/biz/ - Business & Finance

[Anonymous No.19321543]

Proposing to my girlfriend tonight on our 1 year anniversary. Wish me luck anons

And if anyone would be so kind, what should I invest in to pay for our wedding in the next 1-2 years?

[Anonymous No.19321557]

>>19321543
ESH to get Ghost

[Anonymous No.19321569]

invest your time in /pol and dont get married

[Anonymous No.19321578]

>>19321543
Don't do it Anon.

[Anonymous No.19321615]

>>19321569
>>19321578
A year ago I would’ve agreed but somehow I met the perfect girl for me, and my life has gotten so much better since then. The whole reason I’ve been on /biz/ the last few months is to try and get a nice nest egg for us to start our life together with. Not much, just enough to pay off student and medical debts and maybe get a house if I’m lucky

[Anonymous No.19321641]

>>19321615
> somehow I met the perfect girl for me, and my life has gotten so much better since then.
This happens to all of us. But trust me for your own good, do not enter a legally binding contract with a woman. They change.

[Anonymous No.19321655]

>>19321615
If you’re not baiting, you’re going to get fucked hard anon. And not in a good way

[Anonymous No.19321668]

>>19321641
She wants to be financially independent as well, and we’ve already talked about getting a pre-nup so we don’t saddle each other with our debts. She met me and loved me when I was a broke college student (still am) so I know she loves me for me

[Anonymous No.19321681]

>>19321655
For getting married or for trusting biz?

[Anonymous No.19321685]

>>19321668
Well, maybe you are the one lucky one. Good luck to you.

[Anonymous No.19321700]

>>19321543
Wait at least 2 years before actually getting married. You're so early in relationship that everything still looks perfect and happy. Give it some time to mature before making legal agreements.

[Anonymous No.19321724]

Invest your freedom and your independence. Then see them reach all time low in a couple of years. Congrats!

[Anonymous No.19321740]

>>19321543
she’s eventually going to
cheat on you. always remember that woman are the most corruptible beings on this planet

[Anonymous No.19321775]

>>19321700
Agreed. We’re both still in school (she’s a year behind me) and want to wait until after we both graduate to tie the knot. So that’s about 1 and a half years from now anyway. I know about the honeymoon phase but we’ve both matured a lot in the last year.

The biggest obstacle so far has been overcoming my porn addiction and now that I have I don’t foresee too many major issues, but I know that’s a little naive

[Anonymous No.19321793]

>>19321543
interacial cuckold porn. May as wll develop a taste for it now desu

[Anonymous No.19321807]

If she is good she wouldn't want an expensive ring or wedding.

[Anonymous No.19321817]

>>19321681
For getting married dummy. The majority of the anons itt are telling you NOT to get married

[Anonymous No.19321861]

>>19321793
Honestly it was so dark I didn’t even notice the guy was black lol

[Anonymous No.19321889]

>>19321817
Honestly I don’t know what else I expected but I like this community for the most part and wanted to ask.

What’s the alternative, break up with the love of my life? Or just string her along until she leaves me first? I don’t like either of those options

[Anonymous No.19321903]

I met the "perfect" girl
3 years later she talks to me like shit and isn't behaving so "perfect" anymore

Never show girls your weaknesses. Always be happy and confident. Never complain about life or your job.

[Anonymous No.19321917]

>>19321543

[Anonymous No.19321919]

>>19321615
>Anon found himself a female and is happy again
Well congratulations and fuck you

[Anonymous No.19322043]

>>19321889
There’s no way for me to get this across to you without sounding like a faggot so I’m just going to dive in: you’re not sufficiently redpilled on women anon. Your view of your relationship and her view of your relationship are probably as contrasted as it can possibly get. You’ve placed a lot of love and potential into this woman, but she only sees you as a source of temporary security, amongst other things. If she sees an opportunity to benefit from royally screwing you over, she won’t hesitate to take it. Strongly reconsider tying the knot before you get property and kids involved

[Anonymous No.19322058]

>>19321543
Dude you have known her for a year, good luck with that aye.

[Anonymous No.19322101]

>>19321889
Have you considered that she might just be your girlfriend for as long as it lasts if she loves you? Why marry? It will end one way or the other.

[Anonymous No.19322135]

>>19321543
FLETA/XTZ

[Anonymous No.19322170]

>>19322043
Before I met her I was a full on based and redpilled wignat (but optical). I was just looking for a nice Christian White woman to have my kids and settle down with, without being too comfortable. I have spent the last three years in various “alt-right” circles via twitter, YouTube, here, and discord. Trust me, I’ve seen and heard it all before.

Either I got extremely lucky and found the one girl made for me, which being a Christian I do believe in soulmates, OR I got brainwashed by having a woman finally show me affection. If it’s the latter I accept the consequences.

And one more thing, it might be too personal but we are both waiting until marriage to give our virginity to each other. She’s Catholic, I’m Protestant but going to take classes. I don’t care if saving myself makes me a cuck but it’s one of the main reasons I trust that she isn’t as bad as most modern women.

[Anonymous No.19322186]

>>19322135
Will look into these, thank you anon

[Anonymous No.19322205]

>>19322170
>If it’s the latter I accept the consequences
Then that negates everything we’ve been trying to tell you itt anon. If you’re hellbent on marrying a girl you’ve only known for a year solely because she’s a Catholic virgin, you’re unironically going to make the biggest mistake of your life

[Anonymous No.19322244]

Why not propose on your 2nd year anniversary?

[DetectiveAnon !!xywCWEmZbu8 No.19322264]

>>19321543
What is the point in this? Just shag random girls in rotation like I do. You've been together for a whole year and you're still both uncertain about what you want.

[Anonymous No.19322275]

>>19322244
Because we’re both young and want to start a family as soon as possible. Yes we’re waiting for the actual ceremony but we want to be engaged and enjoy that for a while too. We both fully believe we’re the one for each other so it makes sense to us right now.

Plus she kind of already knows because I’m horrible at keeping secrets and have been planning on doing it today for months

[Anonymous No.19322287]

>>19322264
Can’t shag random girls if you’re waiting until marriage to have sex. If I wasn’t Christian I might’ve tried that instead

[Anonymous No.19322288]

>>19321700
>Wait at least 2 years before actually getting married. You're so early in relationship that everything still looks perfect and happy.
Don't listen to this.
>>19321543
Put a baby into her ASAP and keep her pregnant. That way she is too preoccupied with kids to cheat.

[Anonymous No.19322310]

>>19322288
Luckily we both want about 7 kids so as soon as we’re married that’s the plan!

[Anonymous No.19322348]

>>19322287
>>19322310
If not larp, Im jealous.

1 year is fast to propose, some may say stupid. But if it works out, have a happy life anon

[Anonymous No.19322356]

>>19322288
You sound like a virgin/incel. Anyone who's been in a relationship knows that the first year is mostly the "honeymoon phase" of the relationship. The cracks begin to show right after and then you come to realize who you're actually dating. At least if you don't like who she actually is you can break up but in this case OP's dumbass will have to get a divorce. Also women don't care if they have children with you, if they want to cheat they will regardless. Stop encouraging men to marry the first chick who let them fuck more than once. 1 year is not enough time to really be sure if your partner would be a good spouse.

[Anonymous No.19322361]

>>19321641
>This happens to all of us. But trust me for your own good, do not enter a legally binding contract with a woman. They change.
this if you are gonna go through with it at least have an iron clad contract that you keep your assets and no lawyer can fuck you around on

[Anonymous No.19322365]

>>19322275
Best of luck anon. How did you two meet?

[Anonymous No.19322383]

>>19321543
The girl I live with gave me a ring years ago. I just said cool thanks for the gold and that was that. Still fucking her 4 years later.

Your not gonna make it

[Anonymous No.19322391]

>>19321775
>The biggest obstacle so far has been overcoming my porn addiction and now that I have I don’t foresee too many major issues, but I know that’s a little naive
Overcoming lust is the number one thing that will make you a sucesful human being. I hope you succeed work your relationship and I wish I would meet someone too

[Anonymous No.19322395]

>>19322348
I promise I’m not larping. I know it sounds too good to be true, that’s why I’m still having trouble believing it myself.

Thank you for your well wishes, I hope and am sure we will make it together :)

>>19322356
We’ve already had our fair share of speed bumps, mostly overcoming my porn addiction and learning to stop lying about small things and keeping secrets. But she helped me overcome all of that, and she’s made me a better person because of it. I owe her everything. And we haven’t even had sex yet to boot! Yes I’m excited for it, and she is too, but we’re staying strong and waiting until marriage.

[Anonymous No.19322413]

>>19322365
You’d never believe me, but a dating app. Won’t say which one, but it was her second day on the app, and I had just casually used it for years not really expecting much. We talked over the phone for a month before meeting in person because of finals, but once we did it was pretty much love at first sight

[Anonymous No.19322415]

>>19322395
kek, you poor boy. I can smell how delusional and naive you are

[Anonymous No.19322421]

>>19322391
I’m sure you will anon. If a fat nerd like me can do it anybody can. Are you Christian?

[Anonymous No.19322431]

>>19321543
Also these guys are all shills anon

Just hold Ethereum and Moderna stock (sell the moderna shortly before they release the vaccine)

[Anonymous No.19322440]

>>19322415
It very well might be rose colored glasses but check my post about being “alt-right” (I hate that term)

I was raised on the internet and have been an incel all my life. I know it might seem like I did a 180 but she’s honestly the best thing to ever happen to me. I love her with all of my heart! And if that makes me delusional and naive then fine, I’ll enjoy it while it lasts

[Anonymous No.19322442]

>>19322421
Christ cuck lol

She better be paying half the rent. I would have kicked mine out years ago if she missed rent.

[Anonymous No.19322447]

>>19322431
Will look into moderna, thank you!

[Anonymous No.19322462]

>>19322447
Gates Foundation covid-19 vaccine it will pump hard

[Anonymous No.19322471]

>>19321543
>>19322395
Stop letting your emotions control your mind you know this isn't a smart decision. Have you guys lived together for a while at least? If you haven't you're a fucking idiot for trying to marry her before that. Maybe this is a LARP but it if this is real you're rushing the marriage in order to get laid and you know it. Like I said in my other post the first year of a relationship is mostly dumb,and delusional love that will end eventually. This is why most people's relationship end within the first 1-2 years because you wake up from your delusions and see who the person actually is.

You're going to ask us on what investments to make in order pay child support/alimony in a few years if you do this OP. What's the rush for getting married anyways? Just fuck her now and forget the marriage shit until later. If she really loves you she won't leave you because you aren't into marrying within the first year of dating unless she's fucked in the head.

[Anonymous No.19322494]

>>19322471
This isn't a larp anon I have been there.

You eventually learn to love money not fake disney jew memes like love.

[Anonymous No.19322522]

>>19322356
>You sound like a virgin/incel.
No u.
>>19322310
>Luckily we both want about 7 kids so as soon as we’re married that’s the plan!
Congrats OP and God bless.

[Anonymous No.19322539]

>>19322421
I became Christian a few years ago; not being a wanker is very important; although I still struggle I think I got it; I had girlfriends and sex before I became Christian; now though I'm ready to really have a good relationship but trouble meeting ; been single for 4 years now; deleted all my social media too and dating apps; hope covid mania doesn't steal my gf

[Anonymous No.19322541]

>>19322442
Sorry, m8, probably same as >>19322431
a total fucking larping bloodsucker.

[Anonymous No.19322568]

this thread is either horrendous bluepill experience or excellent bait

if not bait i wish all that is to come to OP

[Anonymous No.19322570]

>>19322541
lmao, it is the same, thought ids were different

[Anonymous No.19322586]

>>19322383
She proposed?

[Anonymous No.19322600]

>>19322586
It is ALWAYS the woman who chooses the man. Always.

[Anonymous No.19322604]

>>19322539
Hang in there and be strong, you'll be rewarded for it

[Anonymous No.19322621]

>>19322568
A long and happy marriage and a huge happy family? Thank you anon!

[Anonymous No.19322636]

>>19322600
Yeah I agree but I was asking if she proposed first

[Anonymous No.19322651]

>>19322539
You became Christian a few years ago and didn't go to church every weekend to land a trad wife? I don't see the point in bothering with social media and dating apps when church is the best and easiest way to meet women.

[Anonymous No.19322662]

>>19321543
good luck anon

[Anonymous No.19322710]

Have a religious ceremony only. Avoid common law states or get a cohabitation agreement:

https://family.findlaw.com/marriage/common-law-marriages-faq-s-what-states-recognize-common-law.html#type-state-recognize

If you must marry (e.g. foreign spouse) then get an airtight prenup:

1. She has her own lawyer
2. Reviewed for 1+ weeks
3. Signed 2+ weeks before ceremony
4. One-time payout (e.g. $10k) to avoid any chance of a judge tossing it and awarding alimony

[Anonymous No.19323117]

>>19321543
Have you read this book ?

[Anonymous No.19323151]

>>19323117
I have not. TL;DR?

[Anonymous No.19323195]

>>19321543
Good luck OP

[Anonymous No.19323240]

>>19321543
Good luck, bro.
You'll need it.
This has the potential to be the worst financial decision of your life. And you know it.

[Anonymous No.19323307]

>>19321543
>And if anyone would be so kind, what should I invest in to pay for our wedding in the next 1-2 years?

Good job on getting 50 replies (-your comments)
but this is bait for attention

if this is not bait, you clearly don't care about shitcoins (nobody unironically asks for advice here, you claim you've been here for a while so doubly so for you) and just want to share your story. Why would you want to share your story on biz? Your subconscious is uncertain and wants feedback.
The feedback is - don't marry you fucking idiot.

[Anonymous No.19323374]

What do you mean? Flash Gordon approaching? Dispatch war rocket Ajax to bring back his body.

[Anonymous No.19323387]

>>19323374
holy based

[Anonymous No.19323504]

>>19323151
The best advice you will ever get and also the source of your biggest regret.
There are few books I managed to read entirely but this was one of them.

[Anonymous No.19323687]

>>19321615
You are fucked. What is it exactly that you believe in? Is this your first serious relationship?

[Anonymous No.19323705]

>>19321668
Ohnooo.
He believes too strongly to think.

[Anonymous No.19323715]

What the fuck has all this to do with biz? Is marrying a fucking "biz" to you?

[Anonymous No.19323716]

>>19322275
best of luck. Dont listen to these faggots, you seem to have found a rare gem.
Also read Illimitable Man blog, bit of Chateau Heartiste (16 commandments) and The Rational Male.
Alsp 48 Laws of Power.

[Anonymous No.19323760]

>>19323716
Nevertheless, I have to agree to wait at least another half year before proposing, 1 yr is too early imho.

[Anonymous No.19324057]

>>19323715
A marriage is a business contract.
Thus it is /biz/ related !

[Anonymous No.19324067]

>>19321543
>what should I invest in to pay for our wedding in the next 1-2 years?
ARPA
Multiparty computation coins are going to be fucking huuuuuuuuuge

[Anonymous No.19324151]

>>19321615
>My girl is not like the others
Every single fucking time.
Why not just be partners and co-inhabit? If you are not trolling, then I seriously recommend a prenup, and do it properly and professionally with each of you getting a lawyer and signing it in front of both lawyers.

As for investing, I got nothing, things are going to be turbulent for a while so paying off debt like you mentioned (please tell me it's not all her debt) is the best you can do.

[Anonymous No.19324331]

>>19322170
>wignat
Wigger national? Get fucked.

[Anonymous No.19324355]

>>19322395
>porn addiction
Lol, loser.

[Anonymous No.19324479]

>>19322413
kek, this is good b8 keep it going. went from “traditional catholic and 7 kids” to “dating app” lmao

[Anonymous No.19324500]

>>19321543
If she really loves you you wouldn't ask her to involve goverment in your relationship to make it harder to seperate.