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[Anonymous No.21772253]

is it gay to have female friends

[Anonymous No.21772336]

>>21772253
Not if you rape them

[Anonymous No.21772406]

>>21772253
I've had a shit ton of female friends over the years, even really attractive ones and one thing is certain: they will stop giving a shit about you once they get a boyfriend. Even if it's someone you talk every day with, they will focus their attention on the dude that's giving them dick bc of what humans have evolved to focus on.

[Anonymous No.21772432]

>>21772253
men & women cannot be friends unless it's a coworking / educational environment

[Anonymous No.21772441]

no I think of them like sisters

[Anonymous No.21772445]

>>21772406
they start ignoring you because their boyfriends are jealous cucks. desu they should be Ive usually fucked my female friends at one point or another and would do it again boyfriend or not

[Anonymous No.21772490]

>>21772253
the only women you can be friends with are relatives and in-laws.

[Anonymous No.21772495]

>>21772432
this is true for me but all friends, not just women

[Anonymous No.21772533]

>>21772253
If you’re not trying to fuck every one of your female friends then yes, you’re probably gay.

[Anonymous No.21772549]

>>21772253
yes

[Anonymous No.21772575]

Having female friends as my closest friends in my freshmen year of college ruined my social life made me become a bitter isolated incel

[Anonymous No.21772606]

>>21772253
Depends if you're a simp
If you're the type of dude who has a bunch of female friends, secretly likes one or more of them, or got shot down by one or more, and continue to be friends despite still having feelings and having been rejected, then you are a faggot and should only continue to be friends if you are absolutely sure that you can handle the fact that she will be getting boned by other dude(s) and may even talk about it to you since she has already established you will never dick her down

[Anonymous No.21772628]

>>21772253
If your watching romcoms and taking her shopping, then your gay. You only do those things if you're putting p in the v

[Anonymous No.21772647]

It can be cool having female friends but emotions can get annoying at times. Worth it though.

[Anonymous No.21772667]

>>21772432
>>21772490
Can't speak for everyone, but I've had/ have a couple of female friends. I genuinely enjoy spending time with them. They're not your average braindead normie roasties though.

It's really only gay/ pathetic if you're orbiting girls and can't get laid.

[Anonymous No.21772691]

>>21772253
yes. only not gay if you fuck them. also - if you are that guy who hangs around females and waits for them to eventually throw you a bone when they experience a breakup, you are a beta cuck

[Anonymous No.21772710]

>>21772667
Any women I've been a '''''friend'''' with I ended up fucking or they've come on really strong to me. Women and men both want sex, it's literally biological

[Anonymous No.21772715]

>>21772253
it's gay to do or not do something because /biz/ said so

[Anonymous No.21772785]

>>21772710
Maybe my country's (Denmark) culture is just different, it's pretty normal to hang out with girls. One of my best friends is a girl. She has a bf and I have a gf. We enjoy hanging out together so why shouldn't we be friends?

[Anonymous No.21772852]

>>21772253
yes

[Anonymous No.21772901]

>>21772253
Not if you fuck them.

[Anonymous No.21772903]

>>21772785
Exactly

[Anonymous No.21772973]

>>21772785
If you're simping or bagholding for a chick who wants nothing romantic to do with you, then it's a problem
If not, nothing wrong with it.

[Anonymous No.21773016]

>>21772253
a majority of my friends have been girls growing up but i also lost my virginity first in my class. so yeah it's pretty gay

[Anonymous No.21773030]

>>21772785
You're from a white culture so trust is still a part of society. Get browner and that ends.

[Anonymous No.21773415]

>>21772253
>female
>friends

[Anonymous No.21773460]

>>21772441

[Anonymous No.21773502]

No such thing as female friends

[Anonymous No.21773541]

>>21773502
I like to think of collecting female friends as a stealth attempt to build a harem
I have not had any success on this front ever in my life

[Anonymous No.21773542]

Men and women cannot be friends, period. It is impossible. The man will always want to put his cock inside the woman, this is a fact. Anyone who says otherwise is lying to your ugly face.

[Anonymous No.21773724]

>>21773542
I've been friends with really ugly women and women much older than me. I would not bang them. Not every opposite sex acquaintence/friend is a potential sex partner. Though they some really ugly women have tried getting my dick.

[Anonymous No.21773761]

>>21772253
Yes, now stay off my board homo.

[Anonymous No.21773952]

>>21773542
>The man will always want to put his cock inside the woman, this is a fact.
I think your pic proves otherwise

[Anonymous No.21774012]

>>21772575

[Anonymous No.21774024]

>>21773541
Please keep trying, for all of us

[Anonymous No.21774068]

>>21772253
Kind of. Here is what I will say. If you are orbiting, then it is gay. I've seen a lot of guys claim they are not, but deep down, I can tell they actually want to be more than friends. I can also tell that being friends with females sabotages their personal development as a man. They should be hanging out with their bros.

However, I have seen some successful friendships. Doing each other favors, (my friend moves furniture for a girl who was friends with him, helps her study, she hooks him up with girls, invites him to parties etc.)

So the friendship was going both ways basically. However, I see lots of males being friends with females and they are literally doing EVERYTHING for the girl and getting nothing in return.

Basically, you need some female friends maybe to be able to meet girls more often and to be able to understand a bit more about girls. But if your BFF is a girl and you spend most of your time with her, it might sabotage your development as a male.

[Anonymous No.21774102]

>>21772495
disgusting

[Anonymous No.21774111]

Honestly its hard for me to maintain long friends with them because if they happen to be single and I am single, I end up having sex with them.

The ones I end up maintaining friends with are ones that are in a relationship or when i am in a relationship.

[Anonymous No.21774221]

>>21772432
This. I had really good female friendships at work (stopped wage cucking long before metoo), because an employment framework allows for a mutually beneficial interactions and common struggle. They're not focused on getting beta bux but rather waging cuckqueaning. Outside the context of work though I'd drop them all immediately unless they offer real tangible mutual benefits (like male friendships do automatically), or drop to their knees like Mitt Romney and suck my dick. Otherwise it will default to a one sided "friendship" beta orbiter situation. Female "friends" will just keep asking you to do shit for them and offer nothing in return.

[Anonymous No.21774245]

>>21772495
Hot. It do be like that

[Anonymous No.21774290]

>>21774068
>it might sabotage your development as a male.
red pilled
You hold AMPL by any chance?

[Anonymous No.21774302]

>>21772253
I've done something sexual with every female friend I have ever had. I used to believe men and women could be friends, nowadays if I find a wife and out she has a male friend I would probably flip shit.

[Anonymous No.21774363]

>>21774290
>You hold AMPL by any chance?
Nope.

[Anonymous No.21774768]

>>21772253
Yes. What do you do, share secrets over lattes, watch Ally Mcbeal together, go dress shopping. Just admit your gay and start sucking dick

[Anonymous No.21775181]

>>21774363
based

[Anonymous No.21775219]

Yes.

[Anonymous No.21775272]

>>21772432
based
>>21772253
Men and women can never be friends. Because one of them always wants to fuck the other.

[Anonymous No.21775307]

>>21772785
hmmm you probably grew up together or have some sort of very close proximity. You will probably end up marrying. Snag her up before she's gone.

[Anonymous No.21775406]

>>21772253
Associating with f*moids in any capacity is incredibly gay, especially if you fuck one

[Anonymous No.21775451]

>>21772785
I think it is a cultural thing. I'm from the Balkans and grew up in a large community of diaspora. It was and is very common to have a large group of male and female friends. There was some inter-dating but it was never weird and most of the friendships were completely platonic.

[Anonymous No.21775466]

>>21772253
yes youre a simp. an hero pls

[Anonymous No.21775503]

>>21772406
Unless they start drifting apart from their boyfriends. Then they’ll go back to you.

[Anonymous No.21775532]

>>21772253
>>21772406
You Reddit fags need to leave.

[Anonymous No.21775571]

>>21772253
Not if they are just your friends when you want to go round their house to fuck them, or are friends of your friends. If you hang out with just them and aren't having sex with them however, then yes, thats kinda gay dude.

[Anonymous No.21775592]

I'm gay and I don't have any female friends. I also don't have any friends period but that's besides the point.

[Anonymous No.21775609]

>>21772253
I have a female coworker who is married and I appreciate her company. I don't see her outside of a professional setting but we talk often and sometimes she uses work calls as an excuse to just chat to me about her day/life and I enjoy hearing her speak. She's rather beautiful but I'm not interested in her sexually because she is married and not really my type.
Every single other NBR female I habe spent time with has been involved with me sexually in one form or other

[Anonymous No.21775640]

>>21775532
some of them already bought PNK at 18c. Others bought TRANQ fucking kek.

[Anonymous No.21775649]

>>21772785
Bet you 10 LINK you’ll end up marrying or cheating with each other.

[Anonymous No.21775681]

>>21772432
based

>>21772785
its not cultural, you're just gay bro.

[Anonymous No.21775743]

>>21772253
If you fuck them then no. If not you’re just cucked.

[Anonymous No.21775762]

>>21775609
10 LINK says you are the first fuck right after her break up.

[Anonymous No.21775827]

>>21772253
Women can't be friends.

[Anonymous No.21775874]

>>21775649
I used to have something like this. Met a girl through mixed sport and we played a lot together. I planted some seeds in her mind and eventually tempted her to come fuck despite her having a boyfriend. Apparently she loved the thrill of cheating because we fucked anywhere and everywhere after that for the next three years while she cheated with girls as well. One time she came over and I made her show me her side-girl's facebook and tell me what they did together while I fucked her pussy. Sent her cheating pussy home to her boyfriend full of my cum.
We don't fuck anymore since she broke OpSec and decided she wanted to stay with him. Can't believe that cuck of a dude would want that but I think she told him it wss only once instead of three years of rawing her LOL

[Anonymous No.21775908]

>>21775762
I might kiss her if she wanted because I do have affection for her but I'm not interested in her sexually. I seriously doubt she will end her marriage at any rate.

[Anonymous No.21775945]

>>21775609
>>21775762
>>21775908
She wants to fuck 100%

[Anonymous No.21775971]

>>21775908
she wants link 100%

[Anonymous No.21776028]

>>21775874
Any part of this that isn't fictional?

[Anonymous No.21776031]

>>21772253
>be me
>meet 10/10 actually intelligent girl of my dreams at ZOOM U this summer
>sperg out and reveal my power level during first private zoom call
>apologize if it scared her and she says no she thinks similarly
>sperg out more and tell her I love her
>she says that isn't possible and tries to leave
>I apologize and beg for forgiveness
>she said she thought we could be friends but doesn't want anything more
>I say ok I can do it
>never voice chat again
>sperg out regularly via text that I love her or want to fuck her, she grows more distant and I hate myself, send her pictures of my crying face, myself shirtless, anything to try and get her to feel attracted to me
>she says she thinks this was a mistake and can tell that I like her and doesn't want a beta orbiter
>I say no I have a tinder date later but then freak out on her that I'm not a cuck/beta orbiter
>she says she's not attractive to me and that she is annoyed because she made herself very clear from the start (she did)
>she keeps disappearing for days at a time so I spam her phone with hateful messages
>she's so kind and forgiving most of the time but responds less and less
>hasn't responded for 3 weeks
>wish I could just be friends because she's really cool
>just want to kms

[Anonymous No.21776037]

>>21775945
>>21775945
I'm pretty sure I"m not her type either. Her husband is a giant muscly bouncer type dude, and from her reports not particularly bright, whereas I'm something more like her manager with 130IQ and I can only deadlift about 120% bodyweight
>>21775971
My stack is small enough without me sharing it with some broad

[Anonymous No.21776064]

>>21776031
attracted*

[Anonymous No.21776078]

>>21772710
Post tits

[Anonymous No.21776086]

>>21776028
It all happened and is true. She was tight too and gave me her anal virginity. Imagine getting cucked twice in one sitting - she cheats AND gives her ass away to her ither man. HAHAH. I'm still laughing. I didn't want to hurt hurt him, i.e that is not what motivated me to pursue her, but the fact he ia cucked so hard is hilarious to me

[Anonymous No.21776143]

>>21776031
i know that feel, bro

[Anonymous No.21776172]

>>21772253
If youre not exchanging genetic material with a female, its gay to spend any time with her

[Anonymous No.21776179]

>>21776031
>first private zoom call
>sperg out more and tell her I love her
>never voice chat again
>sperg out regularly via text that I love her or want to fuck her
I feel for you but you have to understand how fucking crazy this comes off and why this isn't how you should conduct yourself around people you think you have a chance with. It doesn't just come off as desperate, but as mentally ill. It takes time to build relationships with other people in any capacity, they need to be organically developed (otherwise the pair-bonding will be malformed/nonexistent following infatuation period, assuming you are able to find someone who is equally prone to the same degree of desperation/clingyness and mirrors it). Have the self-respect to withhold these kinds of impulses of desperation for affection, and work out any unresolved issues you have that may be contributing to this kind of behavior.

[Anonymous No.21776347]

Yes if you're the emotional tampon, friend zoned thinking you still have a chance, or letting her use you for free stuff. No if it's just a regular friendship.

[Anonymous No.21776366]

having 1 female friend to counteract loneliness that u dont fuck is alright but if you have multiple female friends tghat u dont fuck ur more or less probably a faggot

[Anonymous No.21776418]

>>21776031
>this is type of person giving you financial advice on /biz/

[Anonymous No.21776427]

h-how to get any friends

[Anonymous No.21776660]

>>21772432
B a s e d

[Anonymous No.21776766]

>>21772253
not if you fuck them

[Anonymous No.21776821]

>>21776179
Om my phone, thanks, she basically said the same thing and said I would scare away future potential partners. But I feel like I love her and can't keep it in. What does "time" and"knowing" someone have to do with it? What kind of issues would cause this? I've had a lot of hookups and one relationship but never felt this way and we haven't even met in person yet.

[Anonymous No.21776868]

>>21776031
you invest in penny stocks i see

[Anonymous No.21776918]

>>21773030
Actually based. The more degenerate a society the less chance females and males can just be friends.

[Anonymous No.21776958]

One of my best friends is a girl and I jack off to her constantly. I know a guy that has her nudes and I want to ask for them but I know if she ever finds out I did our friendship would be ruined. I don’t want to fuck her really I just like jacking off to her.

[Anonymous No.21776973]

>>21773952
>not spreading your seed in every womb you can
NGMI fag

[Anonymous No.21777279]

wanna be friends? you will think about sex all the time with this one, and you will fuck an ugly one if your drunk or desperate.

[Anonymous No.21777360]

>>21776427
I can be your friend, what music do you like?

[Anonymous No.21777428]

>>21772495
I love how incels will sperg out about the biological impossibility when it comes to male/female friendship, but when it comes to male/male friendship they start quoting Evola and talking about the limitless potential of the human spirit to form bonds that transcend time and space kek. The truth is biology puts a bottleneck on ALL social relationships, even male-male friendships are only sustainable in the absence of resource scarcity. At the end of the day all life is a will to power.

[Anonymous No.21777543]

>>21777428
Dude , we are talking in the modern world not 1000 years ago or on Mars

[Anonymous No.21777635]

>>21777543
Then it is simply a matter of degrees, a man and woman can be friends to a point, a man and a man can be friends to a point, it will always depend on circumstance and context. But worrying about friends is a waste of time.

[Anonymous No.21777709]

>>21777635
True anon, it is good until is bad, Most people presume it will be good ( the same, or slightly different but not bad ) until they die.

[Anonymous No.21777727]

>>21772253
Yes
Not even females want female friends
They are worthless

[Anonymous No.21777730]

The best way to meet more women is to have women friends.

[Anonymous No.21777754]

>>21775503
You really want to be someone's second choice?

[Anonymous No.21777764]

>>21777730
The best way to feel higher is to take more drugs

[Anonymous No.21777842]

>>21772445
Actually their boyfriends would be cucks to allow their girlfriends to hang out with men.

[Anonymous No.21777864]

>>21777730
This is also definitely true in Europe, my American friends always say that American women sabotage their male friends relationships which probably stems from some hyper-socialized narcissistic desire for followers, but in my experience European women are the best wingmen.

[Anonymous No.21777923]

>>21776958
Get drunk with that guy and be like no way I don't believe it and then he will show her nudes to you.

[Anonymous No.21777983]

>>21776958
simp
>>21777923
simp

[Anonymous No.21778066]

>>21777983
Wanting to see a female naked is a simp? You a faggot? It obviously sounds like he's never gonna see her naked so this is the next best thing.

[Anonymous No.21778099]

>>21777428
Resource scarcity is exactly when friendship is most important and precisely why men and women can never be friends. They need to be wed or there is too much conflict in that situation. The truth is you need to graduate before acting like you understand.

[Anonymous No.21778102]

>>21772253

females i want to hang out with(for reasons other than sex) is very rare

[Anonymous No.21778250]

>>21778099
>friendship is most important when it becomes rarest
No shit retard, but it's impossible to know which of your friends will actually be your friends in a SHTF situation just like it's impossible to actually know if your wife will cheat on you given an attractive enough opportunity. Which is why relying on anyone in any situation is a gamble and its far better to focus on your own power process. These threads are just thinly veiled bait for endless circlejerking about how much better having male friends is than female friends when in reality its a loaded comparison because both options are fundamentally inferior to simply amassing personal power.

[Anonymous No.21778326]

>>21772253
If you've never had any interest in fucking them then it's fine
If you're hoping to get to one day, cut your losses & leave now.

[Anonymous No.21778495]

I use to believe men and women could be friends until I fucked a friend I never thought I would ever fuck

Now I flip shit if she ever hangs out with men 1 on 1. I isolated her like a chad and told her u only have female friends or I'm out of here

She tried to make excuses initially but I just walked every time and she came back like an obedient girl and cut them all off

Betas let their girls flirt and get attention from other men. It's actually the women who are the sexual ones. They love getting attention from men even if they don't want to fuck them. It's the power that they know they can and it so part of our culture now that they don't even recognize it

Now my bitch is fully devoted with zero other men in her life but me. That's being a king

[Anonymous No.21778545]

if they re unattractive, yes

[Anonymous No.21778720]

>>21776031
Take it constructively but you are valuing women so much it's making you fucking insane. You're emotionally invested before you've dated as you should be in a 4-6 month relationship. Lonliness sucks anon, but you cant make it warp you into some emotionally trigger happy mess. You will scare off any woman of quality and the only ones that would endure that would be to take advantage of your state. Praying for you anon, to respect yourself and have the strength to not fomo into risky emotional investments

[Anonymous No.21779300]

>>21772253
I only have one female friend (outside of family-friends) and she is from work, we hang out usually once a month outside of work. Other than that, if we ain’t fucking, I have no interest in listening to their gossip and other mundane bullshit that comes out of their mouths.