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Do you hate your parents /biz/?
Is it wrong to dislike them just because they are low IQ poor people that took retarded decisions, that don't really love you and didn't teach you the basics of adult life, while years later you became a succesful guy without their help?

>> No.22838196
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>>22838159
My parents are dead and despite their shortcomings I still love them and think of them.
Get therapy.

>> No.22838225

No I love my parents even if they have made some mistakes. You sound white OP.

>> No.22838233

>>22838159
It kinda frustrates me but I don't blame em, their parents were probably the same or worse. They have more debt than I do and I try to help them with some money every two weeks. I hope they are using it to pay off their CC's. I've thought of giving them some of my crypto but it's probably better for me to keep investing it for them, they would probably cash out immediately

>> No.22838242
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>>22838196
You don't get to choose your parents

>> No.22838251

>>22838159
My mother divorced raped my father when I was 3 then proceeded to neglect me and let the tv raise me. How should I feel?

>> No.22838267

>>22838159
I hate them because my father was an angry little midget of a man who physically abused me to vent his frustrations caused by paranoid schizophrenia, and my mother was a pushover doormat who tried to convince me that I was the one with schizophrenia and that everything was my fault. Neither of them interacted with me in any meaningful way, neither of them taught me anything useful in adult life, neither of them assisted me with anything beyond food/clothing/shelter/basic transportation for 18 years until I left because they wouldn't stop talking about how much they wanted me gone and how they didn't want a mooch of a son.

I turned 18, told them to eat shit and if they ever contacted me again, I'd call the police.

Now I'm a crypto developer and I work from from home that I support myself with and I've also got a fiancee and a nice apartment, saving up to buy a house.

>> No.22838298

>>22838233
>It kinda frustrates me but I don't blame em, their parents were probably the same or worse
This. I'm glad i was able to exit the loop of genetic low IQ.
>>22838251
Same. I kind of blame her for not being able to marry a proper husband and break our family. Or perhaps i should blame my dad. I honestly dont care anymore, i just kind of want to stay away from them

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>>22838267
Dude. Literally the same fucking story, except the schizophrenic dad part.
I have so much to thank to Vitalik...

>> No.22838672

>parents are both 65
>told me they have absolutely no savings and will use the life insurance money from my granmother to retire, once she dies
>she's 96 but in amazingly good health for her age
what if she lives for another 5-10 years, or more? It's completely possible.

>> No.22838701

>>22838159
no I just know they are stupid and helpless like any other goy

>> No.22839347

>>22838159
If my parents would have gone to school or been better educated I wouldn’t be poor but I probably wouldn’t be born. People should if being children into the world if they can’t provide a good life for them. No child should have to deal with druggie parents, homelessness, risk of rape, or anything depraved like that. My parents did alright despite being poor I love them.

>> No.22839943

>>22838159
As an adult I change my circumstances not my parents. I may be damaged from their parenting but its up to me to fix it for me. Blaming, resentfullness, bitterness, these are not emotions that you want to consistently feel.
If more people had personal agency and looked to themselves before others then the world would be better off.
Its not an intelligence thing. Its cultural.

>> No.22840371

i moved out at 16. best decision of my life.
hardly ever see them or speak to them nowadays

>> No.22840415

>>22838225
White parents are more loyal to the government then their own children.

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>>22838159
I don’t hate them anymore, but they were bad and weak people that should not have had children. My father was an alcoholic pedophile and my mother violent and deeply deranged.
I know better than to ever say anything like that to the kinds of blue bloods I work with, because they can’t understand and would only think less of me for it. As far as they’re concerned my parents both died when I was in college. In reality I’m just no contact with them.

>> No.22840687

>>22838159
>>>/r9k/

>> No.22840735

>>22838159
yes, its fine to hate your parents if they actively tried to ruin your life to make their own better, this applies especially to white american boomers.

>>22840415
this but unironically. white people sell their children when able, they dont care about them at all.

>> No.22840741

I feel bad for my father since he’d likely be a multimillionaire right now if he didn’t settle down in a shit state to have kids, he’s still done very well for himself but I can tell he has a lot of regret. The best thing I can do for him is become successful

>> No.22840759

>>22838159
FUCKING GOD TRAPS ME HERE

>> No.22840785

>>22838672
Kek what a stupid fucking plan

>> No.22840877

>>22838196
You can only feel that way because they are dead and no longer hurting your life or rejecting you.
You literally own what they used to hold over your head and belittle you over.
Supposedly.

>> No.22840924
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What the fuck is wrong with you guys? Am I the only one here that has two loving parents & a normal, suburban upbringing?

>> No.22841082

>>22840924
>had a normal upbringing and somehow still wound up here
>thinks the problem is with the other people here
Lol.

>> No.22841099

>>22840924
Yea probably. This is 4chan man we are all societal rejects and deeply disturbed individuals

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>>22840924
Yeah I mean I had a great upbringing and my Dad made a lot of sacrifices for my family so I have a tremendous amount of respect for him.

My parents aren’t “perfect” but nobody is perfect. They showed me unconditional love and that’s all a child needs.

The key to making it, is realizing your responsibile for your own actions...

I mainly ended up on here because although my parents were amazing parents, their finances were just terrible. My dad grosses $250,000, and yet has $100,000 in credit card debt and still owes $400,000 on his mortgage....

But yeah, I had the traditional burger upbringing, minivans, McDonald’s, riding my bike around the neighborhood. Playing Gamecube with my friends.

So I’m tremendously grateful. If I make it with my small LINK stack, I will give some of my gains to my parents.

>> No.22841362

Just so annoying, constantly whine and bitch about everything I do, no privacy or treat me like an adult. Cheap and make stupid decisions and I have to clean up after, over feed me and over control.

My brother left because of them, so I am stuck here with them and lost contact with him.