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I miss being 16 lads. Everything went to absolute shit now at 25. Only 5 more years and im 30, then heading towards 40 basically. I fucking peaked and i didnt make it.

>> No.15722668

>>15722653
you should kys now. no point in continuing

>> No.15722673

>>15722653
a lot of people look hopeless in their early to mid twenties, often a crisis is what you need to put you on the right track

>> No.15722689

>>15722653
it only gets worse

t. 1 year & 2 months away from being 30

>> No.15722719

>>15722673
The people who manage to get out of the rut are less than 1 on 10 probably.
A bad start simply fucks you up and some kind of luck is what you absolutely need to get out of it

>> No.15722744

>>15722653
https://idol.sankakucomplex.com/post/show/724392

>> No.15722752

>>15722689
It gets even worse.
>t. turning 31 in a few weeks

>> No.15722817

>>15722719
>The people who manage to get out of the rut are less than 1 on 10 probably.

My subjective view is that this is exaggerated. More like 7/10 get out of it in some form or another. They don't go straight to being fortune 500 CEOs but they tend to straighten themselves out, find things to do, find their niches socially and professionally. The ones descending into further misery are not the norm.

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>>15722653

>> No.15722825

35 here just started lifting again and getting my health back. Big stack of link too so I'm not worried.

>> No.15722832

>>15722653
In what way did it go to shit, OP?

I'm in a similar boat, I'm 24 and afraid to leave my gf even though I'm pretty sure I don't love her and we've dated since hs, but now I feel like I might either end up dying alone or find a vastly inferior mate if I started dating afresh.
This is compounded by the fact that I have had no friends for a few years now and don't seem to know how to make any new good, true friends.

>> No.15722834

aside from the social life being 16 sucked ass.
30y/o boomer here, i have found life has gotten easier over time.

>> No.15722864

>>15722653
its all downhill after 24
im 40 and i would give everything i have to be 16 again

>> No.15722876

>>15722817
they went from one rut into another

>> No.15722895

>>15722689
30 here. Looks like there is no bottom

>> No.15722900

>>15722653
Take your self-help shit somewhere else fuckwit.

>> No.15722924

>>15722719
Imagine having good start and luck but fucking up anyway because you're dumb and wimpy. Well, I don't have to imagine

>> No.15722928

>>15722825
>Big stack of link too so I'm not worried.
I see you are already senile. Good for you

>> No.15722952

>>15722832
It seems like there is no demand for genuine friendship. Everyone wants something casual. Fuck buddies, drink buddies, gym buddies.

>> No.15722953

>>15722673
lmao i would give everything to be 25 again, im 34 and it gets worse with every year

>> No.15722958

>>15722953
Fix your diet and get enough sleep.

>> No.15722968

25 years old is a child, your brain has literally not even finished developing if you are a male. You shouldn't legally be allowed to vote or buy pot.

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>>15722928
I'll buy btc and eth too when I get more cash

>> No.15723011

>>15722653
40 here and everyone itt kys, it doesn't get any better. Having more wealth doesn't fix anything either, you just become an old miserable fuck with more stuff.

>> No.15723083

>>15723011
30 here and I feel much better than in my 20s

>> No.15723115

>>15722744
Thank you so goddamn much man

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>>15722653
OOHHH I`M COOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMIIIIIINNNNNNG

>> No.15723141

>>15722653
Early to mid 20's is struggle, but once you figure it out it gets much better. I am almost 30, fought through the shit and now life is amazing.
Just don't get fat while being down, it makes everything much worse.

>> No.15723170

>>15723141
Figure what out?

>> No.15723177

All of you pussies are soft. You never had multiple days where it was life or death. You've never had to worry about where you're going to sleep or how you're going to get your next meal. You cry about shit that's out of your control instead of realizing that nobody is coming to save you. We all die in the end. Stop living your life guided by fear. You're a man act like it

>> No.15723208

>>15722653
Time to play a different game perhaps

>> No.15723233

>>15722653
You fucking kids. 25 is baby time . You know fuck all but don’t even know that you don’t know fuck all.
40s is where you make the biggest $$$. Fact.

>> No.15723280

>>15723233
Putting yourself through the ringer (and I mean being forced to work fucking hard, not just sitting around being depressed) is probably a positive character-building influence longterm.

>> No.15723284

>>15723280 meant to quote >>15723177

>> No.15723286

>>15723280
oy vey

>> No.15723288

>>15722653
>The wall doesn't hit me-

>> No.15723300

>>15723286
t. resentful he didn't inherit wealth like the jewish bankers he hates

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>>15722653
pornhub
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>> No.15723338

>>15722834
>life gets easier after you have bills and have to wagecuck so you don't get homless + 15 more years of potential health issues piling up
You are either actually retarded or your parents didn't love you.

>> No.15723436

>>15722864
Im 45 almost

meh life is what it is in some ways better now because you dont have to give a fuck about so much

also living with two women (ones a bit of a bitch though) and having reproduced twice .....

Yeah there's kinda less pressure.

>> No.15723472

>>15722653

I used to think this way. Then I realized at 16, I had no opportunities to know any better. Sixteen was when I discovered this site unironically, over 10 years ago. I have browsed hundreds of thousands of posts and rarely post myself, but I'm doing it now to state and point and because I feel, now is the time to rant and in this rant perhaps establish a process of healing for myself.

A unique thought occurred. From where would I get the information I have now in my arsenal? To program or to know about cryptocurrencies. I actually discovered Bitcoin at 16... this was 2010 when it was just a couple bucks and I tried to mine but couldn't figure out how and didn't have the money to buy crypto. My parents didn't teach me anything and the internet was still in it's infancy, torrents weren't as good and I simply did not have the circle of friends, the time or any sort of mentor to advance in my knowledge of game, business, programming, crypto, etc, etc. At what point could I have influenced the outcome of things?

An example would be the fact that I grew weed in high school, backyard, the forest, etc. But my crops always failed. I didn't understand rigorous farming technique and the concept of proper seedlings. I have traced two failures; proper marijuana cultivation would have netted me actual money when the economy was in the trash and my knowledge of BTC would have led me to buy it with hard-earned gains, then I would inevitably would do time and wouldn't be able to sell my BTC... the longer the sentence, the better. And I would come out worth millions if not a hundred million with my private key memorized.

>> No.15723505

>>15723472

My point being faggot OP, I figured out the exact timeframe that my consciousness now would have to be in my previous body, being that at the age of 14... motherfucker, at 14 I would have to know what I know now to change things. Not 16. You have to trace time back to the decisions and even pre-decisions that led you to where you are now. A 14 year old's understanding of discipline, basic technological innovation and such just aren't on par with my background and the lack of steering I received at that age. I also want to lament, that I didn't buy Bitcoin at 16 or later because I read an Economist's article stating that BTC was meant to replace the dollar and I knew at the time no deflationary asset would replace fiat due to the earlier struggle at the beginning of the century (read William Jenning's Brayn Cross of Gold speech). But I failed to understand BTC was just a major stepping stone. Just a few words, "Bitcoin aims to replace the USD fiat standard" were the difference between me investing and not investing. The decisions and actions of those times have influenced me immensely and now I view the world in much less rose-tinted glasses.

What I'm trying to say, is that your appeal of the world is significantly less due to your understanding of it. The more you understand the world, truly understand it, the darker you become, at least from a spiritual perspective. I am not trying to say "it's going to be okay" and "better days are ahead" because they're probably not, for at least you. But I have granted myself quite a bit of self-acceptance for my mistakes, however large because I failed... and I failed because there were no conclusive options for me to take otherwise that would have led down a different path. Now I have many options to decide how my life will go and I continue to choose the safest bet over the long course.

I recommend you take a look to what that has led you to today and then basically find out what you're bringing to the world.

>> No.15723524

>>15723505

Let's make a simple decision tree to nail it home for faggots like you and other loser boomers in this thread.

If X => X => X => X => X

Your life currently in the equation above

If X => X => X => X
||
Y => D => E => C

What you like to think is that you could have chosen option Y at the critical junction.

BUT THE DECISION TO PICK Y HAD TO PRECEDE THE DECISION X, WHICH WAS IMPOSSIBLE GIVEN CIRCUMSTANCES

>> No.15723538

>>15723524
Im simply mad at my fate and genetics dealing me shitty cards from the start. I been suffering from heavy ocd since kindergarden.

>> No.15723549

>>15723538
sound like a lot of blaming instead of accepting, perhaps a rope is a good option

>> No.15723573

>>15722832
I'm 25 and in the exact same relationship you described. I'm at the point where I have to marry her or dump her. Leaning towards the latter.

>> No.15723584

>>15723524

At a younger age, you enjoyed the preoccupation of your mind-numbing existence in a delightful bliss of ignorance.

I didn't. I was ridiculed and mocked and heavily ostracized growing up in school. I knew my vast intelligence would allow me to gain victory in the longer term over the jock faggots I went to school with. In hence time, I have re-rendered my decisions to accept the previous information to impact further decisions. Meaning, I look twenty, thirty, forty years ahead from the perspective of then, back now, to choose the proper decision for my life. I know the end point and I simply have to re-arrange the data tree to suit the journey there, being many multitudes of paths and possible endings. I play from the endgame and it has vastly improved my life over the course of 18 months. Surely, there are depressing days and days when I want to kms, but that'll never go away.

Understand this, we are but bits of programming and have an intended purpose. DNA is literally code, strands of protein and you in your neural network have a pathology, biology and behavior instincts. You have a purpose, probably as a janitor but who knows. I have chosen mine and accept that the confines of this purpose, I am to fulfill because I see it and I must obey it because I have no other choice, I will be miserable if I ignore it because I know. I think therefore, I am. I know there, I must or I see, therefore I must go. In the same way OP, you must realize you are a bacterium in the greater whole of bacteria that is humanial civilization. You must contribute or you can choose not to, whatever the fuck you really want. But you must understand we are moving through the time dimension and this bacterium fluctates and that you are in a key perspective point and have decisions influenced by the past that can trigger future actions. As soon as you see the tree and the ideal endpoint you can begin working towards it and planning and executing.

>> No.15723607

>>15723538

You're probably as ugly and stupid as you think you are, but people care much less about you than you think. There is nothing you can do to change that and you have probably been resorted to the lower tier of existence. I would say suck it up but that sucks and there's nothing you can really do about it. My path and my philosophy does not apply to you. There is also no such thing as destiny or meant to happen. You are not special and neither am I. I would tell you to do shit but you'll be unmotivated to do shit and could care less, as I would to. Ultimately you just have to be (or not to be, choose rope). It doesn't matter to me or anyone else here really. If by existing and you continue existing you'll find perhaps other choices open up.

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>>15723607

>> No.15723655

>>15723300
i mean who isnt t b h

>> No.15723715

>>15723584
I could never see the endpoint. I can't see into the future at all. And I never felt purpose. I guess you were born with it. Or maybe struggle made you this way. I was the jock you were talking about. I was care-free and had everything handed to me. And now I'm paying for it.

>> No.15723780

>>15722653
Don't worry OP, 30 is a peak of human male. You have 5 more years: 2 to fix your shit, 3 to enjoy life. But then your health and sex appeal will dwindle, and it will become increasingly harder just to make friends. However, even I haven't grown up to a point where it becomes a major issue.

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>>15722975
Imagine waking up to that everyday