>TFW cucked from the start due to my parents mentally cucking me and never teaching me how to actually make it in this world

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Anonymous Sun Sep 8 23:41:12 2019 No.15532338 [Reply] [Original]

>TFW cucked from the start due to my parents mentally cucking me and never teaching me how to actually make it in this world

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 8 23:42:08 2019 No.15532349 >>15532338 Pull yourself by your bootstraps. That's what I did.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 8 23:43:28 2019 No.15532357 >>15532338 >My parents didn't teach me so I didn't make it By 18 yeah. After that you're able to seek out better mentors/experiences and learn on your own. You'll understand by the time you're 21.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 8 23:44:53 2019 No.15532369 >>15532357 I'm 23.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:04:35 2019 No.15532468 >>15532369 I was a complete ding dong and a loser at your age. now I'm just a loser. you'll learn in time if you put the effort in. I know 50 year olds that are complete retards and 20 somethings who put them to shame. It's really all up to you.

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:11:42 2019 No.15532513

>>15532369
Start lifting 3-4 times per week, 8 reps per set, 4 sets per exercise, at least 5 exercises. Eat at least 100g of protein per week. Within a year you'll have given your body and mind the ability to appreciate discipline and non-immediate rewards, plus the mires will raise your confidence enough to get serious on other endeavors. For the natural losers, everything starts at the gym. You're not a late bloomer if you never put in the work that you need to bloom.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:12:40 2019 No.15532516 >>15532468 I'm doing okay financially and job-wise but it's just that im too timid and beta. >>15532513 Already lift and made quite good gains (people occasionally comment on it recently). It didn't help me much.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:12:43 2019 No.15532517 File: 170 KB, 768x1024, 1550697587050.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>15532513 *at least 100g of protein per day, not week, holy shit that could have ruined your life.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:13:56 2019 No.15532525 >>15532349 Take the boomerpill, OP

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:15:08 2019 No.15532534

>>15532516
Then you're not hitting your natural progression. After getting fit the attraction from women should have you going to more social events. You'll have to kickstart that yourself too and force yourself to bars where events are happening, or to sign up for casual sporting events that women might show up at like kayaking or some dumb shit. It'll hurt, but you have to go at least once per week. It sounds like you also might be disrupting your instincts that should push you in the right direction. Lower your amount of masturbation and especially the amount of porn that you watch. Don't quit it, but lower it to twice a week and see if you can handle that.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:15:21 2019 No.15532538 >>15532516 Start going to swing dances, unironically. Not so much to meet a nice girl, but rather just to get you out of your shell more confident in approaching others.

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:18:10 2019 No.15532550

>>15532338
>tfw my dad thinks he failed me because I can't provide for myself in a jewified world that's rigged against me to the point where not competing is preferable to destroying my mental and physical health to ensure that jamal and schlomo can live in comfort

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:24:53 2019 No.15532590

>>15532534
yes i was thinking to get started on some new hobbies as i don't currently do much besides the gym, work and internet stuff.

And getting fit hasn't really been much help, i don't look like gigachad you can tell I work out but it's obviously not to the level of people stopping on the street and staring.

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:25:19 2019 No.15532592

>>15532550
There's literally no such thing as "mental health", that's the most jewish shit I've ever heard to sell you something.

>hey goy buy this
>"No thanks haha I'm trying to save generational wealth, I'll only need to spend money on my needs and my health"
>well this vacation IS your health! so is this ice cream, and this extra car, and these addictive pills

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:28:00 2019 No.15532606 the only way to uncuck yourself is to have sex with your mom

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:33:35 2019 No.15532641

>>15532338
I had an overbearing highly religious father working a dead end job and constantly screaming at me throughout my youth. Like every day shit. Twas raised to beta until I said fuck it and got into drugs. I was pretty self destructive for a while.

It's possible to change but you need to do it yourself. You don't need to keep the hand you're dealt. Just discard the nonsense and learn about new ways to navigate this shithole. At least you're eating redpills now instead of later.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:37:14 2019 No.15532666 >>15532592 it's more like being forced to fuck people over at work or so married to your fuckin job that you have no identity beyond your employment.... literally every job I've had or come close to having in the last 5 years is both these things

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:38:22 2019 No.15532674 >>15532641 Any specific suggestions on this anon? How did you get over it?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 00:59:06 2019 No.15532773 bump

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:03:16 2019 No.15532794

>>15532534
>After getting fit the attraction from women should have you going to more social events.

Fucking kek, you are delusional, frat boys don't even lift, for a fratboy a 180lb bench press is impressive, hell most of them just do one plate, if you actually lift like eating 100g of protein autism and you are not larping you are likely a gymcel

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:10:11 2019 No.15532832

>>15532794

Beware of gymcelling, lifting is good but don't go into the autism of micromanaging everything thinking it will make you slay, see Downhill Miller, sometimes a few therapy sessions for fucking basic communication skills or speaking abilities can fix your main issues

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:11:25 2019 No.15532843 >>15532525 Lmao

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:12:19 2019 No.15532848

>>15532674
I had to move out. I went to college, and being out on my own allowed me to grow. I learned to be self sufficient, but it would take me a number of years to get past the majority of that fuckery. Alot of it was just self improvement but my self destructive tendencies followed me into my romantic relationships, my education, and my career; in the form of self sabotage. When I was getting high marks, I would stop studying or party harder. If the girl was too good, I would get bored, stop talking to, or cheat on her. If the career was going too smoothly, I'd alienate coworkers or stop making progress or whatever the fuck I did to fuck that one. My life is a series of self-inflicted damage.

I think I got past of the bulk of the self sabotage but to this day I subconsciously believe I don't deserve nice things. At this point it's a malignant character flaw and one of the largest hurdles I've had to deal with. I haven't had a major mishap lately, I think largely because biz has painted a personal goal so vividly in my mind, it almost seems attainable. That goal being financial freedom of course. It helps to have a driving motivation to help steer yourself in the right directions.

As for the relationship with my father, that never recovered. We meet maybe annually and talk a bit but even though I've said I forgave him, I never really did. He lives alone, divorced, and my sibling hates him more than I ever did.

I don't have any answers for you, but if you're dealing with this level of mental cuckening, I feel for you. You're in for alot of pain, and that pain is gonna be caused by your own hand. I would be so far ahead of the curve if I had my fucking head screwed on correctly from the start, but not all of us are born lucky with parents who aren't broken.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:20:08 2019 No.15532889 >>15532338 Same. They just let me sit in my room playing vidya all day every day during my entire teens. So much time wasted on literally nothing.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:22:18 2019 No.15532899 >>15532889 What would have been a better use of your time? i bet you can't come with a good answer unless it's something that you can also do while playing vidya like a normal teenager, like sports or whatever, you lazy piece of shit

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:23:41 2019 No.15532908 >>15532338 fuck me just take responsibility for being you. Don't blame being a beta on your parents you loser.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:24:44 2019 No.15532913 >>15532794 No shit retard that's why he needs to lift, because he is naturally beneath them. He has to use hard work to get any sort of positive trait.

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:27:41 2019 No.15532934

>>15532899
Fuck you faggot. Learning to weld, learning to draw from life, studying mathematics (linear alg, calculus, trig, not abstract math), exercising, reading insanely insightful books like the tipping point. The list is endless on things that could have been done instead of video games

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:31:47 2019 No.15532954 >>15532534 Post body you fucking retard.

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:33:52 2019 No.15532965 [DELETED]

>>15532913

>I already lift. Didn't help so much
>Bro you need to keep lifting more, eat at least 100 g DAILY EIGHT SCOOPS CMON that will fix it up!

>>15532934

If you didn't feel compelled to do these things by yourself you wouldn't have done them either if you were forced, what if i told you that people in his teenager ages felt compelled to do new things and you didn't because you were chemically castrated by design of nature, I know a lot of people who did vidya and also had music bands, read philosophy, lifted, and all that shit, you are just a deadbeat by your own motivational brain chemistry, actually vidya made some people get interested in stuff and learn more, it pushed people to lift to become like their video game characters, or read to understand the context of some video games

seriously the only way you could have fucked up your teenager years by playing video games is if you went full WoW style and that's because you are braindead either way (because if you played something alpha like Runescape you would be bitcoin rich by now), like who the fuck plays video games without realizing it's a fucking skinner box and avoid the games that are just extreme timesinks by design

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:33:55 2019 No.15532968

>>15532899
>What would have been a better use of your time?

Working on my programming skills, or doing literally anything constructive. I'm developing games now as a hobby, have a programming job as my main income. I honestly think I could do my hobby as a main job now if I had had some more pressure from them as a teen. Now I have to wageslave with stuff that doesn't interest me that much.

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:35:19 2019 No.15532970

>>15532338
>parents mentally cucking me and never teaching me how to actually make it in this world

Part of making it in this world is to realize that blaming your parents is a waste of focus. Focus on improving yourself and your parents' failures will not matter anymore.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:35:22 2019 No.15532972 >>15532349 I dunno if you've ever had boots that had straps but it's literally impossible to pull yourself up by them due to the laws of nature, which is the point of the phrase

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:35:59 2019 No.15532979

>>15532965
>If you didn't feel compelled to do these things by yourself you wouldn't have done them either if you were forced

I DID feel compelled to do them, but as a dumb teen who thought life would be this easy forever, doing what's immediately gratifying is much more likely when you have literally zero pressure on you to succeed

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:36:41 2019 No.15532984 >>15532968 >videogames were a complete timesink >but now my only hope for a better job is my hobby which is programming video games nice logic, sage, im outta here

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:37:09 2019 No.15532986

>>15532965
>If you didn't feel compelled to do these things by yourself
You don't know that you stupid fuckface. Have you ever considered that a childs development can get severely fucked up and the fact that if a child is not introduced to a concept then they have no fucking concept of that concept? Personally, I didn't even discover my passion for math until my mid twenties because I was stuck in a rut after my parents died. Are you going to sit on your fat ass and tell me I wouldn't have loved math at an earlier age if I had a proper upbringing? It can be like this for anyone

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:39:30 2019 No.15533000 [DELETED]

>>15532986

Yeah i think your parents dying have a far better deciding factor into losing all kind of hope when you are young, since i had something similar for my father and even though i actually *didn't* wasted my teenager years i still became a fuck up after that

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:40:40 2019 No.15533012 >>15532984 I still like videogames, but they ARE a useless timesink. You can spend time on useless things in controlled doses

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:42:02 2019 No.15533019 >>15532965 >stop trying to better yourself RRREEEEE You sound more jealous than a woman hitting the wall. Post body.

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:42:46 2019 No.15533021

>>15532516
Try changing something. Quit masturbating and start meditating. Read some Ironpill books and start lifting. You got this OP. Society has been geared toward the castration of men for a while, you aren't alone and there are ways of finding confidence again. Good luck

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:43:46 2019 No.15533027 >>15532338 good good, keep blaming others anon just remember that nothing is your fault

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 01:45:45 2019 No.15533038 >>15533027 Chad advice

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 02:24:21 2019 No.15533256 >>15533027 This. And also do heroin to spite your parents. That'll show em.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 02:27:28 2019 No.15533269 File: 97 KB, 689x473, 1549326344315.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>15532338

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 04:05:15 2019 No.15533702 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5ZmReC-bMA

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 04:14:45 2019 No.15533756 >>15533027 alpha mindset. OP stop being a faggot. You obviously know what they did wrong (according to you) so change it. Stop being a little faglet and do something about it. Be the person your parents obviously didn't think you could be.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 06:05:31 2019 No.15534302 >>15532666 Satan confirms

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 06:22:16 2019 No.15534369 >>15532534 > just sign for kayaking dude Otherwise, yeah, lookmax is simply tipping the scales in one's favor. I went exactly as you described from turbo autist incel to being approached parties, even when going there alone.

Anonymous Mon Sep 9 06:29:26 2019 No.15534394

>>15532934
This is based
> lift
> weld
> build a cuckshed or log cabin for fun
> grow your food at least partially
> get a well drilled for a free non zogged water
Let the sinners drown in the abyss of vapid vacations, niggerball, talmudvision and Instagram consumerism larps

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 06:44:56 2019 No.15534486 >>15532848 good post

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 9 07:01:36 2019 No.15534587 >>15532848 2 relatable 4 me

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