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I can't quit porn. I just went 2 months and finally relapsed. Any guys successfully quit?
I have 4chan X and have images filtered, but sometimes I get this insatiably craving that won't fucking go away. It's just nonstop in my head.

First looked at porn when I was 10. I'm 29 now.
If I continue on this path, I honestly don't think I will have a good long lasting relationship.

I spent some of my crypto gains last year fucking hookers. Longest relationship I had was in college for 2.5 years. She had a 10/10 body, but I would still watch porn and a lot of times couldn't get up or bust early.

How did some of you guys do it? Send halp please.

>> No.11128755

It's just too good. You're seeing the hottest chicks naked getting fucked. This is just too good and what the fuck compares to this? Holy shit. I don't want to watch this anymore but the cravings just consume me.

>> No.11128766

>>11128731
you lack self-control.

>> No.11128788

>>11128731

2 months is a long time, don't feel too bad just try again

>> No.11128815

>>11128731
>2 months
anon i dont think ive gone more than 5 days since i was like 11 years old

>> No.11128936

don't sweat it dude, it's not a huge deal. the problem with no fap is that it places too much emphasis on not jerking off. It should really be about spending that time on productive things. Were you productive over those 2 months? Did you build habits?

>> No.11128966

>>11128731

two months is good. just start again.

>> No.11128973

>>11128766
I know :(. How to get more (srs)

>>11128788
I'll try thanks fren

>>11128815
shit anon. You're in a similar boat as me. Our brains are fucking fucked up.

>>11128936
I was still jerking off, just not to porn. And I was getting morning wood. And yeah dude I was insanely productive. Was gymming it everyday, reading. I actually felt "alive". My brain was restoring and I felt like I finally kicked it after 15 years.

>> No.11129017

I quit after reading NMMNG. Still jerk off, but not doing any fantasising. Just focusing on the feelings. It's great.

>> No.11129060

>>11128973
sounds like you have nothing to worry about. just keep up the good habits and don't slack off. the problem with porn isn't just the porn, it's the time.

>> No.11129087

>>11128731
You've started your journey. Just continue discipline

>> No.11129906

Hang in there OP.

>> No.11129923

Hopefully you haven’t devolved to trap porn.

>> No.11129946

Focus this energy into something else. Every time you feel the urge to wank you do pushups or situps for example.

>> No.11129953

>>11128731
I did, in the middle of my 2nd year I think. Nothing changed. I stopped because I was tired of feeling like killing myself after coming.
Now I still want to kill myself, but my balls are full.

>> No.11129977

>>11128731
Read erotic literature instead, it's far more rewarding anyways. literoritca or lushstories are good free repositories

>> No.11130022

thanks for the replies frens. going to try this stuff (and also get that no more mr nice guy book)

>> No.11130042

>>11128731
Try fucking trannies. They are down to fuck all the time no strings attached since they are horny and it's free

Every time you want to watch porn hit up a tranny. Right now they are on Grindr. I'm not trolling you. Select tribes Trans and hit some up that have Right Now in looking for

>> No.11130048

>>11128731

I don't know if it's even possible to completely quit man. Porn is everywhere nowadays. Maybe if you get a really good gf? Dunno, never tried that. Just watch it as little as possible, I've found that even that helps a ton. If you watch it like 2 times a week I don't think it should fuck you up at all.

>> No.11130053

>>11129923
>>11130042

I haven't gone down the tranny route sorry. I've seen it but just not my thing. Also, I lived in Hollywood and saw trannies everywhere, and just wasn't feeling it. but you do you bros.

>> No.11130065

>>11130048
I did have a really good gf in college and I blew it. I most of the time would rather watch porn than fuck her. And she was a hot tight bodied white girl. Perfect body. Can't believe she put up with my bullshit for 2 and a half years.

>>11129017
This is a good idea.

>>11129087
>>11129906
>>11129946
thanks goys

>> No.11130093

>>11130065

>I did have a really good gf in college and I blew it. I most of the time would rather watch porn than fuck her. And she was a hot tight bodied white girl. Perfect body. Can't believe she put up with my bullshit for 2 and a half years.

Damn man, sounds like your addiction might be worse than I ever had. Then again I'm a kissless hugless 30 year old boomer virgin so I must be pretty fucked up too lol.

>> No.11130115

>>11130093
Why haven't you tried to either get your dink wet or atleast fuck a hooker ?

>> No.11130156

>>11130115

I don't know actually, kinda just got used to it I guess? It used to bother me but the less I watch porn/masturbate the less I even care about stuff like that. I watch porn like a couple of times a month nowadays, I'm just focused on other things more. When I was like 25 it really bothered me that I was a virgin, now I just laugh at it. Out of sight out of mind I guess?

>> No.11130157

>>11129953

oh man.

>> No.11130183

>>11128731
Dude 2 months? That’s awesome gtfo breh.

>> No.11130201

>>11130183

Yea it's a good stretch, just go as long as you can each time. It doesn't matter as much as you think if you "relapse" every now and then, don't make a big deal out of it. In fact I think it just makes it worse if you feel guilty as fuck every time you relapse.

>> No.11130234

Try giving up porn, but not jerking off. It’s very easy compared to full nofap and it gets you solid progress.

>> No.11130236

Never understood why you guys torture yourself over this shit. Just relax and enjoy some porn. ffs it's not like you're shooting heroin. its as harmless as weed or alcohol.

>> No.11130268

The problem is you are susposed to be married now. We are all susposed to be married by 25. The fucking debased culture we live in makes you think its normal to fuck thots and do drugs instead of creating a family which we are clearly biologically meant for and biblically meant for. Most women should be married before 20 probably.

>> No.11130299

>>11130156
Nice dude atleast you've scaled it back. Yeah I mean society only says you gotta fuck HOT BITCHES BRO but honestly no one cares. Do you man.

>>11130183
>>11130201
for sure thanks frens

>>11130234
Yeah that's what I was doing but fucked up. Alright I'm gonna give it another go. thanks for advice bros

>>11130236
I think we all as men fall on a spectrum in different things in life, because we're all different and good at different things. You probably are on the far right where you can still watch porn, fuck girls, and it doesn't affect you. For me, I don't chase women, don't get it up if I try to fuck a girl (which is humiliating) get that itch to monger it up (hookers, strip clubs), not get motivated to workout, binge eat garbage food. It's fucking my life up. But I'm gonna give it another go to stop thanks to anons in this thread.

>> No.11130318

>>11128731
If it's like trying to quit cigarettes, just keep practicing and don't beat yourself up if you relapse (that is bad for your self-esteem).

It's actually a good idea, to quit porn and see if your relationships improve. I'm also 29 and I first saw dirty magazines when I was 12 (before I had internet at home).

I might give it a try as well bro. We're in this together.

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11130342

why? what is wrong with porn?

>> No.11130378

>>11130299
Porn is only one addiction out of several that interact in your brain to suppress introspection and self-control. It's comforting junkfood you reach for when life is uncomfortable.
Your smartphone is another one. Switch over to a cheap shit flip phone or le retro nokia 3310. You will seriously feel naked and afraid when you leave the house for the first few days (navigating is the hardest - you have to actually plan a route and look at a map before you leave!), but after a while it's like coming up for air after being underwater.
Bonus rounds: ditch your netflix subscription, cut processed sugar out of your diet, get 30 minutes of sunlight between 10am and 2pm every day, go to bed at the same time every night.
You won't be able to do all of it in one go and there will be a lot of failures, but feeling like shit becaus of other things is a big factor in why you can't quit porn.

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>>11130318

>>11130378
Shit anon this is good stuff thanks

>> No.11130415

>>11128731
U got nothing to worry if u didnt abuse it. Like if u can't get horny without porn even if there is a horny chick/your girlfriend infront of u. Or u went on masturbate more than 1 time/day then u have some serious problem mate. Otherwise everything is fine, try to keep yourself busy at night or whatever time on your day that u got horny. Sleep early, went out with frens..etc, do every shit that keep your brain up without thinking about it.
I think the last time I watched porn was like a few months ago or sth but it's fine I didnt think about watching it even after a conversation about sex with my my frens. Just dont let it take over your mind then u are gud to go mate.

>> No.11130448

>>11128731
if you're fat as well it's probably because you are impulsive with low conscientiousness so you're genetically predisposed to fail

the longest noFap I did was about 4-5 months, and i was actually more depressed during that time although I definitely was more acute, looked better, felt better, and had a boner 24/7

>> No.11130458

>>11128731
We at [SoS] Seal Of Secrecy club can set you straight. but only if you let us.

Disc0rdia code : gRg2Qv

>> No.11130507

>>11130415
>U got nothing to worry if u didnt abuse it. Like if u can't get horny without porn even if there is a horny chick/your girlfriend infront of u. Or u went on masturbate more than 1 time/day then u have some serious problem mate.

I would have problems getting it up...yeah

>>11130448
I am currently fat. In college I had a spurt of motivation and got really really lean. Got a lot attention from women, lost my virginity to my hot girlfriend. Then after that, I got depressed and gained it back. Lost her, and then would fuck a girl on average once a year or so if she basically threw it at me.

I'm reading up on this right now after I read your post. This makes a lot of sense and makes sense why I'm so impulsive and can't for the life of me figure out why or how to combat it. Good stuff.

>> No.11130513

>>11128731
Hookers usualy help. Maybe you should get a regular

>> No.11130526

Fuck I have the opposite problem. A while porn library on my hard drive, a horny unsatisfied wife.... but I just feel nothing. My dick barely moves for anything anymore. My libido over the last few years looks worse than post-january crypto charts and I'm not even 30 yet

>> No.11130547

>>11130513
I already fucked like 12 hookers last year. Most were average, no insanely hot ones. Although it is fun, it is addicting how easy it is. Plus the money was flowing because we were in a bull market lol.

I'd probably consider it again but if I will they gotta be those really hot escorts, otherwise it's just meh. You have a regular?

>>11130526
Dude probably cuz your brain is fried from the porn and you aren't fucking your wife, that's why your dick barely moves. Same problem with me. If you don't keep fucking her, someone else will. I 100% guarantee it. Happened to me.

>> No.11130550

>>11128731
off-topic & irrelevant

>> No.11130558

>>11128731
Just jerk off to Instagram thots.
They literally self post with ass showing.
Sexy enough to bust nuts
And no porn involved so you’re basically busting on their faces by yourself ;D

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>>11128731
fuck, dude I'm right there with you
why's this shit so fucking hard to quit

>> No.11130576
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>>11128731
Just lift weights bro.

>> No.11130584

>>11130507
my tip is to focus on exercising, not on losing weight

>>11130558
how do you find them?

>> No.11130679

>>11130584
/b has insta_fb fap threads 24_7 but you'll have to swim through the trash that is b

>> No.11130752

>>11130526
get your test levels checked

>> No.11130759

>>11128731
biz and finance you fucking retard

>> No.11130777

>>11128731
Unironically Just have sex bro

>> No.11131093

Smoke weed anon

>> No.11131166

>>11130752
I did. Lower end of normal, but still normal. Have big ass wide hips and thin wrists though, never had a chance did I? Its not even like my brain got fried from porn. Its more like never feeling hungry again and missing the feeling of a good meal.

>> No.11131289

>>11131166
The doctors version of 'normal' is not normal anon. Eat more test boosting foods like spinach, tuna, and make sure you're getting enough vitamin D.
If it doesn't help then demand your doctor put you on a test booster or find another one. It will change your life.

>> No.11131312

>>11130759
Some of /biz/ are in need of help. Show some compassion and help an anon out from time to time

>> No.11131330

>>11129946
This is really shit advice

>> No.11131349

>>11128731
Don't search "glory quest" on bing while have the safesearch filter (top right) off.

PLS NOBODY

>> No.11131377

Nofap is like some twisted form of self punishment/self hatred or -disgust.
Had a couple of chad friends throughout life and they all fap like crazy to porn, AND bang a shitload of chicks. They do sports and work towards goals in life. Absolutely nothing to do with fapping or not fapping.

>> No.11131407

I would like to know why ppl think fapping to porn is bad.
Because that's like saying going outside and enjoying the sun, or watching a movie or doing whatever you like is bad.

I have the impression that you just think your life sucks and you try to find a specific activity you can blame everything on. It's not that easy dude.

You probably fap so much because it gives you a lot of joy that you can't find somewhere else. And now you're taking away even that. You guys are sick.

>> No.11131421

>>11131407
Pornography pollutes and drains the mind. The reflex of ejaculation causes a lot of hormones to be shifted out of balance. The only reason to jerk off is to check your semen and make sure it isn't showing signs of disease.

>> No.11131423

>>11128731
Yo little pussy boy. Find a girl, stop fapping and go at your girl whenever y feel horny. If your girl doesnt want let her finish. How hard is it?

Me and my bitch do it 3x minimum per week. Whenever im more horny she just lets me finish. Ez pz.

Profit, girl is happy you are happy. Stop being a sad fat fuck.

>> No.11131430

>First looked at porn when I was 10. I'm 29 now.

same. went cold turkey 3 or 4 months ago at age 31

im not prone to addictions though, quite cigs/weed just as easily

its not about just filtering images, its about removing emotional reactions whenever it happens to arise accidentally as well

as always, ill recommend mantak chia's sexual energy work. ejaculation is harmful, jerking it occasionally isnt

>> No.11131449

>>11129946
i'd be ripped 10/10 if i did this lmao

>> No.11131466

>>11128731
Realize that jerking off takes sexual energy from your body and the Jew wants you to jerk off, when isreal took over Palestine tv one time they played porn to suck the energy out of their men. Fapping is a kike trick fren

>> No.11131468

>>11131421
>>11131430
Your dick is a muscle, when you don't use it at least 1 time a day for a nice fap it becomes harder to get it hard.
And your brain forgets how "having an errection" works if you stop yourself from having one.
You're just making yourself impotent lmao.

4chan advices ^^

>> No.11131492

>>11131468
Are you fucking dumb? Your brain doesn't forget shit. Erections are reflexes, just like orgasms. Do you not wake up with morning wood? If you don't, you have a serious medical condition. Men get erections in the night, even if they have to use viagra to bang 10/10 sluts during the day.

>> No.11131511

>>11131492
>no morning wood since 15
>23 now
Fuck, which doctor should I visit?

>> No.11131531

>>11131511
A urologist.

>> No.11131543

>>11131492
Morning wood exists because of piss and not because of hornyness.

You forget everything that you don't do regulary.

I fell like talking to a kid, are you old enough for this board?

>> No.11131552

>>11131543
I didn't say anything about horniness. And if you think it's about piss you are an imbecile. It's because of higher levels of Nitrogen Oxide in your blood while you are asleep than awake. The same mechanism that makes viagra work.

>> No.11131608

>>11131377
this, it's even more hilarious the way people that do it act. It's like a cult

>> No.11131631

>>11131552
Thats hilariously wrong. Where do you get this shit from?

>Evidence supporting the possibility that a full bladder can stimulate an erection has existed for some time and is characterized as a 'reflex erection'.[4] The nerves that control a man’s ability to have a reflex erection are located in the sacral nerves (S2-S4) of the spinal cord.[5] A full bladder is known to mildly stimulate nerves in the same region.

>The possibility of a full bladder causing an erection, especially during sleep, is perhaps further supported by the beneficial physiological effect of an erection inhibiting urination, thereby helping to avoid nocturnal enuresis

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nocturnal_penile_tumescence

>> No.11131658

>>11131631
>The role of nitric oxide in penile erection.
>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11336572
>Plasma levels of nitric oxide and L-arginine in sleep apnea patients: effects of nCPAP treatment.
>Sleep apnea syndrome has been shown to be associated with decreased levels of circulating nitric oxide (NO) after waking up from sleep.
>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/14500996
Wikipedia is not a source.

>> No.11131659

>>11131468
people are usually pretty creative for their addiction justifications. but i must say this is new, bravo

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>>11130053
I fucked this tranny, best sex of my life, better than any woman

Too bad I didn't get her contact information, she's from New York

>> No.11131695

>>11131466
Lmfao

>> No.11131700

>>11131658
The first link has nothing to do with morning wood and the second is a dickstudy of people with sleep apnea.

None of your links make your statements less retarded.

>>11131659
(you)

>> No.11131702

>>11130342
Makes you lose your erection and interest in sex. It doesn't make it better, you just get used to getting off to porn instead of sex

But sex is better, you get to cuddle and shit. Do if you can't enjoy sex anymore you do lose something. Maybe a potential relationship with a person or maybe just an enjoyable experience

>> No.11131703

>>11128731
It's been 4 years since I looked at it and now if I even see a picture it makes me gag. Just stop browsing the internet and get a girlfriend.
Porn fucks you up, it shouldn't exist.

>> No.11131711

>>11130378
No thanks, I like to have fun. What you just wrote sounds terrible

>> No.11131715

>>11131702
Thats like saying looking at good food doesn't make you want to eat food anymore.

>> No.11131721

>>11130526
Try masturbating without porn or any fantasies. Focus on just the feeling in your dick. At first it will seem impossible and you'll lose your erection. But eventually you'll be able to get a chubby and keep going until you get fully hard. Then you'll be able to come doing this. After you can do that, you'll be able to come from sex easy.

>> No.11131734

>>11131543
It's not because of piss. It's because the hormone that keeps your dick flaccid is only released when you're awake

You get hard like five to ten times a night usually.

>> No.11131741

>>11131715
You still come from porn, are you retarded?

>> No.11131752

>>11131711

there's a price to pay for it. if you want to reach true happiness then you have to do this shit. with ppl like de grey working hard to enhance longevity, it would be pretty stupid to die too soon. past century gave us internet and vidya, imagine what the future will bring.

>> No.11131798

>>11131741
You don't seem to know the difference between real sex and looking at porn, son.

>> No.11132329

I went from /gif/ to /s/ and it is an improvement.