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I don't know how to form relationships. All I know is how to make money. I am 30 now and I don't have any friends. All I have is my 30k passive income with my 60k salary. Is it too late for me now?

>> No.16780837

>>16780565
I would trade places with you if it makes you feel better

>> No.16781005
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16781005

>>16780837
Can you tell me how it feels to have friends?

>> No.16781028

>>16781005
It’s ok: they usually help if they can and tolerate your bullshit if you reciprocate in kind. That said, more often than not they’re more hassle than they’re worth

>> No.16781031

iktfbro
Fuck it's shit. I struggled through so much ridiculous shit and abuse through my life I just don't know what to do anymore.
I don't even know what it's like to have a sex life because I've only been in bed with other people a few times over the years and I've never orgasmed with anyone and usually don't feel attracted enough to even get a boner.
I'm thinking about going to a doctor and getting my test levels checked or something. Maybe I can just take some glorious drug to make me have boners and I don't have to give a shit about it anymore.

>> No.16781048

>>16781005
You get older and people and people get busy with their own stuff and by time youre 27 like me you're lucky to hear from people once a month. It's more like every 3 months.

>> No.16781062

>>16781005
It really depends, there will always be a hierarchy, someone better than you, a chad usually whose life just seems to hand him everything. Someone will be below you and you’ll try to avoid him or let him down gently. The girls will always talk about chad, and you’ll be invisible at best.
I’ve been the invisible man, the man below him, and the chad. Being the chad obviously feels great and is the ideal . Everyone respects you, wants to please you, and you get to do/say what you want and have your pick of the women. being the invisible man or the man below him is torture and you’d rather be alone than be cucked by chad’s witticisms and charm.
People don’t talk about friendships like this, but as animals we are competitive and that is the reality.

>> No.16781063

You'd think psychology people would do their fucking job and map out optimal compatibility and personality type dynamics and shit, parlaying that into a microcommunity forging startup that's bought by Facebook for 10 figures but noooo

>> No.16781074

>>16781048
Yeah but some of us were homeless at 27 and only at 30 did we finally get a real job with a good salary and a place to live.

>> No.16781112

>>16781005
having the same conversations, playing the same games, doing the same shit over and over and over

>> No.16781151

>>16781062
This is accurate, honestly even some of your best mates who would stab someone for you would swoop in in a heartbeat if you're talking to a qt at the bar and they think they have a chance. I got cucked hard on New Year's but she was a random so whatever. I still won't be chilling with that guy too often.
>>16781074
Sorry you've had it so rough fren. I'm glad you arent homeless.

>> No.16781394

>>16780565
where do ya invest 60'000 to get passive 30'000?

>> No.16781453

>>16780565

Go to church Anon accept Christ as your saviour :) there are godly people out there that will want to be your friend and guide you towards things that are higher than a silly temporary hierarchy. You have your gifts for a reason it's ok to to build wealth as long as you use it to grow the community and for the good of others as well as yourself.

I highly recommend going to church and seeking god you will find what you are looking for :) as well as real meaning

Peace

>> No.16781469

>>16781394
Salary is 60k.
Networth is 376k. My money is pretty diversified with index fund and dividend index fund but I also have around a few stocks like FB, TTWO, SNE, ATVI, BABA. I am just giving average 8% but last year was killer and was over 20%.

>> No.16781485

>>16781005
it is good. but whenever i was good my with friends my productivity went down. it kills your time that you could use to do better things.

>> No.16781486

>>16781453
Based and true

>> No.16781496
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16781496

>>16780565
Try Ninjer Neeting

>> No.16781499

>>16781453
You sound really lonely.

>> No.16781518

>>16781499
Lonely but never alone, friend.

>> No.16781672

>>16781062

I don't exactly agree, mainly because friend groups mainly form because of the similarities of the people involved. As in, similar "levels" of status, talents, abilities, etc.

Think about it, why would a group of guys ultimately want to be hanging out with someone who was that much "lower" than them? They wouldn't want to hang out with them at all. I think a better illustration is a symbiotic relationship. Each member brings something valuable to the "team". If they didn't or cease to provide something of value then they're out. But I do think balances exist and it isn't all hierarchy. If anything it's a compressed hierarchy when you want as little "status distance" between the members as possible.

It's kind've like playing in a band, you all want to sound good so everyone pulls their weight. And also like a band or sports team, there can be multiple chads if people are good enough. Like yeah, there's the "one" Michael Jordan, but you have the other big players like Scottie Pippen, Dennis Rodman, ....you get it?

It isn't like the Chad lords over them. He needs them as well, and sometimes there isn't much distance between them. Sometimes he has a bad game and the others have to pull it through. And sometimes they switch places. All symbiotic

This is even truer with bands when there will be a "leading pair" Like keith richards/Mick Jagger etc., one is truly not above the other. They work together as dual chads

>> No.16781734

>>16780565
go wife a girl up. Clean up your act, pick up some self discipline and read a fucking book. Financial Security is something every (white) woman dreams of, I assure you.

Once you pass your 30s, you will find that it is incredibly hard to find someone out there. Just don't simp like a fucking mongrel.

>> No.16781813

>>16781734
I've been /fit/ for about 6 years. Got a lot of gains, never got any emotional gains. My self discipline is pretty good when I want to do something, it never amounted to anything. My life didn't change any drastically at all. Other than some comments by other dudes "nice gains bruh". How can I "wife a girl up" when I can't even properly socialize with anyone? I generally am the one initiating all conversations and always the one left out on party invitations. It eventually gets very depressing that trying this hard just to get a normal experience. Reading books doesn't change your life situations and you're also implying I don't.

>> No.16781821

>>16780837
90K is bretty gud these days, depending on where you live.