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What a sad world man.

>> No.19123272

i remember seeing the original picture with the guy with long hair exactly like this long ago and then i became him

>> No.19123287

>>19123263
it doesnt get any better. im almost 30 and not any closer to making it than when i was 20

>> No.19123507

>>19123287
this

>> No.19123548

I turned 20 this week too. Lost all my friends, literally haven't had a conversation for longer than 1 min since high school.

>> No.19123569

>>19123263
>>19123548
do you guys wanna chat on discord or something?

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>>19123263
not feeling it anymore bros

>> No.19123603

>>19123263
Don't man I turn 20 next month. How the fuck did that happen?

>> No.19123614

>>19123591
just

>> No.19123633

>>19123591
:(

>> No.19123649

it doesnt get better

>> No.19123660

>>19123591
Well, at least his dad cares about him. that's more than a lot of people can say.

>> No.19123676

>>19123507
>>19123649
yeah it doesn't get better but the you at least develop coping strategies the older you get. thats why lots of old people gamble, drink, fix cars, bike, smoke. just any hobby

>> No.19123738

>>19123591
I feel that. Every day I'm neeting, the more autistic/more scared of talking to people I get. Literally had a nice dude in my class try to be my friend. End up being too autistic replying to a fucking text. Its over bros, we are doomed in our own negative feedback loops.

>> No.19123779

Welder. Plumer. Electrician. Pick one, doesn't matter. Live below your means and listen to some Dave Ramsey to escape poverty. Take some red pills, listen to the wisdom mgtow has to offer but whether or not you want to actually be a practicing mgtow is up to you. Gold and silver is the only real money in this world, cryptocurrencies are still in their infancy.

>> No.19123806

Also I'd like to add, security gaurd to the mix. Its a no brainer job.

>> No.19124014

autistic faggot here, it actually gets better once your personality is more or less solidified and you don't have to worry about impressions anymore
seriously just stop giving a fuck and everything will fall into place

>> No.19124094

>>19123263
20 years old is literally the starting line.

>> No.19124149

>>19123591
at least he didn't grow up to be a degenerate tranny

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>>19123738
Try thinking of people as fellow /biz/ posters. I send memes I find on biz to normies and they love it. Attach a message to it like you would on 4channel. That unironically has helped me.

>> No.19124184

>>19123263
A tip from future you, don't spend the next 7 years on 4chan

>> No.19124186

>>19123548
why? just drink alcohol and you will get frens. even if you are the most socially awkward person ever

>> No.19124261
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You guys just turned 20 and are already giving up?

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>>19123263
Go do something about it then.

>> No.19124315

OP, abandon 4chan. “You’re here forever” doesn’t have to mean (You). I never thought it meant me...

>> No.19124335

>>19124261
You’re a boomer when you turn 20 aka loser.

I felt the same when I turnt 20 last year anon, and I feel even worse turning 21 this weekend. I hate getting old.

>> No.19124348

>>19124335
>21
>old
You fucks are so delusional and out of touch with reality

>> No.19124349

>>19123738
> Every day I'm neeting, the more autistic/more scared of talking to people I get.
Couldn't have said it better myself.

>> No.19124374

>>19123676
>implying you shouldn't have a hobby if you're stacking paper

>> No.19124375

>>19124348
Whatever you say boomer.

>> No.19124377

>>19123263
Jesus christ fucking do something. You need to do something or you'll never make it. Fucking learn a skill that is useful and people will pay for. You dont have to enjoy it, just dont hate it. You can use the money to invest in what you do enjoy

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>>19123263
stay away from 4chan for the next 6 years, go do some hobbies and learn marketable skills, develop a small social group and get paid, it's that simple, if you don't follow my advice your mother will die in her sleep tonight

protip: read How to Win Friends and Influence People

>> No.19124409

>>19124315
>abandon 4chan
this desu
it's not even like this place is good anymore, the memes are lazy, everyone rushes to say the same shit at the beginning of a thread to get (you)s, conversations have stagnated because of phone posting and people abandoning here for discord
I still come here out of habit but it's only for an hour or two a week compared to the 2-4 hours a day I spent on here 10 years ago
4chan feels like crabs in a bucket, nobody wants to help out and lift each other up anymore. Everything feels like a smokescreen and everyone seems jaded. The creativity is gone

>> No.19124412

>>19124375
Get back to lebbit turbofag

>> No.19124476

Dude making friends is a waste of time LITERALLY

This is coming from someone who has people constantly nagging them to talk to him.

In the end your friends don't fucking matter - I only talk to people if I need something from them. Real friends are ones that benefit you in some way.

Stop hunting for friends and just let them come to you if you really want some. Don't waste your time and be the one hunting from something like that

>>19124397
>>19123591

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>>19124335
fren, I'm 26 and even though I haven't finacially make it yet, I'm not giving up yet. Sometimes I feel really tired but never old.

>> No.19124618

>>19124480
You’re coping boomer

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>>19123263
Invest in SUTER, ESH, Idena (DNA), and VRA, you fucking idiot. Get decent poorfag gains with one, and then use some of your gains toward one of the others. Easy money. Start with ESH before the 25th. You can make it

>> No.19124663

>>19123263
Wow you're still a baby. Buy some ETH / XTZ / LOKI and go live your life until you're 25.

>> No.19124665

>>19123263
Happy birthday anon
What exactly is "making it" to you? Is it wealth? Friends? Roasties?

>> No.19124727

>>19124480
>Sometimes I feel really tired but never old.
that tired feeling IS feeling old. 40-80 year olds say the game i don't feel old just tired

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I feel like I'm making leaps and bounds physically but I feel like I'm making no progress creatively.
I want to learn how to play more instruments, write music and draw/animate, but I'm suffering from a combination of lack of drive and huge problems with staying focused and completing a task.
Fuck maybe I need to go to a shrink and get put on modafinil or something

>> No.19125146

>>19124730
or coke

>> No.19125245

>>19125146
At that point I could just take adderall instead and have relatively not as bad side effects

>> No.19125294

>>19123272
Same. Don't get too hung up on it. A lot of people don't even have someone who would get them a cake.

>> No.19125606

>>19123263
Happy birthday kiddo.
Remember this your adult life hasn't even begun yet. You've been a kid until today, today you start your journey into adulthood and better yet into manhood. Be easy on yourself but at the same time hold yourself to a standard of how you want to live and who you want to be. Your already ahead of the game by being on /biz/ so young. If you can filter the bullshit to find the gems 4chan can help you become the best version of yourself just stay away from /b/ and /pol/ or else you'll become a poor angry homosexual. Start investing your money, work out, learn a trade or skill that can earn you money now because you can always go to school but you can't always start a new career. Remember that if your not a weirdo some people will help you achieve your goals if they see yiu actually working to achieve them yourself. So take this advace or leave it 1. Make short term goals and long term goals then work to achieve them 2. Take good advice and disregard poor advice 3. DO NOT DO DRUGS no opiates or uppers ever 4. Have a purpose and stay firm of purpose 5. Do what makes you happy as much as possible but don't think your always going to be happy, sometimes you have to sacrifice, be tough and prudent.

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>>19125606
>stay away from /pol/
Ngmi

>> No.19125711

>>19123263
eh
>20, had gf, was miserable, zero friends, wanted to drop out of college, timid and quiet
>23, single, about to graduate, have supportive friend group, doing better than ever

it's all up to you to change your personality and then push through the tough times.

>> No.19126028

>>19124397
>stay away from 4chan
This. However, I just simply didn't had the time for it when I was recuperating 5-6 years ago instead of actively avoiding it.

My somewhat autistic demeanor became not a hindrance but more of a double edged sword. As long as you're not intentionally trying to fuck over people, they won't see your autism in a bad way.

What you really need to do is build skills or experience as early as possible, not in what you're interested in but what you're good at. It'll then be your key to finding a job.

Don't sweat it about your friends in college, almost everyone finds a new one. Don't chase people for relationships, interact with people but expect too much, good relationships will naturally occur. This goes to finding a gf.

When I was on my last year of college I made myself deadline that if I haven't changed my situation by the time I'm 25, I have to kill myself. Now, I'm a 28 with a gf and a comfy job. My next goal by 30 is to be financially independent, COVID might screw my plan but in every disaster there's opportunity.

/blog

>> No.19126051

>>19126028
>but expect too much,
but don't expect too much

>> No.19126116

Jesus christ you're 20 years old get a grip and just work every day, you're still a kid. If you study the fuck out of finance right now you'll look back when you're as old as me (28) and think, "Hey I got in early!". I spent my time getting not 1 but 2 shitty stem degrees so I can make 30 dollars an hour wagecucking like a retard, now I'm studying finance (as in pirated textbooks off of the internet) trying to get the fuck out, if everything goes well I'll probably be able to quit my job at 32 years old. AND THATS STILL YOUNG DESU. Work hard and direct your work, youre not evaluating your position properly.

>> No.19126157

>>19123263
I'm about to turn 31 and I just graduated with an associates degree yesterday after failing out of college four separate times since I was 18.

>> No.19126177

>>19126116
No you’re not, just because you started late doesn’t mean it isn’t already late at 20. Sure you can maybe achieve some mediocre middle class success, but you won’t be a super star in the world.

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>>19124476
Absolutely and undoubtedly this. I'm pushing 30 and took the lone wolf pill when I was 22 after an ex-gf dumped me, was down in the dumps, and realized that my so called "friends" didn't give a fuck about me. After some moping around I came to the realization that maneuvering through life has less resistance and is more efficiently done when it's just you you're looking out for. Be friendly with people at work or school but stop actively looking for friends. You're simply looking for validation that should come from nowhere else but within. We were meant to live in solitude but the hyper connectivity we have makes it impossible to see this and the moment people realize that it's a lonely world, they start to freak the fuck out. All of you doomers and zoomers need to get this through your thick skulls.

>> No.19126185

>>19126157
congrats!

>> No.19126190

>>19123263
I was directionless at 20 as well. 24 now and things are looking up. Just keep learning from your mistakes and don’t be afraid to hit the reset button if things aren’t working out.

>> No.19126198

>>19126028
>>19126051
Based and truth pilled.

>> No.19126223

>>19126177
While you've obviously set up some random arbitrary bar to be contrarian to my post I'll succumb to refute on your gay ass terms - being 20 is actually 3 years older than 17 when you finish school. What you just retire 3 years later than one of your peers. Same shit.

>> No.19126247

>>19126223
>3 years
3 years of your prime. You are most definitely an adult once you hit 20 and no bullshitting will change that. Honestly, you’re an adult when you hit 16 and better be on track to make it by then.

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>>19126185
thx fren
I had recurring nightmares for years about being a middle aged man trapped in high school.

>> No.19126272

>>19126247
You're fucking 21 and still a kid. Shut the fuck up. You don't know shit. You have no idea what life has in store for you yet. When I was your age I thought I knew it all and was invincible. Life is about to humble the fuck out of you. Have less opinions and simply watch/listen and learn.

>> No.19126288

>>19124476
what a sad post, i hope things get better for you, sincerely

>> No.19126294

>>19126247
You're talking in all these bullshit pessimistic axioms I can't even have a conversation with you, good luck with everything though, seriously I only want whats best for everyone.

>> No.19126330

>>19126182
It's not for everyone but /lonewolves/ can live a pretty sweet life. I have some friends but they have to respect my distance and I respect them a lot for putting up with that in turn. When I want to talk to someone, I have someone to talk to. Otherwise I validate myself by setting my own goals and tracking my own achievements. It's been real nice.

>> No.19126332

>>19126272
>>19126294
Sorry frens. I’m just not happy where I am in life and blowing steam because I have no one I feel like I can talk to. Thanks for telling me to stop being a shithead.

>> No.19126445

>>19126294
>>19126272
Do you guys have any advice how to find mentor? I know you don’t just ring someone up and ask them to be your mentor and what you really need to do is set yourself up for the opportunity to develop a relationship like that, but I don’t know how to. The only “older males” I’ve ever had for guidance is 4chan and crappy 200 year old or 2,000 year old books. I think that’s messing me up and I want to find route out.

>> No.19126719

>>19126116
As much as I want to promote financial independence, having a job isn't purely for financial gain. It helps you build character and leads to relationships. While, he might still have his parents supporting him, he must learn to navigate shit on his own before that support disappears.

>> No.19126807

>>19124186
To anyone wondering. This isnt true. This man is trying to murder you

The only drug that helps you make friends is weed and it wont really help much and it will turn your lungs coal black

>> No.19126907

>>19123548
im 23. same as you bro

>> No.19126921

>>19123263
Jesus, your training wheels just came off a couple years ago when you graduated high school.

I had no idea what I was doing when I got out of high school. I threw a dart at the board for a stem degree, spent 6 years getting my BS. Spent two years after college graduation searching for a job in my degree. I'm 34 and still fumbling around. I hang around a fraction of the people I did in high school and college. This is making it, it's not perfect but you get better and more seasoned each year, lean into it.

>> No.19126925

>>19123548
Why does this happen? I was pretty tight with a group of guys in high school and then it fell apart when we went to university? They have my number and if we do talk I'm the one initiating the conversation which is stupid because they also have my number

Also 23.

>> No.19126984

>>19123263
post height, weight, amount of girls you fucked and GPA, I will tell you if you make it in this life

>> No.19127066

>>19126925
Because everyone finds their own path in life. They may like hanging with you when you're around but you aren't part of their day to day, they have new goals and responsibilities, along with a new clique of people they have to build relationships within those activities. You will find your own goals and responsibilities that will bring new people into your day to day life.

Nostalgia is a bitch.

>> No.19127282

>>19126445
Sign up to a bunch of brokers with demo accounts and do their webinars, see which are bullshit and which aren't. Make a bunch of trades with your demo account, stare at charts etc.

Blaming books is retard tier.

Find a book on technical analysis (TA explained by pring is good)
Find a book on fundamental analysis
Find a book on asset allocation
Read ludwig von mises human action.

Read as many fucking books as I can, hell I was in uni for 6 years and I can tell you books really help.

Find a job where you can get paid ok and listen to audiobooks all day (working for me personally).

>> No.19127302

Lol. Your 20. You are basically a baby whining tbhat your life is over. Come back at 40 with this attitude then you can talk

>> No.19127584

>>19126807
Maybe don't smoke 2 blunts a day and your lungs wont turn black?

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>>19123263
Buy SHRM

Consume SHRM

>> No.19127868

>>19124186
Bad advice. Alcohol made me such an asshole that i lost a lost a lot of my contacts by beeing obnoxioud to them. Turning 27 soon and only got like 3 friends and havent had pussy since 2 years

>> No.19127926

>>19123287
I‘m 25 and actually much further away from it than 5 years ago. This is hell

>> No.19127928

>>19124184
Were trapped here remember

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literally me

>> No.19127972

>>19126984
5 10
145
0
3.9

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>>19123263
that guy mogs me facially tbqh. I look like leafy fucking hapa genetics. Guy in OP's pic has more of a chance making it than me

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>>19123272
this one?

>> No.19129325

>>19124476
2edgy4me

>> No.19129331

>>19129218
This picture isn't sad because there are no frens at his party. This picture is sad because this instance occurred in the first place. If you are older than 15 and somebody is lighting a birthday candle on a cake for you then you need to politely but firmly tell that nigger to square up.

>> No.19129346

>>19129218
Dude Dan Bilzarian has such a better life than this guy

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>>19123779
>work goy job
>be an incel and never reproduce
>buy high, sell low
Nice try Rabbi kys

>> No.19129492

>>19129331
This. I turned 21 and I’m living with my parents during rona and my mom made me a carrot cake and it was fucking awesome.
I hugged her, smiled and said thanks and we had a slice together. It was a nice birthday.

>> No.19129597

>>19126182
We are not made for solitude, we are made to live in a tribe, living in a society with millions makes me lonely

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>>19123263
For starters:

Anon, get in a position where you can save money and STAY OUT OF DEBT.

Do not expect anyone to help you (ever)!

Do not do what poor people do!

Proverbs 3:5-6 English Standard Version
Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make straight your paths.

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If your mother took the time to make that cake, get the candles, light them for you, then watch you enjoy it: you are BLESSED by GOD!

>> No.19130175

>>19129492
I turned 21 on some dirty texas rail toad tracks.

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>20 year olds acting like they are too old to make it

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The world is a swamp, be careful and smart!!!!!!

And:

Proverbs 3:5-6 English Standard Version (ESV)
Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make straight your paths.

>> No.19130304

>>19123263
>I just turned 20
>life is over
Kill yourself for thinking like this, you’re not supposed to make it right now and if you do you are incredibly lucky

>> No.19131241

>>19124014
This

Try things that challenge you and push you to grow as a person and that’ll give you loads of confidence.

>> No.19131316

>>19123649
unless youre pretty

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I fucked up high school really bad and opted for cc over my shitty state school. Now I’m transferring to a t30 in the fall with a full ride for CS.
No friends. I work a shitty job just to stack ETH, but I lost a lot from the 50% drop since I leverage. Right now I’m barely break even with a 200 stack. 20 in a couple weeks

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>>19129352

>don't be productive, goy
>work in the service industry goy

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>>19130238
Im 26 and I feel like i can still make it who am i kidding

>> No.19131946

I'm 30 and didn't really start making it until recently. Have a girl who I started dating just before lockdown and have a pretty good paying job that is letting me work from home. I'm even exercising and have lost a lot of weight.

It's not going to happen unless you take drastic action. Sit and wallow in self pity or choose to make changes.

>> No.19132167

>>19131946
/thread

Low achievers and pessimists do not realise that you can reap enormous benefits through marginal action each day.

It starts with having the self-esteem and self-respect to live in a clean environment and practice good personal hygiene. Then it expands into many other areas of life. The basics that are constantly overlooked as memes by those who do not follow them consistently:

- 8 hours of sleep
- A diet with enough calories to meet your TDEE, an appropriate macro split (carbs for energy, protein for re-generation and fat for hormone production) and essential vitamin supplementation such as Vitamin D, Magnesium Glycinate and Zinc Picolinate
- Vigorous exercise 5x a week for 45 minutes - 1 hour, most preferably a combination of HIIT cardio (skipping, cycling) and weight lifting

You begin to self-actualise then you can start to get a regular stylish haircut, dress well and each day you will get stronger mentally and physically

Fuck all you pessimist cunts, buy Chainlink too

>> No.19132172

>>19127282
what's a good place to find audiobooks anon?

>> No.19132228

>>19123263
>not gonna make it
because you are an idiot. Here, I'll lay out a winning strategy for you:
>go to community college
>transfer to a local state university
>get a stem degree preferably
>join Israel's army (aka the us military) and enlist in the airforce.
>go in at a higher rank and higher pay
>land stem job related to your degree and save, save, save whatever you get paid.
>get experience, as much as you can. >Open usaa account, trust me.
>either retire from the military or get out early
>pay off any student depts with what you saved
>enjoy x10 pay in the private sector or as a military contractor
you could also enlist first and go to university later so they pay for it. your choice. Just don't be a fat fuck and get off the couch

>> No.19132256

>>19132167
>calories
lel just go carnivore bro and be a real alpha chad

>> No.19132279

>>19132256
Retard.

You need to meet TDEE and have an appropriate macro split regardless of what food you eat.

I agree re: eating non-processed food

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>>19132228
Imagine lighting 6 years of your life on fire just for free college. Fuck off boomer, I got free college, but i also developed alcoholism and a strong distrust for authority figures.

>> No.19132308

>>19123287
becuase the system is rigged to keep you around just incase your needed to do some menial job.

Most people are sort of living storage for the exisitng and vested interests.

Only revolution can change this, and you die or become the new vested interest, while the next revolution grows.

>> No.19132320

>>19132291
What branch did you join?
>armgoys
>memerines
if you joined any of those two branches its your fault. The navy is meh

>> No.19132340

>>19123591
your father failed you

Fathers should encourage sons to have GF from about 7~8 years old onwards, as many as possible. It gets them used to the idea and lots of expereience with girls. This is very common at the my kids school and most of the boys have had multiple gf's already.

At that age it doesn't really mean anything, but in their mind it is important.

>> No.19132356

>>19132340
see its like reading, maths whatever you dont just magically get gud at 18 or 16, it takes years of practice for 99% of the population.

>> No.19132366

>>19132279
Follow your instinct's eat the primal diet. Raw meat, raw eggs, ect Only thing that has helped my anxiety without having to resort to drugs. Feeling more normal every week. Natural diet is the way forward for people like us. It's the only way we can gain an advantage over slave food eating normies. People are attracted to healthy people. And repulsed by junk food eating, dopamine abusing, piss bottle using 20 something year old children. Don't try to be like everyone.

>> No.19132401

Don't be a faggit everyone knows 30 is the makeit age

Sauce: me, 33. Madeit at 30. Got rid of my fagit problems and became rich chad

Imo if u no makeit by 40 u ded

>> No.19132408

>>19123263
just kill yourself now trust me.

>> No.19132426

>>19132366

Kek, raw meat

>> No.19132605

Hey man if your wanting to make frens and get a somewhat respectable career join either the airforce as active duty or guard basic is a bitch but the rest is easy if you go med or tech

>> No.19132653

>>19132228
Nah bro if you got education you got to go officer the grass is a hell of a lot greener over there

>> No.19132680

>>19132320
Facts army and marines are weponized autism.

>> No.19132698

>>19132680
Why is chairforce the best?

>> No.19132711

>>19132698
>chairforce
you answered your own question. If you want to advance careerwise there is no better choice than the air force.

>> No.19132736

>>19132711
Why is sitting around all day going to help my career? People in the army and marines barely die anyways

>> No.19132820

>>19123738
I was like that a few years ago. You just have to start with baby steps and work your way up. I was scared to even talk to cashiers at stores back then. Now I'm married, graduated college, and have a great job where I talk to CFOs/upper management of a huge company with confidence everyday.
There's nothing wrong with you man, you've just fallen out of practice. Think of it like building muscle, you start small and build up over time.

>> No.19132861

>>19132736
Whole diferent atitude in the chair force army and marines will take anyone and for the most part do shit jobs if you wanna sit on your ass and fix high dollar electrical aircraft systems you join airforce and work at boieng.

>> No.19132864

>>19123263
also turning 20 in 3 months. Neet. No sign of going anywhere. Already bought the gun.

>> No.19132868

38, got a job which enables me to invest a couple thousands a month. No friends, no gf, ngmi

>> No.19132883

>>19132172
Liberty online has human action by mises
Librevox has wealth of nations by adam smith
Librevox has an enquiry concerning human understanding
Librevox has Leviathan by hobbes
Librevox has the alchemy of finance by george soros
Consequences of the peace by Keynes
All on youtube btw.

This professor uploads all his undergrad philosophy videos https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYSW6ZTG8orrna1zJdl5wTQhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYSW6ZTG8orrna1zJdl5wTQ

I think i'll sign up to a free trail with audible just so I can get Keynes general theory which i can't find anywhere else.

It takes a whole lot of coffee to be able to do your job and listen to philosophy at the same time but when you're I'm in the zone I feel like my wagecucking isn't going down the drain. I mean I work as a professional so I'm not what others might considered a wagecuck but I still would rather just get into finance and be my own boss.


Every night do the textbooks which you can also find online, like Balanced Asset Allocation, etc. because you have to look at figures and do maths to test what you learn, you can't just listen to these. I'm currently doing that with Prings "Technical Analysis Explained", I made a thread backtesting his methods a few days ago maybe you seen it. Academia has a bunch of free books it shouldn't have.

I learned this work ethic from doing post-grad degree, I also learned that a lot of what they do at uni is "go read this book, ok that'll be 9000 dollars thanks". I'm confident I can get an economics and trading education by my own accord.

>> No.19132900

>>19132736
Clearly you are army/marine material

>> No.19132918

Alright, so I'm probably better off than many here, but I understand this feeling rn. I'm soon to be 21. Started studying psychology, but now realised that it's probably not the right thing for me. After school I worked shitty Jobs for 2 years, but didn't manage to save much. I have 1000 dollars in the bank, but absolutely no idea what i should do now and I don't want to put time into a degree I don't really want to pursue. Mainly started it as a reason to move out of my town, as I'm riddled with depression and thought it would help and give me purpose. I'm good with words in my native language, but don't really know what to make of it. Would appreciate any ideas.

>> No.19132925

>>19132883
If you're looking for a suggested order on audiobook education I'd go:
Hobbes, Hume, Adam Smith, Engels, Marx, Keynes, Ludwig von Mises, to whatever quack wrote that book on MMT. I think its important to study Marx and Keynes and all those guys you do not agree with.

>> No.19132933

>>19124665
freedom

>> No.19132953

>>19132918
Do you speak spanish?

>> No.19133024

>>19132900
I’m not a retard though

>> No.19133032

>>19123263
Hey man I just turned 20 today, looks like you’ve got me beat by a day. Everything will be alright just keep making gains in every category.

>> No.19133038

>>19132953
Not really

>> No.19133073

>>19124476
I’ve been on the Chan for almost 10 years now, and this is the saddest thing I’ve ever read. I’m truly sorry you’ve never had a real friend. Hopefully you can meet someone special one day and change your worldview.

>> No.19133074

>>19133038
I figured if you spoke Spanish you could be a good canidate for the border Patrol coupling that with your degree and you could make about 70k as a fed boi

>> No.19133102

>>19133074
>>19132918
Sorry, didn't mention im a eurofag, still thanks for the tip

>> No.19133148

>>19126807
absolute bull. Im 23, smoking daily since 15. all my groups of friends were only connected because we would buy weed together and smoke it. We hanged out because we were weed addicts in denial. If you think weed makes great friends, stop smoking so much weed and say NO to them more often, only then you will see how much clears out for yourself and how little they care.

Ever since i moved out of town to university, ive been lonely as hell. Students are incredibly dumb and shallow as hell, with zero interest in truth about our governments - theyre just media robots. If youre self anxious, alcohol probably wont help, i may be drunk off my ass but im still looking around a lot and im still alienated, because drunk or not drunk, my mind literally does not know shit about conversating with people i dont know.

You want hope? get your shit together, start doing boxing (seriously wipes out any social anxiety as you build true confidence and feel that youre better than the people youre worried about).

Sugar makes you depressed, drugs get rid of your serotonin, media and films are always negative images and ideas.

>> No.19133149

>>19132291
Literally cope

>> No.19133206

>>19125711
The difference is the gf sucks ur soul

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>>19123263
You either learn to overcome the need for peer attention and approval in your 20s or you don’t.
God help you if you don’t overcome.

>> No.19133256

>>19126445
Listen man the path to success unironically starts with cleaning your room. Just get your small shit in order and you will begin to develop the confidence to make big important changes in your life. It’s all about starting infinitesimally small and GETTING OUT OF YOUR HEAD.

>> No.19133352

>>19133256
I’m not a NEET. I’ve already graduated school and have a 6 figure job and will soon have my own place. I just want an older guy to talk about my ambitions too and have a little guidance when I’m stuck on what to do. I don’t need “Wash Your Penis” advice.

>> No.19133356

I Am the Light of the World
Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”

Dont waste your time with non-sense. Read a Bible, Trust GOD, Follow Jesus Christ and you wont go wrong!

>> No.19133395

>>19133352
So you graduated school and have a six figure job? then wtf is the matter with you? what do you even do for a living?

>> No.19133484

Proverbs 3:5-6 English Standard Version
Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make straight your paths..

>> No.19133509

>>19123263
Btw, very simple and stupid-sounding advice regarding this social anxiety and finding friends topic: Try staying up for one night and engaging with people the next day (just go shopping or whatever). You will almost certainly have a very goofy and uncaring vibe, this can prove to you that it is possible not to give a fuck.

>> No.19133687

>>19133395
Because I have bigger goals than living some Jordan Belfort fantasy. I’m no where close to those goals as I would hope at my age.Its always better to have a close confidant, the pain of your failure is divided between you, but the joy of your success is multiplied. I only care about money to make it easier achieve those goals.

>> No.19133707

You're fucking 20. You're still not even in your prime yet.

I'm 36 and even though I'm doing better than the majority, everyday is an uphill battle

I do cardio everyday and lift every other day, but I constantly have aches that I didn't used to get when I pushed myself. I have to workout harder just to maintain the same level as the day before.

99% of single women my age are single mother roasties looking for beta providers. The few "decent" ones want to get married within a year of dating, so they can shit out a kid and then divorce rape you. Don't be an incel and go mgtow, but do not chase women and don't spend money on them. Your value isn't defined by them

>> No.19133731

>>19129218
Who puts a cake on a tray? What the fuck is wrong with you Americans?

>> No.19133754

>>19124409
Its a sign of the times.

>> No.19133916

>>19124476
Truth here. Look at any friend you have. Either you are using them or they are using you. You hang out together to justify the time wasting activity
>well they're doing it too (gaming, smoking, chatting shit, skating)
Maybe you use the poor kid to feel better about yourself, maybe you hang out with the rich kid to skim. Maybe the popular kid you tag along with will open doors to that 7/10 girl, etc etc.

It's a waste if you are self sufficient and competent to make it on your own. Wife and kid are all you need. Friends are dead weight or you are the dead weight making them feel better. Free yourself.

>> No.19134135

>>19133916
As an aside to this, ACQUAINTANCES are great. I have a guy who I occasionally go shooting with, A guy who I might meet up with to discuss the markets over a beer and so on, all contacts made through my business. It's the same 'we both benefit from the interaction' but with none of the bullshit like a wedding invite or dinner with their family. The only person I want at my funeral is my kid.

>> No.19134148

>>19126272
>boomer seething
kek

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Kek I remember thinking exactly like this when I was 20.

Understand that outside of an almost unbelievably small percentage of the male population (throughout all of mankind's history), essentially nobody will have "made it" by even their mid-20's, never mind after having just turned 20 for fuck's sake. You're also probably just not going to "make it" for the foreseeable future given the fact that our governments just destroyed the future economic, political and social prospects of an entire generation/s of young people to save the lives of a bunch of infirm geriatrics who were on death's doorstep anyway. Henceforth if anyone ends up "making it" before they're 30, it will be an anomaly of an anomaly.

Don't sweat it, bud.

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>>19123591
The feels...

>> No.19134213

>>19134191
>government ruined your life and prime, but don’t sweat it
Fuck off boomer

>> No.19134226

>>19123779
>Dave Ramsey

Stopped reading there.

>> No.19134235

>>19134213
I'm not saying don't sweat the fact that shit is beyond fucked now. I'm just saying that don't think you're just some retarded fuck up for not being a billionaire at the ripe age of 20, given the circumstances.

>> No.19134270

>>19133206
Mhm

>> No.19134352

Birthdays. They are fucking bullshit

Its a personal holiday. Because the calendar was filled with these "holidays" (mostly since the beginning of the 20th century- look it up)

What is a personal holiday? I'll tell you.

Its to remind you of your status. When you're a kid you can't afford to give people presents. But you're obligated. They come flooding in, you didn't ask for them. Now you're expected to reciprocate. But you can't.

Now your parents give you gifts, they're not gifts. They are bribes. They are earnest payments on expectations that you love them. But its not love, its a performance. And to make sure you perform, the entire society conspires to enforce this false norm.

When is your birthday? Whats your sign? You didn't get me anything for my birthday. How sad, no one called you on your birthday. Come to my birthday party. Its jesus's birthday- don't you want eternal life? Alright kids everybody write down their birthday. Pick who to invite to your birthday. How do you feel about X who had a birthday, did they invite you?

So the parents conspire, get the kids coked up on sugar- loads of it. Now they're strung out. Send them to day care. You better act right. Mommy and daddy are spending a fortune to warehouse you all week while they are at work.

Every single year, call home. Tell your mom you love her. How old are you now? What are you doing with your life?

Its all bullshit. All of it. Stop participating.

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>>19123263
Happy Birthday fren

Same boat but 23 years honestly as I got older I kinda shut down. Don’t really talk much, don’t feel much. Family is obliviously disappointed and doesn’t miss an opportunity to rub it in my face.
Some days i have hard time believing I even exist. Feel like a ghost.

If you can get help

>> No.19134845

I've not made it massively but made it well enough at this point to likely offer some advice. Hot girlfriend, 100k job, good body.

Most important thing - fake it till you make it. Learn on the job, fake confidence, but be able to back up your bullshit. For example, in an interview you can take credit for other's work in something you were involved with, because by watching them do it, you now know how to do it. Watch your boss make a project plan? You could do that! But don't say you can do something you know you can't like speak French or something.

Lift. Whether it's gymnastics, shot put, weights, whatever. Heavy resistance training to change your body shape for the better.

Diet. Don't be fat. Ever. If you are, lift and cut out the bad food. Do simple cardio like Incline walking, cycling, swimming etc. No need to do intense cardio if you don't enjoy it.

All the above will further build your confidence and eventually while you continue to fake it, girls will come around to the idea of you. You'll piss some off along the way. Don't worry. But make sure you don't get bitter. Just move on. There's no guy on tye planet that every girl likes. Everyone has differing tastes.

Upskill when you can. This is key for professional progression as well as showing continuing competency and commitment to improving.

I was 60kg at 18 and now I'm 85kg. I've lost nearly all of my hair too but confidence is the key for life. Confidence and charm together? Nothing can stop you.

It's hard, consistent work. It will be tough, without doubt. But you can do it. The journey makes the man.

Good luck.

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>>19124335
Having this mentality makes it easier for the rest of us to make it financially and with women or are you going to do something about that? Huh kid

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>>19133731
His mother made him a cake. If you dont like how his mother presented the cake; FUCK THE FUCK OFF!

>> No.19135115

Try being fucking 30

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>>19135064
You did a Nigger post: you Nigger!

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/biz/ - Business & Feels

>> No.19135630

>>19123263
wait until youre in your 30s and then ppl start caring again bc at that point you'll actualy have money. just buy as much RSR as u can right now. it will make u turbo rich in a few years.