why is she so cruel

[Anonymous No.22418439]

hello bizbros
im in a toxic relationship
she abuses me and constant gaslights me. i honestly believe she is a sociopath. one time she even admitted to me that she was a sociopath and then later took it back.
just last night, i caught her sexting with a guy from some dating app, and she somehow deflected and blamed it on me for not giving her enough attention.

the problem is that i cannot leave. i am just too attached to her no matter what psycho thing she does to me. I grew up with an aggressive alcoholic father and a chronically depressed/ bipolar mother. sometimes it even feels "good" when she does something bad to me. I am a broken man, biz

I am going to neck myself in 2025, but until then I will stay on this board and FUD pajeet projects. I think I might even create my own token and see if it can grow organically without any scam techniques

[Anonymous No.22418465]

>>22418439
>the problem is that i cannot leave
Yes you can, and you will be glad you did. If you're going to suffer either way, why not suffer with dignity and leave her?

[Anonymous No.22418487]

>>22418439
ngmi

[Anonymous No.22418494]

>>22418439
Grow some balls and say goodbye to her tonight.

[Anonymous No.22418500]

>>22418439
Leave her fren, it's the only way

[Anonymous No.22418535]

was with a sociopath was about 5 years before I knew exactly what it was. I knew something was wrong with her I think she maybe had multiple personalities also. Anyway as any psychologist will tell you to run because you can’t help them.

[Anonymous No.22418540]

>>22418500
My dubs have spoken

[Anonymous No.22418563]

>>22418465
i cannot anon

she knows too much about me. stuff that could ruin me

i also told her private things about my family. i am fine with her ruining my life, but I cannot have her fucking with my family

im a stupid fucking retard. I really thought she loved me. she used to be so nice.

i guess i have to wait for her to find an even bigger sucker than me

[Anonymous No.22418571]

>>22418465
No he really can’t leave. He is a simp fuck who will soon be a cuck. He really can’t leave and when she leaves him he will be near a rope during the breakup. If you’re reading this OP it’s not too late to keep your dignity and hop on the path to bring a man. Dump this bitch and never look back

[Anonymous No.22418587]

>>22418439
Bro if she's actively disrespecting you like this and treating you like shit she knows she can get away with it and honestly is that seriously what you want to be with someone who has no regard for how you feel? Drop that bitch you don't need that king

[Anonymous No.22418599]

>>22418439
At least she’s not freeloading at your house refusing to leave

[Anonymous No.22418605]

>>22418571
anon Im a dumb retard

i left her once before but she tricked me into getting back with her

[Anonymous No.22418649]

>>22418439
recently got out of a multiple year on and off toxic cycle with a similar woman. literally you CANNOT reason with people like this because the gaslight you as you said. there’s no discussion able to be had and you cannot help them. run anon. don’t let the BS you think she has over you keep you trapped. seriously. it won’t get any better.

[Anonymous No.22418650]

Embrace being a simp OP. Tell her you want to try wearing a chastity cage, and tell her you want to lick and suck on her feet especially after work/exercise. You'll both be happier since you'll both get off on your fucked up mental problems. Please post results so we can fap

[Anonymous No.22418655]

>>22418439

Just cry in front of her and be incredibly emotional. She will leave on her own. Lmao Tell her how insecure you etc. You should have any problems doing any of that. If you already have done all of that and she is still with you she is using you and fucking someone else.

[Anonymous No.22418709]

>>22418439
She thinks you are pathetic and weak. Fucking tie her up and fuck her pussy till it's blue.

[Anonymous No.22418778]

>>22418439
table flip time.
tell her your fantasy is for her to fuck other guys. she will get off on it - as she will think its an even crueler way she can abuse you. however secretly charge the other guys money to fuck her.
make her sleep in separate room after she's done and next day push her to do 2, 3, 4 guys....always want more.
by the time she realizes you've pimped her out you will control her.
dump her and tell everyone she's got multiple stds. find a trad wife and raise a happy family and old aids puss will kill herself with her saggy skin when she sees your post on fb.

[Anonymous No.22418781]

>>22418439
That's quite the answer to "where do you see yourself in 5 years"... You know it doesn't have to be this way, maybe you need to hear other people say it. It doesn't have to be this way. You aren't your past, you are your current trajectory, which can be changed. Ditch the girl. You deserve love, an actual partner, there are plenty of good ones out there. "Your future is whatever you make it. So make it a good one"

[II No.22418804]

>>22418439
If you are being serious I truly and honestly pity you, I have too much pride to ever let someone debase me and violate my trust like that. Anon, I am in a healthy relationship with a good woman and have been living with her for four years, nothing beats the feeling of actually being loved and loving someone wholly. Please look inside of yourself by stepping outside of your life circumstance for a moment, treat your whole life as if it were someone elses, and think about the decisions you would make if you were that persons friend, how would you help them? You deserve at least that from yourself at all times. To treat yourself like a friend. Because no matter how much you possibly blame yourself for your past, or think you are too stupid too escape your situation, the only given in life is that you can be your own best friend. You can love yourself. It isn't always easy, but it is possible, and someone who loves themselves, treats themselves like a friend, would be capable of seeking out a better relationship for themselves no matter what that meant. You are miserable to the point where you cannot act as your own person, your whole being is consumed by the misery of being oppressed, this is comfortable to you because it's how you lived your childhood. THERE IS ANOTHER WAY. You are capable, as everyone else is, of being your own person and changing your circumstances with carefully planned out thought and the responsibility of self actualization. DO NOT AVOID THIS FACT, ACCEPT IT AS TRUE. Other's here will call you names and a cuck, but those titles are only true if you live them out. head up king, your crown is slipping.

[Anonymous No.22418809]

>>22418439
oh look another weak pathetic not a man posting about muh love muh cant leave her muh no matter what faggotry.

thread hidden just having seen this weak pathetic unmanly behavior has me aggitated.
A REAL man doesnt put up with that bullshit even with muh stockholm syndrone love

be a man not a bitch and leave her but since ytou wont I already wasted to much of my time on this thread.
hidden

[Anonymous No.22418818]

>>22418439
Don't be an idiot and leave her, you fucking stupid idiot.
It will hurt like shit but you will be glad to have done it.
t. also had a psycho gf but I told her to fuck off

[Anonymous No.22418852]

>>22418563
Do you have any dirt on her?

[Anonymous No.22418870]

all sociopaths cheat they are numb I’ve read many stories where they’ve slept with a family member of their partners. Until you mentally detach yourself and see her for who she really is you’ll just diminish day after day and walk on eggshells around her hoping to not do something that she creates es an argument over. RUN and don’t look back.

[Anonymous No.22418899]

I still don't know why incels are shat on so much when people like OP and simps exist

[II No.22418929]

>>22418781
>>22418804
This is a pretty solid, non-pompous, alternative to what I said

[Anonymous No.22418930]

>>22418439

[Anonymous No.22418953]

>>22418439
imagine being so much of a retard basedboy that you let your woman talk to you like that and stay with her like a little bitch

this better be a larp

[Anonymous No.22418961]

>>22418439
Also go workout and train.

[Anonymous No.22418982]

>>22418563
No one cares what porn you watch people barely acknowledge your existence just end it Jesus christ

[Anonymous No.22418994]

>>22418804
Cheers friend, we're on the same wavelength. As I read yours I was like, hmm I feel like I wrote the outline to this person's A+ paper.

[Anonymous No.22419078]

dear op,

does your name start with D and your gf‘s name start with J?
is she asian?

[II No.22419097]

>>22418994
I am just high so I am wordy and self aggrandizing, I didn't actually convey information any better than you did. Thank you for the display of kinship though, it's always touching

[Anonymous No.22419119]

>>22419078
Do you think you're the guy OP's girlfriend was sexting? If true, you must help OP free himself.

[Anonymous No.22419169]

You can walk away at anytime anon, women come and go. Your happiness, self respect, and goals should come first, and from you've described this relationship is already over and only going to be a zombie of what it once was.

[Anonymous No.22419232]

>>22418439
She's not a sociopath, all women pull that shit. The problem was you were too weak in the beginning and she took advantage. You need to move on because this relationship is tainted and can not be fixed.

[Anonymous No.22419240]

>>22419119
yes, it could be possible because i am texting with a girl who habe a simp bf

[Anonymous No.22419285]

>>22418439
Go on tinder and start dating secretly, trust me eventually you will find someone on there that is way better and dumping her will be an afterthought

[Anonymous No.22419310]

start texting with other girls and ignore her, she will do anything in 2 weeks

[Anonymous No.22419475]

>>22418605
Just do it and ignore everything she says

[Anonymous No.22419530]

>>22418649
Lol i just realized a good friend of mine i had a falling out with gaslit me in the end for months. I think. Crazy bastid! Caught me off guard because he was never like that, long story short its all good.

[Anonymous No.22419538]

>>22418439
I am on one to fren. She makes evey day fucking hell. I have plans to leave her, but i dont know how, as shes threatened with suicide, lied about pregnancy (i havent fucked her since), and threatens every day to commit herself to the emergency psych ward. I fucking hate her. But you know what op? Dont neck yourself. You are not broken, you are damaged. Leave the bitch. All women are whores unironically. Heres what im planning to do.
> rent an appartment secretly
> once its done, move vital shit there
> when she out the house, take my shit and move
> leave a note
> block number, social media etc
> if she harasses me at work, ill call police

Inb4 mu cuck, muh man up. My gf is fucking insane. She has bpd AND dependent personallity disorder (which she only told me about recently). She admitted to throwing a marmelade-glass at her ex when he dumped her. She said she didnt aim at him, but somehow the thick glass shattered at his shoulder. This bitch flips shit over everything, and im not gonna be around when she finds out shes been dumped. I know its cowardly, but i like to think it as smart, and that she deserves nothing more.

Op i feel you. So fucking much. God i hate unstable women.

[Anonymous No.22419586]

>>22418778
This is redpilled but only latter half is based. Dont be an evil bastard OP just tell her its over, period. Were past arguments and discussions, its over. She literally sexted lol WHAT?? DONEZO. Peace ya crazy broad! Say that and then go get a trad waifu for laifu.

[Anonymous No.22419986]

>>22418804
Fucking based. Not op, but this post made me a few steps closer to leave my own horrible gf

[Anonymous No.22420077]

>>22418804
Wannaa give this healthy true post mad props and the one like it that was more to the point. Both based.

[Anonymous No.22420112]

Surprised by how healthy and sane /biz/ is today, good job lads

[Anonymous No.22420128]

>>22418778
Unironically based

[Anonymous No.22420166]

>>22418439
does she at least let you pump and dump?

[Anonymous No.22420371]

>>22419538
Honestly bro just dump her, who cares if she kills herself? Seriously, that is not on you and considering that she’s a woman she’s just bullshitting.

[Anonymous No.22420927]

>>22418535
one of the most emotionally destructive things is becoming unknowingly attached to a sociopath

[Anonymous No.22421020]

>>22418439
Anon gtfo, while being abused your also distancing yourself from the people that actually love you.

Just take the money, move your stuff when she is at work and tell her you ended it. Don't try to talk about it, she will fuck you over.

[Anonymous No.22421093]

>>22418439
go watch a bunch of owen cooks videos. you're addicted to the shitty situation you're in and basically being a huge gay masochistic retard. if you cut it out and change your mindset your life will be drastically better.

t. my mom was abusive and my dad was full on apathy mode

[Anonymous No.22421139]

>>22418439
I got gaslit the other day. I realized I was having a false reality last night. I tried to give her an out today, she blew it. She actually thought I’d cut ties with the closest people who support me. It felt good to check her ass today.

Women man. She thought she had total power over me.

[Anonymous No.22421198]

>>22418439
give me her number anon, sounds exactly like my kind of woman

[Anonymous No.22421209]

>>22418804
this man is right
love yourself OP

[Anonymous No.22421235]

>>22418439
Leave her or kill yourself op and I mean it. Do you really think it can get better???? If you stay with her you’re basically securing a sad existence, if you leave right fucking now you still have a shot at happiness. Sleeping in the car would be better

[Anonymous No.22421241]

EVERYONE SHORT OP'S RELATIONSHIP

[Anonymous No.22421305]

>>22418778
Roll

[Anonymous No.22421322]

>>22418439
Just leave and cut all ways of communication, I did the same and she never came back.
But you need to piss here off before and I mean you need to tick here really off. The best way is to do it via phone, tell here something like "I regret that I spend so much of my precious lifetime on a slut like you".
After that block here and cut all ties, never lock back to that whore again after you have done it.

[Anonymous No.22421379]

gtfo as fast as you can. i survived a relationship like this but it was not easy. same stuff, sexting other dudes, cheating, all which she blamed on me. prepare to have false allegations upon exit. prepare to have noone believe your side of the story. i was lucky to have some friends that stuck with me through it but i won't lie, i lost 90% of my friendships and the psychological torment i experienced merely from the idea that lies were being spread about me was horrible and took a couple years to get over. you need to get out. DO NOT WAIT. the longer you wait the more fucked up and dangerous your relationship will get. staying in will LITERALLY ONLY HARM YOU. she will get out will a fat sob story which she will use to lure in her next victims and you will be fucked. this will suck but DO NOT ROPE - you will want to but DO NOT. STAY STRONG

[Anonymous No.22421409]

If you want to fuck her up mentally, leave. Leave right now. Don’t say a word, delete her number, delete any social media of her, don’t ever talk to this girl again. From now on she has never existed. Women need closure. And when you don’t give them that closure it fucks them up mentally for long time, if not forever. Today is the first day of your life anon. A new start. Go live it. And also, grow some fucking nuts and have some fucking self respect and a sense of responsibility for yourself. Nobody gives a fuck if mommy and daddy weren’t there for you, stop blaming your problems on them. You’re a man. Be a man.

[Anonymous No.22421428]

>>22419232
It’s a game of chess and op only has pawns

[Anonymous No.22421438]

>>22421322
retarded normie, if she is really a sociopath she will not give a crap about it, and op sounds like an /r9k/ loser, who will feel bad about it a week later.

[Anonymous No.22421462]

>>22418439
You have to revisit your past, imagine the past situation again and refuse the way your parents treated you.
by changing your past memories you will change your deepest decision making rules in your subconscious and change your present life and your future.
If you don't tolerate your parents behavior in your changed memories, you won't tolerate it now.
You deserve unconditional love and your parents are not gods just extremely flawed and toxic humans.
You were powerless as a child however you have the complete power as an adult to change who you are and what behavior you tolerate.

[Anonymous No.22421475]

>>22421438
Fuck you, it felt really good to say here something like that.
The important part is to leave asap and never look back.

[Anonymous No.22421502]

>>22418439
Also collect evidence if you have a shitty text of hers or a recording of her saying some crazy shit and just hold onto it for a rainy day just in case she try’s some false allegation shit or something

[Anonymous No.22421561]

>>22421475
go kys do gooder, and get fucked by dicks and shit on by assholes

[Anonymous No.22421733]

>>22418439
What would chad do OP? That's all you gotta ask yourself. Chad has the self respect of a god and that makes him a god in other people's eyes.

When you think about any of the negative consequences of leaving that stupid bitch just picture this dumb ass frog in a tux toasting a wine glass.

[Anonymous No.22422280]

>>22418439
Post her tits. It is a passive-aggressive way to get back at her

[Anonymous No.22422327]

>>22418439
Is her name amber?

[Anonymous No.22422622]

>>22419538
There's a service in my country where this company will help you leave an abusive relationship by helping you pack all your things onto a truck whilst the abuser is out of the house. Maybe there is something similar for you.

[Anonymous No.22422657]

>>22418439
Here's the omega red pill, anon. The way men would go around and fuck beautiful varieties of women if all of them allowed it, women would collect sympathy and attention and commitment from multiple men if they allow it. This is what is happening to you, you are an emotional whore. You don't need us to feel bad for you, you unironically need a minimum amount of self respect.

[Anonymous No.22422727]

>>22418804
dangerously based and healthy perspective pilled

[Anonymous No.22422743]

>>22422327
OOOOOOOOOO SWEEEET AAAAMMMMMBBBBBEEEERRRRRRRR


HOW SWEET ARE YOU!

[Anonymous No.22422778]

>>22418439
You should read “stop walking on eggshells” or get the audiobook. She sounds like she has borderline personality disorder. This book can help you find ways to handle her better or help you decide if you should leave.

[Anonymous No.22422792]

>>22418778
This is the greatest thing I have come across on the internet and will eat stir fried noodles with chicken and onions sauce i celebration of it

[Anonymous No.22422872]

>>22418778
You, sir, are amazing.

[Anonymous No.22422925]

>>22418439
Take psychedelics together in the dark alone while fasting

[Anonymous No.22422958]

>>22420371
>>22422622
No such service here, but ill manage to leave the wench. Thanks anons. Unironically comfy to get some feels from strangers

[Anonymous No.22423048]

You should honestly just stay and lean into your role as a submissive beta cuck. Everyone should try it at least once in their lives. Its so liberating

[Anonymous No.22423137]

OP you haven’t posted in awhile so I’m guessing you have either kys or gone back to being a cuck. I want to tell you from experience though not to worry about whatever “secrets” you told her. People with these types of disorders pretend to be good listeners and act like they know all about you, but in fact they are TERRIBLE listeners and only think about themselves. What she will do though if you break up with her is lie to people about you. Make stuff up and say whatever she did to you you did to her. Lots of projecting. I did lose a good friend over a crazy bitch like this cuz he believed the lies. But you get over it. It’s worth it to leave. Cut all ties even mutual friends if you have to.

[Anonymous No.22423176]

I can tell you from experience not to worry about whatever “secrets” you told her. People with these types of disorders pretend to be good listeners and act like they know all about you, but in fact they are TERRIBLE listeners and only think about themselves. What she will do though if you break up with her is lie to people about you. Make stuff up and say whatever she did to you you did to her. Lots of projecting. I did lose a good friend over a crazy bitch like this cuz he believed the lies. But you get over it. It’s worth it to leave. Cut all ties even mutual friends if you have to.