I'm 32 and I work a job that started out as, basically, purgatory itself. After years of living like there were no consequences, bouncing from job to job and not really giving a shit about anything, experimenting a little bit too heavily with drugs and letting my relationships go to absolute shit.. next thing you know I needed to make as much money as possible, and the opportunity in front of me was to work 80 back-breaking hours a week for $550, put into a "management" position that was completely undoable because of the structure of the company. It was fucking humiliating
I make a lot more than that now and usually in a lot less hours, and it's still a little bit shit, and still probably a little bit illegal or at least a very grey area legally, but sticking around at this job for 6 years and giving it my all, it's all really coming together and I've learned a lot. It would have been a dead end job to anyone else, but I've given it everything I've got from day one and I can see the entire company evolving over these years and even the owners have changed with how they treat people.
I stay because staying has been a great choice up til now and it continues to be fruitful. I do have some ideas of what I'd like to do when I decide to walk away, but for now I'm sticking around and hoping to put at least another $20k away this year into cash savings. That's basically my goal right now because sometimes I do still want to leave but I have all my money tucked away into things that I don't want to touch. Now I want cash.
Now, I almost fell into a trap. I was feeling a little heartbroken and I started drinking a bit. I could easily let myself go and drink more than a 750ml of high proof whiskey every week. But I'm not. And I think that's something that a lot of people like myself could easily fall into. Over the years I've met a lot of really talented people working jobs like this, but they drink heavily and unfortunately that might as well be the end of the line