're talking about. since this /biz/ i'm assuming it's education/career? if millions of people have done it before, so can you.

>> No.24719807

>>24719593
Shitskins do it

>> No.24720313

>>24719313
Just go do something nice for someone else. You sound selfish. Go help a little old lady clean up her yard. Go volunteer to bring lonely old people food and thatll scare you into caring about things. Stop being a selfish coward. Give your dad a reason to be proud of you. You can do it

>> No.24721324

>>24719435
You don’t learn to code “for a job”
You learn to code to make an app to get out of rat race

>> No.24721360

>>24721324
this

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>>24719313

>> No.24721576

That sucks bro. Also not your personal blog faggot
>>24719313

>> No.24721664

Also the rest of you "fren" faggots are cringe and need to neck yourselves

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>>24719313
at least you're not one of those weirdo mask deniers

>> No.24721721

>>24719321
For energ. If you drink coffee, start adding chaga powder to it. Otherwise start drinking kratom in the mornings, it tastes like shit but you feel great afterward

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>> No.24721746

>>24719717
You're in a rut. Mental state -> preventing physical actions/improvement -> leading to counterproductive mental state.
Honestly the best thing you could do is go to the gym anon. The mental benefits make your whole day better and they are immediate. Start browsing /fit or bodybuilding.com to get started. The physical benefits are just a side benefit. It's more effective than antidepressents, google it.

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>>24719313
Do you have crypto?

>> No.24722024

I've heard all the motivational speeches, optimistic nihilism, etc etc blah blah blah. Yet, this thing that I have noticed is that these things can't actually make you do something. These songs or poems or whatnot might inspire you, but they can't actually make you do something, make you move and take action. I or others may be able to give advice, but they can't make you do something. Even if they take the honest approach, or the encouraging approach, or how they phrase it in whatever manner, I don't think anything will make a difference to you. Maybe you will find something, maybe you won't. I could offer you advice, but I don't think that is what you really want, and besides, you've probably already seen and heard it all. I don't know why I am writing this. I don't know what I will say next. I don't know what I could say. Maybe I will forget about this, maybe it will be food for thought for a while for me. Nonetheless, regards to you.

>> No.24722314

>>24719313
Bro I work healthcare cleaning up shit its my 4th 16 hr shift. Making good checks but Ive McFucking had it

>> No.24722352

>>24719313
Do you have much money saved up? If you do, you could take some time off to reskill or find a different job

>> No.24722369

>>24721746
>Mental state -> preventing physical actions/improvement -> leading to counterproductive mental state.
Emotions lead to thoughts and actions. If you feel sad because someone you love died, that emotion will make you cry and think how much you miss them. If you feel happy you feel more energetic and think of all the things you can do. It's really important to learn about emotional intelligence and its not just some hippie bullshit, it can help you navigate this fucked up world without feeling so suicidal.