This is assuming she's not a man

[Anonymous No.23926154]

Guys I need some serious opinions, no meme answers: is having a gf worth the necessary time and financial outlay just so the conclusion to every fap can happen inside her vagina? Seems like a high opportunity cost of time and money

[Anonymous No.23926220]

>>23926154

It's an unfortunately necessary component of social mobility. You can't move up the rungs without. If you don't give a shit about the monkey status game then yeah it's wasteful and unnecessary, but most dudes seem to like it anyway.

Social currency markets are just another set of markets and they have their own instruments. If it's not your thing just steer clear.

[Anonymous No.23926230]

>>23926154
Building a family is the most fundamental meaning of life. You might not care now, but maybe you will later. What's the point of amassing wealth if you have no heir to pass it on to?

[Anonymous No.23926242]

>>23926230

ok ozy

[Anonymous No.23926327]

>>23926230
based

[Anonymous No.23926334]

>>23926230
>What's the point of amassing wealth if you have no heir to pass it on to?

Amassing and passing is equally intrinsically pointless as much as everything else. Do whatever you like OP that's it.

[Anonymous No.23926356]

>>23926154
that IS a man tho.

does he hold boring dao tho?

[Anonymous No.23926392]

>>23926230
incels seething rn

[Anonymous No.23926405]

>>23926154
I see you're startying to think about your actions and what consequences they have.
It all leads down to what is reality itself?
What is "right" action?
People have alot of opinions, me myself I'm buddhist.
But if we're talking just about your question of gf or no gf it all depends on the circumstances I guess and where the cutoff point for you is.
So in short, I have no fucking clue nor does any other faggot on this board barring an Unconditioned being lurking.

[Anonymous No.23926444]

>>23926405
>Unconditioned being

like a doggo? or... ?

[Anonymous No.23926456]

>>23926444
A doggo has a beginning and end so no.

[Anonymous No.23926468]

>>23926154
I hope thats not a man but if so then I am officialy a faggot

[Anonymous No.23926476]

>>23926456

From what perspective? Yours?

[Anonymous No.23926487]

>>23926154
there is no point for a <35y.o. man to engage in a long-term relationship
you should focus on building your wealth, health and mind, then when you're set you will pick up a clean 20yo girl, make her sign a prenup, and make her give you children
if you're afraid of fertility issues, freeze some sperm now that your test hasn't gone away
marriage is a losing bet for men, at some point she will shut down / become neurotic / cheat or all of this together, doesn't matter the effort you put in and the therapy you pay for

t. divorced dad of 3

[Anonymous No.23926496]

Fug this looks like my oneitis.

All the money I’m earning now will not fill the space in my heart until she comes back.

[Anonymous No.23926507]

>>23926487
This is the logical answer and I know it. Or we know it, Dad.

But even your 26 year old self in love wouldn’t marry it. We all found our “soulmate”

[Anonymous No.23926517]

>>23926476

From no perspective, It's from the definition.

[Anonymous No.23926529]

>>23926476
>>23926517
Yes a dog is defined conditioned being.

[Anonymous No.23926557]

If you want to do it, go for it. Keep in mind a lot of people wind up stuck in loveless relationships that make them miserable and soak up all their time and energy forever. Many people (like >>23926220) think that social pressure is a good reason to get married, but that's retarded. It's your life, what ever you wanna do. Be open to the possibility that you'd be happier single. Focus on being successful enough that if you ever wanted to, you could start a relationship. No matter how old you get (I'm serious) there will always be women out there who want to date a man who is clean, independent, and confident.

[Anonymous No.23926560]

>>23926517
>>23926529

Gotcha. I was thinking a bit narrower. You gents are talking about beings not subject to conditions of ANY kind.

[Anonymous No.23926565]

>>23926154
Thats clearly a man. Can yell just stop or were going to deathsquard circa 1935 these tranies

[Anonymous No.23926581]

>>23926560
Yes not even being or non-being, actually defeating death in it's truest sense and breaking the cycle.

[Anonymous No.23926595]

>>23926356
Dude she's clearly female

[Anonymous No.23926609]

>>23926581

Interesting intersection with zen. As man is to no-mind, god is to no-godhead?

[Anonymous No.23926612]

>>23926487
Makes sense, how old are you now, & how long after the marriage did it fall apart? What happened?

[Anonymous No.23926627]

>>23926230
Thank you for the life guidance, based hand holdless virgin incel that uses pictures of prepubescent anime girls as their social media avatar. Very redpilled, you are smart.

[Anonymous No.23926638]

>>23926609
You mean zen buddhism?

[Anonymous No.23926657]

>>23926507
i'm not a MGTOW closet fag but they are right in their argument that women are acting until they've secured your commitment (can be marriage for some, 1-2-3 children for others)
after that they will lose attraction to you in 99% of cases, hopefully then she can retain some affection and not completely destroy your relationship

>>23926557
i think everyone ends up in loveless relationships
most (if not all) marriages hold up by some kind of loss aversion : can't leave them now after sacrificing so much for them (body, energy, money, time, dreams, etc.)

[Anonymous No.23926670]

>>23926581
How can we even comprehend such a thing given the kind of being we are?

[Anonymous No.23926679]

>>23926638

Gets complicated. There is a pretty clear line of demarcation between zen and buddhism, at least to me. The philosophy and the religion are different things that are conflated in messy ways. I don't see any barrier to e.g. zen catholicism, except that >>23926581
>>23926609
maybe points to a demiurgical interpretation.

I don't have answers, just cool questions.

[Anonymous No.23926691]

>>23926595
She's too attractive to be a biological woman, there's a dick in there

[Anonymous No.23926699]

>>23926670
Yea to understand the un-understandable that's the issue, I think Zen has it when they say you can't teach it in words.
>>23926679
Zen is just an offshoot of one of the disciples of the Buddha teaching it in the way he understood it, and if I remember he was the only one qualified to teach it in this way because when the Buddha held up a flower he was the only one who got the teaching.

[Anonymous No.23926716]

>>23926612
im 46, married at 22 (she 20), divorced 5 years ago
nothing happened, one day you wake up and everything starts to annoy her, 3 years later (with a whole year of family counseling) and she can't stand living with you anymore
it doesn't matter how much you try to foster a healthy communication dynamic, at some point some of them just want out i guess

[Anonymous No.23926737]

>>23926699
>Zen is just an offshoot of one of the disciples of the Buddha teaching it in the way he understood it, and if I remember he was the only one qualified to teach it in this way because when the Buddha held up a flower he was the only one who got the teaching.

You're referring to the blue cliff record and the raising of the flower. It doesn't have much of anything to do with zen. I don't actually know where or when zen split off from buddhism. I do know that they are different, basically unrelated things.

[Anonymous No.23926763]

>>23926699
Checked. If you can't teach it in words then how? What bypasses language other than the arts?

[Anonymous No.23926790]

Imagine licking the inside of those thighs

[Anonymous No.23926800]

>>23926154
https://www.instagram.com/s.meriweather/

[Anonymous No.23926802]

>>23926763
Well this one story was about this dude that got the door to a monestary slapped into his face he broke his arm, and, reached enlightenment.
Idk man how can you speak the unspeakable?
Those that have seen can show you the way but you need to take the step, and you need to have a little faith that where you're jumping is actually a place and you'll not just fall down kek.
>>23926737
Not what I remember but can't find any sauce.
Most of it I've heard through podcasts though.

[Anonymous No.23926806]

>>23926763

Not everything that can be experienced can be taught.

>What bypasses language other than the arts?

pretty much everything

[Anonymous No.23926812]

>>23926154
Don't listen to the bitter retards in this thread OP, having a good woman by the side and children at your feet is the most important thing in line, more than meme lines and magic Internet money.

[Anonymous No.23926813]

>>23926716
That's messed up anon, at this point marriage is too risky to consider, it's fucked how you can go from being so close you marry each other to her totally changing like that. How bad was it divorcing? Also out of curiosity how did you find biz? You own a bag of link, right?

[Anonymous No.23926819]

>>23926806
Give some examples of noninguistic means of communication other than visual images, sounds/music?

[0-0 No.23926842]

1What do you think about DYMMAX (dymmax.com)? Does anyone take part in it?

Digged up their staking system, looks promising, up-to-date solutions and tools without collateral. They collaborate with China, USA and provide new features for investors and crypto enthusiasts

[Anonymous No.23926851]

>>23926819

sit down, close your eyes, stay that way

[Anonymous No.23926870]

>>23926154
Men don't reach their highest state of being without a loving wife. You may not like that answer, but that's just how it is.

[Anonymous No.23926934]

>>23926870
Thinking that the highest state of being depends on having things is pretty limited.

[Anonymous No.23927066]

>>23926230
i agree but why worry about it when you cant breed. fuck you faggot.

[Anonymous No.23927081]

How do I know that's communication with another being? When I look at a picture or hear music, I'm communicating with the person who made it

[Anonymous No.23927133]

>>23927081

Dunno. I just know that I do it all the time, eyes open or closed. Seems like you probably do too.

[Anonymous No.23927158]

https://rightwingdharmasquads.podbean.com/
I reccomend this podcast if you want to learn more about Buddhism.

[Anonymous No.23927212]

>>23927081
It's not about communicating with another being. It's about learning a fundamental truth that isn't information that you can express in words and hold in your memory like an historical fact. A bad analogy would be a pro golfer that can tell you everything about how he hits a ball, but even if you understand him, you wouldn't be able to hit the ball like him. Words and pictures can help, but they are not necessary and probably ineffective.

[Anonymous No.23927257]

>>23927212

buddhists use the term "transmission" to describe the process. I am not a buddhist, but the term does seem germane.

[Anonymous No.23927296]

>>23926154
bro if that’s all you want just hire escorts. gfs aren’t for you

[Anonymous No.23927314]

>>23926813
actually i think getting married and having a family is great
you just need a solid prenup, and if they're not willing to sign it, it is a bad sign
>How bad was it divorcing?
imagine losing the seed phrase to a 1000 BTC wallet: angry, disoriented, nauseous, regretful... and also a sizeable chunk of your wealth disappearing
>how did you find biz?
i came here once i realized i was too stupid for interesting boards
>You own a bag of link, right?
i sold my stack at 16 last time it pumped, im not buying more atm

[Anonymous No.23927355]

>>23927314

>placing your faith in law

you are beyond hopeless. look fren, you are clearly doing the best that you can but you should never again aspire to giving advice; that is wrong even though your intent is good.

[Anonymous No.23927393]

>>23926230
>Building a family is the most fundamental meaning of life.
False. Reproduction is something even the lowest of animals can accomplish and is actually detrimental to spiritual ascension.
However, /biz/ is full of angry, insecure boomers who will vehemently defend their egotistical desires to have children for their own benefit. Whether they don't want to be alone, or they feel they need to leave a "mark" on the world, or they succumb to the absurd notion that one of their offspring will cure cancer or some other great achievement.
All egotistical desires.

[Anonymous No.23927522]

>>23926154
Every man needs a muse. You know an inspiration to be his best. Just don't turn into a faggot push over.

[Anonymous No.23927553]

>>23927522
Or just pay for a hole.

[Anonymous No.23927590]

>>23926154
Does she encourage you? Does she cook, clean, and maintain supplies? Does she add to the amassed wealth? And most importantly, does she let you bust your nut wherever and whenever you wAnt, including the butthole? Then yes she’s a keeper and worth her weight in gold.

[Anonymous No.23927759]

>>23927212
That doesn't make sense with your analogy, j think I get what you're saying though, it's an experiential/phenomenological truth gained through action or contemplation?

[Anonymous No.23927787]

>>23927355
go back to blabbering about buddhism

[Anonymous No.23927793]

>>23926230
SO I CAN DO WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT AND BUY WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT WHEN I WANT IT

[Anonymous No.23927805]

>>23927314
Shit anon sounds awful, but you only have to give her money once right? Anything you make now you keep? I'd seriously think about buying back into link, the next 12-18 months are shaping up to be potentially insaner than 2017. You'll rope when you see link pushing 250

[Anonymous No.23927830]

if you're doing it just to cum after a while it only becomes barely better than using your hand

[Anonymous No.23927871]

>>23926230
Based

>>23927393
Cringe

[Anonymous No.23928100]

>>23926334
>passing is equally intrinsically pointless
All of human history tends to disagree with you there, buddy

[Anonymous No.23928116]

>>23927871
t. angry degenerate boomer who relies on others' suffering for their own sense of fulfillment

[Anonymous No.23928657]

You should want some kind of relationship without anyone convincing you of it. If you don't want it that's fine but it could be that you just haven't figured out what your type is. Everyone wants SOMETHING relationship and sex-wise. If you don't desire anything you probably have either a hormonal problem or you're psychologically fucked up in some way. People tell you this because being in the RIGHT relationship makes people happier than anything else, but if you haven't experienced it in a while your body forgets about it and you don't even know what you're missing. This goes for love AND for sex. The best sex is much better than the best masturbation by a longshot.

Don't waste a girl's time if you don't REALLY REALLY want her, whether it's for love, sex, or both.

[Anonymous No.23928704]

>>23926154
by the way you should know that this is a business & finance board, and most people who spend their lives chasing money tend to lose their humanity after a while. they forget how to feel, and love, and stuff. so take what they say with a grain of salt. would you ask warren buffet for relationship advice?

[Anonymous No.23929037]

>>23928100
i wonder what your opinion will be in 100 years

[Anonymous No.23929341]

>>23927393
>>23926230
Fundamental was the wrong word. Teleological is the correct word, and you can't debate that. Having children is the teleological purpose of life. Fact.

[Anonymous No.23929377]

Fapping to porn/camgirls/fucking prostitute:
>short term good feeling but it fades away as soon as you cum
Girlfriend
>sex, but also cuddling and emotional support, having a companion to explore life with, loving and being loved is an extremely comforting feeling

The payoff of a gf/wife is much better. People who are in relationships live longer too, so dat oxytocin from cuddling has multiple benefits.