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[Anonymous No.10750109]

>you are 31
>you have a good education
>you have a comfy 6 figure job
>you have about 70k saved up
>another 20k in crypto (ath 160k)
>you have no gf or friends

what is your next move?

[Anonymous No.10750131]

>>10750109
take the 20k and buy a girl

[Anonymous No.10750146]

>>10750109
get fit

[Anonymous No.10750241]

>>10750109
>tfw this is me but with a little more money and a few friends
I'm so lonely and tired

[Anonymous No.10750260]

>>10750241
This is me but with no money

[Anonymous No.10750272]

>>10750241
...at least you got money.

[Anonymous No.10750275]

>>10750109
keep working, retire early and get some good hobbies. Women are a meme. Take it from me, someone in your position but with a wife who I've been with 10 years. The only good thing about it is that she gave me a kid whom I love dearly, but even the kid comes with a cost which is that I can't engage in my hobbies nearly as much. So, in short, you're doing fine. Hookers are ok for sex, which is all you really are missing. And tbqfh I'd way rather be having sex w/ a diff girl every night/week/month/whatever than the same wife who constantly downgrades on looks as she ages. I'm a good looking guy, I fucked a lot of hot girls in my day. For the last TEN YEARS I have only slept with the same woman. Ten years ago she was an 8.5. Today she is a 7.5. It's not going to get any better for me. Save yourself.

[Anonymous No.10750279]

>>10750109

[Anonymous No.10750280]

>>10750260
This is me but with no friends

[Anonymous No.10750282]

>>10750275
are you serious?

[Anonymous No.10750289]

>>10750109
Sell my crypto and buy stocks because I'm not retarded and would like to keep my 20k

[Anonymous No.10750311]

>>10750275
fuck dude. this is depressing

[Anonymous No.10750319]

>>10750109

>tfw this is me but no comfy job, no savings and a very small amount of crypto

My next move might be just kms.

[Anonymous No.10750325]

>>10750109
>31
Start looking at nice nursing homes

[Anonymous No.10750412]

>>10750275
Are you saying a divorce is coming?

[Anonymous No.10750448]

>>10750109
go to white third world country and pick up trad wife

[Anonymous No.10750482]

>>10750448
>white third world country

Doesn't exist.

[Anonymous No.10750499]

>>10750109
Make myself interested so I could get friends and a girlfriend
Money, prestige, intelligence is a multiplier, not an addiative. If your interest factor is at zero, it doesn't matter if you're a billionare,; people won't hang around you

[Anonymous No.10750501]

>>10750272
Money for what? A decent place to rest my head when I'm not busting my ass at work 40 hours a week?

[Anonymous No.10750602]

>>10750448
i can smell the basedyyy

[Anonymous No.10750638]

This is exactly me. I am /fit/. I don't do relationships because I'm a sperg and find them draining. I've probably banged over 100 women. I'm working, travelling, writing & trying to sportsbet professionally at the moment with no real direction.

[Anonymous No.10750731]

>>10750275
>Only one kid
Why are you such a failure

[Anonymous No.10751490]

>>10750282
I'm serious, why would this not be serious?
>>10750311
It is what it is. In many ways I still love my wife & my life. But I very constantly look at other women (many of which whom flirt with me) and think, "Holy shit, I wish I could fuck your brains out right now". Very recently my wife entertained the idea of a polygamous relationship which I've been pushing on her for probably 5 years, so we'll see how serious she is about that. But shit gets real. Monogamy is not built into men's genetic code.
>>10750412
Nope. I love my daughter & I love my wife, and we'll definitely stick it out through thick and thin to make the family unit work. That doesn't mean in retrospect I wouldn't have made different decisions. You live and you learn.
>>10750731
How many kids do you have, anon?

[Anonymous No.10751504]

>>10750109

6 months world tour... stay in hostels, meet happy people, bang some hoes, witness life changing things.

[Anonymous No.10751558]

>>10751504
This is a good idea

[Anonymous No.10751566]

>>10751504

i could honestly do this but afraid to leave my job

[Anonymous No.10751581]

>>10751490
You should have at least 3 kids. It's awkward as fuck to stop at 1.

[Anonymous No.10751582]

>look

[Anonymous No.10751586]

>>10750275
unironically this

[Anonymous No.10751605]

>>10750109
>31
>70k saved up
suicide

[Anonymous No.10751607]

>>10751581
I have a newborn. How am I supposed to pump out 2 more within a few months? I'll probably have 2 tops, though. And frankly, I'm trying to convince the wife to make it just 1. I'd rather spend my money on myself and this one kid and give her an amazing fucking life than all of us have sort of mediocre lives, me her & her siblings.

[Anonymous No.10751619]

what you do is you get a girlfriend who is younger, date her for a few years, then recycle. never get married. just have younger girlfriends your whole life. it's what guys like dicaprio do for a reason. being genuinely single isn't comfy either. this fag >>10751490 has never experienced what it's like to be completely alone in your late 20s or 30s with no woman to take care of him. it's horrible and lonely as fuck. his problem was he fell for the marriage meme instead of just dating girls and jumping out whenever he wanted to get his dick wet.
i'll be doing this well into my 40s, then i'll probably settle down and have a couple kids. by then there will be some futuristic vr porn that will get the job done

[Anonymous No.10751624]

>>10750275
I think he’s right unironically. Might just say fuck the gf and move on

[Anonymous No.10751644]

>>10750109
Cash out my crypto money, and start casually investing in rental property. Try and get a gig as an adjunct professor at a local community college to get all the young pussy I want. Get active in the community and try to meet friends and make connections. Go to a church and scout for a wife.

[Anonymous No.10751703]

kill myself to be quite honest.

[Anonymous No.10751715]

>>10750109
>no gf or friends
Lol who cares. I'm single for almost two years now and I'm having a blast.

[Anonymous No.10751759]

>>10750109
>31
>6 figure job
>90k net worth
how did this happen

[Anonymous No.10751935]

>>10750109
die alone

[Anonymous No.10752086]

>>10751935
This

[Anonymous No.10752797]

>>10750109
>6 figure job
>70k savings
You're including the decimal places in 6 figures?

[Anonymous No.10753184]

>>10750109
>31
>90k net worth
>not even doing anything with most of it
What're your expenses? Holy fuck anon. Pls give exact numbers on income and expenditure, post-tax if possible

[Anonymous No.10753460]

>>10751607
No wonder the white race is dying

[Anonymous No.10753968]

>>10751504
>>10751558
>>10751566
>come back from the 6 months world tour
>fall back into the exact same routine as before
>make this thread again

Good luck trying to change your life through this. You are where you are because of your character and apparently (like me) you push people away and came to the realization (too late?) that you don't have any friends anymore (like me).

You're waiting, daydreaming, thinking about your future self implementing all the necessary changes to better your life but that future self is just a dream a tell-sell lie you imprinted into your own brain to justify the situation you're in. You keep telling yourself that things will get better but they actually get more lonely, boring, uninteresting. Have you noticied how nothing interests you anymore anon? Dark humor anon?

I assume you have been depressed for quite some time, maybe even closet depression during your mide 20s? Starting hanging out less and less with your friends, lying to yourself it was because of you had no time due to your job but we both knew it was because you didn't feel like hanging out. Am I in the ballpark here?

The only way (imo, 26 btw) to change your situation is becoming happy and to be a person that people want to be around. Since you (me) cannot achieve that naturally I would suggest talking to your therapist and try anti-depression for 6 months, see what happens.

As an MSc student in pharmaceuticals I've been playing with this idea for a long time. Just cannot get myself to actually go to a therapist to get it.