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>imagine wageslaving as your families main provider
>Imagine being literally forced to work so your kids can stay in their private school
>Imagine your roastie wife leaving you and taking half your money and assets and claiming alimony so she can fuck chad
>imagine your daughter marrying some drug addicted Latino and all your effort put into raising a well adjusted woman is thrown out the window

Is raising a family the worst meme of all?
Literally could retire at 45 if I don't have kids or take a wife.

Fucking hate work bros, I've only been at this job for 2 months but I'm close to quits. Fuck modern society bros

>> No.12996152

>>12996134
>tfw only on $32/hr

im not gonna make it am i

>> No.12996160

is there any way to quit and still collect unemployment? live in Michigan. im coasting at work costanza-style and they still dont fire me

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>>12996134
I'm sorry buddy. This world is fucking ruthless, just try and do what I'm planning. Put a certain cut of your income aside and invest it in something long term, let it sit and make money for you. More money means more income, and you can eventually retire before you work yourself into death's cold arms

>> No.12996182

>>12996134
Forced meme is gay

>> No.12996184

It's every man for himself homie. Billions upon billions of us and you ain't nothing special snowflake. Life ain't fair.

>> No.12996192

honestly i would be happy to wageslave as my families provider and do that whole bit raising kids and shit. What the fuck else would you do with your life?

>> No.12996200

> blaming your imaginary family for you being too much of a pussy to actually be a strong male figure
You should unironically quit work now and never breed, loser

>> No.12996453

>>12996134

The chains that bind are only an illusion. Just walk away OP.

>> No.12996483

>>12996134
you got memed into family by your instincts and you got memed into slavery because you have a family in a fucked up world
best part is, you stupid fucks kids will be slaves too !!!!
great mate !

>> No.12996600

>>12996134
You hate work because you aren't providing for anybody.

>> No.12996625

>>12996134
> not having a wife and kids
why would I even want to work then
I don't want to retire I just want a happy family

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>>12996134

>> No.12996736

>>12996152
Buy as much BTC and ETH as you can.
T. $24/hr wagecuck putting $1k/month into crypto

>> No.12997506

>>12996134
that's why you only have kids after 33
You'd have ~10 years to build up your capital

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>>12996134
>having a kid
>having a daughter
someday you'll get visits from your mixed race grandchildren

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>>12996453
>it’s all just like, in your head man

>> No.12997896

>>12996600
You might be on to something. All I have in my life is work. I don't have any student loan or debt of any kind. Decent job, make over 6 figures a year. Other than seeing numbers go up in my bank account I'm not working towards anything. Feels pretty empty.

>>12996192
I'm getting tempted to fall for the marriage meme. Everything about it objectively I agree is a bad investment financially but fuck what else is there to do.

>> No.12998082

>>12996134
Married guy here - as a man, never get married unless your wife makes significantly more than you do.

>> No.12998112

>>12998082
Does your wife make more than you?

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12998231

>imagine having a job you love
>imagine using the word "determined" instead of "forced" because you are working for something special like a family and it's not all about you and your selfish world
>imagine caring about your wife and making sure to treasure her and making her feel special so that she knows she can spend the rest of her life with you in happiness
>imagine putting love and attention into your kids and making sure to always pick them up when they fall down so they grow up to be adults who make smart decisions

>> No.12998246

>>12998112
No, and it's really shitty, hence my warning

>> No.12998360

>>12996192
Investing, vidya, weightlifting

>> No.12998367

>>12998246
>it's really shitty
How so?

>> No.12998498

I'm planning to quit and be stay at home dad

>> No.12998596

>>12998367
Being the primary breadwinner is a shit situation since most of the pressure is on you. And, I've found that since my wife is lower-income, it's easy to keep sliding the responsibility over onto my side. I pay all of our healthcare, the mortgage, the downpayment on the house, etc.

That's why I say to be careful if you are in an LTR with someone that makes a lot less than you. Other than dumping them instantly, the only thing you can really do to protect yourself is this: never share any financial info and only pay your half of everything. I tried to do this in previous relationships with some success and should have kept it up.

I don't think she's intentionally fucking my life up (she's not evil) but that's what's happened. The sad part is that I could have probably retired early a few years ago but instead here I am and feel like a fool. A small part of me will honestly always hate her for fucking our future up and another part of me will always hate myself for allowing it to happen.

Marriage in general has the potential to destroy your life but only the potential to increase your happiness a little bit.

>> No.12998633

>>12998231
>imagine believing a job that you love wont entail a necessary amount of suffering
>imagine simply switching signifiers in an attempt to obscure the fact that unless you are able to accumulate spare capital you are literally a slave
>imagine not investing your well being in other people and how much they value you, even your wife
>imagine loving your kids unconditionally

>> No.12998679

>>12998596
If one doesn't get married and have children, what else is there to do? Past a certain age, hanging out with friends is not happening.

>> No.12998840

I have same feeling after 6 months into job.
I am even more fucked up because I took loan to college.
having a family and buying house will force you into wage slaving for decades
to pay back loans to shekelberg and you wont be left with anything to will improve your condition
from where you are right now. You will likely to be more miserable financially and emotionally.

>>12998679
play video games,do drugs, eat, drink there is hell lot of things you can do
to entertain yourself.

>> No.12998864

>>12998596

I've wasted so much fking money on bitches and I'm only 29. At least 50k. And it's only been on the long term partners. I never spend a dime the first year and live like a hobo when I'm single and they are cool with that. But inch by inch they make dumb financial decisions and both times it ended and I refused to go back was some retarded 8k+ mistake they ropped me into just pissing it away. Not to mention the opportunity cost I lost out on through those years. They are like little kids begging to go to Disney world then when you get there are too lazy to walk around and want to go home. Try telling a kid he can't go to Disney world when all his friends are. Lose lose. Fuck hoes

>> No.12998911

>>12996184
Are you the drug addicted Latino fucking his daughter?

>> No.12998928

>>12998679
>what else is there to do?
You honestly couldn't think of anything else to do? Trust me, you will find something much better.

But let's say you don't find anything and you're doomed to be a bit bored and lonely by yourself. Think back to my example, to my life. I feel enslaved by someone I resent and the only way out is to gut my entire life and what I've worked for for a decade. Then think if being a bit unfulfilled is really that bad.

And keep in mind that I'm FAR, FAR from the worst-case scenario. Yes, some nights I can't sleep because I'm so angry, but for the most part, I'm still able to communicate with her and other than the financial aspect, she's a sweet person and wants the best for us. If that doesn't scare the piss out of you, then I don't know what will.

>> No.12998940

>>12998864
>He gave a dumb ho 8k
Why?

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>>12996134
The worst parents are the ones that think they're better than every non-breeder just because they got fucked and a couple kids popped out. My manager at work is like this and never shuts the fuck up. If he was truly happy with his decision, then he wouldn't need to throw it in people's faces all the time.

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12999028

>imagine being NEET and free from pressure and responsibilities
>imagine that all your Lifetime belongs to you and you dont have to follow some schedule someone else made for you
>imagine not having a roastie wife but tight loli onaholes and high resolution pornography
>imagine in a couple years you will be able to pirate AI gf
>imagine being able to enjoy your [redacted] gains to the fullest

>> No.12999155

>>12996453
>walk away
>divorce
>alimony
>refusal to pay
>prison
>forced butt sex with no vaseline
Yeah, just walk away lmao

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12999163

>>12999028
I don't have to imagine

>> No.12999256

>>12999028
You can be a NEET and fuck real girls too.
That's what I'm doing now.
Being NEET allows you to socialize more which means you can get a gf. Also, they don't expect you to support them like they would with a wagecuck.
It's a win-win.

>> No.12999276

>>12999256
The Roastie gf eventually drags you down and then you accidentally get her preggo and then you are suddenly the Wagecuck OP.
Only viable options are being Sugardaddy or hiring escorts.

>> No.12999315

>>12998082

>unless your wife makes significantly more than you do.
I've seen those marriages, They're a shit deal as well.

>Married tradcuck peers shit on husband constantly for making less
>Society gives free reign for wife to walk all over you. Women who make more act especially viscous
>Women still favored disproportionately in divorce

Most men who marry a woman who makes more end up as emasculated slaves.

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12999324

>$45/hr HVAC tech
>marrying grill from rich family, own a shit ton of fast food franchises, 9 figure wealth
>met at a concert
>loves me for who I am
>marrying in California (50% split if divorce)

How can I lose in this scenario?

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>>12996152

>$32/hour

Imagine making that much but in CANADIAN.

JUST

>> No.12999402

>>12998840
>play video games,do drugs, eat, drink there is hell lot of things you can do
>to entertain yourself.
Being a NEET is soul crushing for most normal people.
There is a reason, why even most NEETs praising this "lifestyle" are fucked beyond any measurement and will die in their 40ies from it, without doing anything meaningful with their life.

>> No.12999435

>>12999402
I dunno, it works really well for me. However, I have hobbies.

>> No.12999600

>>12998928
>she's a sweet person
>wants the best for us

Honestly, do you regret marrying her? I need more info to figure out if I'm ok with your version of hell. How long have you been married. How many kids. How often do you fuck. Has she let her looks slide over the years.

>> No.12999625

>>12999435
Consider yourself lucky and all the best. I never met someone being happy with this lifestyle in person.

>> No.12999799

>>12996134
>imagine your daughter marrying some drug addicted Latino
Sounds oddly specific. Blog?

>> No.12999880

>>12998928
This is honestly my biggest fear when it comes to relationships. That I'll build a life with someone and 5 or so years later be miserable and trapped. I've seen it happen too many times, and I'll probably never get married because of this

>> No.13000086

>>12999324

>loves me for who I am

You will lose emotionally. You're in big trouble bub, and you don't even realize it.

>> No.13000105

>>12996200

frustrated boomer detected

>> No.13000151

>>12996134

You are right OP, you despair because you have lost faith on everything, this is why people need to have faith in God or something greater, so they can abandon all the bullshit in the world and just see it through the trascedent lenses, that's the only way to truly live in a genuine way

If you put your faith in God your faith will never be again in immanent worldly things, they will be only means to fulfill your faith in God, (( they )) won't be able to manipulate yourself because you will be free

People usually can't have achieve this faith in God, so they despair and cope through having faith in anything that can redeem themselves, like a family or a job for example, that's why >>12996600 this guy ask about providing, it's just a way you can redeem your choices about having a job without realizing the ultimate truth about the cuckening of the job market in modern society

>> No.13000232

>>12999028
Link

>> No.13000316

>>12998928
>I feel enslaved by someone I resent
From your post it seems she is a good woman, why do you resent her?

>> No.13000339

>>12999435
>I have hobbies.
Name some please

>> No.13000341

>>12998679

>what is there to do?

If you think the only answer to that question is children and marriage you are a literal npc-brainlet

>> No.13000366

>>13000341
The thing is, most hobbies get boring after a while.

>> No.13000395

>tfw gf is white
>tfw when Latino
>tfw drug addicted but trying to stop

KEK

>> No.13000423

>>12996134
>Putting your kids in a private school

>> No.13000506

>>13000366

The end goal of an hobbie is fulfillment, existential redemption, joy (happiness with meaning)

You could say that a family will get boring after a while too... because both try to fill that gap through meaning, if you question the hobbie, you eventually will question the meaning of a family

Either you drown in what the world has to offer or you believe in something greater and work your way through the world by shining light through that

>> No.13000805

>>12998840
> play video games,do drugs, eat, drink there is hell lot of things you can do
> to entertain yourself.

You only mentioned consuming shit and FUCK ENTERTAINING YOURSELF. I want to make and do shit.

>> No.13000826

>>13000805

Make Mr.Gobbelgestein richer and your wife fatter rofl

>> No.13000872

>>13000826

I didn't say that being a wagecuck was a good thing did I?

Fuck Mr. Gobbelgestein's "entertaining" products and fuck jannies.