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24007665 No.24007665 [Reply] [Original]

>gf makes 130k and lives with me
>I make 200k
>will marry her and we will have a combined income of 330k+
>I will never have kids
>if she divorces me I will not have to pay her alimony because she has a good career and can support herself
>if she decides to stop working while we're married I will divorce her before she gets to the point of being dependent and entitled to alimony

will this plan work? I want to get married but not be at risk of being a slave EVER

>> No.24007684

The only reason to get married is if you’re going to have kids. It’s the literal reason for marriage.

>> No.24007688

why get married in the first place?

>> No.24007720

>I want to get married but not be at risk of being a slave EVER
>I want to cover myself in gasoline and light a box of matches but not be at risk of being burned EVER

>> No.24007740

>>24007684
This. I married my GF only after impregnating her

>> No.24007777

>>24007665
>not having kids
>still getting married
You realize you can just, not break up?

>> No.24007809

>>24007665
why get married? especially if you don't plan on having kids

>> No.24007873

>>24007665
Just include a prenup clause in the marriage settlement
Ask the firm if they include the prenup by default and not something you have to request, just request not to include, that way you don't have to request it and make it awkward and can just sign and marry comfortably knowing you both are safe

>> No.24007895
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>>24007665
As others said, with no kids there's no point in getting married. That being said, there are still problems with your plan.
She might get alimony anyway, because she has become accustomed to the lifestyle your higher income provides. Especially if the disparity between your incomes increases.
Are you going to kick her out as soon as she gets fired? Probably not. And if she gets a job that pays 65k? Divorces can take a long time. Could be by the time it's decided, you have been supporting her for quite awhile.
Also, you think you aren't having kids, but how much control over that are you really exercising? You use condoms with your soon-to-be wife? She is on birth control? Oops, forgot my pill/shot/IUD. You make enough that she could live completely off the child support you would be forced to provide. Had a vasectomy? OMG, its a miracle, she's having Chads... I mean YOUR baby! DNA test? In some states, it doesn't matter; if you are the husband, it's your baby.

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>>24007665
What the fuck is the point of getting married if you're not having kids you fucking retard. ALso consider that if suddenly your crypto takes off and you're $200k is $10m and she divorces you half of that is hers the state will fuck you.
You shouldn't be in a relationship if you're so much of a child that you don't realize the point of it is for one.

>> No.24007951

>>24007895

thanks for the red pill. I guess the answer is no

>> No.24007974

>>24007665
why the fuck would you marry her you fucking retard if you're not having kids?
>relationship
have sex with the same woman with the option to walk away, financially unscathed
>marriage
>have consistent sex with the same woman with possibility that walking away will be very emotionally and financially costly

>> No.24008530

>>24007665
How are you smart enough to make $200k but dumb enough to get married while not having kids lmao