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Today I had to go to some sort of combined Christmas / team building / company division team outing and it was horrific. I was the ugly loser nobody talked to.

First we had nothing to do and I was literally unironically standing in the corner on my phone as an ugly loser. I hid in the bathroom cubicle for around 15 minutes in total but there was still a lot of time spent awkwardly and humiliatingly stood there as everyone else talked to each other in a packed room.

Then we had to watch a speech, which was kind of painless but the guy and girl on either side of me were talking to each other beforehand past me, which kind of emphasises how people automatically see me as a loser.

Then we had to do team building exercises where I stood at the side barely contributing. A few times they pity-asked me and by that time I could barely give any answers. I used to feel crushing embarrassment at these situations, back when I was younger and thought I could have a change to belong. I'm unironically totally emotionless about it now. My sadness and frustration with life has a much more mature, less in the moment, and more long term heavy weight on my shoulders feeling than it used to.

I noticed that even though I get paid the same as most people, everyone else had been on tens of holidays or had an iWatch. They probably save money by having friends or spouses to save money on rent and lots of other stuff. I'm such a loser.

>> No.16542277

At lunch time I went outside the hired for a starboocks and 4chan browsing on my phone. When I came back on time there was still a few minutes of standing around and my boomer managers pitytalked to me for a few seconds. It's really disturbing to see the pleasure in their faces at company socialising events.

And at the end of the day all the young attractive people went to the pub to do whatever it is young attractive people do there. I bought a binge on the way back to my flat.

I've never been more pessimistic about my future career, or lack of it. I didn't spend my teens and early 20s programming or gaining any skills. I went in to the no skills bullshit office environment where the only requirement is to fit in with normies....... and I'm not a normie and I can't fit in. I'm not the lovably awkward type. I'm the ugly slug-like saps the energy from everyone he comes in to contact with, including himself, type. And I'm a quiet nerd type. People in the UK LOVE seeing people like me fail. I mean genuinely fucking love.

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16542297

>tfw called in sick to skip the workplace christmas party

>> No.16542308

>>16542275

you are PATHETIC

>> No.16542338

>>16542275
Buy 150 link, right now
Just do it

>> No.16542376

>>16542275
Zoom out. Get a dog from animal shelter. Preferable abused dog. Give much love to the dog, focus on something outside yourself and you will send out very different vibes and things will change. Good luck bro :)

>> No.16542390

how much pain can somebody endure before its too much? i been suffering for adhd, ocd and therefore depression ever since a child, im 24 now and im exhausted lads. im so tired. my life feels like im set on fire and i just cant escape. its like a sadistic videogame you have to keep on playing with no pause. its like you are just counting the minutes, hours, months, years and the time just passes and nothing ever changes. constant loop of torture. only at sleep im at rest but even that i barely enjoy because i suffer from insomnia too. nobody is responsible for me. nobody would even care. im truly alone.

atleast you are able to work and get out of bed op. i cant even do that.

>> No.16542398

I'm in the same position OP.

Or at least, I was.

Now I'm just rude to people, talk shit and say what's on my mind

I said im not going to the Christmas party. One of my colleagues asked if I don't think I'm alienating myself

I said I couldn't give a shit

Also agree the normalfucks are on another level in the UK

>> No.16542410

>>16542390
>wahh why do I feel like shit when I pllay bideogames all day and masturbate hourly to mind altering porn

>> No.16542415

>>16542398
UK is absolutely saturated with cargo cult fucks that just tick boxes and call it life

>> No.16542438

>>16542415
>>16542398
what makes british normies so specifically unique?

>> No.16542461

>>16542438
The accents really piss me off.
Southern, northern, inner london "youth", east end geezer, posh..

they all sound like insufferable cunts

>> No.16542472

>>16542438
They are like liberal normies in the US. Super vanilla and cringe. Not sure if you have ever been to San Diego but they are like that. Anything they haven't seen before or heard is scary and suspect.

>> No.16542520

>>16542438
I wonder the same thing. I'm not sure, but I lived in London for 6 years, and the social scene is definitely more oppressive than in Eastern Europe, where I'm from originally, although not perfect here either. I wish someone could explain what I mean. There was nothing more dreadful than corporate hangouts in the UK with hyper-polite people talking absolutely 100% politically correct stuff over their pints. The whole atmosphere of London was just suffocating at times. Obviously London is it's own thing, separate from the rest of the UK, but the frog's from there also.

>> No.16542521

>>16542275
you sound like a classic incel, are you planning on heroing yet?

>> No.16542542

>>16542438
Normiest of normies due to all of them technically being property of the royal family so from birth had the mindset that another man or woman was in control of them.

>> No.16542570

>>16542297
This if its unpaid simply dont go OP. Normies are vapid retards anyway.

>> No.16542589

>>16542297
I didn't go to mine either
I was asked to work instead
only guy in the office out of 100 people
making sales calls and shit
despite avoiding crowds I found it hard to be productive on my own without anybody being here
makes me think that this self-imposed isolation isn't necessarily always a good thing

>> No.16542612

>>16542589
What a cuck. You shouldve just not went in. I make it very clear that without my autism my employer will have a very hard time. I am one of the best of the company but give 0 fucks or responsibility for the company. I am responsible for my work and my customers which through action speaks far more than any braindead normie can speedtalk his way through.

>> No.16542625

>>16542612
Kind-of agree, on the other hand I earn commission, so an extra day of calls puts me ahead in the pecking order as far as sales numbers are concerned. Socially though it's probably less severe of a blunder to just tell them to fuck off and not go lol, I agree. I've done this too, either way sometimes I think who cares, why bother making everybody aware of my "power level", think I'll just show up to the next one and not be such an autistic dildo about it

>> No.16542640

>>16542275
>>16542277
do some shrooms over the weekend and take a long hard look at your self. you can change your life anon. I'm serious about the shrooms, shit is fucking magic

>> No.16542679

>>16542390
>nobody would even care. im truly alone.
Find a good Pentecostal Church. Ask them if they will pray for you. They will and you will have a community. They are used to people from all walks of life, ex prostitutes, drug addicts. Prayer helps and they are very welcoming and nice people. Many of them have been though things themselves. Horrific childhood etc. Good luck anon. Blessings.

>> No.16542705

>>16542277
>at the end of the day all the young attractive people went to the pub to do whatever it is young attractive people do there
they talk shit, make connections, get tipsy/drunk and, eventually, have sex with eachother; have you literally never been out with a group of people?

genuinely curious about your personal situation, anon.

are you over 27?
do you have any friends?
are you a KHV?

>> No.16542721

>>16542275
IF any of this is real, and I have my doubts, because the fantasy posts always start popping up like rancid mushrooms when the chart stops moving, what are we supposed to do? Give you asspats for being a loser? Nobody cares. And I won't give you cheap half-assed self help bullshit, either. It's your life. Fucking fix it, or shut the fuck up. Your pathetic pity party is a waste of the time it took to skim over it. Wah wah. Fuck you.

>> No.16542737

>>16542376
9/10 advice right here, specifically the "get an abused shelter dog and learn to love it" part, honestly; although..
>you will send out very different vibes and things will change
this part is a bit wishy washy and feminine/stupid/woo; there are no ""vibes"" and things aren't ""guaranteed to change for you"", I assume OP can recognise this though.

>> No.16542776

>>16542640
please don't just give this advice out without having in-depth knowledge of the individual's personal situation and history.

>shit's magic
yes, it CAN be.
it can also bring on depersonalisation and depression that is FAR worse than anything the normies have experience with.

>> No.16542809

>>16542275
I've been lurking your threads for quite some time, mate. Don't wanna be rude, but it looks like you enjoy your suffering. Peace.

>> No.16542842

>>16542679
>Find a good Pentecostal Church.
IGNORE THIS (((ADVICE))) unless you are easily able separate the indoctrination and the community aspects (you likely aren't able to at this time, even if you think you can).

BONUS:
>Prayer helps
Incorrect, in fact it has been shown in several studies to actually "make things worse, at a level that is more pronounced than random noise (0.5)".

>> No.16542846

My holiday party was a mess also. Pretty much the same deal where everyone pretty much ignored me and I just stood around awkwardly for 3 hours waiting for it to be over.
They gave me a stupid ornament looking medal for Best Computer Help but I’m the only IT guy so big deal.
Worst was a few of the office Stacys took advantage of the relaxed dress code to try to catch office Chads so I had to watch that, with their boobs all pushed up and their delicious delicious feets in strappy little heels. I dealt with it my jerking off in the bathroom not once, not twice, but three times.
Haha fuck them all.

>> No.16542899

>>16542846
>They gave me a stupid ornament for Best Computer Help
>I’m the only IT guy
kek, normies are pretty fucking stupid, aren't they? I'm always unsure if it's a lack of empathy and stupidity that causes these types of actions, or intelligent malice; benefit of the doubt/occams razor suggests stupidity, which, if you think about it, is possibly worse than intelligent malice.

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>waiting for OP to return

>> No.16543123

>>16542275
Read "how to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie. You might learn something about how the people around you work. At least i did.

Social connections start with small talk. Im really bad at small talk. But i can ask people questions about what they are interested in or what they do. Then i might be interested in what they say or i pretend to be and ask further questions. People like talking about things they like. Sometimes they might even ask me some questions. Thats a good moment to go full autism and fuck up everything. But the more you try the better you get. You could just make up things if they ask you e.g. you went sky diving without parachute or you safed someones life. There is nothing to lose. If they blame you for talking bullsh*t you can still tell them you are boring and you thought that story could have been more interesting as the last series you watched on netflix. On the other hand lots of people talk about series on netflix, so you might find someone who has the same interest as you have. And then? Who knows. I dont care. Just go for it.

You humans and your weird social rules.
I enjoy human interaction though.

>> No.16543258

>>16543123
>on the other hand lots of people talk about series on netflix, so you might find someone who has the same interest as you have.
>TV shows on (((netflix))) are "interests"
also
>everything is about how it make you look to others
and
>how others look and how much time I can spend not worrying is everything in life
this is your life on "self-help" and "social game theory"

>> No.16543290

>>16542640
retard

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>>16542275
>First we had nothing to do and I was literally unironically standing in the corner on my phone as an ugly loser. I hid in the bathroom cubicle for around 15 minutes in total but there was still a lot of time spent awkwardly and humiliatingly stood there as everyone else talked to each other in a packed room.

I was in a very similar circumstance at an end-of-project type party. As soon as the project head finished his speech, people instantly started moving their chairs to various tables and forming groups have snacks and talk. After getting over the initial shock of the hivemind-like behavior of these normies, I realized that if I didn't pick up my chair and go to a table, I'd be standing in the middle of the room alone. Quickly, I grabbed the chair and made a beeline for a table that had a couple people that I'd at least engaged in conversation with a few times before, when, as though the universe itself intervened, some other random normie strafed in from the side of my vision to occupy the last spot at the table. I stood there staring at his back in disbelief, just a couple feet behind him, and despite this awkwardness, nobody at the table even seemed to become aware of my existence. At that point I decided that yes, I'm destined to never engage in normal social discourse, and left the room to sit alone back in the work area while everyone else partied.

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>>16542275
cheer up anon! it sounds like you're suffering from low self-esteem.

low self-esteem is often better than it's reciprocal - putting people down to feel superior over them. these types of people often are incredibly insecure of what they're doing in life, and only perform actions to keep in line with the social quo. it is ABSOLUTELY okay to step outside of our cultural idea of "normal." our culture is not designed to make you feel "normal," it's designed to make you buy more things and act a certain way to fit in. if you can find fulfillment outside of our current social paradigm, people will often come to you for guidance and advice

you are amazing and sound very intelligent. there's nothing stopping you from overcoming this deficit and creating a sense of belonging with your coworkers. abandon mental limitations! it sounds like you don't want to sap the cheery environment out of the room - this is very noble. it will take a little bit of work to overcome this however. the path is yours!

i do recommend meditation and change in diet to reach this goal. diet being media, thoughts, and of course, food. adding a rainbow assortment of your favorite plants to meals is one of the easiest ways to improve all aspects of your life. best wishes anon!

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16543502

>>16542640
also, mushrooms do help! all they do is provide insight and act as a window to what is possible if you put the work in. they are a beautiful plant and connect us with who we truly are, making us more in tune with our environment. they give us the strength to adapt to our environment, whatever that may be

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>>16543472
>low self-esteem is often better than it's reciprocal - putting people down to feel superior over them. these types of people often are incredibly insecure of what they're doing in life, and only perform actions to keep in line with the social quo. it is ABSOLUTELY okay to step outside of our cultural idea of "normal." our culture is not designed to make you feel "normal," it's designed to make you buy more things and act a certain way to fit in. if you can find fulfillment outside of our current social paradigm, people will often come to you for guidance and advice
[ Paragraph 1 ] seems to suggest X, where:
>you are amazing and sound very intelligent. there's nothing stopping you from overcoming this deficit and creating a sense of belonging with your coworkers. abandon mental limitations! it sounds like you don't want to sap the cheery environment out of the room - this is very noble. it will take a little bit of work to overcome this however. the path is yours!
[ Paragraph 2 ] seems to ignore the former and suggests Y, and finally:
>i do recommend meditation and change in diet to reach this goal. diet being media, thoughts, and of course, food. adding a rainbow assortment of your favorite plants to meals is one of the easiest ways to improve all aspects of your life. best wishes anon!
[ Paragraph 3 ] is good and bad advice, mashed together with "feel better bro" batter.

In conclusion, and summarisation, your post is as follows:

> You have a problem! Do X!
> You have a problem! Do not-X!
and finally,
> Seriously though, do the two above things and also change your life while eating rainbow things!

Would love to hear your thoughts on my breakdown, anon-kun.

>> No.16543669

>>16543502
>they are a beautiful plant
>fungi, the plant
please, stop posting about things you utterly fail to understand at the most basic level; especially stop giving advice about things you DO NOT UNDERSTAND, see >>16542776

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>>16543652
>>16543669
you are darkness personified. you are letting yourself exist as a medium that spreads shame and insignificance. i'm sure you're aware of it however. it sounds like this anon is going through a rough time, why continue to hurt him?

also if you feel and experience emotions, you can try to deconstruct them logically all you want. know where rationality ends and love begins. how do you justify your arrogance and self-perceived superiority? these are emotions too, and you are willfully letting them consume you.

>> No.16543844

>>16542589
>only guy in the office out of 100 people
Sounds supremely comf, desu

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>>16543732
>you are darkness personified
I'm not sure what you mean by this.
>you are letting yourself exist as a medium that spreads shame and insignificance
If someone feels shame or insignificant, that is a function of their internal systems (brain) reacting two external and internal (looping) phenomena; show me where I've said anything to incite shame or insignificance (both personal, internal states).
>it sounds like this anon is going through a rough time, why continue to hurt him?
I've not intended pain in any way, further, can you actually SHOW band DEMONSTRATE how I've caused pain? Are you making assumptions?
>you can try to deconstruct them logically all you want
I'm simply using basic logic to show where potentially faulty reason is used and/or contradictory advice is given.
>know where rationality ends and love begins
I hope this next part is thought provoking, honestly - let me show you something interesting with the above sentence:
>know where rationality ends and love begins
With this simple, seemingly innocuous sentence, you've done something quite brave, have you noticed yet?
>know where love ends and rationality begins
Can you see it?

>> No.16543887

>>16543732
>how do you justify your arrogance and self-perceived superiority?
These are precisely YOUR perceptions of me.

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>>16543869
>know where rationality ends and love begins
precisely. do you think you're balancing them effectively? what is your goal here?

this conversation will go no further. attempt to elicit another response and you will be disappointed

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>>16543869
>>16543887
i wish you love, and light

>> No.16543934

>>16542275
>I didn't spend my teens and early 20s programming or gaining any skills

Reskill then. Go back to school.

No one likes those events, anon. They are only fun in short bursts when you finally click in a conversation. One sided conversations are not fun so if you one word answered these people no shit they stopped talked.

>> No.16543947

>>16542721
kek

>> No.16543973

You can join the IRA anytime loser. You’ll fit right in.

>> No.16543982

>>16542275
Bro, you just need to go up to your boss, look him straight in the eye, and give him a firm handshake. And don't forget to be yourself!

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>>16542275
random thoughts
> hit the gym everyday for 3 years, start small and slow
> watch good ol' times Star Trek, MacGyver, Futurama, Mel Brooks' movies and generally good cinema, avoid current self-righteous shit
> start to eat good (good vegetables, good meat, whole rice, less snacks etc)
> iWatches are lame and vapid, and so are their iOwners
> holidays are for facebook-like blue-pilled people (the colors of irony). Probably they went to Venice but never explored the hidden islands in the lagoon with the local wooden boats, or went to Japan but not to the cat villages / the deer village / Shirakawa-gō and Gokayama and other good places.
> people who enjoy belittling others are mentally little (and ill), and yes pathologically insecure, even if they seem winners. If you talk to them calmly and assertively looking into their eyes, they will be taken aback.
> read good books like Banks's The Culture series, Terry Pratchett's Discworld series, in general funny or inspiring stuff
> better alone than with taking care of your child while his mother is out with her n-th boytoy(s), like these normies will end, trust me

>> No.16544032

>>16543908
>this conversation will go no further
>>16543924
>i wish you love and light

They said that even the toughest of stone will be annihilated by the softest of waters, I just didn't think it would happen this fast.

>> No.16544222

>>16542275
>/fit/

>> No.16544232

>>16542390
>ocd
Have you tried doing cognitive behavioral therapy with someone? Speaking from personal experience, it's the best thing for it. There are also residential programs around the country for people with really severe cases, when I was there there was another guy who literally couldn't move because of whatever was going on in his head, and some other girl who drank bleach because she was convinced there were worms living inside her. There are people with more insane cases than you they've been able to help. Hang in there, brother.

>> No.16544303

>>16542275
this is why I neet. downtime at work is too painful. I wish I was normal.

>> No.16544326

Hi OP
This is a global problem, I'm utterly convinced 90% + of baby boomers were raised with sociopaths tendencies and most menials were raised to be introverts- the evidence is everywhere.
I politely decline these kind of events, when I can't get out of them I tend to spend 15-20mins just saying hi, merry xmas, hows your holiday to everyone and then I make an excuse and leave.
Boomers enjoy watching people be unpleasant they get off to it.

For context I'm from New Zealand.

>> No.16544345

>>16544303
me too, I would eventually kill these motherfuckers in a tragic event, it's neet or specialized solo work

>> No.16544349

>>16544006
In the gyms I've been to everyone just wears headphones and pervs on one another, they do not talk unless they entered the gym with someone.
I've been going to various gyms for about 5 years.

>> No.16544366

>>16542338

FRAUD

SCAM

PRISON

>> No.16544371

I'm in the opposite situation. All the people I work with are weird and awkward and barely talk. Can we trade places?
>t.Texas bro

>> No.16544419

>>16544371
I know the feels
75% boomers
25% social retards

Want to hero somedays.

>> No.16544492

>>16542376
you are a good human being stranger anon. God Bless you and happy holidays. Give your family a hug too from the kind people that still exist on 4chan.

>> No.16544534

>>16542376
Get a pitbull while you're at it

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>>16544326
>For context I'm from New Zealand.
PRAISE HIM LAD
YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN BLESSED SAINT TARRANT

>> No.16545029

>>16543869
Thats a cool picture anon. I get to see comfy cottage houses and a ma with a beard

>> No.16545041

>>16545029
Man*

>> No.16545046

>>16542275
>2 posts by this ID
gj responding to a bot everyone

>> No.16545052

>>16542275


https://web.archive.org/web/20181230045958/http://www.cliquetheory.com

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>>16545046
this is probs the best off-topic on /biz/ atm, fuck the OP, he's a gigantic faggot anyway.

>> No.16545199

>>16542277
So I basically have the same problem as you, OP. In addition to being an ugly virgin, I spent all of my free time just watching anime and playing videogames even though I stopped enjoying either years ago. But very recently I started working hard at changing my mentally, and it's produced results very quickly. I will have to keep working on it for the rest of my life, but it did give me results.

It won't make me less ugly or better at socializing, but I stopped sulking and decided I would just fucking do things. I don't care if people would consider it a waste of time at my age or in my field. Two month ago, I started to learn python in my spare time, and last month I bought a guitar. I've never played an instrument or programmed, but working on both of these things every day has given me some small semblance of purpose and focus. I won't blow anyone's minds on either, but I can do some of those basic problems on the internet and play a few songs now. Mmy productivity at work got a lot better too.

This week I decided to look into all those certifications, licenses, and exams that my coworkers were doing and I couldn't give less of a shit about at the time. I started studying for the CFA and SIE exams. And I'm going to ace them. Once, I'm comfortable enough at python, I'll try to learn an object oriented language like C#.

Maybe there are better uses of my time to climb the corporate ladder. None of this will get me a girlfriend or even laid. But I'm fucking doing something.

>> No.16545236

>>16545199
Python is already object oriented

>> No.16545294

I like to go to the fucking Christmas parties you autists

>> No.16546206

>>16542472
>san diego
born and raised. moved back there after graduating and couldnt handle the normies.
>IPAs???
>Hiking???
>Gaslamp???
>Chargers???
However there are pockets of quality folks I remember connecting north county surfer bros and north park peeps

>> No.16546872

>>16546206
SD is pozzed. also lots of jews live around the la jolla del mar area now.

>> No.16547110

>>16542275
>>16542277

next time make sure you have a bag of PNK when you go in there. people can literally sense the confidence oozing from you.

>> No.16547142

>>16542275
>>16542277
Yeah, basically you’re a fucking idiot. You’re trapped in your mind. You’ve created a living hell for yourself in that little pea brain of yours when you could have just looked at things from a different perspective. You need to start spending some time in nature thinking and meditating on things and fix your thought process and if that doesen’t eork do shrooms or start smoking weed. You won’t follow any of my advice though because you’re a miserable fuckhead. Hope you’re at least invested in BTC, LINK and ETH, pleb.

>> No.16547178

>>16542390
Go to the countryside. The modern environemnt is getting you depressed

>> No.16547461

>>16542275
For people like you, there's a thing called sprituality, you are not meant for material world, sorry, better luck next birth.

>> No.16547474

>>16543472
You sound like a rothschild

>> No.16547621

I barely get paid enough for rent and basic living expenses. Call me an ungrateful bastard but I’d honestly love to get the day off and spend time by myself shit posting with my bros.

>> No.16547680

>>16542390
Been where youre at.

Everything you said I just dont like my work environment and dont get people. But im not as socially awkward seeming because my father forced me to get sales jobs as a kid. Retail, jewelry, toy stores, etc.

Listen man you have a christmas break coming up I assume? Drop acid im serious not a CRAZY ammount. Even if you get a tap cut it up into 12 tiny pieces. Do one (1) during your vacation. You'll ne high enough to have an honest introspective experience but not trip and hallucinate.

I was literally the same as you always saving but never having money or anything i dug myself into a cycle of boredom and exclussion. My friends went on vacations and bought shit and i had no idea how they did it when i worked just as hard if not harder. I didnt talk to anyone at my office job because i didnt feel i related to them. The one saving grace i had is that form my years in retail i collected an amass of shit and dress better than eeryone.

But i digress.
You'll have 12 little pieces of acid. Id say do it once a month for a year. And you'll notice a change in your life. In your perspective and how you approach things. Jist keep it wrapped in tin foil in a black baggie in the freezer when not in use.

In addition man... Workout. Helped so much helped me discipline myself and im mote confident talking to other people and women.

Good luck.

>> No.16547695

>>16542275
Seems like you have Aspbergers. Let's get it checked out and better your life!

>> No.16547696

>>16542275
Are you that anon who works remotely?

>>16543301
>I realized that if I didn't pick up my chair and go to a table, I'd be standing in the middle of the room alone.
>Quickly, I grabbed the chair and made a beeline for a table
>some other random normie strafed in from the side of my vision to occupy the last spot at the table
>I stood there staring at his back in disbelief

Lol brutal

>> No.16548704

All in chainlink. This is our only hope anon. Aggressive with money and investing while everyone else is aggressively drinking beer. While they’re intoxicated I am learning why Tesla is going to be $4000 per share by 2025

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>>16542275
Kek I do this all the time, FUCK work team building sessions. I just spend the whole time on my phone and take excessive toilet breaks, I don't network with anyone. My boss is always shooting me disapproving glances but I simply don't give a fuck. He's a pathetic low test boomer wagecuck who has to still wage at age 65 because he got cucked by TWO ex wives. If they make me redundant I get a huge payout so it's win win.

I've turned down invites for every single team lunch, drinks, Christmas party and welcome session for the last 5 years. I don't even bother to come up with an excuse I just say I'm not going and my personal time is my personal time.

I don't stay a second beyond my agreed finish time of 3pm, even if it's in the middle of a meeting I just get up and leave. I arrive at the office at 6 30 am so I don't have to talk to anyone for 2 hours in the morning.

Seriously, FUCK normies and FUCK work social convention.

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Going to mine tomorrow. Apparently there's going to be lots of "games"

I want to die

>> No.16549762

>>16549469
On a Saturday? How depressing, wagie.

>> No.16549849

>>16549185
kek, based

>> No.16549997

Haha oh good this brought back some painful memories. I've been a shut in for ages now and had kind of forgot. Thanks for reminding me never to leave this lifestyle.

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I've been thinking that if I get another job I might ask HR to add a clause like the below into my contract :

>anon reserves the right to not attend any team building, diversity training, away day, corporate strategy, drinks, lunches or parties. If these take place during normal working hours anon will report to his normal place of work and carry out his day to day role.

Do you think they'd go for it?

>> No.16550447

>>16549185
>even if it's in the middle of a meeting I just get up and leave
lol absolutely based and wagie pilled

>> No.16550933

>>16542277
just jump in front of a train and end yourself, you'll never make it.

t. Chad

>> No.16550939

>>16549762
Mine today is only a few hours but we have to either work extra this week to make up for the hours or we have to use PTO
And it's mandatory

>> No.16550974

>>16549185
I can certify the based'ness of this anon.

If you faggots would live up to his example the west wouldn't be such a degenerate mess.

>> No.16550988

>christmas parties

Its your fucking fault if you were forced to attend.

>> No.16550998

>>16550339

My guess would be your offer gets rescinded. Try it and let us know what happens

>> No.16551009

>>16550339
>diversity Training
do americans really do this?

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>obligatory

>> No.16551151

>>16551009
I'm a britfag but yes, Americans absolutely have diversity training. The reason us brits have it now is that we've adopted their shitty HR practices.

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Chad northerner here, and as one of God's chosen people I have to tell you that all Southerners without exception are pathetic weirdos. I have only met one Southerner who I thought could take me on in a fight, and her mum was from Macclesfield so it doesn't count. Very recently I had the pleasure of making someone incredibly subservient on the tube; I quickly jumped on and put my hand on a pole, only to find that I'd inadvertently gripped on to the hand of a squirming manlet. I was about to let go, as any decent person would, but to my surprise he had no reaction whatsoever, completely still; so I held it there. After a few seconds, he slowly moved his head 90 degrees to face me, and gave me a terrified look, though said nothing. The other passengers were staring, glazed over through the windows. After a minute of him staring into my deep blue Saxon eyes, and I at his black characterless hair and hook nose, I said "Ya 'right?" He replied with an incredibly awkward nod before rustling in his pocket for his phone, which he stared at for the rest of the journey. Meanwhile my hand was still clasped around his, and I glared at a school girl's thighs. Hope this makes you feel better OP, luv ya

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>>16542275
45 year old boomer here.

>You cannot save someone from themselves

>Adapt or die, literally and figuratively

>Any other advice is either cruel, self important or navel gazing

>that is all

>> No.16551387

>>16551306
>adapt or die
I’m not going to do the treadmill. I’ll carve out the life I want while I’m young.

>> No.16551393

>>16549469
Just don’t dude. Don’t torture yourself with this stupid bullshit.

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>>16551151
what the hell do you do at diversity training?

>> No.16551415

>>16551396
Get told that niggers and trannies are marvellous and necessary for the business to succeed.

>> No.16551424

>>16549185
Same, in social situations, instead of being embarrased by normie fags I own up to my shit and don't give a fuck about them, learn to love who you are and make it your strength.

>> No.16551452

>>16544961
Fuck that cunt
I dont want my country to be part of this dumb mass suicide pact culture war but here we are. Foreigner hurts the poor browns and tranny in chief takes the guns. Great.

>> No.16551571

>>16551396
Watch nigger porn literally

>> No.16551976

>>16551424
Exactly. I pity them, having their groundhog day NPC dialogue exchanges, then giving their pre programmed responses at the meeting, before getting in their leased euro shitbox and going home to consume mass media and microwave meals.

>> No.16552927

>>16542297
Skipped mine too. Fuck that.

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>>16551452
unironically read the manifesto

>> No.16553225

>>16542390

Bro, I have ocd and add too (not adhd though). I feel pretty decent. Here's my advice:

1. Go to therapy for both.
2. Cut out tech as much as you can, it worsens add imo
3. Work out.
4. Eat as natural as possible, additives can worsen mental problems.
5. Get long term goals. Mine are investing and writing a novel.
6. If you're the kinda guy that has no gf and constantly feels bad about it, try to forget about women for now. You won't get a good one till your life isn't shit anymore, that's for sure.
7. Go to bed, preferably at 23:00, but at worst 24:00.

If you're like me, you constantly obsess about the potential you missed because of add. Keep your goals limited and achievable, therefore. Work at 'em one at a time.

And remember: self love is most important. It's what beats procrastinating. You do shit because you respect yourself. When you don't feel like doing something important, tell yourself that you respect yourself and do it to care for yourself.

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