/biz/ - Business & Finance

[Anonymous No.17108294]

How do I even cold approach a woman in public when most of them seem averse to it. Online dating has a lot of a lot of trashy woman. What do I do!?

[Anonymous No.17108303]

have sex

[Anonymous No.17108322]

>>17108294
I know the key to easily getting women way out of your league. 100% serious no joke reply

Trips reveal

[Anonymous No.17108339]

>cold approach
just talk to her man and don't be and autist.

[Anonymous No.17108413]

>>17108322
Roll, lemme guess just bee yourself. Works when i talk to random strangers when i have an unusually large amount of confidence.

>>17108339
Easier when my confidence has a boost.

Look at freaking related. I dont want this kinda woman. Full of herself and trashy.

[Anonymous No.17108481]

>>17108413
all those red flags

[Anonymous No.17108510]

>>17108413
Nope it's not being yourself

It's an actual hobby, a thing you can do with basically 0 investment, which is so saturated with beautiful women and so understaffed on men that, even though it's done by couples, many of the couples end up being 2 women

[Anonymous No.17108521]

>>17108413
She looks like a bin bag stuffed full of shit.
No more feeding for you love.

[Anonymous No.17108528]

>>17108510
I’m 10/10 hot or so I’m told, I am an awkward loser who can’t score or approach women. I need this, whatever it is.

[Anonymous No.17108532]

>>17108413
>don't talk about my tits!!!
>why doesn't anyone mention my tits on this app!!!

[Anonymous No.17108538]

>>17108510
Yoga?

[Anonymous No.17108563]

>>17108294
>cold approach
Well you stop saying this for starters

[Anonymous No.17108582]

>>17108294
go to university (must have <55% male pop, unless you are chad) and meet a girl there. Odds increase if it is a religious school.

[Anonymous No.17108584]

>>17108294
If she gives you an opening/signal take it, don't be a pussy. If she doesn't then leave her alone you weirdo, she's busy and you're fagging her day up.

[Anonymous No.17108587]

>>17108563
What other words/phrases are there for this?
>approaching a woman in public to ask her out

[Anonymous No.17108603]

>>17108528
>>17108538
To sweeten the pot, let me tell you how I got into it:

A friend of mine who is older, uglier and fatter than me invited me out to an event where it is done. Me being a naysayer I just stood on the side watching while drinking by myself, pathetically

Literally within an hour my friend had a girl who'd never even talk to either of us give him her number, and another firecracker who was easily 8/10 invite him to her birthday party despite only having met him like 10 minutes ago

Legit eye-opening, I immediately went to a tryout class for it and ended up exchanging numbers with a cute, hot shorty the same night (she asked me for mine). I've lived in this city half a year and barely spoken to a girl before over here

Legitimately incredible shit

[Anonymous No.17108617]

>>17108294
Practice rotating said trashy online slors until you find the needle in the haystack, use apps that are a bit more under the nose than tinder. I met a virgin, it took 4 years, but i found one!

[Anonymous No.17108628]

>>17108603
Are you actually talking about yoga

[Anonymous No.17108634]

>>17108603
Not gunna lie it sounds nice, hopefully you give up the goods soon. I’m a UNI student and I just can’t manage to meet girls. I catch them staring all the time even today but I’m a pussy and so r they. It annoys me.

[Anonymous No.17108643]

>>17108603
Is it some dance lesson?

[Anonymous No.17108652]

>>17108603
>stood on the side watching while drinking by myself
narrows it down to a bar/club?
unless you're talking about drinking water by yourself, which sounds retarded, but if I had to guess it'd be some kind of dance/art/sports class.

[Anonymous No.17108654]

>>17108617
>I met a virgin

sure ya did kiddo!
show me that hymen!

[Anonymous No.17108656]

>>17108617
What apps are those?

[Anonymous No.17108665]

>>17108603
The fuck are you talking about mate, sounds like you're trying to sell /biz/ your next ebook or some shit.

[Anonymous No.17108666]

>>17108628
No. It's a hobby full of women but it -by default- requires a man to properly do. But there are so few men doing it you actually often see two women doing it together

[Anonymous No.17108673]

>>17108666
trips get

[Anonymous No.17108675]

>>17108587
Talking to women. 'cold approach' is so fucking cringey.

[Anonymous No.17108683]

>>17108666
>got trips myself
Any lmao.

Guess I won't reveal fully but provide big hints

>>17108643
>>17108652
You two are right on the money. But what kind of dance?

[Anonymous No.17108694]

>>17108666
Trips, gib answer or kill

[Anonymous No.17108711]

>>17108683
Salsa or swing, this brings back memories of a high school buddy of mine who tried for dance classes, became good friends with almost every female in our school, and still never got a date until he graduated. He was a mega autist though that made me seem normal so...

[Anonymous No.17108715]

>>17108603
whats the thing cmon bro help a businessman out

[Anonymous No.17108720]

>>17108683
>But what kind of dance?
Probably some latin dance. Latin women can be very forward.

[Anonymous No.17108724]

>>17108683
Ballroom dancing?

[Anonymous No.17108730]

>>17108294
Just dress nicely, walk up to her, look her straight in the eye and shake her hand.

[Anonymous No.17108735]

>>17108675
that's the point

[Anonymous No.17108758]

>>17108730
I've done this it creeps them out.

[Anonymous No.17108772]

>>17108294
It's simple be attractive to her, if you are attractive to her it's almost impossible to fail. You could even spill some spaghetti and still make it in.

[Anonymous No.17108833]

>>17108730
I did this exactly, and even passed her my resume, and she just said "sir this is an Arby's you don't need a resume" and looked down. Kept looking her in the eye for a minute or so, with a big smile, but it got awkward so I left.

[Anonymous No.17108853]

>>17108683
Doest thou take me for a fool Anon? Yee seeth this barrel I sitteth upon? A barrel o' explosives. You shall doeth well if thy spill thy beans!

[Anonymous No.17108888]

>>17108683
Capoiera, do not knoweth why but is that thine hidden secret ol' chap? Salsa seemth to obvious I do so sayeth myself.

[Anonymous No.17108898]

>>17108413
good lord above shes a walking contradictions... dont look at my tits or talk about them but here they are blazingly on display for everyone to look at but dont you dare talk about them. what she means is dont look or talk about them if I decide you're an unattractive beneath me in status male but this view is for the chads I want to fuck me like a whore. lol so easily figured out slut

[Anonymous No.17108909]

>>17108888
Dayum son quads. Okay then.

Alright I'm revealing, fuck it my niggas need a break.

>>17108711
Came closest: Salsa/bachata/kizomba

Literally absolutely insane gains when it comes to girls. But hey, trust but verify. If you live in even a mid-sized city you probably have dozens of salsa nights going on every week, just go to one. Not to dance (at first) but just to observe

I can already tell you what you'll see: oldfags, manlets, lardos, lanklets dancing with 9/10 minimum girls who look at them like they are Zeus descended from Mount Olympos

These dances basically obliterate female self-defenses, compared to day game the difference is like that between robbing a grandma and robbing Fort Knox

All you need to do is not be too greedy and touchy. Let them work for it, and they will. Act coy and she will be pulling you along all night and then into the bedroom

[Anonymous No.17108925]

>>17108294
They are averse to it.
Almost no one is an actual hopeless case.
But there are things you will probably have to work on; that being said if you really desire a woman then you already are showing initiative and therefore can turn that to actually working towards that goal.
ANSWER: Do both. Online date. Talk to the women in your immediate surroundings. However: Unless you're willing to accept a lot of rejection (it will happen even to the successful individual) don't cold approach.
Do you go to the same cafe every day? Try build some rapport with the barista. This kind of thing. Ok, they may very well still reject you but this is the socially acceptable form of approaching women and showing interest.

[Anonymous No.17108938]

>>17108724
Gotta be this, ive actually unironically wanted to do this.

[Anonymous No.17108948]

>>17108666
I hast thee by thy balls Anon. Unhandeth thine end of thy scally deal or loseth thy balls by my rapier!

[Anonymous No.17108953]

>>17108413
Well yeah: She's fucking awful. Legitimately probably/definitely has mental issues. Anyone with a long bio either has mental issues or is truly deeply stupid. Which reminds me: keep your bio short.
Here dude I actually coach 4chinners on this shit. Email me at [e-mail] if you want more lengthy advice and help. I'm good at online dating at least.

[Anonymous No.17108976]

>>17108735
What the fuck are you saying

[Anonymous No.17108983]

>>17108294
Just don't do this, no one does.

and

An almost complete guide on what kind of american european mong girls avoid:
> visible tatoo or several tatoos - avoid
> pink/green/red/purple hairs - avoid
> too many piercings - avoid
> has too many pictures in the social profile, maybe in the same position - avoid
> is american - almost definitely avoid
> is from uk - almost definitely avoid
> has eyeglasses, hipster attitude - avoid
> shares vice - avoid
> complains about men being narcissistic - avoid
> listens to shitty music like trap / hip hop / rnb / mong pop - avoid
> spends too many time into the gym - avoid
> has painted nails - avoid
> talks about minorities - avoid
> is "politically active" or has a political opinion (obviously progressive mong drinking jewspapers propaganda) - avoid

[Anonymous No.17108991]

>>17108909
Thy doeth well in revealing thy secret >>17108888 as I surpasseth thy requirements of thy scrupulous deal. Thy balls are unhandeth. But know thee well, tricketh me once more an' thine balls will hang uponeth the court jester's vineyard!

[Anonymous No.17109013]

>>17108909
>Bachata
>Kizomba
So nigger dancing uh
I'm sorry anon but i don't want to dance with spics and chinks

[Anonymous No.17109014]

>>17108654
No hymen, no diamond!

[Anonymous No.17109038]

>>17108656
When I was at peak coomer, I was using Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge (the wider your net, the more fish you'll catch!) simultaneously. The best engagement by a country mile was Hinge, and it was that app in which I met the keeper.

[Anonymous No.17109063]

>>17109014
Dareth I saith!? Thou arest both baseth and redpilleth!

[Anonymous No.17109101]

>>17108665
he's full of shit hence why he wont outright say what it is... just leading a bunch of thirsty /r9k/ rejects along with a stick and hanging panties on a string. he wont actually tell what it is and he'll constantly make excuses and find ways out of telling what it is. ive seen this shit game played before and it always ends in him randomly stop posting at some point with nobody actually getting answers. fuck him fuck his games fuck his trolling and most of all many many negative gains to him.

[Anonymous No.17109128]

>>17108983
so basically avoid 99% of females. aight got it i'll narrow my search down for that 1% of female on an amish farm somewhere that isnt tainted

[Anonymous No.17109141]

>>17109013
Then you are in luck because salsa is the most widely adopted one, the others are just for once you mastered it desu

[Anonymous No.17109157]

>>17108294
>>17108294
fuck off to /b/

[Anonymous No.17109217]

Work as a bouncer and wait for drunk girls to approach you
I've been banging every 2 weeks since I started doing it

[Anonymous No.17109247]

>>17108976
the point is for you to prostate yourself. Getting down on one knee? The challenge is to make her enjoy it instead of seeing you for the worthless piece of shit that you are, that comes later. the price of entry is overcoming humiliation by showing confidence. Grab em by the pussy you'll be fine.

[Anonymous No.17109260]

>>17108294
>cold approach in public
Don't. Unless you are Chad Thundercock, then you will ALWAYS come off as a creep. Even if you are Chad then it doesn't matter because the majority of women do not want to be bothered by random idiots on the street.
Find a hobby that involves getting together with people. Join various groups or a church. Get involved in your community. There are many places to find women that are not random people in public.

[Anonymous No.17109261]

If you arent at least a 7 you have no chance. If you are, learn to small talk

[Anonymous No.17109358]

>>17109260
> then you will ALWAYS come off as a creep.
Of course, because you ALWAYS come off as a creep.

[Anonymous No.17109369]

>be me
>be burger
>9/10 6’2 chad autist.
>only ever got it in with girls who initiated things. Only 3 women.
>move to japan at 23 because i got my cpa and learned japanese while in college.
>go to happy hour with fellow salarymen on weekdays and karaoke on weekends.
>I can easily approach these nip qts. and the confident ones approach me.
>be me
>attain unironic pimp status.
>never thought too much pussy was a problem until now.
>think im falling in love with two different women that im seeing.

[Anonymous No.17109418]

>>17109369
Are these salarymen cool with you cucking them?

[Anonymous No.17109428]

>>17108294
start by giving her 10k and tell her like she's important, fuck her within 24h, connect after sex

[Anonymous No.17109429]

>>17109128
if you're surrounded with this mongs, so YES, change city, change workplace, don't even try to relate with those toxic roasties, bad for your health

[Anonymous No.17109447]

>>17108413
So many girls are absolute trash these days. I don't even know how I found a good girl that isn't covered in tattoos, doesn't way a million pounds, doesn't have a gutter mouth, etc. etc. etc.. must have been good luck, or my guardian angel

[Anonymous No.17109467]

>>17108322
rape doesn't count anon

[Anonymous No.17109490]

>>17109418
Yes. At least outwardly. Young nips dont really care. Im sure they have their private opinions though. At any rate Im sure if they were given the chance to coom in a cute white girl they would in a heartbeat.

[Anonymous No.17109517]

>>17108953
I remember there was a Tinder coach in one other thread a long time ago that I was in, I wonder if you're the same dude. You mentioned that one should only go after the most attractive girls on Tinder because your chances with a 10/10 are the same as with a 5/10 because of how inflated the 5/10's ego got from being on Tinder

[Anonymous No.17109533]

>>17108413
>Probably too thickk for you
probably a mudshark, avoid

[Anonymous No.17109544]

>>17108303

retaining semen is better for cold approach. If you are coomer they can tell.

[Anonymous No.17109562]

>>17108294
what annoys me is when I am driving my car I always notice girls like checking me out from other cars but walking the street I get 0 interest, like I am invisible

[Anonymous No.17109572]

>>17108909
>I can already tell you what you'll see: oldfags, manlets, lardos, lanklets dancing with 9/10 minimum girls who look at them like they are Zeus descended from Mount Olympos
This looks like a good way to get a girl that will cheat on you. You're going into an environment full of betas, and when a girl is surrounded by betas she will lower her standards to get a mate. Once there's alphas showing up in the environment, any betas that got anything will be cast aside with the others as the girls go for the alphas. That's basically what happened on Tinder.

[Anonymous No.17109584]

>>17109562
they're interested in your car
But you don't really need to be noticed, seriously.

[Anonymous No.17109636]

>>17108603
NO ONES GONNA GO DANCING YOU FAG BE REAL

[Anonymous No.17109768]

>>17109429
oh I dont plan on dealing with roasties it just sounds like I pretty much gotta join an amish farm and marry a girl there that never leaves the amish farm her entire life. I dont have a fetish for amish girls or anything just realizing my selection of non-slutty non-tainted females is seriuously a tiny tiny tiny tiny % hence me going 1% got it

[Anonymous No.17109827]

>>17109768
I can assure you that when you stop looking at those toxic bitches, or considering that they're the only chance to get laid, they suddenly disappear, and you start noticing the real people around you.

Fact is that you intrinsically think that those sort of girls are disgusting, the only thing that motivates you to interact with them is desperation mixed with some fictional porn vision inside of your head. The instinctive part of you already said NO.
Listen to that no.

[Anonymous No.17109924]

>>17109827
my only porn is charts and crypto graphs anon so not sure what you're trying to imply. And females are just tiresome and almost never worth the time or effort in 2020 so again I rather focus on money. I was saying tho if I were to find a girl an amish farm girl would be my best bet based on what to avoid from modern females. I dont get into modern sluts and I dont gf sluts up since they cant pair bond and with hypergamy its just a matter of time before they do something stupid in the relationship to fuck it up so thats why money > females. not sure what you were trying to imply but you sound way off base about me and my life

[Anonymous No.17109942]

>>17109924
Ok i thinked you were defending the roasties.
Good for you

[Anonymous No.17110194]

>>17109942
oh hell no im not defending roasties anon. jesus fuck no. modern females are too slutty too loose too confrontational and combative for me to consider dating and marriage completely out of the question til laws are changed so its not almost 90% favor towards females and even then I doubt i'd consider marriage. I doubt i'd even marry an amish farm girl with hymen just cuz the divorce laws are so bullshit for men. Glad we cleared that up cuz I was definately not defending modern female behavior or their slut ways. I'm very away of pair bonding and hypergamy and that factors into my dealings with modern female. Have a great night anon

[Anonymous No.17110209]

Chasing American women isn't worth my time or money. It's much more fun to save up my coom for vacation in Asia once or twice a year. I spend the rest of year focused on progressing in my career and investing.

[Anonymous No.17110506]

>>17108294
Be attractive and have hobbies.
Pull in interested ones, don't chase.
Be more comfortable than confident

[Anonymous No.17110977]

>>17108898
imagine being born an alpha chad male and have the power to put your face between those tits

[Anonymous No.17111049]

>>17108322
>ok here’s how you get that GORL

[Anonymous No.17111239]

>>17108294
Start by approaching random people ask them for light for your cigarette or ask the time, express gratitude and move on. As soon as you feel comfortable apply it on ugly women until you're ready to approach anyone.
The most important lesson here is learning how to deal with fear of rejection, step by step.

[Anonymous No.17111266]

>>17108294
>business and finance

[Anonymous No.17111282]

Just signed up for SeekingArrangements, and its awesome.
Depending on the area, it will run you 150-300/meeting with great girls (truly) + whatever you guys are doing (dinner, movies) if anything.
Long-term this makes so much sense. I'll post more as I find out

[Anonymous No.17111339]

>>17111239
>sugar mommy
You telling me i can attempt to marry one of these rich old ladies and when she kicks the bucket i inherit her wealth and in turn never have to wagecuck?

[Anonymous No.17111347]

>>17111282
>sugar mommy
You telling me i can attempt to marry one of these rich old ladies and when she kicks the bucket i inherit her wealth and in turn never have to wagecuck?

[Anonymous No.17111371]

>>17111347
No, there are basically no sugar mommas. You can forget that
If you are doing something that's making money or doing something that's getting you laid (music, bartender, other degenerate things) you are truly doomed

[Anonymous No.17111375]

>>17108294
>wanting a women before making it
anon I...

[Anonymous No.17111405]

>>17111371
Why the heck would I go on that site then?
There are only two kinds of women I'd consider to marry.
>Christian virgin whose 18-25.
>Rich old (70+) childless widow who once dead of old age or whatever illness she may have allows me to inherit the wealth.

[Anonymous No.17111413]

>>17111371
>If you are doing something that's making money or doing something that's getting you laid (music, bartender, other degenerate things) you are truly doomed
What did you mean by this?

[Anonymous No.17112029]

>>17109544
In my experience it's the opposite. If I'm not too horny I don't care how it goes and I seem more confident and relaxed and I have higher chance of success. But maybe it's different from person to person depending on libido.

[Anonymous No.17112106]

>>17109418
they love it bro. like how white men love seeing white women BLACKED raw

[Anonymous No.17112122]

>>17110194
you sound like two destitute mega incels sucking each other off, btw I've got tits and I'm not gonna show

[Anonymous No.17112126]

>>17111375
>looking for a woman after making it
It's like you are begging to be fleeced

[Anonymous No.17112134]

>>17111375
>thinking making it will automatically get him women

Anon I.....

[Anonymous No.17112238]

>>17108909
women are fucking retarded

[Anonymous No.17112251]

>>17108909
>If you live in even a mid-sized city you probably have dozens of salsa nights going on every week, just go to one. Not to dance (at first) but just to observe
How do I do this without looking awkward? Also how faithful and loyal are these women considering they go salsa dancing likely to meet various men?

[Anonymous No.17112256]

>>17108294
Why would you ever involve women in anything in your life?

[Anonymous No.17112276]

>>17112106
only cuck fetish retards enjoy this

[Anonymous No.17112298]

>>17112106

based

[Anonymous No.17112317]

>>17112122
kek implying anyone wants to see your aa tranny tits. faggot you arent even a real woman

[Anonymous No.17112356]

The amount of larping going on in this thread is cute. None of you incels,myself included is getting any poon without having to pay for it i.e hookers/escorts

[Anonymous No.17112726]

>>17108322
Roll

[Anonymous No.17112908]

>>17108983
>has painted nails - avoid
Why?

[Anonymous No.17112926]

>>17112908
I'm not talking about tinted nails, but those paintings on fake nails, stuff like that.

[Anonymous No.17112945]

Try meeting girls through your social circle like a normal person. Not that I would know anything about it.

[Anonymous No.17112971]

Alcohol helps. Dont leave the house without taking 2 shots and slamming a beer.

[Anonymous No.17113788]

>>17109369
Thanks for the morning coom

[Anonymous No.17113923]

>>17109369
I'm 5"6 paneer, and same thing happens. The ladies are too much for us brother

[Anonymous No.17114121]

theres a bike path a block from my house that runs beside college campus. i have a cycle routine i do a few days a week and ive seen some of the finest normie girls ever. im a handsome guy i just never know how to get into their bubble or what i would say. i always feel like i need some sort of situational excuse to talk to people, and even then i often find myself aborting conversation too early like a pussy. theres been multiple times girls have shopped purposely in the male section at thrift stores to check me out, but all they ever do is glance shyly and awkwardly shop within speaking distance hoping il say something. theres a black dude i work with that always pulls girls with the whole “you smoke? i sell weed heres my number” thing. but hes the type of big dick dude who has no fear of rejection. one of the hottest white girls i work with said one time he made a pass at her like “damn girl that ass is looking fine, i would smash that shit”. like is that what you have to do? just seems crass to me

[Anonymous No.17114168]

Look who's talking/posting. You are visiting a wrong section, you worthless cunt.

[Anonymous No.17114240]

>>17114121
>seems crass
anon, we're built for rape.

[Anonymous No.17114257]

>>17108294
Careful anon, we're living in a very different world these days.

[Anonymous No.17114276]

>>17108294
when you see a woman you like you sneak up behind her and blow into her ear, she will love that, then you ask her number

[Anonymous No.17114310]

>>17109369
>>17113923
shit Im packing my bags now

[Anonymous No.17114396]

>>17108294
>>17108322
>>17108413
>>17108510
>>17108528
>>17108563
>>17108603
>>17108654

Women know it takes guts to approach in public and respect you for having the balls to do it. Instant SMV increase just for doing it and not being nervous as hell during.
They would rather fuck a confident 7/10 dude who approached in public than a 9/10 chad they found on tinder. To them the 7/10 guy will seem to be 9/10

[Anonymous No.17114542]

>>17108909
Damn. I’ve heard of this, my friend has invited me a few times but I always imagine the women that go to these things are old or 4/10.

[Anonymous No.17114548]

>>17108322
Rape?

[Anonymous No.17115336]

>>17108413
Just say something like, I saw you work at Subway and so I guess you can handle a 6 inch Italian, heh heh

[Anonymous No.17115681]

>>17108294
like this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AfmkHNSSSMs