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College starts in a week FUCK I'm the biggest loser on campus I hate talking to people REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>> No.15320157

>>15320150
Get a normal haircut, dress like a normal person and don't show off. Be social as trust me, everyone is in a great mood and genuinely wants to be friends.

You won't find an easier time in your life to immediately make friends with no effort than the start of college.

Finally join societies and groups, they're low effort high reward.

>> No.15320163

>>15320150
Lmao. Just dont talk to anyone. Most people just do their own thing and they'll leave you alone

>> No.15320172

>>15320163
Redpilled
>>15320157
Bluepilled

>> No.15320179
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Nibba I can't wait theres so much fine puss to be slayed. Though I'll probably be jerking it into socks still

>> No.15320242

>6 years in uni
>not got laid one single time
>/fit/

I understood my problem is autism, face and depression, desu i don't see what i can bring to the table, i just wanted to dick some girl no strings attached but im not chad (ie good genetics for conquering worlds with carbonic lifeforms) to be able to pull that off

>> No.15320247

>>15320150
rofl do you think getting rich is going to help you learn how to talk to people? You'll just be a rich neet that OD's within a few months.

>> No.15320413

>>15320150

Are you a zoomer or a boomer? Do you have your finances in order?

>> No.15320426

>>15320242
rofl this post is so sad. Stop being such a bitch. Women don't give a fuck what you look like if you're interesting and can hold a conversation without looking like a beta faggot who sobs over their own weaknesses, you fucking pussy. Get over it or you'll never get laid.

t.chad here

>> No.15320448

>>15320150
just don’t kill any

>> No.15320494
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>>15320426
>What you look like determines if you are alpha or beta
>if you are tall people will see you as a leader
>If your chin and brow are strong, people will think you can fight
>women's default setting is lying, it's how they survive
>ugly guys who are assholes comes off as bitter and toxic, not alpha
>The only thing you can do is make money and buy their time
>fear is stronger than love
remember the last one

>> No.15320519

>>15320150
Just work out, get buff, get a hobby you love and that makes you bot give a fuck about being liked by others anymore. Find a book you really get into, which makes you forget about all the other stuff. I guess what i am trying to say is focus on yourself, fuck everybody else. They are not worth your energy.

>> No.15320520

>>15320150

Talk to people.

Thats the dragon guarding the pot of gold bucko! its the call to adventure

you have to go into the unknown to activate different versions of yourself! bring the pot of gold home !

>> No.15320543

>>15320426
just b usef :)

>> No.15320580

I am in my final year of college and I'm still a friendless, kissless virgin.

>> No.15320589

>>15320580
tell me how many girls have you had a conversation with?

how many groups have you joined?

or do you just dart to your room like a sperg to play video games?

>> No.15320594

>>15320543
Definitely do NOT do this if you're a typical cringelord 4chan NEET who is scared to order pizza over the phone.

Fake it as a chad until you make it you stupid motherfuckers.

>> No.15320652

>>15320520
I can talk to guys, I have had some friends in the past but I struggle talking to girls. I literally do not have a single girl's number saved in my phone. I hate talking in front of people too giving presentations, group work with randoms etc it just sucks fucking ass and I'm terrible at that shit. I have no choice but to do it tho.

>>15320594
I'm not born chad and I never will be. If you do that as an incel people will just cringe and think you're a tryhard. I'm the typical incel. Weak, frail, ugly, socially autistic, no friends. I cringe at everything I do.

>> No.15320663

>>15320589
>how many girls have you had a conversation with?
I'm not that autistic to count conversations, but yes I haven't been the one to first engage in a conversation often.
>how many groups have you joined?
Not that many groups except sport groups in my uni, but I lift already.
>or do you just dart to your room like a sperg to play video games?
You are right here in terms of me darting to my room as soom as the classes are over. But it's hard now after 4 years of not engaging with others to suddenly start talking all excited to the same people I haven't bothered to talk to in the last 4 years, would probably seem extremely weird.
Oh and I hate video games

>> No.15320717

>>15320594
That's pretty cute but try being alpha when you're a manlet or something. I legit don't give a fuck what people think of me, but hesitating in something if you don't look good automatically kills a conversation. Of course it's possible to be even better, but for that you have to have friends already and don't have a scarcity mindset to legit give zero perfect fucks and make it. It's definitely possible but not something easily doable while being in college and trying to learn and figure out jobs at the same time

>> No.15320756

>>15320150
ive been to a college campus, youre all losers

>> No.15320841

Frens, here are some thoughts from a 29-year-old boomer (master's degree from top tier school):

Don't worry, hard as it is. When I went into uni I thought I would instantly start balling, lots of frens and beer pong and sloots. Didn't happen, fell into the hardest depression I ever fell into, panic attacks, years of SSRI medication haze, also developed life-crippling insomnia as a nice bonus, still not healed although finally becoming manageable.

University can be intimidating, and it is equally intimidating to see your friends get nice summer jobs, epic girlfriends and finally good jobs. And you keep telling yourself "jesus christ, am I still not able to stop being a longer? Fuck my life!"

But finding yourself takes time. My life didn't properly start until after university. Through travel, work and forcing myself to socialize things slowly got better, and now I feel comfortable in almost any situation. Still things to fix, and I thought I would never ever turn 30, but apparently that can happen.

Where ever you are in life, even if you feel like your life sucks, you take 1 or 2 years to fix it and things just turn and you blow past your idle contemporaries.

Almost everyone gets complacent, almost everyone eventually fails at life on the axle of friends-good marriage-kids that don't suck ass- good finances. Take your time to master them.

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I'm going to study IT so I'm guessing there will be a lot of nerds lol. Thankfully I've been socialising the past year, have 20k LINK(thank fuck for chainlink and praise Sergey Nazarov) and worked out hard to look bigger than most. Overall I feel good. I mean how hard can it be if there will be uni events and what not. If you go drinking with others, you are bound to have some fun. Before I started going out more, I thought drinking is degenerate and what not, but it's a great way for everybody to have fun. Of course drinking all the time is bad, but being a lonely angry guy who hates everybody is even worse.

>> No.15321095

>>15320150
I got some pills for dealing with social anxiety.
Problem is I can only take them four days in a row, as the tolerance gets too high otherwise.
I always suffer from shitty withdrawals on the weekends.
So on 4 days, I feel on top of the world and the other 3 days, I just want to die.

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>>15320426

Im not an interesting human being and i don't want to be, im autistic and i like things people don't like, i don't have social anxiety i just feel people interest are different than mine, i have come to accept my autism as the way im, i prefer to talk about why the americans decided to use X engine over X device in post-ww2 rather than some gossip about chad having a 1 inch larger penis than brad and probably will shut the fuck up if you start gossiping about something i don't care or just straight up leaving the place to save my brain from such stupid waste of time, now if i make a sum of all the hours i would expend listening to shit i don't care just to get laid it would be a lot of hours indeed, maybe the soft voice of a girl makes things more interesting but that's why music works too so i dunno, my sister is annoying af so probably im having some issues there too thinking every woman is like that