Divorce

[Anonymous No.15150474]

Been seeing you dumbasses suprised that TechLead got JUSTed. I still can't believe that even on 4chan where red pills are everwhere, you blind fucks still choose to ignore them.

The dude got a textbook divorce rape. Women are hypergamous by nature, which means they will always search for a better mate. The invention of contraceptives and ego fueling social media was the catalyst to this behaviour.

I'll sum it up; marriages today are almost a 100% loss for a man. You'd be better off donating to charity. The best strategy currently is to hire prostitutes and never have a gf or marry. If it's kids you want then find a surrogate mother, take your child and run.

> But muh wife
Is either a fat no sex whale or planning to divorce rape you any time soon.

> But muh 3 day wife
Give it more time and see what happens.

And stop linking your happiness to someone else loving you and realize you only need to love yourself. See love for what it is - a trade of goods.

[Anonymous No.15150490]

this is terrible advice

[Anonymous No.15150531]

This is how I plan to live my life.
Convince me otherwise please

[Anonymous No.15150566]

>>15150474

correct. you can't pull people out of the illusion though they gotta do it themselves.

[Anonymous No.15150573]

You should become successful, then find a good girl solidly beneath the level of girls you could pull otherwise

[Anonymous No.15150577]

>>15150474
get a prenup. done. some don't hold up but it's rare. having a wife has many other benefits. splitting costs of things if they work, someone to take care of your kids, someone to be there if you have a medical emergency, etc.

[Anonymous No.15150593]

Advice from a 14 year old...thanks I'll keep that in mind...honest i will.

[Anonymous No.15150599]

Wives are good for one thing, and it gets worse and less as time goes on. Sex and bj's. If you have other ways of getting these without a wife, you will save yourself tons of money and headaches.

[Anonymous No.15150608]

>>15150474
>The best strategy currently is to hire prostitutes and never have a gf or marry
Whatcha doin rubbin hands man?

[Anonymous No.15150609]

>>15150474
why do you care? let the vast majority of men get divorce raped, its in your interest

if all men were to collectively decide to not marry, you can bet there would be extreme reactions from governments, like a bachelor tax etc.

save money, invest, after a decade or so live off the dividends. it is directly in your interest for the system to carry on as it is, let the vast majority of men get taken to the cleaners, so you can slip through the cracks and achieve financial freedom

[Anonymous No.15150621]

>>15150609

this is also true

[Anonymous No.15150624]

Everyone is wrong on this. The best way to handle the situation is to become so rich that it doesn't matter if you lose half or even 75% of your money.

[Anonymous No.15150667]

>>15150624
Brah even brendan fraser a multi-millionaire got fucking JUST'd so hard by divorce that the JUST meme was literally born.
Using your strategy only billionaires should get married so literally < 0.01% of the population

[Anonymous No.15150681]

jesus just look at all you betas who can't even think about getting themselfes a wive who works and brings home some money ...

>but but anona, marriage is a loss 100%
> anon, women will always betray you
omg just how fucking beta are you guys? it's almost like you want to fail in life ... seriously, you get, what you deserve. this applies to >>15150573 too.

[Anonymous No.15150692]

>>15150681

t. roastie

[Anonymous No.15150709]

>>15150681
> Having a wife is alpha

[Anonymous No.15150716]

>>15150624
or i mean u could just get a prenup and lose $0 and 0 cents but no, disney eyed simpletons wouldn't want to ruin the mood with a simple, mutually protective solution because what if she suddenly doesn't like me reeeeee

[Anonymous No.15150719]

>>15150474
Or maybe you're just awful person who wasted his life going after awful women

Been with my wife for 5 years, she's hotter than ever

[Anonymous No.15150733]

>>15150681
The chance of your wife divorcing you is 50% unironically based on studies. Good luck finding a wife richer than you when women are notorious for marrying up not down.

[Anonymous No.15150752]

what if your wife earns as much or more than you do?

[Anonymous No.15150769]

>>15150681
If you marry the hottest chick you can pull at your peak, she is going to get disinterested if you have a rough patch. Her “feelings will change” and she won’t “love you anymore”. Then goodbye to half your stuff, right when you need it!

[Anonymous No.15150770]

>>15150716
>prenup losing $0
Will not hold up in court, you'd need to give her something at least.

[Anonymous No.15150784]

>>15150692
nope just someone who is not a complete fail and brings in some real life experience. also, most people here completly overestimate the power of money ... jesus, I've dropped a filthy rich gf (last heir, no other friends etc. - fucking safe deal), who literally begged me to stay, cause I was fed up with her issues ... Guys, people won't stay at your side for money. it's a fucking myth and life doesn't work that way. You'r either a fun to be with person or you are not ... and those fails who do stay for the money are not the ones you want to have around. grow some common sense bimbos!

[Anonymous No.15150797]

>>15150716
>he doesn't know

Prenups get thrown out all the time. The longer the marriage, the more worthless it becomes.

The best advice is marry someone who is not:

Dangerous Personality
Playing Captain Save a Hoe
Daddy Issues
Broke
Drug & Alcohol Dependent
Controlling / Jealous
Single Mothers

Remember the Golden Rule my lawyer taught me. That the lower the social class of the woman you marry, the MORE you will get fucked in any divorce. So you think that jungle nigger asian girl you bought in Thailand is harmless. Believe me the Judge will fuck you good in a divorce. Dear god, you are so fucked.

[Anonymous No.15150827]

>>15150474
>fake tits
>vascular forearms
>receding hairline
hard pass

[Anonymous No.15150902]

>>15150784
The number 1 cause of divorce is money issues. The number 1 cause of depression is money issues. The number 1 cause of being poor or homeless is money issues. Over 90% of people claim their lives would be better if they had more money. The number 1 reason people lose their house is because of money. The easiest way to make money is to have money. The only way to lose money is to have money. The number 1 cause of starvation is because of money. The reason most Americans cant afford to go to the doctor is because of money. The number 1 reason people dont go to college is because of money. The number 1 reason people dont have vehicles is because of money. The reason most people are in debt is because of money. The biggest driving force to get anything done is money. The world is controlled by those with the most money. The only way to be rich is to have money. The best security is bought with money. To buy things costs money, to buy nice things costs more money. I have no clue wtf you are talking about

[Anonymous No.15150911]

This is why I just go for transgirls. They're hotter also

[Anonymous No.15150954]

>>15150784

> money doesn't mean anything!!!
> entertain me at all times and be FUN or i'm LEAVING

go away roastie

[Anonymous No.15150967]

>>15150719
>but muh 5 years wife
5 years isnt a long time for you to be lax about it. Fucking gradeschool is longer. Prepare to get BTFO.

[Anonymous No.15150992]

>>15150474
Everything you said is 100% true but it's like preaching to a bunch of druggies. They see marriage is bad news but they just can't not do it, they need the constant oxytocin rush of feeling useful and loved.

[Anonymous No.15151032]

>>15150967
This, my best friend has been married for 5 years. He literally is suicidal and addicted to cocaine now because his life is so fucked because his wife is such a horrible person. He fucked up by marrying her and having kids, yes. Now she is fat af and bitches more than a 65 year old woman with knee and back problems, she is 24. He doesnt understand why no one wants to hang out with him anymore or why no one wants to go to his house. He is so mind fucked by her he honestly believes it's because of him why all our friends avoid him. He has absolutely no idea it's his wife and believes he is a bastard for getting mad at her or wanting to leave. It's sad af.

[Anonymous No.15151705]

>>15150797
My ex ticked all of these boxes. Do not fall for the gf meme, anons.

[Anonymous No.15151738]

>>15150474
Married 2 years
Shes still fit and fucks me when I want

Try marrying a virgin like a real chad you beta loser fag

[Anonymous No.15151785]

>>15151705
>Do not fall for the gf meme
dont get a shit dropkick girlfriend retard, thats like driving a 70 year old rusted broken car thats been sitting in a junk yard and saying dont fall for the car meme

[Anonymous No.15151834]

Just marry someone wealthier/higher salary than you. Bug her phone/monitor network for signs of cheating. If she does, ask to open the relationship to preserve marriage for the sake of the kids. If she divorces, she makes more than you anyways.

This is easy as hell to do if you are middle class. Go to a place like NYC where the dating field is hilariously skewed towards men, don't go to SF where it is all men.

[Anonymous No.15151864]

>>15150474
Pussy is a powerful drug and most men are lifelong addicted to it.

[Anonymous No.15151911]

>>15150474
Instead of completely disregarding a basic human need, look at how to avoid the situation: you marry someone in the same class you're in (finance, status, etc...).
But oh whoops then marriage fucks social fluidity, well played big state!

[Anonymous No.15151964]

>>15151738
>2 years
come back in 10 years you absolute dolt

[Anonymous No.15151995]

>>15151738
>2 years
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Strap yourself in and enjoy the ride, newfag

[Anonymous No.15152081]

I'm getting divorce raped by a fat ugly bitch right now. I'm justd hard as fuck

[Anonymous No.15152082]

>>15151738
>he think things will stay this way forever
They won't

[Anonymous No.15152178]

>>15150733
>mfw found a girl that’s richer than me and who is obsessed with me, has been for three years
>but she has serious problems that would make it hard for her to be a reliable mother and dependable wife

[Anonymous No.15152191]

>>15151738
>Married 2 years
>Shes still fit and fucks me when I want
Why?
>Married 2 years
You are literally months away from the worst time of your life. It's always worse when you dont see it coming.

[Anonymous No.15152253]

You guys are doing it all wrong what you need to be doing is import your wife so she will be eternally grateful that you brought her into a first world country then she will make you breakfast lunch and dinner every day, provide you sex whenever you want it and also as many children as you want.

Stay away from roasties

[Anonymous No.15152261]

>>15150474
JUST hairline

[Anonymous No.15152378]

If you want to marry or are married, you should squirrel away money and not in your bank but cash, so you have some if shit fucks up or if you want to treat yourself with that bargain watch, wink, wink.

[Anonymous No.15152393]

>>15150733
>The chance of your wife divorcing you is 50% unironically based on studies.

Most people lose money going into trading based off of surveys. Does that mean that crypto isn't worth chasing after? No.

People keep parroting these statistics without understanding WHY they happen. And it's generally because people don't take the time to fully understand their spouses, they don't take the time to understand people. If you can learn to read people and act accordingly to make your spouse feel fulfilled, you'll have no reason to worry about them leaving you.

[Anonymous No.15152406]

>>15150609
>like a bachelor tax

isn't this already a thing in germany?

[Anonymous No.15152450]

>>15150474
Sex actually gets better in your 30s. Especially so when you're talking about a woman you love and trust. I'm sorry that so many of you have had such bad experiences, but you have to find the right woman. Don't settle for less.

[Anonymous No.15152453]

>>15150733

THERE ARE ALMOST 4 BILLION PEOPLE ON THIS PLANET WITH A DOUBLE DIGIT IQ, CONFIRMED BY SCIENCE.

Does this mean you should never talk to anyone ever again or form relationships because half of people are borderline retarded?

[Anonymous No.15152462]

>>15150474
>Women are hypergamous by nature, which means they will always search for a better mate

Thats just a cope. Women are dumb and make mistakes and marry a man they don't want. What they want is to marry into a successful tribe with a stud with some infleunce. Most women these days marry men disconnected from their family, in a house with no relations with neighbors with a guy who wages all day. So when A guy offers her a way out, he can even be a religious guy she will try her hardest to leave her desolate tribe and join even a slightly better tribe even if she has kids.

[Anonymous No.15152475]

>>15152450
I'm in my 30s and single. Reasonably good looking, good job, no dealbreakers, keep fit. I find it nearly impossible to find women. Most women my age are married, and between my career and friends and personal interests there is almost no time to meet anyone new. I'm not the type to go to bars and start random conversations, so my exposure to these quality women is basically at zero. Any advice?

[Anonymous No.15152477]

>>15150474
>I'll sum it up; marriages today are almost a 100% loss for a man. You'd be better off donating to charity. The best strategy currently is to hire prostitutes and never have a gf or marry. If it's kids you want then find a surrogate mother, take your child and run.
>> But muh wife
>Is either a fat no sex whale or planning to divorce rape you any time soon.
>> But muh 3 day wife
>Give it more time and see what happens.
>And stop linking your happiness to someone else loving you and realize you only need to love yourself. See love for what it is - a trade of goods.
jesus christ this guy might be the most based and redpilled poster ive seen all year. where have you been anon.

[Anonymous No.15152534]

>>15152253
....you are quite the fount of bad advice.
Why would a grill be greatfull to the guy she prostituted herself to escape her poor trade country and get to feminism land?
The more optimal situation is to do a reverse, go to a poor country of your same genetic background, pretend to be less then you are on the social status and spend less money than you would be able to afford while trying to learn the local language.
That way you can get a mostly family oriented marriage. The trick is to keep the woman mostly in the same environment that you found her that forces her to act the way she does when you met her and keep to those values. And of course do not throw the money around like a loon unless the only thing you want are roasties and golddiggers.

[Anonymous No.15152558]

Chances are that OP hasn’t ever even kissed a girl, let alone have a wife. God I can’t fucking wait for the day that incels get the rope.

[Anonymous No.15152649]

>>15152453

t. double digit iq tard

theres no risk of losing half my shit by talking to people like you, there IS when it comes to marriage you absolute braindead fuck.

[Anonymous No.15152819]

he married a nip. this is not a surprice at all

[Anonymous No.15152951]

>>15152819
Asian women are far less likely to divorce then white women overall, better relationship material too.

[Anonymous No.15153013]

>>15151032
he just picked the wrong girl dude

[Anonymous No.15153222]

It's clear TheTechLead was/is a massive beta. Most of these nerdy programmers in SF are. He's lying to himself when he says she wasn't a gold digger. There are so many giveaways she is - not being happy with a $30 gift, asking for a car to make up with him... Dude had no frame and thought he could buy his way into her.

[Anonymous No.15153289]

>>15150474
men whose blood circulation is active more in the groin area than in the head area, are inherently doomed.

[Anonymous No.15153299]

>>15150719
Your wife is pretty hot. She says hello, btw, and don’t forget to pick up groceries on the way back from work.

[Anonymous No.15153323]

>>15150577

>they work
>taking care of your kids

pick one

[Anonymous No.15153784]

>>15150624
>become so rich it wouldn’t hurt to lose 75%.
>Works so hard to become a multi-millionaire
>Be worth 100million
>Wife divorce rapes you
>she leaves with 75M, you left 25M
>uses her newly made money to pay for fuccbois and chads tuition money and brings them on vacations.
>I-it’s okay I still have 25 million

KEK

[Anonymous No.15153924]

>>15152378
>cash
>lose value to inflation
Kys

[Anonymous No.15153958]

>>15152475
>going to bars to find women

Try going to church instead. Women are always better in the house of god.

[Anonymous No.15154019]

>>15153222
Sometimes the sign of a gold digger aren’t as obvious when you’re blinded by love anon. Easy to see and spot in 3rd person but up close, you lose your peripherals.

[Anonymous No.15154097]

Women are a waste of time, focus on yourself. If you want kids get a surrogate mom with high IQ and good looking. Both you and the kid will be better off in the long run.

[Anonymous No.15154260]

I simply can't stand spending time with a woman alone for prolonged periods. I'm an introvert, spending time with anybody 24/7 would drain me like nothing else. I am content with myself, I really enjoy my work, time with friends, hobbies and the occassional short time gf experience.

[Anonymous No.15154671]

>>15150474
Shut the fuck off, incel. Don't be a brainlet that falls for gold diggers or sluts. Find you a woman that gets her dignity from being associated or seen with you, but that's impossible for you lazy socially retarded incels (btw I am autistic but worked hard to not be socially inept anymore) are ugly manlets and therefore at the bottom of the totem pole, so women want nothing to do with you or they want you for your money when you make it, so they can keep a Tyrone or Chad they fuck while waiting for their share of your money. My girl shows me off any chance she gets. She has her own money and drive nicer cars she bought. She has advance degree and money, but still thinks I could do better than her.
>> inb4 you SKHV will be writing screeds about how we should start loving ourselves or other men because wymin are sloots.
>>inb4 even female prostitutes are bad and we should only like Laotian twink boy prostitutes
Fuck off, degenerates fags.

[Anonymous No.15154701]

>>15150624
Also this

[Anonymous No.15155895]

lol I'm currently living in Japan and divorces here happen like 1-2% if that. Only in hyper western countries that promote female empowerment does divorces fuck you over. Stay mad that women in western countries suck ass. Asian waifu = loyalty

[Anonymous No.15156142]

Prenup