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[Anonymous No.15767802]

Oh my God, I'm currently at a workplace team building retreat and I can hardly bear it. I am the freak that nobody talks to.

Socialising is like a game that I know I'm too ugly to win at, so I can't bother to play.

I bet the Chad and Stacey employees will be fucking each other tonight, and I'll have to hear about this shit when I'm back in the office tomorrow.

There were a few hours at the beginning of the day where people talked to each other more than usual. I even felt what it was like to be a Chad, when I was waiting to go in to a room, and people were socialising, and this qt came in the line next to me and really obviously faced me and waited for me to talk to her. Of course I didn't, because it would've led to nothing except me sperging out. Now it's 7 pm and the hierarchies and cliques have been formed and I'm rock bottom.

[Anonymous No.15767878]

Hey Anon sometimes you just fit in the group you’re surrounded with. Sometimes even Chads get nervous ( which is great to see) and uncomfortable around new people or a group that don’t jive with. Focus on networking at your gay work thing, not how much you stick out

[Anonymous No.15767893]

>>15767802
https://vocaroo.com/i/s186yFRi80qb
I can't with you pathetic faggots

[Anonymous No.15768666]

>>15767802
there are 2 types of socially autistic people.
>Those who cant do social interaction at all
>and those who can manipulate anyone with little effort because of their autistic thinking capabilities

[Anonymous No.15768693]

>>15768666
Trips of truth
t. Sociopath in real estate

[Anonymous No.15768804]

>>15767893
anon, thank you, absolute kek

[Anonymous No.15768947]

>>15768693
>or sociopath!!!1! I’m so edgy!
Kill you’re self

[Anonymous No.15768954]

>bad at socializing
>goes to a social event
It's not like these things are mandatory, what were you thinking?

[Anonymous No.15768958]

>>15768954
>this time will be different

[Anonymous No.15769015]

>>15767802

So what, you're weird and awkward. You you have to work with what you have. Maybe try contributing to the group, thinking about how you can help others and add value instead of worrying about being weird and not fitting in. You'll be surprised how accepting "Chad and Stacy" will be if you're an overall good person.

[Anonymous No.15769671]

I had to skip the last few events and dinner. The incel blackpill has crushed my motivation.

[Anonymous No.15769776]

>>15768947
this post made me laugh

[Anonymous No.15769843]

>>15767802
I feel you anon.
However, socializing is fun if you actually give a fuck.
Try to find interest in getting to know who the other person actually is, beneath the mask they carry.
Start it off light ofcourse, without coming off as an interviewer, and try to get the other person to tell you more about themselves.
People love talking about themselves, and you'll find that the most random person can suprise you when you get to know them.

Just to be clear, you were at rock bottom because you chose to be. You don't have to be at rock bottom man.

[Anonymous No.15769917]

>>15769843
People say this a lot but it hasn't really been the case in my experience. It's only sometimes true with legit boomers that are somewhat starved for contact. With anyone under 40-50 they'll forget you exist as soon as you stop talking to them if you just go through a bunch of questions, people and women especially need to be impressed in one way or another to take much note of you. Being generically nice doesn't cut it a lot of the time.

[Anonymous No.15770151]

>>15769917
But you still actually have to give a fuck.
You revice what you give, it's like a mirror.
If you just ask to be nice or to "give it a try", then that's what you get back.

People sense when you're not genuine.