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any anons unironically paid for therapy/psychoanalysis before? what happens & did it help?
once I've made it one of the first things I'll be doing after dental work is going to see a therapist.

>> No.21486278

imagine getting banned for such a lousy shitpost

>> No.21486285

>>21486223
(((Dentists))) and (((therapists))) just want your money. You can fix yourself OP.

>> No.21486320

Imagine living in a country without healthcare where you have to pay for your therapy... I get it for free and yea, its useful and much more people need to change their mindset and go, way too many people out there taking out past traumas on others without even realising.

>> No.21486348

>>21486320
which country?

>> No.21486361

>>21486348
UK

>> No.21486374

>>21486285
sleep specialists are worse i'm currently learning. Even if they diagnose you with something there is absolutely no effective treatment for whatever you have. Like psychiatrists.

>> No.21486390

>>21486223
could be useful. if its good or not heavily depends on on the therapist itself, his/her personality and the approach she takes. empathy is probably the most important trait

some basic ground rules
1. never tell them you're suicidal. you can talk about feeling defeated and kind wanting to die but never tell them you actually want to kill yourself or intend to kill yourself. same about hurting other people. if you say you want to die and that youre gonna make it happen they will instiutaiotnalize you.

2. don't take their thoughts and advice as gospel.

>> No.21486415

>>21486374
that's a big improvement over psychiatrists. psychiatrists will 9 times out of 10 give you pills that make you more and more mentally ill

>> No.21486417
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imagine not having control of your own thoughts and inhibitions
This is a gentleman's club which means intellectuals which means not you.

>> No.21486439

>>21486361
& therapy is really free? do you just go to the doctor, say you want to see a psychologist, & they send you to one?

>> No.21486443

>>21486415
They're just state sanctioned crack dealers.

>> No.21486448

Yeah I've been it definitely helps. But you need to listen to their advice and do your homework

>> No.21486452

>>21486223
They're actually very good, helps you move on from certain issues/traumas. Nice to talk to someone who if they're good isn't judgemental.

Also got on some drugs that make me way less depressed and more motivated. 100% recommend.

>> No.21486462

>>21486443
they're a lot lot worse than crack dealers

>> No.21486490

>>21486417
low iq post, most geniuses are insane

>> No.21486538

>>21486439
Tbh I probably get it easier as a student but yea it is free for me. There are government funded institutions that provide basic therapists for free even if youre not a student and a few free sessions with professionals too. I youre case is super bad and need angoing therapy you will probably eventually need to go private but most people wont end up there.

>> No.21486565

When I was a kid my parents paid for a therapist for me because I had no friends. I had a lot of social anxiety, and talking to other kids was terrifying for me because I would be way overthinking what they thought of me. The dude essentially just made sure I wasn't going to off myself (covering his own ass for liability sake) and told me to just "get out there" and gave me tasks like asking one person to come over and hang out. I would never do it and he just asked me the same thing for months. This went on for a year until my dad finally got his job back and my mom stopped blaming everything on me, thinking I was the cause of all her problems. From her perspective I was "cured" and it was a success. Later on I realized I just hate everyone and don't need friends. Although I did learn the necessary skills to manipulate and influence people to be successful, monetarily, as an adult. I still have no friends but that is by choice and I didn't need a therapist to tell me that. Maybe if your a normie sheep they can comfort you. But if you have an IQ over 100 you'll see right through their scam.

>> No.21486620

>>21486223
personally, doesn't work. read stories that you need to spend time to find the right therapist(RAPIST).

>> No.21486629

>>21486285
How do i fix a piece of tooth that fell off last week? It doesn't hurt but i imagine it'll get fucked untreated

>> No.21486662

>>21486320
>implying
What kind of homo takes anything out on anyone? Literally just get some thick skin, stop being a pussy, and realize some people are retards (both Literally and figuratively)

>> No.21486803

>>21486223
Paid for a shrink. Didn't do much. Got some klonopin out of it though.

>> No.21486846

>>21486223
My english sucks, so suck it.

Therapy is the Best investment you can do, most of our economic status it is a reflection of out mental status, therefore if you fell broken, scared, self-destructive, in panic and else, your financial life will reflect those behaviours.
Once you go to therapy, and you open yourself to the therapist, you will be more calm and you will take better financial desitions, you will not spend your money in drugs, it will be easier tfor you to focus on a goal, all of this if you invest yourself for at least 6 Months in a good therapist.

A friendly advice, don't accept any benzos they try to medicate you, instead, drink linden tea every day and you will feel better in no time.

>> No.21486890

>>21486846
This

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>>21486223
>>21486565
There are a few persons who really want to help.
The problem is you either have to go through a lot of therapists until you find a good one, or learn to do your own therapy yourself.
Alternatively you can look for books written by people who want to help.
It's cheaper and they don't want to sell you anything else than a book.
For example most people who come to /biz/ should take a look at Susan Forward's books.
She explains how to do your own therapy.

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>>21486417
based and seconded

>> No.21486993

>>21486928
t. susan

>> No.21487042

>>21486964
Nice i got the rare white ID.

>> No.21487067

>>21486928
how can this book possibly be helpful If the author is a woman?

>> No.21487124

>>21486490
anon's post there is 'insane' if you read it from a norman's perspective. Maybe you've forgotten but biz is a schizo autist echochamber.

>> No.21487147

>>21486223
>1 post by this ID

>> No.21487196

>>21486374
You need to re wire your brain.

The brains has this doble-edge quality named neuroplasticity that can be literally translated to "your brain creates what you believe", get a little of that "hippie life style" in you and let the brain create new neutral transmitors to improve your dopamine and serotonin lvls, try to learn about deep breathing excersices, 10 secs inhale and 10 exhale, is the Best way to fall sleep, but you will need to learn how to do diaphragmatic breathing, but at the long run is the best for you.

I had an crack od back in 2013 and I fried my brain badly, so I spent about 2 years with daily panic attacks until in 2015, when I started a detox procesa and took me about 3 years to fully recover, but know I can see clearly and feel totally free, death scares me no more, the only thing that makes me feel bad nowdays it is not beign honest with myself.

>> No.21487296

Itt a bunch of low iq , mentally ill redditors. Fuck you. Go back.

>> No.21487314

>>21486629
I'm sure you'd need to go & get a crown on it

>> No.21487451

>>21487296
redditors are a bunch of level 1 normies. It makes sense /biz/ is full of level 2 mental cases.

>> No.21487487

>>21486223
It’s all a kike scam. You have to start fixing your life instead of talking about it. It’s like those people that read self help books instead of doing anything.

>> No.21487551

>>21487067
If you start judging people before trying out what they have to say, you won't get very far in life and will never make it on /biz/

>> No.21487578

>>21486223
Cured my depression and anxiety in combination with a bunch of LSD and ketamine.
Went on to fuck girls and make money
your mental health is as important as your physical health anon.

>> No.21487858

>>21486223
Just wash your penis, anon.