Depressed

[Anonymous No.20431793]

I’m a young man, very early 20s with no college experience or friends. But I’ve figured out how to make money, so I make 12,000 a month USD. I live in one of the worst states for income tax.. and gun laws lol.

My family constantly says deflating things to me and never supports me. I just feel so alone, and like I can never do or be enough. Sometimes I’d love to just go to Texas and live for cheap, but I feel bad because my mothers neck is bad. And she’d have no one once my grandma and my step dad die, both over 72 years old.

[Anonymous No.20431832]

>>20431793
Sounds like if you continue on this path you'll accomplish nothing, site her no grandkids, then when she dies in her sadness of the life her son wanted you'll be left with nothing.

Don't do this to yourself anon. Go be a Man.

[Anonymous No.20431917]

>>20431793
72 years is not that old, high probability they will live until 90 at least if they are not fat. You have to live your own life fagget, just leave for texas, its not like you will never see your mom again.

[Anonymous No.20431926]

>>20431832
This is the real answer.

Your mom can move to you, if youre worried about her, after you establish yourself somewhere else.
Our behaviors and mindsets are intricately linked to our immediate environment. If your family isnt supportavwhere you are, go somewhere else, make a life, and thrn invite your mom to come live nearby when youre ready.

[Anonymous No.20431991]

>>20431832
It’s a very painful choice. A lot of people don’t show it, but we are sensitive at a spiritual level. Being as open as I can to you, I always wanted to be a father in a healthy family. But the tax rate here, and insane property related costs here in Jersey are really bad.

I would’ve tried to stay here, and stomach the set backs I would’ve had come my way staying here. But it’s not viable truth be told. For a multitude of reasons. And I don’t think my family respects the degree of sacrifice I’m making by abiding by a Christian idea of supporting your mother. Even though she hates God vehemently.

[Anonymous No.20432063]

>>20431793
It sounds to me like your family is toxic and probably jealous of your income. I want you to know that I support you OP, because someone needs to. If I were you, I would secretly start dumping my money into a war chest and come up with a well thought out exit plan and just go through with it. Never give up bro.

[Anonymous No.20432084]

>>20431926
I can support my mother somewhat right now regardless of taxes. Truth be told, I would love to even though she’s never stood by me. But I am committing self harm by staying here, and every time I say to myself I’ll stay here and rent in town (it would desolate my economic ability and flexibility), she and my grandmother insult everything I’ve accomplished and make light of it like I’ve done nothing. Now I’m here sitting with whiskey contemplating Texas.

[Anonymous No.20432138]

>>20432063
Thanks anon. Your words honestly brought a tear to my eye, and I want you to know that.

I have an exit strategy, I’ve built it for a year. I fixed my credit to high 670s, and I can afford an FHA loan which allows me to put a mere 3% down on lets say a duplex for 250k. I’d only need to save for a month to accomplish this huge milestone of any young adult. I’d just rent out the other side to pay for my mortgage, and consider Airbnb a room out just for the sake of an extra couple hundred. I hope people take this information to consideration as its housing that’s one of the largest expenses in the modern western world.

[Anonymous No.20432633]

>>20432138
I've though of this before. Even if you can't score a duplex, you can partition out the garage, or second floor, make a private entrance, and just rent that out. Idk if it's legal, but a small camper in the backyard could fetch $500 a month also.

[Anonymous No.20433102]

>>20432633
I’ve seen that done before. Creative project honestly I didn’t consider. Id do it honestly.

[Anonymous No.20433574]

>>20431793
>I live in one of the worst states for income tax..
well make it change
>and gun laws lol.
oh so you aren't a free man, I see, I guess you won't be able to take control of your life

>>20431832
>Go be a Man.
Based
If you need money to move out, I think DMG is undervalued rn

[Anonymous No.20433608]

>>20431793
What do u do that make 12k a month?

[Anonymous No.20434100]

>>20431793
You know what she shouldve thought of guilting you about her neck before treating you like crap.

[Anonymous No.20434113]

how do you make 12k a month

[Anonymous No.20434205]

>>20434113
sucking dicks probably. he sounds like he takes it up the batty

[Anonymous No.20434304]

>>20431793
leave your family. I made the terrible mistake of trusting my mom and buying property 50/50 with her. now I'm stuck in shitty property, can't invite anyone here, can't do shit in the next 5 years with the property I paid for (because of some legal stuff) and she makes my life miserable, as always.
leave, live your own life, have gfs and so on. don't become a miserable fuck like me, OP. run for your life and never come back.

[Anonymous No.20434470]

>>20434304
Oh god. Yeah my family refuses to let me bring a girl over. I would’ve gotten my dick sucked by two thick girls in high school if my grandma wouldn’t hawk over me whenever I came home. Or keep an ear to the door. We haven’t fought in a few days so I considered staying. But it’s a horrible decision for obvious reasons

[Anonymous No.20434635]

>>20434470
horrible is what you are doing to your own life and what she's doing to you.
seriously, don't even think about it. think about your own happiness. maybe the grass isn't always greener elsewhere, but you NEED to live YOUR life.
I myself have suffered a lot for multiple reasons, and I still keep falling for my own stupid ideas about being a good person and shit. well, I don't remember a SINGLE instance of my mom saying "thank you" to me. apparently it's true that women only care about themselves and their gigantic egos.

[Anonymous No.20434669]

>>20431793
>very early 20s
>12,000 a month
>depressed

[Anonymous No.20434771]

>>20434635
I agree with quite a lot about your post and heavily relate about it. I remember when I bought my mother lots of sushi lunches because I became well off. Well, a few days later she began raining on me saying I don’t love my dad after he was slaughtered in the city by a nigger, and she kept me from seeing him while he was in coma before he passed. That wound never healed for me.
>>20434669
Money isn’t the source of happiness. It simply makes Some things easier. For me, I’d love if my family didn’t treat me poorly as you can see above.

[Anonymous No.20434895]

>>20432084
Move anon, you owe it to yourself to be happy. If you’ve found the opportunity to get what the majority of us seek, take it and never look back.

[Anonymous No.20434976]

>>20434771

Source of income?

[Anonymous No.20435005]

>>20434771
>Money isn’t the source of happiness
Want to find out? You don't know what depression is. You're just a dumb kid.

[Anonymous No.20435172]

Just because your mum shat you out of her cunt, doesn't mean you owe her anything.

Get out of that crab bucket immediately.

[Sage retard No.20435501]

>>20434669
This