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over the summer, before she moved back home, my friend jumped into a hot tub with me. We got drunk and since she was moving, I confessed my love to her. I threw it all out there. Everything. She listened. She told me she was happy with her relationship and I said I understood, I just want her to be happy and I agreed we could remain friends. Well, she asked me to go to her wedding and I really don't know if I can go. If I go, I'm forced to bury my desire. If I don't, I probably lose her as friend. But, I know what I feel for her and I just don't know if I can support her wedding. I feel like a jackass... but I also wonder if it's "mature" of me to go. Literally at a crossroads. What the fuck should I do? I'd probably end up going stag too because getting a girl to stick around is damn near impossible for me, let alone within a month or two.

>> No.18572426

>>18572369
Just go, look your best, and fuck one of her bridesmaids.

>> No.18572429

>>18572369
>chainlink holder
>over the summer, before he moved back home, my friend jumped into a hot tub with me. We got drunk and since she was moving, I confessed my love to him. I threw it all out there. Everything. He listened. He told me he was happy with her relationship and I said I understood, I just want him to be happy and I agreed we could remain friends. Well, she asked me to go to his wedding and I really don't know if I can go. If I go, I'm forced to bury my desire. If I don't, I probably lose him as friend. But, I know what I feel for him and I just don't know if I can support his wedding. I feel like a jackass... but I also wonder if it's "mature" of me to go. Literally at a crossroads. What the fuck should I do? I'd probably end up going stag too because getting a man to stick around is damn near impossible for me, let alone within a month or two.
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>> No.18572433

Go to the wedding. Hit on the brides maids, her husband will be black out drunk (see to it), wife will be jealous of the bridesmaids and join you in threesome.

Good Lunk, Lunk only goes up.

>> No.18572465

>>18572369
this is your brain on oneitis.

>> No.18572475

>>18572369
Will it cost you a lot to travel? Might meet some cute girls there. Single bridesmaids and all that.

>t. Invited to an ex's wedding and current GF knows and is ok with it.

>> No.18572512

>>18572369
go back to pleddit and ask some trannies about your "lose her as a friend" issues

>> No.18572542

>>18572369
If this is real, dude ... plenty of fish and all that. So it didn't work out. Do you think somehow it's still going to happen between you? It's time to give up on this one and get over it. No skirt is worth this anguish.

Man up, be a friend, go to the wedding, and if you play your cards right ask her to introduce you to someone. A female friend is an asset in finding a mate.
But you have to suppress your feelings for what's clearly unobtainable, and set your sights on something that's in range.

>> No.18572561

>>18572429
thanks and accurate

>>18572465
i have many cases of oneitis

>>18572475
not really, a few hours of travel and a hotel room I figure. However, from what I can remember, I believe most of her friends are in relationships, married or engaged

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18572584

>>18572369
So my vaguely on-topic shitpost gets deleted but this horribly self-indulgent completely off-topic blogpost gets to stay up? Fuck jannies. Saged and reported for violating United States law

>> No.18572624

>>18572584
nah i'll probably get banned for asking this here, but you bros are the most active and helpful out of all forums

>> No.18572685

>>18572542
i guess part of me is holding out that it'll still happen someday down the road. i honestly never expected her to marry this dude, let alone after this whole pandemic thing. it really isn't anguish and much as it is indifference to the situation. sadly, the more I try to understand my "range", i believe she might've been the peak in terms of beauty and cohesive personalities

>> No.18572687

>>18572369
JANNIESSSSSS CLEAN THIS FUCKING MESSSSSS

>> No.18572727

>>18572687
pls no, i need you bros:(

>> No.18572972

>>18572369
dont go, cut her out of your life conpletely. waste of time otherwise

>> No.18573513

>>18572369
relationships are a Jewish invention. unironically you aren't getting cucked. if it was you getting married with her you'd have bigger shit to worry about, like how keep her happy and shit. think outside the box, focus on yourself, and like other thread said, go and bang the bridesmaids. be a player. go get em champ

>> No.18573602

>>18572542
>ask her to introduce you to someone
this would leave OP in a more humiliating position