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Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:48:25 2020 No.20533273 [Reply] [Original]

>doing no fap for 2 months
>feel confidence and motivated about my ability to meet women
>install tinder for the first time in my life at 26
>post pics
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2 days later passed and some fat chicks liked me, I keep responding to them, feeling lucky that “hey at least they find me attractive” and then get ghosted
Man my entire hope shattered
Guess I only build my confidence since I was delusional about reality
How chads can do this?
They have so much power over women, so fucking much and still stay in the rat race

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:49:43 2020 No.20533309 >>20533273 Use bumble or hinge at least

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:50:41 2020 No.20533338 >>20533309 Using bumble too. Didn’t work (I just didn’t mention, felt like it’s overkill)

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:51:29 2020 No.20533359 Tinder sucks, friend of mine recently broke up with his long time GF. Guys a chad, and he too got a few likes the first couple of days and ghosted by a couple as well.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:52:42 2020 No.20533389 >>20533309 Hinge was the worst imo. I literally counted up to 100 fat chicks before I deleted the app. I swiped right probably 4-5 times.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:53:32 2020 No.20533405 >>20533338 Gotta improve your pics then.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:54:21 2020 No.20533423 >>20533273 Wait for the economy to collapse so you can join a motorcycle rape gang. Srs.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:55:16 2020 No.20533443 >tfw I have a rare condition called Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome >tfw I get dizzy and nauseous after I fap >tfw I try no fap and I have a wet dream after 3 weeks and I’m back to throwing up Kill me bros

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:55:21 2020 No.20533449 >>20533405 How? It’s not I can change my face. I dropped a couple of photos from my trips and “adventures”

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:55:41 2020 No.20533456 >>20533423 BASED

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:56:23 2020 No.20533466 >>20533423 Lol

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:57:18 2020 No.20533484 >>20533309 uninstall bumble those faggots make you agree to BLM before you can use it. Tinder is the white mans app.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:58:12 2020 No.20533509 >>20533449 Make a fake woman profile and see what your competition is doing that you aren't.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:58:39 2020 No.20533519 With tinder it is all about numbers. Don’t give up after two days faggot. Only like girls you are willing to talk to and talk go every match you get.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:58:58 2020 No.20533528 >>20533449 post pics.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:59:32 2020 No.20533539

>>20533273
Get your ass into the gym anon. Start lifting weights. If you don't have the looks, atleast you can create a physique. Your confidence level goes up mad. Women will be more open because "Hey he goes to the gym, so he might be worth a shot and not a total creep". Thank me later.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:59:36 2020 No.20533541 >>20533273 if you try too hard with a fatty they will lose respect in you because it shows ur desperate

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:59:42 2020 No.20533546 >>20533509 lmfao

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 17:59:43 2020 No.20533547

>>20533273
irl i get looks and smiles or other shit that shows they're interested from women who are hot as fuck but when i installed tinder i got maybe a couple of matches from women who were mediocre at best. I don't know what it is maybe it's the fact that guys don't approach women as much irl anymore but there's a big difference in what you can get online compared to in real life now

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:00:09 2020 No.20533558 >>20533273 Two beautiful men

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:00:49 2020 No.20533576 >>20533509 My completion doing exactly what I am doing but with better face >>20533528 Thanks bro, I am trying to have a less stressful life, not more

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:01:18 2020 No.20533585
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>>20533273
Tinder is scewed to favore women, mate. I get with 3x hotter women IRL than on Tinder. I eventually uninstalled that shit app. Land whales not even anwsering me. MFW

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:02:11 2020 No.20533613 >>20533547 Oh well. My real life just don’t get a chance. I am not joking. Online is kinda make them feel safer about me.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:02:24 2020 No.20533619

>>20533273
You are just playing tinder wrong. Even ugly fucks can get some cuties but nobody is going to get shit if you play the game wrong

Delete your selfies
Take more pictures outside
Delete fish photos
Your bio matters
Don't have your shirt off in the first or second pic
Seem more social

Tinder is just mind games with a strict way to win

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:02:33 2020 No.20533623 goddamn Black+Asian mix is the genetic master race.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:02:47 2020 No.20533627

>>20533273
Honestly, forget tinder. There is a 3:1 guy/girl ratio and the deck is stacked against you if you're not in the exception top 2%. I'm probably in the top 10% - always had girls who liked me irl - and on tinder i just got a couple of losers and ghosts.

meet girls in real life anon. It's the way.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:02:59 2020 No.20533633

>>20533547
Any approach irl is 10x better because it’s obvious it takes more confidence in person, there’s just an element to in person encounters too that’s missing online, she may like your demeanor and other things that can’t be translated through pictures on a profile. I’ve always found it easier to get with women irl because there’s a lot more signals to pick up on that show they’re interested back

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:03:16 2020 No.20533639 >>20533585 I know, but I can’t do that offline. I don’t get a chance. I thought online women feel safer, and so they may be about more relax and less judgmental

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:03:27 2020 No.20533644 Also chatting up a girl in a convienience store is so much easier, confidence and eye contact is key. Ask a random questinon and keep chatting. Ask her what she is doing later, and then for her number. Expresslane to smash town, Your welcome m8.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:04:12 2020 No.20533671 >>20533484 Deleted it right after that. Wonder if that's still the case.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:05:07 2020 No.20533689 >>20533619 >my pics are mostly of me outside, doing activities What’s fish photos? And do women read the bio after looking at my pics? (I mean I read the bio and when I sense that they just advertising for their Instagram I swipe left)

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:05:55 2020 No.20533708 >>20533423 Hello? Based department?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:07:11 2020 No.20533740 >>20533689 Photos of you with literal fish. The MAJORITY of girls will immediately swipe left if you have one Most girls will glance at it while looking at your first picture

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:07:59 2020 No.20533761 File: 3.00 MB, 640x532, 1569887678450.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>20533443 Solution is simple Anon. Never stop fapping.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:08:46 2020 No.20533784

>>20533627
I can’t meet real girls I get outright rejected most of the time
And if not, just ghosted
I tried tinder as a confidence boost (kek!) since I wanted more motivation for my nofap.
I thought tinder give women more confidence and safety so they can relax a bit and trust me, basically letting me enough time to let my real goodness shine.
(Rl, dating means spending time, and spending time with a incel means you can’t spend time with the chad, so no chance) (online, since women can chat with so many people they are more relax, because they not losing any opportunities (I thought))

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:10:21 2020 No.20533824 >>20533740 Holy shit. No I don’t have literal fish, but I have pics of me hiking and clif climbing and other activities

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:11:41 2020 No.20533857 >>20533671 >Wonder if that's still the case. Don't care if it is will never use again just like I'll never buy a Sony product.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:13:13 2020 No.20533901 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9pomV-2VJs

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:16:33 2020 No.20533980

>>20533784
Read anon. No disrespect, but if you get rejected most of the time, you don't have it. So pull yourself together and start lifting. You'll feel better and women will give you a chance because you actually have something thats attractive. Women are emotional creatures, they fall for sweet talks and sweet looks.
>>20533539

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:16:53 2020 No.20533992

>>20533784
Supply and demand, guys want to get laid way more often than girls so anything focused on this (like Tinder) you're just a small fish in an ocean. The simple reality though is as a man, you have to be able to handle rejection to have success getting women. If you want something easy and low stress just get an on escort site and go bang one out.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:18:35 2020 No.20534031 >>20533273 Just meet people irl, dumbass, get away from that shit, just meet someone through a hobby, a bookstore, a course or something

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:20:03 2020 No.20534074 >>20533740 wait what is the problem with fish I don't get it

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:20:29 2020 No.20534083 >>20533901 Clown world never ends -Males have to watch a fucking 30 minute strategy video to even have a chance at getting laid -Woman swipe right 'hey'

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:21:25 2020 No.20534101

>>20533901

Most of this shit is common sense, the issue is for 9/10 guys they're in worse shape and don't have facial aesthetics so you can do all this and it won't matter. That said that's only on Tinder since supply >>> demand for chicks, meet them irl like other anons said.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:25:05 2020 No.20534183

>>20533539
>>20533980
Look. I do understand what you saying.
I am in gym . I am in military so I have to be fit or they kick me out. And yes they are emotional , they are easily manipulatble.
But I can’t gain their trust.
They think I am a fucking creep or something trying to kidnap them.
I know how to build a good experience or throw people on a roller coaster of emotions.
But I can’t just pass the first barrier of fucking trust
I may go for a chin augmentation.
3k is dirt cheap, and maybe a bit better chin actually make my chances higher.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:26:19 2020 No.20534210 >>20533273 Your pics are most likely shit. Post them here (blur your face out if you are a pussy) and we will tell you

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:26:51 2020 No.20534220

>>20534183
Don't get a chin augmentation lmao, desu you just sound like an autist, figure that out first before you go blowing money on shit plastic surgery. Chins are a meme anyways, it's jawline that matters (which chin is part of), you don't need to be Jay Leno.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:27:25 2020 No.20534227 >>20534083 >>20533901 Update lol at that faggots game sending 4 paragraphs as an opener... u srs

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:27:36 2020 No.20534231

>>20533992
I get it.
It’s not I just gave up on no fap and life just because women rejected me.
I just do like I always did before.
Forget about women and focus on my other goals for a while, until I get desperate enough, and feel lonely.
Then I try to talk to women, get rejected, get sad for a day and then the same thing.
Tinder was just a new thing to use for me

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:28:11 2020 No.20534250

>>20533273
Tinder is for the soulless. You might be a chad, it’s just that Tinder statistics don’t work in your favour. The hot girls are only swiping right if you’re a celebrity. Spend more time working on your real life social skills and you’ll make it, typing to somebody online doesn’t increase your value - it ruins it

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:28:41 2020 No.20534265 >>20533423 im doing this one guys.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:29:39 2020 No.20534296 >>20533389 You’re ELO is shit then. Hinge pairs you up with uggos first if you’re an Ugg’s yourself.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:31:04 2020 No.20534325

>>20534231
You gotta realize there's a fuck ton of guys out there who hate getting rejected constantly, that's part of the reason online dating is so popular. It's a cushion for the men as well, since we know 9/10 attempts will fail, at least we don't have to look like a creep when we do, except a ton of other guys have the same idea so your pool of competition is much, much larger. One side effect is it's actually easier to get a girls number irl now than like 10 years ago though.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:32:06 2020 No.20534357

>>20534220
But it’s only 3k anon, it’s literally dirt money.
I am not autistic, but I prob got something going on in my head.
Still a better chin will make me look better in the mirror.
Dude you don’t believe me when I say that I HATE TO LOOK at myself in mirror or in a selfie.
Like I don’t think I look even good to my own eyes.
I absolutely hate to save any photos of my own face.
So if anything chin surgery just make ME happier at the end

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:32:48 2020 No.20534373 >>20534220 Why not Tom Cruise got a nose job gotta do what you gotta do to make it

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:33:39 2020 No.20534389 >>20534325 I still try that irl thing . I just installed tinder and bumble 3 days ago. Before that “my game” was always in real life not online

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:34:19 2020 No.20534403 >>20534074 No idea m8

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:35:25 2020 No.20534433 >>20533509 Someone post lad competition

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:35:31 2020 No.20534436 >>20534373 Right? That’s what I am saying! He definitely look better now Women do boob jobs and ass jobs all the time. What’s wrong to. Make your face look better?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:36:53 2020 No.20534467 wrong board faggot

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:39:12 2020 No.20534517 >>20534403 what if I make a profile and all of the pictures are different fish maybe it will work out

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:40:00 2020 No.20534535

>>20534183
Good thing you're lifting. Now if they don't trust you, you're probably going too fast. Take it slowly, building trust is not easy. Don't talk too much about yourself. They don't care desu, atleast not in the beginning. Show interest in her, ask her questions and let her speak as much as she wants. Don't go hardcore on questions tho, otherwise you'll sound like a creep. Just say something about yourself every now and then. Give her compliments every now and then & just go with the flow. Women tend to like men that stay lowkey. They like mysterious guys. Be like that. Like I said, don't talk too much about yourself. About the chin augmentation, if it's really something holding you back i'd say go ahead. Take care anon!

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:40:23 2020 No.20534546

>>20533273
The second you hop on those dating apps, you're losing. I'd strongly suggest you try to meet women in during your everyday activities, grocery shopping, gym, etc.
Its extremely difficult to present your personality over text having no in person interaction to go off of. And these women have unlimited choices when it comes to the men on these apps. Why wouldn't they only like the 10/10 Chads?

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:40:42 2020 No.20534554

>>20533689
bro there's no mystery here really.

It's a numbers game.

My tactic which was fun for 2 months and resulted in a couple of dates and a very good fuck. Believe me I could have had more, but I tend to jump out at crazy, I don't fuck crazy and I got some of those come real close.

Swipe RIGHT ALL DAY EVERYDAY.

There. That's the tactic, don't be boring, don't start with hellos. Have some god damn personality. it's like detective work, you read the bio, you see the pics, you put some sort of joke together and stick the landing. Then shit unfolds.

I will give you the example of my bio:

>I'm a midget with a micropenis

Now, the thing is, I am actually tall and my dick is a fucking trunk. I attracted just the right type of gal for me, they cracked jokes at it, sometimes didn't even mention it or just got so happy when I tell them my real height.

gl hf

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:41:19 2020 No.20534569

>>20533273
you need to do the opposite of no fap.
what helped me with my confidence was unironically: buying an onahole. the day i got it i felt so much better about myself, and women started paying attention to me. using an ona you would usually watch hentai too, with chad mc's fucking his harem (gives you an insight of being a chad and seeing how you should treat women: sengoku rance is a great example of this).

only downside to this is that once you get with a woman you realize how much better the ona is. still haven't made a girl give me a handjob with an onahole yet. i am trying to figure out a way to get a girl to do that. (also denying her my dick while she is begging for it is fucking hot)
come join us on /jp/'s onahole general, anon

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:43:08 2020 No.20534598 >>20534569 lmao don't fucking do this. No fap is dumb anyways, give yourself a good wank once or twice a week but only use your imagination, porn is cancer.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:43:50 2020 No.20534605 >>20534598 hand pleb detected

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:43:54 2020 No.20534610

>>20533901
Never for the love of god put those SHITTY ASS CLICHE BIOS.

These guys are literally the guys I'm stealing all the girls from.

Girls don't want these vapid cunts bro, must be kind of a shock for them when they meet a real man instead of a boy. Be dirty but be classy, if you know what I mean. Also, have a car or a motorcycle, my motorcycle really sells. I just put one of those beautiful views with a bit of motorcycle showing. insta winner.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:44:22 2020 No.20534620 File: 692 KB, 1598x2010, 4A4EA0E3-F0EC-4EC9-8DDA-57D035E0B4BD.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >he fell for the “self improvement” “just be confident” meme Oh, youngblood. I’m sorry they did this to you.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:45:34 2020 No.20534652

>>20534325
On the other hand, most guys on tinder are complete fucking idiots. A female friend of my girlfriend installed it and showed us some of the guys/chats and holy shit this was a cringe fest. For every halfway decent guy you had 9 complete retards, either desperate af or trying to act like a chad when their main picture is a shit tier selfie in front of a dirty mirror.
Yes there are some chads on tinder slaying basically everything, but most men have quite quite a low amount of matches and will probably never find a dencent female on this place.
Thats why OP should work on his pictures/bio, Im pretty sure both are shit.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:45:58 2020 No.20534659 >>20533689 >>20533824 >>20534074 >>20534517 https://youtu.be/n2sGrYEM8Ec?t=344 guess this is what he meant

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:46:09 2020 No.20534663

>>20534535
Man, I wish women were happy to talk about themselves around me.
Every fucking advise online say that let women talk first and let them talk as much they want, be a good listener,etc
But for me, they just shut down. I learned about being a good listener from very young age (fucking 10) yet I never get a chance.
Like I ask questions, and I just get one liner, so it seems like I am just dragging the conversation

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:46:48 2020 No.20534680 File: 67 KB, 800x533, FD627A5F-22F4-4840-8E37-CB516C8C7E81.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>20533273 >2 WEEKS NOT JERKIN YOUR GERKIN DIDNT CURE YOU OF BEING AN AUTISTIC SLAV!?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:47:27 2020 No.20534691 >>20534546 I been in tinder for 3 days . First timer I tried to meet women In real life before I can’t get their trust, and they don’t even try to talk about themselves even when I become all ears

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:48:20 2020 No.20534718 File: 1.44 MB, 2448x3264, IMG_20200711_193920.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>20533740 Ur telling me I shouldn't have this fat bass as my #2 pic?

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:49:14 2020 No.20534744
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>>20533273
Ive been on for almost two weeks..
I hate the godamn fucking thing. All of it.
97% of women on it are beyond repair sluts who have major mental issues from sport fucking and unresolved child traumas.
Try holding a conversation with a bitch who is talking to 5-10 other swinging dicks all trying to bed her down, too.
I have pictures of me flying ww2 airplanes, climbing mountains with a snowmobile, shooting ‘assault rifles’, doing crazy shit in airplanes and playing guitar..and it’s still like pulling teeth.
Most of them comment and match on my bio, anyways.
It’s an awful shitfuck mess of degeneracy and dysfunction. If you want to retain any semblance of sanity at all. Stay.the.fuck.off. Tinder..

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:49:30 2020 No.20534751 >>20534663 you're not good at conversations

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:50:14 2020 No.20534766

>>20534546
>>20534691
this is where my advice comes in: >>20534569
in your case you need to play huniepop (uncensored version). great thing about this eroge is that it is more realistic than your typical uWu anime girls. the girls in that game swear, some have had children, and act in a way more realistic: which means it gives you experience in what you would need to do irl.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:50:18 2020 No.20534767 >>20534554 That’s cool advise. I am trying to make cool first line But I try your “funny light bio” advice

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:50:59 2020 No.20534788 >>20534744 also pic related.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:51:09 2020 No.20534793 >>20534652 >desperate af you mean just trying to get laid?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:51:51 2020 No.20534809 Anyone have way more success in SEA with these dating apps? I want to go try it there cause American girls are horribly selective.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:52:11 2020 No.20534824 >>20534598 I try no fap becuase porn and fapping just give me hopes that always always end up with devastating clashes with reality

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:52:32 2020 No.20534829

Here's a tip to raise your elo, set your location to SEA (e.g. Bangkok) and just like everyone, you'll get a ton of matches. An alternative is Kampala where literal 8/10s would match with you. Once your elo is raised you just go back to your normal location

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:53:13 2020 No.20534846 >>20534569 Lol it’s cool I may do it one day

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:53:16 2020 No.20534847
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>>20534610
>motorcycle, my motorcycle really sells. I just put one of those beautiful views with a bit of motorcycle showing. insta winner.
I'm just gonna use someone elses motorbike pic because fuck stupid bitches

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:53:45 2020 No.20534858

>>20534652
That's true and we have no idea what OP's like (he sounds like he has zero idea how to approach chicks but if he's in the army he's gotta be at least somewhat /fit/). Still think it's a pointless uphill battle though, and you're probably only gonna attract vapid cunts anyways, so why not just pick up an escort if your only goal is getting laid? Funny story, this bitch was advertising her onlyfans on facebook, but going out of her way to declare she doesn't do meetups and people need to stop messaging her that shit, she had a baraka issue with her teeth but was cute and 8 or 9/10 body. So I hit her up with "1k?" and she was riding me that night, even swallowed without me asking. Moral of the story, all women are whores, get it out of your system and don't put them on a pedestal, maybe you'll get lucky with a good one some day (I still hold out hope) but the odds are against you.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:53:46 2020 No.20534859 >>20534718 that's a nice lookin fish bro if a woman doesn't like that pic you should toss her back in the lake anyway

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:54:10 2020 No.20534870 File: 446 KB, 828x1422, BEB23E59-8955-4BD1-B024-7CDB04FCA483.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>20534788 Attaching the file would be nice too

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:54:40 2020 No.20534884 File: 269 KB, 332x332, 1537462762586.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>20534859 Based

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:54:49 2020 No.20534888 >>20534620 True. I knew it from 16 and onward. Confidence is only good for going for something, it doesn’t mean that you gonna be successful (I can be confidence I am good for exam, but I will bomb it if it get too hard)

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:54:59 2020 No.20534896 >>20534829 what if i stay in my region smurf with a chad profile and then revert the photos back to me after a couple weeks?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:55:28 2020 No.20534910 >>20534870 I want to see a closeup of Juia's armpit

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:55:57 2020 No.20534920 >>20534652 What you think about me buying a 300$ suit And take selfie in that?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:56:16 2020 No.20534932 >>20533273 Who are those two Nubian gods?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:57:15 2020 No.20534953 >>20534920 >What you think about me buying a 300$ suit And take selfie in that? Just take it in the changing room get good

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:57:54 2020 No.20534969 >>20534858 And most of them do it for free if you check Enough of the boxes.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:58:20 2020 No.20534981 >>20534751 All the men I talk to open up instantly, and talk freely. Fluid conversation Only females behave like this toward me But ok

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:59:49 2020 No.20535008 >>20533273 >feel so grateful for some slouchy fat bitch's attention I behave like a complete beta for the smallest grain of her affection >W...Why didnt it work out? Anon, I...

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 18:59:57 2020 No.20535010 >>20534652 Pictures are good. All activities that I enjoy and are socially acceptable as good and fun. Bio, I gonna tweak it a bit

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:00:29 2020 No.20535024 >>20534920 Dont take a selfie (ask a friend with a decent camera) and also dont use cloths in your picture you wouldnt wear in real

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:00:59 2020 No.20535032 >>20534744 Still pretty based

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:01:59 2020 No.20535057 >>20534870 How many you actually smashed ?

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:02:05 2020 No.20535058

>>20534969
This is true too, I ghosted her and after a month and a half she texted me to hook up again, did it for $200. I could probably fuck her for nothing if I wanted to put some effort in (she came all over me twice both times), but I'm serious when I say her teeth look like Baraka (I guess Mileena is better comparison), I'd be embarrassed to be seen in public with her.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:02:42 2020 No.20535072 >>20533541 This guy gets it. Women hate themselves so when you like them too much it flags you as a rube and they lose respect for you. Theyll think "even I dont think im that great, whats wrong with this moron that he cant see it."

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:03:00 2020 No.20535080 >>20535024 Ty good advice>>20534953

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:03:04 2020 No.20535082 >>20534663 If you get one liners, it basically means they're not interested in you. Just pass anon and keep looking, you'll find your soulmate. GL

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:03:58 2020 No.20535095 >>20533273 i get legit no matches on tinder but used the same pics of me when i got x5 more 3 years ago. the apps shit unless your legit chad.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:05:24 2020 No.20535130 >>20535057 Gotta ask are you even American? You talk in broken english, what country you from and where you trying to hook up at?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:05:43 2020 No.20535138 >>20533484 Are you fucking serious? Like literally? Walk me through this fuckery. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ht9-x4s-W7M

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:05:48 2020 No.20535139

>>20535008
No you didn’t understood.
If I was saying that I just swiped left then everyone would have said that I am just looking above my means
And no I didn’t praised her and became all giggly whenever she texted back.
And I didn’t became a white knight
I just wanted to be genuinely loved by some human

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:06:39 2020 No.20535156

if women are not attracted to you, theyre doing you a favor
you have not made it yet and can not afford any distractions
go on monk mode til youre a free man. this will have made you a "winner" in the process which is what theyre really looking for. Unless you made it on shitcoin gambling that doesnt count. in that case become an employer/landlord of some sort, at least

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:06:50 2020 No.20535159 >>20535130 Not broken. Phone posting

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:07:59 2020 No.20535180 >>20535156 Lol ye maybe. Though seeing white hairs make me feel a bit too late tot he party

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:08:06 2020 No.20535183

Be careful idiot. I went through the same thing. Went through hundreds of bios. Eventually you just get a hot match and feel the euphoria. Then get ghosted and get depressed, then bounce back. Ended up fucking a couple girls than got in a relationship with the first thing that would give me a chance and it was the most toxic relationship ever. She came out to be a raging liberal and Her whole family was after 6 months of us falling in love and doing activities together. It just couldn’t work out. It was very sad. Choose your mates wisely.
It’s not a joke

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:09:48 2020 No.20535214 >>20535082 Ye. The issue is that I get one liner from all women (that’s them being friendly, if not they be just outright rude to me)

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:10:57 2020 No.20535240 >>20535183 Can’t choose Don’t have to physics to back it up

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:10:59 2020 No.20535241

>>20535139
>>20535139
>I just wanted to be genuinely loved by some human

Oh, I see now. Here's where you fucked up. Tinder is a meat market. Go to eHarmony if youre looking for an LTR, Tinder is for finding a slampig to pork, more often than not quite literally.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:11:17 2020 No.20535247 >>20533273 dude lmao tinder is such bullshit, hire a professional photographer and you will have more matches than you can handle even if you look like a pig

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:12:12 2020 No.20535263 >>20535241 Didn’t said finding love I said being loved

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:12:46 2020 No.20535279 >>20535263 Oh, fuck off.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:13:12 2020 No.20535289 >>20535247 Wait did you try them before?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:13:59 2020 No.20535308 >>20535247 its like putting your resume on premium paper. being a try hard is not a good look.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:14:37 2020 No.20535321 File: 217 KB, 288x392, Screenshot 2020-07-14 at 00.25.33.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>20534680 What do you have against Slavs, one of my bros fuck your mother or something? CUNT

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:15:18 2020 No.20535338 >>20535279 Lol relax

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:15:36 2020 No.20535345

>>20533273
You are being too nice and talkative to the fatty. Remember everyone is simping. Don’t reply for a few days. If she asks to hang, tell her your busy but can maybe do it in x days. Get a friend to take pics, social pics too, and quality pics over quantity. 2-3 high res ones is better than 6 that look shit. Bio needs to be really unique, they see the same shit every swipe. Oh ya and an average girl has 1000+ matches because of simps. How will you stand out? Girls are intuitive and will pic up on your horn dog vibes. You need to not sound very interested, make her know you have options. It’s just another vidya. Once you beat it, it’s boring, but take this advice for now fren.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:16:19 2020 No.20535359 >>20534680 Learn to read boomer I said 2 months

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:16:45 2020 No.20535367 >>20533449 you need to use a gym selfie. you better be lifting to faggot.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:16:49 2020 No.20535368 >>20535289 its an app based on pictures, everything is fake and gay

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:17:16 2020 No.20535378 >>20534680 Lmao

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:18:18 2020 No.20535401 >>20533273 OP You need to be asking yourself a simple question... - How would you be acting if you already were fucking 10/10 girls on a regular basis.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:18:29 2020 No.20535403 >>20535308 a good photographer makes the pics looks amateurish for tinder of course

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:19:44 2020 No.20535439

>>20535345
Bought I am trying to make her feel a bit relaxed so she can fucking start talking
I used to be a guy who answer I sentence when receiving few words in text
Now a days I answer one liners by one liners and wait to see if they give up first
For her though, she still talks, but I am trying to see if she can open up
I am ghosted now, so I won’t bother
Probably will do your way for my next match

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:20:44 2020 No.20535465 >>20535367 Army fag I lift enough

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:21:45 2020 No.20535486 >>20535368 W all then if it’s promising I will do them as well I hope they are not too expensive

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:21:54 2020 No.20535488 >>20535439 You got it anon. Keep mastering yourself and keeping busy, girls love that.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:22:39 2020 No.20535502 >>20535465 good. try a gym mirror selfie with your chin up showing biceps. if that doesn't work, you're just ugly. blame your parents

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:23:07 2020 No.20535518 >>20535401 Well if I was a chad 10/10.. Then I wouldn’t even get one single match Becuase I wouldn’t swipe the fatties right in the first place Won’t work, the pull of reality is too strong

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:23:19 2020 No.20535522 I've only had sex with one girl on tinder after 5 years on the app and it was a fat girl who smelled like shit.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:25:30 2020 No.20535564

>>20535522
Chad wants sex every day, just like you. Most women can take it or leave it, they get hit on when they go out in public if they're not a land whale anyways. So Chad has enough time to give every decent slag a turn, and you get left with only the ones so gross not even Chad will touch them.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:26:24 2020 No.20535587

>>20535488
One issue though, how can I show that I am not interested and don’t show myself to be a horn dog, when I am still talking to a fattie
I assume if my photos make me get a match with 10/10, then I can demonstrate your advice much better(since they can probably guess that I got other matches as well)

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:26:58 2020 No.20535601 Army doesn’t mean shit there’s plenty of fat bastards in the army

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:27:33 2020 No.20535624 >>20535502 Well I know I am ugly. I am ugly enough that I cringe when I catch myself in the mirror and I won’t take picture of myself Blame wouldn’t work Ty for the gym advice

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:27:50 2020 No.20535631
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>>20535183
No, it is not. But to most of them it’s less than a joke.
They fuck themselves senseless. They get completely addicted to that euphoria you mention. It literally wrecks their brains.
Was talking to pic related the other day. We were having some decent question then I asked her the question I ask them all..
“How many guys have you had sex with?”
I get one of three answers.
1.)9
2.)anger for me even asking a thing
3.)the actual number (usually staggeringly high)

This one said she had lost count at around the 120 mark. I just said “lol..”
Oh:I had asked her this because she had told me of an attempted 3 some with a couple randoms gone wrong the night before.
I was out at this point. Obv.
She asked what was wrong and I said we could keep talking but I wasn’t interested anymore.
Long story short, I got 4 pages of blog post explaining how much of a misogynist Incel loser I was and how she was justified in her actions and was completely ok with how her life had turned out but sure felt sorry for whoever I ended up with.
I just asked “are you wet right now?” At the end. And she finally blocked me.
They can’t handle the consequences of their own promiscuity. They knew it was wrong the whole time, no one ever calls them out on it. When they do, it doesn’t go so well.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:28:11 2020 No.20535639 >>20535564 Okay and why are you telling me this you fucking faggot

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:28:43 2020 No.20535655 >>20535601 Believe me. I am not fat nor a bastard.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:29:24 2020 No.20535672 >>20535564 they wait at the finish line and fuck the winners. youre not even in the race, you gave up and play vidya instead.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:30:40 2020 No.20535702 >>20535631 I won’t blame you. I just wanted to have this much at least. Guess I can’t (currently anyway)

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:34:07 2020 No.20535783

>>20535702
You have to ask yourself..at what cost.
The amount of shit a refuse you have to trudge through to even get this is mind numbing.
The effort time and energy alone is not a good ROI, even if you fucked her.
In this case I would have been number 130+ who knows how much.
Yea, awesome.
I want the equivalent of a barn find car.
Not a used rental that’s been rode hard and put away wet for over a decade.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:36:05 2020 No.20535843 >>20535639 Cause you're whining like a faggot about how nobody on Tinder wants to give you cunny

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:39:12 2020 No.20535917

>>20535783
It’s the standard of current year thanks to globalhomo femenisn agenda or whatever
It’s either this or to just forget
Look it’s not like I am sitting at home crying.
I am active, my goals, passions, aspirations hobbies etc
But
Something always always there my, telling me, that no matter what I do, I never gonna full-fill my actual desire.
That no one will never like me nor be interested in me.
It bothers me. So I go out and ask people, talking to women. To prove my mind that “no, I can be liked as well” but each time I lose, and the voice get stronger.
Tinder was the thing that finally can prove to me that I can be liked by someone else

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:39:33 2020 No.20535923

>>20535702
Also anons.
Tattoos are always a deal breaker. Always. No exceptions.
They are a marker of unresolved trauma.
The bigger the tattoo, the more colourful they are and the number of them equate to more or bigger traumas incurred.
In the wildlife kingdom, animals with bright colours are poisonous and should be considered highly dangerous. It is a warning “stay the fuck away. I WILL wreck you.”
No difference with women with tattoos or bright hair colours.
>b but w..what about a little tattoo on her ankle??!
Remember the rule. Never date a chick with one. Not even once.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:40:38 2020 No.20535947

>>20535631
Can best be summed up as, "just because you can doesn't mean you should"

Honestly jews have both sexes pretty well locked down, women addicted to sex with guys out of their league and then wondering what happened when the wall hits and they end up as cat ladies, guys addicted to simping and porn and wondering why they can't get laid, no more babies, and tell everyone you need to flood your country with rapefugees. It's too easy.

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Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:42:17 2020 No.20535984

>>20535917
Anon, completely remove the notion from your head for awhile. I know it’s hard.. been there.
Just focus on yourself. I too feel that void. And I’ve been told I have a lot to ‘offer’. Aka a lot to be taken for granted and stolen.
Chase excellence. Not pussy.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:43:08 2020 No.20536000 >>20533273 I would say go out in the real world, unless you're in the top 10-20% attractive males tinder definitely isn't going to be a confidence booster

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:43:20 2020 No.20536005 >>20535958 What the fuck is ELO

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:43:37 2020 No.20536012 >>20535923 I can understand that

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:45:41 2020 No.20536060

>>20535587
Don’t message them for a few days after the match. See if they will msg you first. Fatties normally do, 10’s won’t unless they like your bio or 11 Chad. When they reply just give quick messages. Saturday evening or Friday you will likely get a message from one wanting to drink. If not, wait a week and say “Sorry been a busy week, let’s get drinks at X” They want a time and place, you need to be in control. If it’s right, even have drinks at your place first date. This is common on Tinder. The most important thing is to keep developing yourself. Do you meditate along with nofap? It’s good that you’re already fit. Make sure to read too, your competition is simps saying the current TikTok quote. Standout with some knowledge.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:46:42 2020 No.20536079 >>20536005 It's a rating system designed to match competitors to make for competitive games, for a dating site, hot with hot uggo with uggo.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:46:53 2020 No.20536083 >>20535843 No I'm not you fucking retard I just shared my experience.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:47:02 2020 No.20536086 >>20533273 tinder is for FUCKING gays! all woman on TINDER are mentally ill!!! find women IRL BRO

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:47:15 2020 No.20536091

>>20535984
Ye I guess.
But you can say that, becuase you have a choice.
You know that there are Poole out there who likeD you, even being their 130th
I don’t even talking about sex, just them being comfortable and interested in you enough to be close to you, is like a fairytale to me.
Me however had never been liked before, so it’s hard to tell the voice to fuck off.
I

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:47:25 2020 No.20536095
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every thread about sex and race on this board is created by the cia to antagonize and demoralize you and they misdirect you by pointing the finger at mossad and jidf who also do this but cia uses them as a scapegoat to hide their hand

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:48:17 2020 No.20536122 >>20536083 The women rl

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:48:20 2020 No.20536123 >>20536005 Internal attractiveness rating that the matching algorithms use

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:49:14 2020 No.20536143 >>20535947 Yep. It’s a hell of a thing..I don’t know what the end game is. Well, that’s a lie. We all do, deep down.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:50:02 2020 No.20536162 >>20533273 i know guys who are good at talking at girls and getting the hot ones in real life but dont have great success online. dw too much about focus on in person approaches

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:50:21 2020 No.20536170

>>20536000
>>20536086
The women rl don’t give me their time of the day
I am LUCKY if they are cool and just answer me with one liners(sometimes they are just rude to me)
Tinder which I am early to(3 days) was something that could prevent this shit, since there are relaxed, feeling safe and won’t feel like I am stealing chad spot from them.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:50:33 2020 No.20536172

>>20536083
And I'm explaining why your experience matches up with almost all men who use Tinder. In other words don't feel like shit, it's a rigged game, you were never meant to win. This isn't demoralization btw I've already said several times in this thread anon should meet chicks irl.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:51:22 2020 No.20536185 >>20536162 Just read this one >>20536170

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:51:32 2020 No.20536190 Tinder isn’t the same game as IRL. There’s a likelihood that your new confidence will work in actual conversation as opposed to retarded text messaging

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:52:00 2020 No.20536199 >>20536060 >anon: cryptocurrency is a valuable tech to liberate the man from central banks via distributed ledger technology >fem: a homo says what? >anon: what?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:53:45 2020 No.20536249 >>20535631 kek what a beta, I would've plowed that ass then ghosted. You incels are so bad at this

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:54:39 2020 No.20536273

>>20536143
I'm not even a woman hater like many grow to be, they're as much victims as men are (childish entitled victims but nevertheless). Try to put yourself in the average sloot's shoes, you can fuck someone 10 times hotter than you with no consequences whenever you want, of course you're going to develop fucked up psychological and entitlement issues.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:54:42 2020 No.20536274 >>20533273 tinder is good if you're a woman but for men it's a real struggle. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZTIbHIsIYw

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:55:29 2020 No.20536295
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>>20536079
Tinder has it?
It’s real?
I’ll match with the occasional 8-9 and talk abit. But hardly ever. I don’t get it.
I got this ones number two days ago and have been talking since. This is how tinder fucks with you. I’ve been told I’m a 7.
7 is the in between. Just above average enough you can occasionally land someone above your league. But not good enough to do it often or consistently.
Fucks with your head after awhile.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:55:58 2020 No.20536310 Go outside retard meet real women instead, even the grocery store as you're shopping you can smell the ovulation in the air

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:56:34 2020 No.20536324

>>20533585
This. Even fat whales have their pick of the litter on tinder. Stop validating them. Go out and meet girls in real life, Tinder is ok right now because of the pandemic but I wouldn't spend much time there anyways.

Do you have money? I recommend Seeking Arrangement app, I've met many girls there who are looking for a "sugar daddy" who end up being a lot more genuine than tinder hoes.

Also, don't buy into the self help or PUA bullshit.

The only guy I've found helpful once in a while is Coach Corey Wayne, he tells it like it is. Search him on youtube, he covers every topic imaginable.

Good luck anon.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:57:01 2020 No.20536339

Don't fall for the just work out bro and read books meme.

The only way to get better with women is to hook up with lots of them. Don't go on dates -- dates are the 2020 version of the friend zone. What you want to be doing is having girls over to your place.

You'll need tinder gold and 50-100 boosts per month. Send messages that get to the point and always ask her what she's looking for on tinder. Find out if they want to use you for cute dates or attention within the first 5 messages.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:57:21 2020 No.20536346

>>20536060
Reading..man I read too much books I pretty much can talk about shit in pretty much in any niche.
Back in my last base, pretty much every man knew that if they were reading about something, I was the guy who could know more about it.
Yet, no female even acknowledged me in my 12 month station
It’s kinda funny, I remember my drill was talking about how people shouldn’t fall in love with their boos becuase they gonna move on and you gonna move on and there are other boos to have
And I was thinking like oh boy is that this easy? Like all of us gonna have girls?
And yet here I am, fucking 8years later

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:57:48 2020 No.20536356
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>>20536249
That same night I fucked this one.
I actually sent her this picture after she called me an Incel and a whole bunch of other things.
You go for that 120+ dude roasted pussy, my mans. It’s all yours.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:58:48 2020 No.20536370 >>20536339 Nah I won’t fall into tinder jews Had some friends who wasted tons of cash on this which didn’t get them far

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 19:59:37 2020 No.20536391 >>20536295 Dat dere 1000 cock stare

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:00:18 2020 No.20536409 >>20536095 >>20536095 >>20536095 >>20536095 >>20536095 >>20536095 >>20536095

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:00:50 2020 No.20536421 >>20536356 Wait now hold on anon. How you know she didn’t had 50 cocks before you?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:00:59 2020 No.20536426 >>20536391 Yea man. That was my first thought lol So many of them have it. So many. Just talking you can tell she’s seen some shit. And for far too long.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:01:22 2020 No.20536440 >>20536295 lmao that's barely a 5 even low 4

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:02:14 2020 No.20536456 >>20534296 fuck you I'm not ugly. Hinge is ugly.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:02:44 2020 No.20536466

>>20536421
Fair question.
I have interrogated this one without mercy. Browbeating her every chance I get.
She gave me the cliche ‘9’. I don’t know if she hasn’t is what it comes down to..
At the end of the day, you will never know. You have to take her at her word. And usually a woman’s word means nothing until she proves otherwise. And she has. Sort of.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:03:48 2020 No.20536488 >>20536409 Not CIA just a genuine talk And it is business related if I can get a foothold into one of these women lives

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:03:52 2020 No.20536489

>>20536170
>The women rl don’t give me their time of the day
FIND MORE WOMEN BRO

>Tinder which I am early to(3 days) was something that could prevent this shit, since there are relaxed, feeling safe and won’t feel like I am stealing chad spot from them.
you need to understand. TINDER WOMEN ARE FUCKED.
just go up to a woman in a coffee shop and ask for her number

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:05:07 2020 No.20536508 >>20536466 Explain the sort of to me. I may never use the wisdom that you giving me, but I like to know

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:05:20 2020 No.20536514 >>20536440 Post your matches or Fuck off lol (You)

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:08:16 2020 No.20536569 File: 53 KB, 229x390, shame.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>20536356 lmao imagine bragging about fucking this avatar looking bitch

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:08:32 2020 No.20536576

>>20536489
Last time I did in a library.
Cute Liberian chick.
Asked for number
Success!!
>Texted, but never answered my calls
>texts are always one liner, reeks of boredom and lack of interest, a burden and generally never ever back and forth(gap of few hours)
Already these are signs of “fuckoff”
Asked her on a date, she said ok, never showed up and said some bullsgit excuse
And I still consider this one of my “success stories”

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:09:11 2020 No.20536591

>>20536295
It's not actually hot-hot uggo-uggo but who swipes right/left the most, but basically you get paired with people who get similar amounts of swipes. You probably are a 7, thing is a 7 is basically Chad-lite, which is all you really need. There's no hard cutoff but I've experienced the difference when I'm in shape and not, I have a good face, blue eyes, but average jawline and only 5'10'', if I'm a good weight I can pull just about any female, if I let myself go (blown up to 210 with depression and corona lockdown) I'm more like a 5 or 6 and it becomes a fucking struggle. I'm sure confidence has something to do with it all as well.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:10:46 2020 No.20536628
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I mean honestly guys why are you even wasting your time with brainwashed western women. They are only good for one thing and one thing only,,

I myself am definitly geting a cute asian or balkan wify. That hasn't been spoonfed with vitim mentality and made up oppression. Hasnt fucked around like a slut and will be a great mother. Call me old fashioned..

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:11:23 2020 No.20536641 Well thanks guys for advice and talks I gonna fuck off and go do something productive now Will check later, maybe more advise coming in

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:11:42 2020 No.20536645 >>20536576 It's a numbers game. Men are the pursuers, so women get to pick. Even guys who slay will get turned down a decent amount unless they're literally actors/professional athletes.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:11:44 2020 No.20536646

>>20533273
I think I am in the same boat as you fren. I am not good looking. I used to get approached by girls, get told I was cute, then I went balding. My head is big so I think it looks weird without hair. I basically have a JUST hair style now as I don't give a shit.

I still managed to get laid using craigslist for a while. I would just post a cock/body pic in the casual encounters and occasionally fuck a qt (maybe meet one qt per month). It was low effort as it was just a meet and fuck, some wanted repeats others just one night stands it has kept me sane. They banned craigslist here in the USA so I now haven't been able to get laid for 2 years. I only responded probably to 5% of the responses I got as mainly it would be fags/fat bitches, but every once in a while you got a girl who was worth fucking.

I recently thought about getting tinder again but reading your experience makes me not want to.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:13:26 2020 No.20536681 >>20534357 To me, your issues sound much more mental/spiritual than physical. You'll love your new bolt-on Chad chin for a bit, but most likely you'll simply move onto another issue you will grow to hate just the same .

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:13:38 2020 No.20536683 >>20536628 You don’t know how many times I got rejected in korea and Japan by your “innocent Asians”

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:14:40 2020 No.20536703 >>20536645 Ye it’s number games. But it’s more like winning a jackpot for me

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:15:03 2020 No.20536711 >>20536683 >korea and japan You're doing it wrong

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:17:41 2020 No.20536762

>>20536508
It comes down to the trust you establish with someone. Non verbal communication is huge. I’ve developed quite an ability to tell when people are lying to me. I don’t think it’s 9. More like 12-15.
If you look close you’ll see a scapular on her back. A good catholic girl. Kek
She got real serious about wanting marriage after a year. I said no. Not a fucking chance.
Her level of instability and mental illness that came from years of childhood abuse she dealt with with alcohol and drugs and sport fucking was not something I was going to hitch my wagon to.
And I told her that flat out.
I do feel deep down that under all the bullshit she is a genuine person and does try hard to be better everyday. It’s still a lot to deal with, but she’s getting there.
Through her actions she has done this. So I give her the benefit of the doubt on some things.
>why are you on tinder then?
Things fell apart. Between her self worth issues and religious ‘commitments’ it was too much for both of us to handle.
Her sister got involved with us (me) and things got a little heated for a minute, as well. But that’s another story.
We are addicted to each other like any kind of drug. Neither of us seem to be able to pull the plug. She comes over and we talk still. Always ends with animalistic Sex. Being on tinder for the last couple weeks has reminded me that sometimes it’s better with the devil you know. I’m getting older and I just don’t have it in me anymore to start all over with some fixerupper off tinder. Never again..that’s my takeaway.

At the end of the day, you just have to let go. You either trust them, or you don’t. The in between of that distinction may drive you insane. So beware.

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>>20536703
It's like that for most men in the 21st century. Let me put it another way, if you knew you could fuck this chick no strings attached, even have a 1% chance at ending up in a relationship with her, and the only negative was she probably will never call you again, would you do it? Cause this is the reality for the modern woman that is average looking and not a landwhale, but replace the picture with whatever a desirable guy is. Now if you could do that, you're going to honestly tell me you wouldn't fuck around with chicks like this until you're 30/40 and ready to settle down?

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:18:59 2020 No.20536792
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>>20533273
>>20536646

Skill with women is just a skill like any other, and anybody can get good at anything with intelligent thought and practice.

Read some David DeAngelo and get to work. Men actually hold all the power in male-female relationships, especially now in the age of Tinder when the value of any particular vagina has been reduced to just about zero.

Also 90% of it, by the way, is just being reasonably groomed and confident. If you're not confident, fake it until you make it. If you're not well groomed, clean yourself up and buy some decent clothes. That's it.

There's an ebook called "Double Your Dating" that'll get you started on the right path, just self-improvement with a focus on women skills, without leading you down the retarded alley of PUA bullshit. Go steal it now.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:20:21 2020 No.20536816

>>20536646
Man don’t read my fucking experience. And think it’s yours.
Dude.
You fucked women.
I never did it.
The amount of self assurance you have in you is like 100 times more than me.
My faulier does not dictate yours.
In my station me with short hair was so ugly that the gay guy in our platoon (who was telling guys their rank from 1 to 10)(he was super gay so he has an eye for it) just said a “no..aa” . I didn’t even ask him, someone else did as a joke.
Just imagine how would you feel if everyone around you with army hair get 6 7 5 9 and even 2 and you get “aa”
Don’t base your life on me bro

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:21:28 2020 No.20536840 >>20536681 I am 26. If it was a mental issue about wanting to look better and better (like someone with steroid problem) then I would have done it long time ago

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:22:15 2020 No.20536860 >>20533273 2 days on tinder and youre hope is shattered. stop being a sensitive faggot 90 percent of girls who match with you are gonna ghost you unless you have good game then itll go down to 80 percent.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:22:19 2020 No.20536861
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>>20536628
I set my location to some Asian countries a minute to see what would happen..fuck.
I’m no race traitor but son of a bitch I found myself really trying to remember that while talking to some of them.
I was shocked the amount of them who can speak English better than 80% of white women I know..

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:22:29 2020 No.20536865 >>20536711 Cambodia? Been there China? No Thailand? Yes Philippines? No

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:22:46 2020 No.20536880

>>20536645
>It's a numbers game. Men are the pursuers, so women get to pick. Even guys who slay will get turned down a decent amount unless they're literally actors/professional athletes.

Also this FFS. Everything is a numbers game in life, but especially dating. You can improve your odds beforehand, but if you want results you have to throw that die. The good thing with women vs business is that you literally get unlimited rolls, and they are FREE.

The biggest success I know with women, who's gotta have dated dozens of genuinely attractive, intelligent and nice girls in the 20 years I've known him, gets shot down 9 times out of 10. And he's good-looking and confident and charming and makes good money and all that.

He just tries 100 times where most guys give up after 1.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:25:44 2020 No.20536963 File: 15 KB, 134x437, 66832560-DB31-4A6B-AECB-DAA2FD7CECAA.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>20536569 Anon, a response like this is nothing but faggotry.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:25:50 2020 No.20536965 >>20536816 >some dudes made fun of me years ago so I give up ;_; You need to snap the fuck out of loser thinking.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:27:17 2020 No.20536995 >>20536778 Yes. It’s honesty. I don’t blame them. Though I blame them for not going for. A sugar mama instead of a basic slut

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:30:49 2020 No.20537080 >>20536865 so you have some money and don't mind traveling? Maybe what you need is a self esteem booster. I've been pretty much all over the world, except Africa. There is one destination, my friend: Cartagena, Colombia. Go there, thank me later.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:31:46 2020 No.20537100

>>20536762
Ye. Women are not that well adjusted.
They fall for emotions and whims and need to comply with society.
Hence the girl who is Deep down good(maybe) but still do drugs and took 90 cocks in 1 year.
You know, I always wanted to have a gf who I can marry and grow old with. But recently, specially after that tinder experience all I can think about is to find a girl so I can make miserable so I can use financially and sexually and then dump and never look back(Thank god I cant)
It’s similar to a story I read in 1001 Arabian nights the jinnie and the fisherman

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:32:04 2020 No.20537103

>>20536576
Okay bro here's the thing I'm going to tell you something another anon on here told me about and this honestly changed my life. You know American Psycho right? The scene where Bateman and his colleagues are comparing business cards? Go onto Alibaba right now and find a manufacturer of business cards, get some samples sent to you, choose one that feels absolutely perfect that would make Patrick Bateman envious and then get them to make 1000 cards for you. Yes 1000 fucking cards. Now you're going to go and ask for her number. She'll give you her number and then wallah, give her your business card. Bonus points if you spray a little perfume on the card before hand, and write a personalized message on it too. This changed my life.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:32:24 2020 No.20537114 >>20537080 How about Ukraine? I set my location to Kiev. Good fucking god. 90% of them were 8-10’s. So much so I had like 3 matches. They are TOO good looking there, evidently.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:33:16 2020 No.20537137 >>20536792 >pussy value reduce to 0 No no he’ll no It’s actually 10 times more expensive becuase only chads see the price as 0. That’s why simping and only fans is so huge now

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:34:41 2020 No.20537166 >>20536965 lol what? No dude I never gave up. This whole thread is about how to do better. If I was giving up then what I even need to be here for? What’s the point?

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:34:54 2020 No.20537172

>>20537100
Don’t do that anon, no use being part of the problem. Stay true to yourself. As gay as that sounds.
I am in the same position. It’s a hell of a pill to swallow realizing these women are all taken at a young age, married up.
I don’t know what the answer is, but settling for some train wreck hell on wheels disaster who has more probability of ruining your life than sticking by you doesn’t seem like a viable outcome, either.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:35:54 2020 No.20537202 >>20537080 No I can’t travel but because of army and some sweet paid vacations I was able to go over all these countries on foot! I thought you were talking about Asians only

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:35:55 2020 No.20537204 >>20537103 Unironically a good idea. 10/10 going to try.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:36:55 2020 No.20537232 >>20536860 Yes of course my hopes are shattered.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:37:21 2020 No.20537245

>>20537137
>idiots wildly overvalue something
>successes realize it's worthless

You have noticed the only difference between simps and chads, but somehow managed to learn the exactly wrong lesson.

>>20537166

Ok. Here's what changed my life -- an ebook called Double Your Dating which you can steal on any torrent site or libgen or whatever. Read it every damn night and apply it to your life and you WILL become a success with women. Not overnight, but if you stick at it you will succeed. Some of the stuff there's pretty archaic but the fundamental principles are how to become a chad.

And not a "pick up artist" who tries to trick women into sleeping with him, because that's dishonest and worse ineffective. It's about how to improve yourself and your mindset to become more attractive to women, and it works.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:37:30 2020 No.20537247 >>20537137 In the end, when they start hitting the wall..they realize that their magic pussy is worthless. And so are they since they completely tied their identity and self worth/image to it. It’s marvellous to watch.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:37:39 2020 No.20537252

>>20537114
No no. Girls in Ukraine are gorgeous for sure but they'll make you spend money and still make you feel like they're doing YOU a favour.

Colombia is cheaper, girls are just as hot, and they are more attentive, sweeter, you are their king...

(I hope you know I'm talking about escorts) But it's different type of escort, very complicated to explain to someone who hasn't been there.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:37:57 2020 No.20537259 >>20536861 Haha that’s pretty good anon Try to find yourself some rich Asian milf

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:39:03 2020 No.20537287 >>20536880 >gets shot down 9 times out of 10. And he's good-looking and confident and charming and makes good money and all that. Dude, he got something to roll back on, get his confidence back on and keep at it. What do I got?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:41:14 2020 No.20537336 >>20537103 Well that sound like a great idea. Women dig status, I guess

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:42:35 2020 No.20537363

>>20537252
I honestly think speaking for myself if I was to go on some kind of sex tour that it would be to the Philippines.
They seem to have some kind of white fetish. Idk..
Within 15 mins of chatting I have their number, theyre sending nudes and asking when we can meet up to Fuck.
Some are a little more reserved but it’s still very clear what they want.
I even open a lot of convos with something so retarded and stupid like “can I put babies in you?!” They laugh and in 5 mins I have a number.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:42:40 2020 No.20537367 >>20537247 Ye, I guess. Except we all gonna die. Some with good lives, some with shitty lives

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:42:50 2020 No.20537374 >>20536576 This will get you started https://www.alibaba.com/trade/search?IndexArea=company_en&CatId=&SearchText=business+cards+luxury&viewtype=&tab=

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:43:20 2020 No.20537387

>>20533273
Girls go on tinder to hookup/fuck when they’re board. It’s not a dating app no matter how much they pretend to you that it is or how they’re “no hookups plz.” The “not here for hookups” girls are the easiest to get on the first night, they are likely saying that because they’ve done it so much.

You basically need to not respond much and just say something like “hey I don’t text on here much, let’s meet up for a drink” -done. That’s what I say most of the time, unless I get into a convo I’m actually interested in, which happens from time to time.

Always remember, woman are retarded and thus you need to direct/control every aspect of the interaction, they will secretly love you for it and expect you to do this if you aren’t a simp faggot. They are so retarded in fact that they will first act like they are superior to you, don’t let them do this. Bantz and shut down their bs right away. They will eventually cave in and become attracted to your “confidence” and start following orders etc. again, they have no internal moral standards, they just act like whatever they feel like. You need to simply act as though you are “right” about every decision, even when you’re wrong... especially when you’re wrong. Just have fun with it... don’t take woman seriously at all, they are literally retarded. Have you ever talked politics or finance with a woman? -retarded

Have you

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:44:32 2020 No.20537412

>>20537287

What's the difference between an optimist and a pessimist? Confidence is an attitude, or more accurately a belief.

The brain is unbelievably easy to trick. You can make yourself happy by smiling (google it), and can make yourself more confident by acting more confident. The old trick is to visualize James Bond in front of you, in as clear detail as you can, and then just visualize yourself stepping forward into his skin. It fucking works.

Read up on posture and body language. Keep an eye on yourself for posture throughout the day. Work out, get some decent clothes. Remind yourself, repeatedly, that you're a success.

It's all hokey mind games but it actually works.

I mean, if you're not confident now, it's probably because other people have made you feel insecure before. Therefore, make yourself feel confident.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:45:11 2020 No.20537426

>>20537245
Not even once in my 26 years I gave adavantage to women just because women or pussy.
Not ever tried to put one on pedestal
Maybe I would put them on though, who knows..but I never got one interested In me enough
Oh I got the book already
Thanks for the advice

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:46:59 2020 No.20537463 >>20537363 Ye I basically saw this shit in Thailand.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:47:59 2020 No.20537483 >>20537374 Oh that looks awesome Very professional So I just ask for samples?

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:48:04 2020 No.20537488

>>20537426

I swear to God, it will change your life IF you put in the hours.

The biggest revelation of my life is that skill with women is literally just like any other skill. Once you understand that, and that it's POSSIBLE to get good with women, your life starts to change. You start to look for more sources of information, YT videos, books, maybe someone you know is good with women and you buy them dinner and pick their brain.

If you practiced basketball every day for a year, you'd get pretty good at basketball. It's literally no different with women, and if you're intelligent enough to be on /biz/, you will be amazed at how fast you get good at it. (once you get past the first few months where you have no idea what you're doing and fuck up lots, but you will look back on those fuckups and laugh)

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:49:54 2020 No.20537525 >>20537387 Ye just listening to women talk seriously about shit make me cringe. They are dumb but you know, sweet dumb

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:53:46 2020 No.20537599

>>20537412
Look .
I get what you saying.
But I read so many books about visualization, charisma, body language, hypnosis, mind tricks, psychology (muh minor)
But everything shatters and I am saying everything, when you just get rejected hard, despite all the confidence and exercise you did
Hell I read so much I prob can hypnotize women (I did hypnosis men before, but it’s no fun, I can’t do the shit I want”
But you know who you can’t hypnotize? People who don’t trust you and are not relaxed around you(who I am kidding though, I get rejected in public, can you imagine if one agree to come to my place alone for a hypnosis session? Kek)

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:54:12 2020 No.20537611

>>20537387
Absolutely fucking A right. All of it.
I try to find the line between being an abject prick and just enough of a jerk that it turns them on and drives them insane.
It becomes an addiction for them trying to break you. Never let them. Never change for them. Once you do, they get bored. They will lose respect at best. And cheat on you at worst.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:55:50 2020 No.20537637 >>20537488 Well alright. I like reading books even if I absolutely have no use for them. (That’s why I know so much bullshit about paganism and I don’t even believe it) I will read it thanks Maybe it helps who knows

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:56:54 2020 No.20537657 >>20537488 Im creeped out by this post, desu Should maybe reevaluate your motives there anon..

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:59:11 2020 No.20537709 >>20537657 Sorry anon this post was meant for the autist who was talking about hypnotizing women

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:59:29 2020 No.20537717 >>20537245 >Double Your Dating 2x0=0

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 20:59:52 2020 No.20537730 File: 109 KB, 828x1792, Ec0p8jOXsAAD8u-.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] You are a pussy ass bitch. All it takes is to Control your frame. Women ain't shit, treat them lower than you, & they love it.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:00:01 2020 No.20537733 >>20537611 No idea. But I guess you guys know

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:01:03 2020 No.20537750 File: 110 KB, 500x698, girls-i-like-vs-girls-i-also-like-but-when-12151615.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >everyone saying meet chicks irl instead Where? Especially difficult because of quarantine. A bar? A club? Library? Gardening Center?

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:02:25 2020 No.20537775

>>20537599
>Hell I read so much I prob can hypnotize women (I did hypnosis men before, but it’s no fun, I can’t do the shit I want”

As someone who went through the same nightmare and now is a success: Your attitude is what's fucking you up. I know this because I was there.

You are unskilled with women and you need to build that skill. It's a specific skill, but it's just a skill. You can learn it and get good at it, but it takes time, study, experimentation, time, and TIME. Others may have been born with more talent than us, but we are smarter.

I wasted years looking for techniques to get women (pickup lines, NLP, negging, all that shit) but it turned out what I needed to do was improve myself. Also:

>(who I am kidding though, I get rejected in public, can you imagine if one agree to come to my place alone for a hypnosis session? Kek)

Nigger I've been rejected, in public, by 20 women in a single NIGHT. In my bar days I'd average at least 6 or 7 rejections a night. I don't even remember what those girls look like. Getting rejected once is soul-crushing. Getting rejected a few times is heartbreaking. Getting rejected 100 times is funny. And in those 100 times you'll get a couple of hits.

Take 100 women in any given situation
Maybe 30 of them are single
Maybe 15 of those are looking
Maybe 3 of those are looking for someone like you
Maybe 1 of those are someone you'd be interested in

What are your odds of rolling consecutive 6s on a die? Fucking terrible. How bad should you feel when you don't on the first try? You get unlimited tries.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:03:00 2020 No.20537790 >>20533273 chocolate milkies

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:03:20 2020 No.20537797

>>20537709
What’s wrong with hypnotize?
If you think of hypnotize as “I hypnotize this girl to be a cat” that you see on YouTube I am not talking about that.
Hypnotize can help you be a better shooter, or be less sensitive if enemy catches you and try to extract information out of you.
It can also help you lift heavier
If you never done it, you don’t know
(Still, maybe it’s for the better that I can’t have a girlfriend, who knows?)

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:03:44 2020 No.20537808 >>20537637 I know we'll never meet, but I fucking guarantee that if you read that book, try to understand it, and put in the hours (and it takes at least 100 hours of practice to get decent at any skill), you will succeed.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:04:20 2020 No.20537817 >>20537717 Kek

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:05:31 2020 No.20537838 >>20537730 Fine. I just gonna say the exact same shit. Though I am gonna get a “what what what” at best and worst instant unmatched and report But let’s see If tinder won’t work it wouldn’t matter if I am banned or not Might as eell

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:06:07 2020 No.20537849 >>20533273 are you white?

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:06:52 2020 No.20537857

>>20533539
>Get your ass into the gym anon.
This works to an extent.
t. 5'5 gymbro that it didn't work for. Got some mires in high school before girls saw all the ripped chads in college but those days are long gone. It's about power/money/status now if you don't have looks.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:07:57 2020 No.20537876

>>20537838

One big secret, where most guys fail, is this, the Number One Rule Of Success With Women: Never EVER give a woman the impression that you're seeking her approval. It causes a biological reaction in them that's like nausea, as evolution's mechanism to filter pussies.

If you give a girl the impression you want her approval, it is OVER and you must move on instantly.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:08:17 2020 No.20537882

>>20537488
If you are born unathletic you can practice basketball for a year and still be shit. Two of my buddies in high school gave every thing they had to try to make the basketball team and still failed for three years straight and gave up before senior year. I get the message of your post and its true in a lot of cases but some people just don't have it man and there is almost nothing they can do to fix it.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:09:46 2020 No.20537913

>>20537775
Did you even read my posts bro?
This is my first time after fucking 10-12 years of looking for a gf, that I am using tinder as a solution.
My ENTIRE game was bar,club, coffee shop, street, library etc game.
And the issue is that I can’t DEVELOPE the skill you talking about.
It’s like skilling on basketball, but No one give you a ball to practice with.
I can easily work afterward but I can’t do shit if got rejected outright every time.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:10:32 2020 No.20537928 >>20534663 Ask open ended questions that evoke emotions. Not just yes or no questions.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:11:23 2020 No.20537948 >>20537483 Yeah there is a way to contact multiple suppliers at once, you can ask around and find a good deal. Here is a good video if you are interested https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QJDR1_I1aYU

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:12:10 2020 No.20537961 >>20537808 Cool will do Thanks anon >>20537876 I guess you are right. At least tinder give me a chance to try it out. Real life don’t even let me say “hey”

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:15:39 2020 No.20538049

>>20537882
>If you are born unathletic you can practice basketball for a year and still be shit.

No, you will be good. You won't be playing competitively but you can go play pickup hoops at the community center and have a good time with others.

>Two of my buddies in high school gave every thing they had to try to make the basketball team and still failed for three years straight and gave up before senior year

Yes, see, that's called the elite. Those are the best dozen or so players in the entire school. For every guy who made the cut, there were 3 good players who didn't and a bunch of ok players. All you need to be is ok.

>>20537913
>And the issue is that I can’t DEVELOPE the skill you talking about.

Yes you can, but the way you've been approaching learning the skill has been wrong. That's where the book I've recommended will help.

>>20537961
>Real life don’t even let me say “hey”

Real life is a fucking heartbreaker for sure. I do not know how people did it pre-internet, because it took a year of online practice before I got the courage (and skill) to start getting shot down in real life, lol.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:16:03 2020 No.20538061 >>20537730 I find that using words like gay, fag and nigger really weeds out the lefties and prudes lol Fag really does it for them lol I find it so amusing.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:16:16 2020 No.20538066

>>20537849
Not white white white.
But genetically white
>>20537928
Hahahahah
I appreciate your help anon.
But my big issue is, that I learned it back when I was 17.
It never works for me.
Because when I ask question like this, in real life, I still get such a short answers that you think my question was a yes or no.
If I insist, (like I don’t leave) they will leave
>>20537948
Oh thanks
I am watching it now

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:17:01 2020 No.20538083 >>20536095 >>20536095 >>20536095 >>20536095 >>20536095 >>20536095

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:17:48 2020 No.20538101 >>20538049 Thanks for that book man. I gonna read it tonight

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:18:54 2020 No.20538123 >>20538061 But isn’t it true that the lefty ones are usually the most needy ones that you can manipulate easier?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:19:19 2020 No.20538131 >>20533273 Try, try again. Don't get hung up on bitches who play you because they're dumb animals beneath your contempt.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:20:03 2020 No.20538145 >>20538131 Well sure. Not gonna just kill myself, gotta live.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:21:37 2020 No.20538181

>>20533273
It's not working cause even fatty can smell the stink of desperation on you...... and not amount of fap-abstinence is going to change that.

The only way to change this is for you to focus on YOU....

That means you need to focus on self improvement to the point of being solely occupied with being a better you.

Set goals and set baby steps for attaining those goals.

And you need to get jacked. Hit the weights, do the cardio, and absolutely get even a semblance of a six pack.

Read a lot.

Improve your diet.

Learn as many new skills as you can.

And you must not do all these things with the intent on getting chicks. IT WONT WORK. You need to forget about getting chicks for the time being -- you need to do this for YOU.

And later on you will find that as you lose yourself in daily routines of total self improvement, you will cease to be desperate -- because now, you are only about YOU. And then one day you will be talking to chicks naturally, no hint of desperation, and they will dig you..... and it will be EFFORTLESS at that point.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:21:45 2020 No.20538185 >>20538145 That's the spirit!

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:22:50 2020 No.20538203 >>20538101 Read it every damn night, and go look for more information. I think the author actually did seminars that were video'd. If you put in the hours you CAN be chad, or, if not chad, close enough that it makes no difference.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:23:21 2020 No.20538211 >>20538181 Jesus, did you just jumped in, read my first post and typed this? Look at the development of my story anon. It’s not like you think

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:24:34 2020 No.20538236 >>20538203 Well sure. I am trying to make money, might as well become a chad. Still gonna do the chin surgery

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:25:35 2020 No.20538256 >>20538185 Thanks

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:26:08 2020 No.20538268

>>20538236
>I am trying to make money, might as well become a chad.

YES

Christ, imagine making it and then having some bitch steal half of it when pussy is essentially free to everyone above a certain (not very fucking high) skill level

Women skills are absolutely necessary at a high level of income, because high earners with no women skills are prey for gold digging whores

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:28:31 2020 No.20538326

>>20537730
>>20537838
Your Tinder Bio should give off Dominant engergy. No gayass reddit tier sœy pickup lines. No witty feminine shit.

straight up say you're extremely dominant guy and want to control submissive girls or something based on that theme.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:29:46 2020 No.20538357 >>20538268 That’s what I am trying to avoid. As a last resort I would have just gave up women all together and just enjoy my money alone: Kinda feel good, when I see people who have sex all day or have stable relationship but are still broke as fuck.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:30:56 2020 No.20538385 >>20533449 Photoshop. Literally every woman catfishes on dating apps.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:31:54 2020 No.20538407

>>20538123
In some cases. But it’s not the same kind of manipulation.
It’s also a lot more work.
If she identifies at all as a liberal or lefty of any sort, get rid of her.
The most impressionable ones are under 24yo, never been to college and are politically neutral or completely uninvolved.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:32:58 2020 No.20538427 >>20538326 Well yes. I guess you are right. I am trying to control girls.. I just got no way to make it happen. Tinder is a good way of taking the word out I guess I mean what I really got to lose anyway? Either no match or max Perma-ban? Big deal

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:34:04 2020 No.20538459

>>20538385
There’s apps now that you can change yourself to be a chad lol
It’s a catch 22 though.
If you meet these broads, they will tell they’ve been had so you have to keep it lite. That being said the ALL use heavy filtering a lighting that removes any form of age or blemishes. And it is bullshit.
Might as well play at their own game..

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:34:08 2020 No.20538460 >>20538385 But photoshop wouldn’t help. I mean I ditch a girl if her profile was 10 but now she is a 5

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:34:58 2020 No.20538479

>>20538357
>As a last resort I would have just gave up women all together and just enjoy my money alone:
>Kinda feel good, when I see people who have sex all day or have stable relationship but are still broke as fuck.

I remember someone did the math on Paul McCartney's latest divorce and noted he could've fucked $1000/hr escorts every single night for 100 years and still have come out a hundred million dollars ahead of just one of his divorce settlements.

But I promise you, (broken record here) if you put in the hours and read and watch videos and study, you will have this "a-ha" moment where everything sort of clicks, and it's not that you become a success but that you understand that you WILL become a success. That moment is almost as good as sex, because it's a moment when your life is going to change.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:35:08 2020 No.20538489 >>20538407 Guess you know better, since you got experience. I am all clueless as you know, but I am not a guy to get a ride off.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:36:10 2020 No.20538506 >>20538459 I see. Those apps. Fucking black mirror imminent

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:36:36 2020 No.20538518 >>20538479 /biz/ unironically made me realize this. Or at least gave a glimmer of hope for it. Changed my life.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:36:48 2020 No.20538523 The tinder/bumble economy is heavily female skewed. There’s more men in general and men are more aggressive with their messaging so women are really choosy.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:38:22 2020 No.20538557 >>20538479 Well Paul was retarded Well hope so. Because whatever that aha is, should sorta do something to mask my face so I can get my foot in. Once I gain the trust and have their guard down, I think I can handle it.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:43:48 2020 No.20538669 [DELETED]

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>>20538506
FaceApp is one. Get it. Fuck around with your pics, you’ll see what I mean.
In some of the settings all it really does is change the lighting in the picture to look more professional.
If you have bad bone structure or are fat, you’re fucked anyways.
Here’s one of me with the chad filter turned up to 10. So much so I feel comfortable posting it here..nearly unrecognizable.
I’m getting away with it turned up to 2 lol
Like I said mostly just changes the lighting..

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:45:32 2020 No.20538705

>>20538518
>/biz/ unironically made me realize this. Or at least gave a glimmer of hope for it.
>Changed my life.

If I found a genie in a bottle, after giving myself unlimited funds and stuff like that, I'd use a wish to let every human being have at least one of those "holy shit I'm actually going to make it" moments

>>20538557
>Because whatever that aha is, should sorta do something to mask my face so I can get my foot in.

lol, well, many jurisdictions require masks these days.

But seriously, if you pay attention you will see absolutely beautiful, intelligent, talented women absolutely ruining their lives with ugly fucking welfare losers, ALL THE TIME. Looks ain't it, money ain't it.

Obviously if you're putting zero effort into your appearance or fitness that will turn women off, but women operate on a meta level for these things that guys, with our specific brains, don't understand. Putting zero effort into your appearance and fitness means you're advertising being a lazy fuck, aka a terrible choice for a mate, deep down in her DNA, which does not understand we're not cavemen any more. Being socially successful (money, power) makes you look good to Cavewoman Brain, but so does getting absolutely shredded at the gym and anyone can do that.

Men are more looks-oriented, because they express that a woman's got good DNA. Women (unconsciously) look more for signs that they're picking a caveman who can take care of her cave baby, because again our DNA doesn't know we're not cavemen. Which is why we still love salty fatty foods that are terrible for us now, but would've potentially been the difference between life and starving to death in the winter, to a hunter-gatherer hominid a million years ago.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:47:08 2020 No.20538743 >>20538705 That’s a nice wish, anon.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:53:53 2020 No.20538881

>>20538705
>become shredded, which everyone can do
Not really, I am trying, but I can’t.
My bones and muscle mass is not good enough.
I still can be good enough to run fast and do tons of push up and lift heavy shit.
But I won’t look jacked when someone see me
Maybe a bit controlled hormones under supervision of a doctor can help me
After I am out of force

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 21:59:11 2020 No.20538991

>>20538881
>Not really, I am trying, but I can’t.
>My bones and muscle mass is not good enough.

God damnit anon, stop that shit. Yes you can.

You don't need to look like some 3% body fat veiny steroid body builder, you just need to be physically strong. There's science behind that as well -- I remember a study came out the other month where women were shown pics and video of various dudes in various shape and asked them to rate the guys' attractiveness. It was linear -- the stronger and musclier the guy looked, the more attractive all the women found him. For the same caveman reason men like big tits, women like strong men.

If you're not already on /fit/, go there, read the sticky and do what it says. The program called Starting Strength changed my life. All you need is a barbell and a couple of chairs.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:02:00 2020 No.20539059

>>20533273
>90 days nofap today only coom with my qt3.14
>felt terrible the first two months
>few weeks ago start seeing the light
>new qt3.14 wants me even though she knows I have a qt3.14
>I showed her my dick
>she said it’s bigger than the black guy she was with
>she wants to come over tomorrow
What do bros. I’m 100% serious rn.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:03:49 2020 No.20539104 >>20539059 >she said it’s bigger than the black guy she was with Are you seriously considering cheating on your girlfriend with a girl who screws niggers Do you need it explained to you how that's a bad idea

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:04:52 2020 No.20539134 >>20539059 how old are you? bang new qt chances are your current qt also has something on the side, at least someone to replace you when you're no longer of use to her. Tough pill to swallow, but it is true

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:06:25 2020 No.20539167 >>20538991 Well in that case I am good enough

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:07:51 2020 No.20539193 Imagine making a profile of you and subjecting yourself to being chosen but some fat, ran through, single mom. Also lol at even chasing women in 2020. Go out with them once and never initiate contact with them again. Make these hoes chase you

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:09:30 2020 No.20539232
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>>20538881
Seriously u sound like a pussy. U ain’t a chad and never will be. Be the best u can be and that’s it. You’re fulfilling a self prophecy with all these excuses u make. U can either not give a fuck and go after what you want and succeed or fail more times than not or u can whine about life isn’t fair and fail without the chance of success. It’s literally your choice Faggot.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:09:40 2020 No.20539233 >>20539059 You already showed her your dick, so might as well go all the way >>20539104 Based and redpilled

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:13:15 2020 No.20539309

>>20539167

That's the right attitude, anon. You're gonna make it.

Seriously though, the /fit/ autists have managed to cut through every bit of bullshit surrounding muscle-building and come up with a workout plan that takes like an hour 3 times a week and WILL make you strong. That sticky is a godsend

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:14:05 2020 No.20539335 >>20538326 But it's not true

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:15:32 2020 No.20539372 File: 2.00 MB, 382x297, 1326925207738.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw 6'3, attractive, muscular and great job so I'm stuck mucking about with the 6's and 7's Life is truly suffering. I really want an 8 or 9.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:16:31 2020 No.20539399 >>20539167 >>20539309 I found the study, turns out it's years old but I only saw it back in the spring https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/speaking-of-science/wp/2017/12/12/women-rate-the-strongest-men-as-the-most-attractive-study-finds/

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:17:08 2020 No.20539406 File: 985 KB, 2274x998, 7rat62jtodi31.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>20533273 Do you look like a god?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:19:47 2020 No.20539454 >>20533273 I got a decent amount of Tinder within the first couple days. I decided not to pursue it because I didn't know if my dick worked. We all have problems

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:23:08 2020 No.20539525

>>20539406
Meh, Swedish girls are hot AF, but have the personality of a wet towel.

They're either wanna be influencers, showing off their luxury life (which most don't have but they can fake because Sweden high standard of living). I swear to god every second picture it's them drinking sparkling wine.

Either that or vegan/gluten free/nature lovers who expect every man to be a cuck, but at the same time be able to build them their summer cottage.

And they get away with it because yes, Swedish men are all cucked.
It's just when they go on holiday they love foreign cock.

that girl in the pic is a 2 in Sweden

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:24:26 2020 No.20539546 File: 288 KB, 658x800, 1570840367091.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>20533644 Express lane to sex offender status

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:25:18 2020 No.20539566 >>20539406 I sometimes wonder if genuinely attractive men are actually settling for goblins like this due to tinder demoralization

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:28:05 2020 No.20539625

>>20539232
How am I full filling a self prophecy exactly?
I can see it with my own eyes.
My brother for example, got arms and legs that are twice bigger than my own.
Same mother same father just different chances.
I am not saying I couldn’t ever improve.
I used to be so skinny that even 10 pushups seemed too much, now I can do 50 60 in 1 min.
I just know that my potential wouldn’t be chad potential
>>20539399
Thanks
I just read it. It’s fascinating
>>20539406
HahahahahA good one
>>20539454
Maybe lay off porn? Because I once jerked so much(edgine for like 12 hours daily -don’t ask me how) that after my last session my dick didn’t work for like a whole month
Like not even a tingle

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:29:10 2020 No.20539652 >>20534766 Is it like katawa shoujo? I just want a VN that plays like that

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:30:12 2020 No.20539676 >>20539104 Fuck that is an amazing point. Based >>20539134 30 Based response thanks Chief >>20539233 Yeah that’s what I figured too. Life’s too short

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:30:43 2020 No.20539690 >>20539406 >mostly handsome men Oh shit I said it too vain, now they gonna hate me >ehh but also...good hobbies and such Phew

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:34:41 2020 No.20539784 >>20539546 This. I read, watched and heard so much shit about “subtle touch” but shit. Women I saw in my life looked at my hand closing to touch them on their shoulder (to reassure a point ) as if it’s a fucking snake.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:35:42 2020 No.20539808 >>20539566 I saw too many gym rats settling for gablinas Still don’t get it

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:37:05 2020 No.20539841 >>20534809 SEA is arguably much easier if 1. You look decent 2. You’re white

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:42:29 2020 No.20539950

>>20539784
>I read, watched and heard so much shit about “subtle touch” but shit.
>Women I saw in my life looked at my hand closing to touch them on their shoulder (to reassure a point ) as if it’s a fucking snake.

Yeah, so much of us waste so much time looking for techniques to get women to sleep with us. The correct path is to become someone who women want to sleep with.

It sounds like retarded semantics, but they are diametric opposite concepts. One is trying to get what you want without having to change, the other is recognizing you need to change to have what you want.

That book I won't shut up about is all about making the change.

Like, lots of people want to be a doctor, and you can get a book of doctory things that doctors say and try to go practice medicine. At best it will be a fucking disaster. You need to go to med school, train and become skilled in medicine, and become a DOCTOR. The person who exits med school is not the same person who entered. That's how skill with women works.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:44:25 2020 No.20539994 File: 93 KB, 800x800, 5awrtwb309f31.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>20539808 Because gym is cope

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:45:36 2020 No.20540020 >>20539808 You see a lot of stunning beautiful women ruining their lives with absolute fucking dirty losers

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:47:59 2020 No.20540061
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>>20539625
Whining like a bitch on a tranny forum. Guess what? U are a bitch. U think chad gives a fuck about what others think or cries because he got rejected? U may never be a chad but you can have a chad mentality. U are what u believe. Comparing yourself to others is what bitches do. Guess what u are?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:52:55 2020 No.20540157 File: 257 KB, 1056x649, 1589440805634.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>20539950 Except normal people don't need to make changes.

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:53:18 2020 No.20540166

This thread is probably the most i've learned on /biz/
I can definitely see all those mistakes I've made with women over the years and sometimes I wish I could take them back so I end up with them but I know that won't happen. I've worked on myself a lot these past few years and I'm a lot happier with who I see in the mirror now. I know what my goals are in life and I know I'm looking for a long term partner and not just a fling. And I've even noticed the change when I interact with women and how they respond to me. I just need to work on actually knowing how to not be an autist and express myself better with women I'm interested in
>>20537172
>Stay true to yourself.
Respect.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:54:25 2020 No.20540187 File: 67 KB, 794x563, 1589853066722.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>20540061 >Guess what u are? >Whining like a bitch on a tranny forum? But that's you though.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:55:25 2020 No.20540205 >>20540166 Then you learned nothing. Just date an escort dumbfuck.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:57:22 2020 No.20540250 >>20533273 any info on those blasian milkers?

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 22:59:12 2020 No.20540281

>>20540157

You're right, that guy got to be quarterback by accident

It certainly didn't take hundreds and hundreds of hours of training, practice, working out, getting smashed up, bitter losses, the humiliation of getting your shit wrecked in the first quarter and having absolutely no chance of winning but having to grit your teeth and lose for HOURS in front of your family and everyone you know

ngmi

Anonymous Mon Jul 20 23:03:58 2020 No.20540367

>>20539950
Lol I am reading it as we speak bro.
It’s all good
>>20539994
For me is kinda is
>>20540020
Dirty loser to you and me. For some reason they gained the women trust somehow, I am desperately looking for that, becuase they just shut me down before starting
>>20540061
>you are what you believe
Ye, until you go face the reality.
>>20540157
This..sadly..though I am gonna so the surgery and other recommendations
>>20540250
Wouldn’t care to know.
Seeing more of is like dumping salt on my bloody soul

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