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i need halp and i can't talk to anyone, please frens

>75000 link, 3btc, 35eth portfolio
>20 years old
>debt free
>working towards a trade
>everyone seems to ask why i don't have a girlfriend
>reasonably good looking, girls smile and seem to mire at the gym
>"j-just get tinder anon"
>mentally messed up from the suicide of my mom when i was a teen, can't seem to form close relationships because of trust issues and soon as any girl has found out about my mom they seem to distance themselves
>live on my own because my family is broken and they live 1500 miles away
>feel like i'm a ghost to everyone
>so fucking lonely and sad
>i dream about using steroids and abusing them and going out like rich piana because i just don't want to go on

feels really fucking bad guys, i just want to talk to someone

>> No.12447064

Hey fren, when sad remember happy day

>> No.12447078

Get it together faggot, ur life isn’t that bad. Just continue to work and wait for your crypto to moon (you are over extended in link btw). Make friends and enjoy the fact that you are 20 (aka party etc). Your mom is dead get over it stop letting a dead person hold you back lmao pussy.

>> No.12447084

With that much money you can just buy friends. Take them out to eat

>> No.12447092

>>12447054
>>12447078
Also your mom is in hell for suiciding, so move on from that disappointment and don’t fucking tell girls she killed herself, they distance themselves because you probably come off weird as fuck when you tell them that.

>> No.12447099

>>12447054
Join the military. You'll make the best friends in your life, and go through the bads and goods with them. You'll also have a much higher chance at fucking sluts.

>> No.12447102

>>12447064 :)
>>12447078 ur right (i'm still keeping my link position though fuck off) and i appreciate the honesty
>>12447084 everyone thinks i'm poor as fuck

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Anon if you dont touch your portfolio you gonna be extremely rich in 5 years. Just keep on going. You dont need roasties, just be comfortable with yourself, being alone isn't this bad and you'll get used to it.

We are all gonna make it.

>> No.12447114

>>12447092
lol i've never told them that (my whole fucking high school knew because the teachers told everyone), but they ask about family and i have nothing to say where they all have great happy families and probably think it is weird

>> No.12447120

>>12447106
love you anon i really hope we all make it

>> No.12447218

Depending where you live, get some therapy maybe, try to stay off meds tho and dont mention suicide cuz that might be reason to lock u up.

>> No.12447231

I unironically consider /biz/ my friends...

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>>12447054
Brother, hang in there.
You may find this book very interesting and useful: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Lost-Connections-Youre-Depressed-Find/dp/1408878720/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1547549034&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_FMwebp_QL65&keywords=lost+connections+johann+hari
Also I'd recommend Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, the 48 Laws of Power and the Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.
You'll be very wealthy soon.

You must make connections in order to not feel shit, humans are social animals. I do thai box and brazil jiu jitsu, they give you the sense of comraderie missing from modern society, make you stable, self confident and strong.
Also go out in nature for a hike at least once per week. Ah and research CBD oil and shrooms.
Godspeed
T. 27 years old anon, who has been through hell

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>>12447231
#metoo

>> No.12447247

>>12447240
thank you anon, i've read meditations, it helped a lot. I'll check the others. I'm going to start boxing really soon too, looking forward to it

>> No.12447281

>>12447054
Your mom was sick. It wasn't you or anyone else's fault. You probably already know that, but just in case you didn't.

It's ok to try to find a woman you can trust. She's out there, but you may have to sift through some garbage first. Any woman who won't talk about your mom with you is the wrong one, and definitely don't mention any money to any of them. If you do you'll just find the ones who pretend to love you.

Also try to reconnect with your family. They probably miss you.

>I know... I have to go back... Whatever

>> No.12447286

>>12447054
i was once in your situation (with the exception of your exceptional good financial situation), then i learned you can masturbate to online porn. Seriously, if you don't know what masturbation is or online porn, then google it and try it out for yourself.. It's a life changer !

>> No.12447334

>>12447281
thank you fren for the words, i'm going to give my brother a call later today

>>12447286
porn and masturbating makes you GAY, i only have money because i work like a dog (i work 3 different jobs and have no time to sin, electrical apprentice in the morning/day, work for a contractor in the afternoons and do first year engineering math tutoring on the weekends)

>> No.12447356

I'm 28 and still in the same situation as OP. No family, no gf, living alone, decent looking according to girls, decent finance job. How fucked am I?

>> No.12447395

>>12447054
I will only say it once.
You had no influence in your mom's decision to quit life.
You couldn't do anything to avoid it, it was her selfish choice.
But most importantly, she wouldn't like to see you suffering and eventually ending it the way she did it. If there was any remaining consciousness of her still around, I'm sure she regrets doing what she did and leaving you alone.

So OP, live for the life she couldnt live, for the life she was afraid to live and enjoy your time here as death is always coming around for all of us. You've been given a chance most of us wont be able to grasp in a lifetime.

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>>12447054
It’s going to be ok fren

>> No.12447503

>>12447334
I love my brother

>> No.12447575

>>12447054
When I was 20 I was some lanky virgin who had no friends. Similar family situation. My life only started changing around at 24 and now (26) I've got loads of friends and a few relationships down. You're only 20 man. Get a hobby, start some project. The world is full of possibilities.

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>>12447054
You have been living selfishly and have become cold and distant. You’d feel better if you give.

BTC:1Jmu4vZogjGCdTrhgtX3s7B1uCUkehWnCW

Link: 0xA5f5A690b46a8b18085EB1EeDc210811888eA9A6

>> No.12447719

>>12447356
you arent

>> No.12448140

>>12447054
>20 years old

Stopped reading right here.

>> No.12448157

>>12447054
your still a baby at 20 fren. you seem financially stable so pursue creative interests

>> No.12448167

>>12447682
reported

>> No.12448180

OP, do you want a friend who you can talk everyday and that can help you?

We will talk through wickr/signal/telegram so dont need to fear nothing.

>> No.12448194

>>12447054
Learn about game.

>> No.12448216

>>12448194
The Rational Male
Chateau Heartiste

Join a boxing gym or BJJ gym - something physically demanding with a group of men so that you form bonds due to the stress demands. It sounds like OP needs ‘a pack’ so to speak, a brotherhood

>> No.12448371

>>12447054
PIMP and TenGame by RSD Julien

>> No.12448374

>>12447054
It’s okay fren, we all go through tough times. Make a effort to incorporate these things into your life and you will find peace:

>stop jerking off
Aim for once every 2 weeks if you must but NO PORN
>meditate daily
Read “Meditation in Plain English” and start with small 15 minute sessions a day and work your way up to longer sessions
>exercise
You said you already go to the gym, but try to add some cardio if you don’t already
>food
Avoid the usual garbage foods (sugars, carbs, bad fats etc). Try to cut carbs completely or minimize to 20g per day
>nature
Idk where you live, but go outside and start spending whole days on weekends and several hours on weekdays in the solitude of nature
>sunlight
Sunlight exposure is critical for production of melatonin among other things. Try to lay in the sun 20 min a day
>multivitamins
Take one a day. Make sure you’re consuming enough electrolytes
>socializing
This is a tough one. Socializing is almost like a muscle. There have been times in my life where I’ve been reclusive and I tend to speak like a babbling monkey. Times when I’m more open, I’m much more social. Find people that don’t intimidate you and just start talking about random shit.

Try to find peace over the death of your mom and push yourself out of your comfort zone. If you really feel like you need it, consult a doctor for antidepressants but use that as a plan B.

Godspeed anon, I’ll see you at the yacht party

>> No.12448414

>>12447054
>i dream about using steroids and abusing them and going out like rich piana
You do know it wasn't steroids that killed him, right?